Maybe because we feel disappointed after discovering that what took us time isn't worth it

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babe...me am differarent & i dont do that, i dont lose intrest, i swaar. Guys who do that are silly & stewwwpid.
for me, ....I looose intarest only after nakkin about 5 times but then I make sure the relationship last at least minimum 2 week!!! (Real talk) [/quote


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robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

It's the mindset on both gender, the guys believe no true love especially if you're not financially bouyant that the lady would end up cheating on him, so would not want to be the fall guy but rather get want he want and move.

Same to ladies too, they go into relationship not all in the name of love anymore but for shared responsibility.

Ultimately, as guy or lady if you WANT a lasting relationship, you MUST have a definition and a picture of what you want, such if a guy coming to you or you as a guy going to meet a lady you can see from a distance if he or she is a match to your definition or the imagery you had.

Another thing is character issue both need to work on character (i.e expecting so much from both parties)

This is important to avoid story that touch.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

.. Those who behave like that are still boys... Well I don't do like that....

LutherSanchez:
No need calling him names. Na sarcasm him use

I no know why them no see the sarcasm

That's men everywhere. It usually happens after they realise that the woman has nothing else to offer.

Chioma4eva:
We are both saying the same thing.

give me your number let see if what you are saying is true.

DaddyCK:


babe...me am differarent & i dont do that, i dont lose intrest, i swaar. Guys who do that are silly & stewwwpid.
for me, ....I looose intarest only after nakkin about 5 times but then I make sure the relationship last at least minimum 2 week!!! (Real talk)

Werey... your own worst

A lot could be responsible. I am different though.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Odunharry:
Post cum clarity is at play..

POST NUT CLARITY (Brain resets after the action)

Happens to the best of us

LutherSanchez:
Na mumu dey toast girl for weeks endlessly.

Jungle don mature...

No time for bullshitsss.

robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

lol, I don't know why I find this post very funny.

ChocolateWine:
Humans always think they're smart...

....this is what happens when people ignore God's laws.

which of the law please. I would like to be enlightened.

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At the very early days, they're sincere & really interested..... However they keep Thier options open ....
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When you begin to stress them expecting the long & serious chase ...as the "daughter of Dangote" that you are ....
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They gradually become weak & begin to loose interest .... But out of Ego & whatever, they don't show it nor talk abt it...
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At that point you become a PROJECT, which the obj is to get something .. to make up for Thier stress & effort.... Atal atal things
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Then you fall in love, when they're on thier way out, you give them your body as a sign of commitment, but to them it's too late & not enough, they're on thier way out already so they continue to walk till they're out.
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They get the PROJECT , they get the trophy, they get out!
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Bitter Truth

Try dey understand before you type Ode!

Because all the toasting, affection, love talks was meant to get reasonable share of your smelly pussy that you have been sharing to others. We nor fit dull dey look like that when other sharp niggas dey collect their share of your yeye Toto. You girls are meant for sex only forget the love talks, it's because we just want to fvck and we will always fvck you loose bitches for free it's stupid simps that luzguard and marry you

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

cause u had nothing to give but sex

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

You said it yourself, they "toast" for weeks endlessly and you finally agreed. Do you expect them to continue the stress....hell no. My advice to you ladies, don't stress your yes too long, if a guy is into you and you feel the same, be open to say yes. If after sex he decided to go cold, be glad you did something you wanted too do not because someone was begging and kneeling for you in public. After all you enjoyed the sex too.

Kajaard:


POST NUT CLARITY (Brain resets after the action)

Happens to the best of us

Yea.. Brain will surely reset and if the guy is still attracted to her after sex, then he can consider investing/commiting if the lady is serious and ready to invest too cos it shouldn't be one sided.

sageer1706:
That's I always tell ladies is not by forming hard to get, a guy can wait for months just to get what he want (sex) and still serve u breakfast and some guys will just get what dey want (sex) probably maybe after few days of chasing u and the relationship will still work out... So it's not how far my dear

You have said it all

robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

Funny but fucking apt. Bravo comrade!

robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

GOAT
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I no go lie. A lot of you Nigerian girls are not interesting.

It's not about talking because you guy's do that a lot, it's about having a dialog with you better half. All you guys do is just talk about yourself, what you want all day.

Not all of you tho.

godwon01:
Don't mind him ,she knows what you mean. She is just twisting you with no apparents reason. To the question you had asked, some women always used the opportunity to demand for a lot of things from you. Secondly, the taste of the pusy may put you off. Thirdly ,you might not be the type he wants due to the way you performed while in bed. Lastly, you might not be beautiful enough ,both inside and outside at the end of the sexual intercourse.

'Marriage is honorable above all things, a bed undefiled but whoremongers God will judge.'
When you start sexual intercourse outside of marriage it's equal to test and go. I decided before getting married that I won't have sex with someone that I am going to marry because I won't have anything doing if I don do it finish before marriage.

Wait on God for husband not sex partner

Chioma4eva:
Yeah thank God you didn't generalize

so you know what it means to generalize?
hypocrisy stinks.

Lol, you get bad mouth

robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?

Natbrowny:


U just called ursef silly and stupid. Coz u just repeated wat she's tryna point out.

U no get sense ooo. In trying to probably make her give u her number or audience. U just typed nonsense and mocked ursef.

Dumbass.

You are the dumb one here. That post was intentional. A form of joke.

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Because they realise that sex is the only thing you can bring to the table. To make matters worse, Most of you don't even have sexual purity. A lot of men don chop tire already and have probably lost count of bodycount... So, WHY SHOULD A REASONABLE GUY CONTINUE TO STRESS HIMSELF AFTER GETTING WHAT YOU'VE BEEN OFFERING OTHER MEN, EVEN FOR FREE?

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

Post Nut Clarity

Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

The TRUTH is, it goes beyond SEXXX to keep a man these days.
As a man, I will never never never advise my junior ones to put up with any lady who offers nothing besides sexxxx.
I am a beneficiary of a very hardworking woman and i know what I'm saying.
This is unlike many ladies nowadays.

Things are getting more difficult and will.