baralatie:

How would you react to asituation where the wife says she has been denied of sex for more than a month?
How would you move

The man is at fault NO DOUBT.My problem is she doesnt want to have sex with him again not the toy or vibrator.He doesn't arouse her again ..DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS .It is practically cheating on her side.She didn't mention buying a vibrator to her husband .

Even of he can't satisfy her,a woman will still allow him sleep with her just to satisfy him and later she go satisfy herself later.

AlphaAlex:
Sit her down and give her an ultimatum it’s either you or the Vibrator , I’m not against women using toys but denying your own husband sex is where I Draw the line . Guy give her the ultimatum and if she even fidgets for one second about her choice send her Back to her Father ASAP.

Em!
Em!
Em!
Em!

You want to go in competition against a vibrator

Em


Okay o

Adetayo41:


I think you are right, I am always busy working 24/7, sometimes she called me for intimacy I will sleep off, sometimes she will wake me up, and for me to cooperate. I will sleep back touching her. But now i am less busy, that is when I noticed what she have been doing

This is the answer to Your question already.

Now is the time to talk to her; at least You admit that You've not been available when she needed You.

baralatie:

If he loves his wife he will not deny her in the first place
That is the basis of the matter here

who is denying whom sex here? On this topic?

She may likely be a lesbian

Adetayo41:


I think you are right, I am always busy working 24/7, sometimes she called me for intimacy I will sleep off, sometimes she will wake me up, and for me to cooperate. I will sleep back touching her. But now i am less busy, that is when I noticed what she have been doing

Alaye, now that you are less busy watch your wife very very very well, she fit don dey knack outside, vibrators for married women means replacement, and since you asked for knack right before she used the vibrstor omo mehn no be you she dey replace be that, na another sharp guy she dey use the oyinbo jack hammer abi na rabbit replace. Or she even fit don catch std no wan knack you make she spread am give you.

Tail her, check her phone and find out ooooo

baralatie:

How would you react to asituation where the wife says she has been denied of sex for more than a month?
How would you move

listen. I stated two things without ambiguity. One, he is the head of that home, which requires wisdom (cos if he had that he won't be talking about leaving his apartment and sending money for upkeep), wisdom to know what is is right and fair, what to be done and when. Two, they are both very wrong denying each other. His story has shown disregard for some key things, eg sex, but no disrespect yet. If he turned his wife down and thereafter decides to jerk off lying next to her, that is disrespectful to her. If she turns him down, and afterwards sticks a vibrator up her pussy lying next to him, that is disrespectful to him. It ain't even a teensy weensy bit complicated.

Simpleman4life:



Send her packing she dey mad


If you were not performing the way she likes it
She would have suggested you buying her vibrators for assistance

She is a cheat send her home and let her people know she cheated on you with a machine

Lol

Someone said he has been absent sexually for a while and focusing on work, to the point his wife would always be asking for sex but he would say he's tired. Wife decided to start using vibrators since her husband isn't available. Now oga has left work and now wants sex from his wife but she has already gotten used to the vibrators.

He is at fault here

ykalhaji:


Alaye, now that you are less busy watch your wife very very very well, she fit don dey knack outside, vibrators for married women means replacement, and since you asked for knack right before she used the vibrstor omo mehn no be you she dey replace be that, na another sharp guy she dey use the oyinbo jack hammer abi na rabbit replace. Or she even fit don catch std no wan knack you make she spread am give you.

Tail her, check her phone and find out ooooo

Exactly it doesn't make sense gee...she don dey collect outside.

jimmychang:



The man is at fault NO DOUBT.My problem is she doesnt want to have sex with him again not the toy or vibrator.He doesn't arouse her again ..DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS .It is practically cheating on her side.She didn't mention buying a vibrator to her husband .

Even of he can't satisfy her,a woman will still allow him sleep with her just to satisfy him and later she go satisfy herself later.

This is totally false.
Once a woman gets used to using a vibrator, pleasure from a man would mean close to nothing to her anymore unless she deals with the addiction she has with using a vibrator.

The man is at fault here for always been absent sexually forcing his wife to go towards using a vibrator.

IamMobisola:

Lol

Someone said he has been absent sexually for a while and focusing on work, to the point his wife would always be asking for sex but he would say he's tired. Wife decided to start using vibrators since her husband isn't available. Now oga has left work and now wants sex from his wife but she has already gotten used to the vibrators.

He is at fault here

Under three months ....the woman is a sex freak or a masturbation addict or she is cheating on him already.I have girls who use toys but they still get wet when I touch them . HOW CAN THE TOY MAKE HER LOOSE TOTAL SEXUAL ATTRACTION FOR HER HUSBAND UNDER THREE MONTHS

Timekeeper452:
who is denying whom sex here? On this topic?

The OP said he has been denying her sex before because of work. Now he is ready to give her sex but madam already turned to using vibrators

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

This one go pain nam. She will be confuse as to the reason for the guy's action. But why would a woman prefer vibrator to the man she married. I think there is more to this. story.

baralatie:

Awôn àlákoba

is that a compliment? You are welcome

IamMobisola:

The OP said he has been denying her sex before because of work. Now he is ready to give her sex but madam already turned to using vibrators

where in the topic is this explained? The topic simply says the wife denies him sex and uses vibrator to enjoy herself.

IamMobisola:


This is totally false.
Once a woman gets used to using a vibrator, pleasure from a man would mean close to nothing to her anymore unless she deals with the addiction she has with using a vibrator.

The man is at fault here for always been absent sexually forcing his wife to go towards using a vibrator.

See If you get married you communicate.She didn't tell him she wants a vibrator. Wrong move
Use it in his presence.Wrong move

No respect ...How many months were they not intimate that she will get addicted to vibrator.Somthing is not adding up my dear.She didn't even try to sleep with him once when he asked her

Like I said THAT WOMAN IS GONE.SHE MUSY HAVE BEEN USING A VIBRATOR BEFORE SHE MET HIM.OR SHE IS CHEATING ON HIM.

jimmychang:



Under three months ....the woman is a sex freak or an addict or she is cheating on him already.

Ask any woman you know who uses vibrators and tell them to tell you the difference and which one they prefer. 98% will tell they prefer vibrators. Lol, that's why I never want to go down that route of ever using a vibrator because those things can do miles of what men can't dream of doing when it comes to pleasure.

Forget oo

18+

The female orgasm is often depicted as the center of a woman’s sexual satisfaction and the ultimate goal of sex.
Your wife is not getting this experience during sex with you and that’s the reason why she got a vibrator. But I can tell you that you got a good wife.
Do not listen to people telling you that your wife is going to cheat on you with another man. Never. If she was going to do it, she would have started it without thinking of getting a vibrator.
I personally bought a vibrator for my wife so that she can pleasure herself when am not around. She has described it as the best gift I ever bought for her.
As a married man, it is your responsibility to satisfy your wife irrespective of how tired you might be. The good news now is that you guys have a vibrator and this makes your work easier.
Call her in privately and have a romantic conversation with her. Tell her to bring out the vibrator and that you want to experience it too. Be romantic at this time with smiles on your face.
Kiss her gently and passionately. Gradually move your tongue to her breast while your fingers already gone to her clitts and her hands grabbing you d**k. Keep it that way for 5 minutes or more. Then go down for oral with your tongue. Pay attention to the clitts while doing that.
And finally give her the vibrator to use while you start the job. Make sure she has space to place the vibrator on her clitts while you do your job.
Go slowly so that you don’t cum quick. The goal is for her to reach orgasm first while you finish it up. Say some smooth sexy words while doing your thing.
Boy after this, she will be hopping on you like a dog.
Stay blessed and enjoy your marriage.

Timekeeper452:
where in the topic is this explained? The topic simply says the wife denies him sex and uses vibrator to enjoy herself.

Check the 1st page under comments. The OP mentioned it to someone

Adetayo41:


I think you are right, I am always busy working 24/7, sometimes she called me for intimacy I will sleep off, sometimes she will wake me up, and for me to cooperate. I will sleep back touching her. But now i am less busy, that is when I noticed what she have been doing

Cc Timekeeper452

IamMobisola:


Ask any woman you know who uses vibrators and tell them to tell you the difference and which one they prefer. 98% will tell they prefer vibrators. Lol, that's why I never want to go down that route of ever using a vibrator because those things can do miles of what men can't dream of doing when it comes to pleasure.

Forget oo

See babe you said prefer but that doesn't mean they won't still ride a real dick with blood and veins.Are you getting me.If the real D is available they will ride it still use the intimacy gadgets to finish up.The story no gel.

People who use toys still sleep with men except they are lesbians.

KeepitAnonymous:
18+

The female orgasm is often depicted as the center of a woman’s sexual satisfaction and the ultimate goal of sex.
Your wife is not getting this experience during sex with you and that’s the reason why she got a vibrator. But I can tell you that you got a good wife.
Do not listen to people telling you that your wife is going to cheat on you with another man. Never. If she was going to do it, she would have started it without thinking of getting a vibrator.
I personally bought a vibrator for my wife so that she can pleasure herself when am not around. She has described it as the best gift I ever bought for her.
As a married man, it is your responsibility to satisfy your wife irrespective of how tired you might be. The good news now is that you guys have a vibrator and this makes your work easier.
Call her in privately and have a romantic conversation with her. Tell her to bring out the vibrator and that you want to experience it too. Be romantic at this time with smiles on your face.
Kiss her gently and passionately. Gradually move your tongue to her breast while your fingers already gone to her clitts and her hands grabbing you d**k. Keep it that way for 5 minutes or more. Then go down for oral with your tongue. Pay attention to the clitts while doing that.
And finally give her the vibrator to use while you start the job. Make sure she has space to place the vibrator on her clitts while you do your job.
Go slowly so that you don’t cum quick. The goal is for her to reach orgasm first while you finish it up. Say some smooth sexy words while doing your thing.
Boy after this, she will be hopping on you like a dog.
Stay blessed and enjoy your marriage.

Forget this one my dear.

Emmaari:
Well, who I go blame, U or ur wife?
Two things are involved is either you fail to perform ur duty to satisfy her sexually and she seek for satisfaction using a vibrator, OR she is just a sex addict who has nack so many gbola befor u married her. Just my opinion though

Note: pls don't kill urself untop kpekus to prove a point, because u see that hole, u can never see the ending, just do ur best and leave the rest for VIBRATOR.

You're wicked bros.

Kollins11:
In otherwords, your wife is cheating on you with a vibrator.

You're not hitting the right spot reason she prefer a vibrator. You better start performing your sexual duties and start hitting the right spot or else na ME, your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

If your wife jam me, she go throway that her vibrator inside well... I swear to God Almighty. As it stands now, she's ready to cheat on you with any guy that has 9 inches dick and can also perform like a vibrator.

I've noticed most married men can't satisfy their wives sexual urge. They just spread their wives legs, knack for 5 seconds then cum. They don't care if their wives cum or not.

No just allow me cross path with your wife, Infact I'm even tired of satisfying married women sexual urge. I swear.. I don tire.

Married men abeg, make una dey knack una wife well, I don tire to dey help una.. I take God beg all married men.

who open the gate for this one

chatinent:
Can you do what I'll say?

If you can, snub her intimately for three months...don't ask, don't act like you do want, don't do petty intimacies. Allow her to herself. Don't quarrel or speak rudely to her tho..in fact, be more lovely and hypercaring...but don't agree to intimacies.

Don't act angry! Act very happy always...esp when you return.

Talk normally and more confidently.

She'll feel you're getting it outside and watch the magic. This will introduce a foundation for discussion and settlement...and everyone learning simple lessons.

This life na common sense.

Lastly, chief, in anything you are doing in this life, don't ever reject food.

Lol that Food part got me. Some mumu men go day reject the food bought with their money because of anger.

Kollins11:
In otherwords, your wife is cheating on you with a vibrator.

You're not hitting the right spot reason she prefer a vibrator. You better start performing your sexual duties and start hitting the right spot or else na ME, your landlord or gate man go hammer ur wife everyday.

If your wife jam me, she go throway that her vibrator inside well... I swear to God Almighty. As it stands now, she's ready to cheat on you with any guy that has 9 inches dick and can also perform like a vibrator.

I've noticed most married men can't satisfy their wives sexual urge. They just spread their wives legs, knack for 5 seconds then cum. They don't care if their wives cum or not.

No just allow me cross path with your wife, Infact I'm even tired of satisfying married women sexual urge. I swear.. I don tire.

Married men abeg, make una dey knack una wife well, I don tire to dey help una.. I take God beg all married men.

You will understand when you get married.

The mental, financial stress and managing a woman can kill any sexual urge if not properly managed.

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

If you didn't have a fight or something like that, send the foolish woman to her parents, she probably cheating on you

Dada4me:


You will understand when you get married.

The mental, financial stress and managing a woman can kill any sexual urge if not properly managed.

Leave the guy,as a single guy once money no dey my pocket I no dey get erection . MY HEAD NO DEY THAT HEADSPACE AT ALL TALK MORE WHEN I HAVE MORE RESPONSIBILITY.

The guy na still small pikin.

Why will she even do such on same bed with u, probably she even want you to know

Adetayo41:
yes, that is what wake me,and vibration of the bed

Chai

Adetayo41:
My wife has been depriving me intimacy for the past 1 months, i touched her yesternight, she declined, and later in the middle of the night, I caught her using a vibrator, although I did as if I was sleeping,


What should I do house.? I am pained though

What was she like during courtship? Either of two things are right.....have a chat with her and figure out which one.

IamMobisola:

Cc Timekeeper452

sorry for the exchange, I didn’t see that. I don’t read discussions on this website but just topics. The OP is a clown then.