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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by gbolswag(m): 12:56pm On Aug 29, 2022
Because girl of this generation value money than love

we also are not ready to settle down....we will only have them as baby mama's

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uthlaw: 12:56pm On Aug 29, 2022
Kenpaly:
Mariage is very good if you ask me,but it depend one whom you married.i will advice guy pls marry a strong lady that can hustle.at least a lady that can bring 40% finance in family.
remove sex and tell me what is good about the marriage?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Zooposki(f): 12:57pm On Aug 29, 2022
BigYash:
You go spend millions to package wedding.
After which,the woman ( girls of today) will still go and be fucking around.

She won't even let you have peace in your own house. She will make people outside see you as a bad person, meanwhile na them be devil.

Those days you will see people getting married every Saturday.. Right now,e don cast. Guys are wiser now..
Better say I use the wedding money buy land .. Find one girl wen go born for me. Cux na pikin make me wan marry before. If na toto I dey find,if I need 100 at once,as long as money dey,I go get am.

Since girls say men are scum. We go know who go be scum later.. We Move!

Blessings to the Real Niggas on this site ,and middle finger to the SIMPs..

Now you know how women feel when men cheat on them all the time, hence why they came up with the survival tactics of not putting all their eggs in one basket.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by OGHENAOGIE(m): 12:58pm On Aug 29, 2022
Demigod22:
Economic factor: we have young men who are ready to settle down, but the economic downturn of Nigeria is taking away their dreams. Who do you feed and raise kids with no job? How do you take responsibility with meagre pay cheque? How can a jobless man raise bride price?

Emotional fraud: most people have neglected fidelity in a relationship/marriage. Men having extra marital affairs and women having babies for their ex in her marriage.

Scary event: Most girls are into hookup and do irredeemable stuffs for money, how can a man witnessing all these have the courage to settle down?

For me, I will gladly choose bottle of French Wine over marriage.
is a woman a goat that bride price should be paid?? Won't the woman contribute to abi the man go die on top providing for family...

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uthlaw: 12:58pm On Aug 29, 2022
sniperr007:


Well, everything in life is risky but we still do it. Prayerfully you meet a lady that won't give you stress.
I should pray because she bring billions of dollars....you get sense like this!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Engrgreat: 12:58pm On Aug 29, 2022
Well said
SimplePlan34:
The more u are aware of yourself the less self tolerant u are for others
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by potland: 12:59pm On Aug 29, 2022
jeromestarks:

We realized that marriage is retirement program for women so we better have baby mamas.
But marrying a virgin is a union because she gave you her Best years and you took care for her and maintains her.

Men only suffer in marriages.
It's better they get the pvssy outside than the over used pvssy their wives offer them.
can i marry a girl i disvirgined but has been with other men after me?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by annayawchee: 12:59pm On Aug 29, 2022
Faber:


When saapa catch you, your wife will cheat on you with 12yrs old yahoo boy, your eye go clear.

You go even give on life, find HK run enter grin grin
I swear

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uthlaw: 1:00pm On Aug 29, 2022
iamgru:
Why won't they? So today I entered a commercial transport to work and then a lady entered and the lady was a student, probably a polytechnic student... See the gal dey beg one guy say he won come meet am for hotel, say d guy sweet, say e want am... I just observed. The lady later received call from another guy kon dey tell dat one say she love am but school nor fit make am meet am dix period.

Na me just talk to her, take her number and tell her say I go call her dix evening... I came down and saved her number with "Ashawo Kobo Kobo"

I go probably call am to chop my share too cos na public toilet, gal wey wan useless, u go make am useless.

Mind u, am a married man







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be calming down!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 1:00pm On Aug 29, 2022
uchennaq:


I can't commit suicide because I know you are a low life and I love my beautiful wife and daughter. Most Oloshos and useless men will have this ideology of marriage being unimportant,because they must give you excuse. Just the way useless people are saying that Education and Adulthood is a scam. Typical examples of LAZY NIGERIAN YOUTHS.
So you are insulting me cos you have kids and a wife?
Did I insult them?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 29, 2022
gbolswag:
Because girl of this generation value money than love


we also are not ready to settle down....we will only have them as baby mama's

Which one is love.
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uthlaw: 1:01pm On Aug 29, 2022
abobote:
Men who are not ready to settle are looking for excuse.
I'm married, and happy
that your problems... Like say you no Bleep enough when you de bachelor....you now happy because of free pussy!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 29, 2022
Zooposki:


Now you know how women feel when men use to cheat on them all the time those days, hence they came up with the survival tactics of not putting your eggs in one basket.

And how long will that last when most of your eggs are dried and you cant use your beauty any more as leverage on men?.in the end you ladies lose not us

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Oturatetuala(m): 1:02pm On Aug 29, 2022
Women outta there are something else, cheat, fraudsters, prostitute, gold diggers, armed robbers, vampires and so on.

Only one girl dey Bleep 20boys haaa.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by potland: 1:03pm On Aug 29, 2022
Faber:


When saapa catch you, your wife will cheat on you with 12yrs old yahoo boy, your eye go clear.

You go even give on life, find HK run enter grin grin
the way its going, in five years time ninety percent of nigerian girls will be doing hookup. Where i wan see wife material like dis?

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uthlaw: 1:03pm On Aug 29, 2022
EmmyDJourno:
Most Women are not ready to help a struggling man
I was at a Men’s conference yesterday and trust me men are going through a lot they can’t share with their wives coz many women are only in for the good times
can you tell me one benefit of this women apart from sex...if you die because of woman,na you Bleep up!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BigYash: 1:05pm On Aug 29, 2022
Zooposki:


Now you know how women feel when men use to cheat on them all the time those days, hence they came up with the survival tactics of not putting your eggs in one basket.
And who was marrying who? Who pays the Bride price? Who pays the bills? Who owns the house? In this part of the world ,can't a man marry more than one wife at a time? Chill abeg,no come here dey justify cow shit

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uthlaw: 1:05pm On Aug 29, 2022
Faber:


When saapa catch you, your wife will cheat on you with 12yrs old yahoo boy, your eye go clear.

You go even give on life, find HK run enter grin grin
no b every yahoo boy get money..boys may de collect stem card self de form OG!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by KingTeco(m): 1:05pm On Aug 29, 2022
Maybe the ladies are setting the standards coupled with the economy of the country and village People.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by JaskanFactor: 1:05pm On Aug 29, 2022
I dont think men are loosing interest in settling down, men were born with natural instinct to settle down like all animals.

When you throw a party and tell the bouncers to treat all the guests that are not in your inner circle like vermin, you may ask why nobody is coming to the dance floor.

The price of rent, wages, internet, food, hospital treatment etc is not determined by economics, but instead set just right that only people in certain income bracket should attempt getting married, unless they want to live dangerously.

So that settling down is only really allowed for rich men and dangerous men poor men.

Cause if you settle down and youre not one of them men mentioned above, you will eventually end up dead at young age or in jail if you're lucky.

Price of goods required for daily living is first determined by population control requirements before any economic factors.

So ever since money was created the human race has been breading the seed of the most dangerous men who later become rich men.
Money is a form of genetic modification of the human race to a certain sort of breed.

And then there are those lucky poor men whose Gods blessing settle down into marriage despite all odds. |Cause no matter what they do , the owner is still in control.

Those are the parameters of the game as far as i can see.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 1:06pm On Aug 29, 2022
Rozross:
You talk too much for your age. Let school resume so we can have rest on this forum.
ma pls help me i no get shishi hvnt chop anything since morning
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by potland: 1:07pm On Aug 29, 2022
seunmind44:
Na who wan die young? Olosho to the rescue jo. Patapata we do baby mama
i wan do babymama. Mum must be in her early 20s. How you see am?
Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uchennaq(m): 1:07pm On Aug 29, 2022
I got married when I was earning just 75k. I took the list and started buying things gradually. The dowry was 150k. I had to plan with my beautiful wife and we did everything successfully. We invited just family members and few friends from both sides. If you look at most people against marriage, they are either useless junkies, Oloshos that don't have plan, lazy Nigerian youths, broken hearted women and ritualists.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uchelouis45(m): 1:07pm On Aug 29, 2022
BigYash:
You go spend millions to package wedding.
After which,the woman ( girls of today) will still go and be fucking around.

She won't even let you have peace in your own house. She will make people outside see you as a bad person, meanwhile na them be devil.

Those days you will see people getting married every Saturday.. Right now,e don cast. Guys are wiser now..
Better say I use the wedding money buy land .. Find one girl wen go born for me. Cux na pikin make me wan marry before. If na toto I dey find,if I need 100 at once,as long as money dey,I go get am.

Since girls say men are scum. We go know who go be scum later.. We Move!

Blessings to the Real Niggas on this site ,and middle finger to the SIMPs..
cheesy

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by oneclickng: 1:08pm On Aug 29, 2022
Because marriage is among the 1000 ways to die.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Akuruoulo(m): 1:08pm On Aug 29, 2022
BECAUSE MARRIED IS USED TO ENSLAVE MEN.


MARRIAGE IS SLAVERY TO MEN.
They say this is 21century that women should be allowed to work/make money, hold high ranked offices , but when it comes to spending it revolves back to men .

A woman will have house help that will help her do her house works. Yet the well-being of the house help is stocked on the man's head ( the feeding, medical bills,the salary etc), still the well-being of the family and in-laws family is still stocked in his head.
The money the wife is making all this while is still secondary.

If divorce happens, the man will be ripped off his wealth to satisfy one ass-hole.
Etc

Soo many things, but this won't stop us from marrying.
Men just need to grow wiser

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by GodPrince: 1:08pm On Aug 29, 2022
Savedday:
because they don't want to waste their precious time, resources and love on a 9ja girl.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace
something dey tell me say you be my OG Mosdii wen I dey miss. I greet if na you, you always on point about these scum bitches

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by martinmiller: 1:09pm On Aug 29, 2022
Marriage is good for a man, it is good for the woman too if both parties are ready mentally, physically. Marriage is for two matured personality who understands how to pick their onions � it is not necessarily you spend huge before getting married if you are both reasonable and understanding.

Men literally don't want to get settled because many of the ladies today are not marriageable, left to me I will say 74% out of 100% of the female factor are not ready or have a sound template of what home building is about, don't forget women like it soft, if your baby can't contribute to home development or has a job and can hustle as per Nigeria situation, then you be left hanging. Look, men are becoming more wiser now, they know what they want in a woman and so no lady should cap craps. You have to build it from bottom to the top.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by GeneralBuhari: 1:09pm On Aug 29, 2022
Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

Because money no dey.

Everything about woman is expensive so which man ready to dey take care of all those expenses all in the name of marriage?

I pity the unmarried guys

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by yemi1504: 1:10pm On Aug 29, 2022
Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

First of all, the economy is not smiling for men here and women still think men should handle all the responsibilities of the home in the harsh economic climate? Kwanu! Two, the women of this generation are not like our mothers in temperament, in building a home and building with a man (they all seem to want a man that is flush in cash). And am sorry with that kind of mentality, there will be a lot of frustrated single mothers and spoilt brats as a result of no father figure influences due to unrealistic expectations from them (the rich men in this country are only a dime a dozen and can only marry one out of the ten probably fawning on him) in this generation. The ladies that are like our mothers are getting married (my best friend at work just married one) but unfortunately they are in the minority for our time. My 2 cents.

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by uthlaw: 1:10pm On Aug 29, 2022
uchennaq:
It's only a useless person and people like Tonto Dick that will have this kind of ideology. Marriage is a blessed union between a man and a woman, because people rubbish due to their lack of understanding what marriage is suppose to be does not make it unimportant.
remove sex and tell me what is bless about marriage!

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Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Hayaoga1(m): 1:11pm On Aug 29, 2022
Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

Marriage is a scam

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