potland:
what happened in your first marriage? Care to share

Kenpaly:
Mariage is very good if you ask me,but it depend one whom you married.i will advice guy pls marry a strong lady that can hustle.at least a lady that can bring 40% finance in family.

uchennaq:


What of me that married when I was earning peanuts nko? By the time you keep deceiving yourself, that is when you will take the bull by his horn, else you will soon become an old loner Grandpa.

potland:
can i marry a girl i disvirgined but has been with other men after me?

Enddy50ty:
Hoes everywhere.

A real Wife material is scarce

Exceed15:
Because the homely, submissive and respectful girl can turn tiger.

abobote:
Men who are not ready to settle are looking for excuse.
I'm married, and happy

potland:
the way its going, in five years time ninety percent of nigerian girls will be doing hookup. Where i wan see wife material like dis?

obedience4:
Because of the fake perception that women ain't loyal and that they bring nothing to the table,, that they have fish brains and all after the money..

uthlaw:
I should pray because she bring billions of dollars....you get sense like this!

EmmyDJourno:
Most Women are not ready to help a struggling man
I was at a Men’s conference yesterday and trust me men are going through a lot they can’t share with their wives coz many women are only in for the good times

donleo92:
because most women ain't ready to start with a guy.

their all want already made men, so right now, I want to build myself and pray to God for the right woman

Demigod22:
Economic factor: we have young men who are ready to settle down, but the economic downturn of Nigeria is taking away their dreams. Who do you feed and raise kids with no job? How do you take responsibility with meagre pay cheque? How can a jobless man raise bride price?

Emotional fraud: most people have neglected fidelity in a relationship/marriage. Men having extra marital affairs and women having babies for their ex in her marriage.

Scary event: Most girls are into hookup and do irredeemable stuffs for money, how can a man witnessing all these have the courage to settle down?

For me, I will gladly choose bottle of French Wine over marriage.

BigYash:
You go spend millions to package wedding.
After which,the woman ( girls of today) will still go and be fucking around.

She won't even let you have peace in your own house. She will make people outside see you as a bad person, meanwhile na them be devil.

Those days you will see people getting married every Saturday.. Right now,e don cast. Guys are wiser now..
Better say I use the wedding money buy land .. Find one girl wen go born for me. Cux na pikin make me wan marry before. If na toto I dey find,if I need 100 at once,as long as money dey,I go get am.

Since girls say men are scum. We go know who go be scum later.. We Move!

Blessings to the Real Niggas on this site ,and middle finger to the SIMPs..

Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

sniperr007:


She may not bring dollars but the connect and the extra hand to get those billions

oke2018:
Who are those patronising them

David160:


Wife material is hard to find.

Stephen2324:
Why are men loosing interest in settling down?

MNDY:
Woke women taking submission for slavery when in submission, both parties have their say and the Headship has the final say. Before you find a good woman among this generation of woke and highly manipulative generation of women, you go suffer. I understand that times are hard and finance plays a key role. But the issues I highlighted above have also become issues of serious concern.

Rayban25:


Apart from economy we have some women that will marry you and then divorce you to take your money...in the case of if you're not married to her and shes a babymama, you can still be commanded by the court to pay child support so its risky to just give your last name or seed to just any woman

Savedday:
because they don't want to waste their precious time, resources and love on a 9ja girl.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

donem:

If not for my exposure to be sincere, I will have been tempted to concur on the bolded, but I disagree with you, if u say like 90% then I will agree with you.

uchennaq:


Insensible human being. If your parents had this ideology maybe you would been raised in a foster home. Bloody nonsense.

Rozross:
I won’t say it’s all about hardship because I’ve seen comfortable bachelors that has refused to settle down. It’s because of the moral bankruptcy of the society, singles are also enjoying the privileges of marriage , so they become reluctant in doing the needful.