I get tired chasing a meal for long, just like a cheetah, I can't chase more than 4mins otherwise I develop heart attack, anytjme u decide t give me interest, if I'm still interested i would continue bt meanwhile I av other engagements with other ladies, if u no send me abi other girls no go send me? if u chase sth 4 s long tym u lose interest especially if that thing isn't "REALLY WORTH IT" So the answer is "U re not worth d long chase"

Chioma4eva:
So you mean we should just accept anybody that comes to toast us without doing small shakara? How will you be taking seriously when you are not a call girl?

when you over do the shakara?

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

They don show this one pepper. Nobody has time to waste on Nigerian girls version of love, so we eat, clean mouth, vermose, repeat.

Chioma4eva:
Don't generalize pls. I'm an independent lady myself. I have a job and business. I make my own money. Same for millions of other Hardworking Ladies out there.

are you ready to humble yourself before your man

Humans always think they're smart...

....this is what happens when people ignore God's laws.

VladimirPutiin:


You based in lag ?

Not really

Nlfpmod front page pls

Chioma4eva:
Not really

Ok. Have a nice day

VladimirPutiin:


Ok. Have a nice day

And you too.

JONSYN7154:
when you over do the shakara?

Not overdo but do small.

prettyem:
Op, men naturally are 'chasers', almost everything they do and think is on target

Toasting endlessly for 2weeks was a target for him at the time
Sex with you was another target (maybe it came too early)

Once a target is achieved, what happens? You move to the next....

This has happened, don't feel bad or mad if he chooses to call it quits with you, learn this and never fall for such again...how?

Plan or decide to know the person you're in a relationship with (timeline on you), what he really wants from you and vice versa, the values you both intend to add to each other before the sex part...you will be fine darling

God bless you for this comment hun. You hit the nail on the head. Very well said.

because, 9ja guys have realized that, 9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Bad man.... succinctly pun

[quote author=robinso01 post=116498080]Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?[/quot






I swear this is the best answer

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Do not give sex unless he has married you. Nothing is wrong with Nigerian men. It just makes sense not to pay for what you got free and to avoid falling into such disadvantaged position, keep sex away until he weds you.

robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

U wike gan o

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Once the end game is achieved, nothing more is available........ Onto the next one .........

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

U don't stretch a rope for too long and expect after the purpose of stretching, it comes back to it normal size...toasting for several weeks is bad...just say yes or no and get it done with

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

They never love you from day 1

They just wanted your body

Chioma forever
Face your book, leave relationship for now

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Because they ain't trust them bitches.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Sorry you came across a DEMON, he achieved his aim. I hope he used protection

robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

I wonder oo

Na money palaver.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

If you are not pretty with brain please do not form too hard for a man that you will eventually accept.

There is a clear difference between Love and Lust!

If you don't know the clear difference as a girl or boy, then you are not yet ready for life! Your heart will keep getting smashed all over the place!



Some even marry those that are merely lusting after their bodies claiming love! SMH!

robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

who ever begs his captives ?

That's I always tell ladies is not by forming hard to get, a guy can wait for months just to get what he want (sex) and still serve u breakfast and some guys will just get what dey want (sex) probably maybe after few days of chasing u and the relationship will still work out... So it's not how far my dear

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

The goal all along was the coochie. Once it is won, there is no reason to continue. Sometimes they might want to get the coochie a couple of more times before technically ghosting you.

What is the solution? Never give in to sex irrespective of the pressure.

Then I pity the few women who think that they can get the guy to fall in love with them after sex. For guys sex is sex. Stop deluding yourself.