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Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by realstars: 6:37pm On Sep 09, 2022
robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?
Good Question.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by terabyte2015(m): 6:37pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
I heard guys do that a lot but I could even grow cold by having ordinary conversations. If I see you’re not a goal oriented or you can be specific with some of the reason behind some happenings or action taken, I will just drop it little by little
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Omicron123: 6:37pm On Sep 09, 2022
You be OG
robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Indispensable85(m): 6:37pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
That category of guys are called players. All men are not so. Just try and be smart, you'll know them.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by clockwisereport: 6:38pm On Sep 09, 2022
Dorcas23 is back
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by shantti(m): 6:38pm On Sep 09, 2022
Natbrowny:
U just called ursef silly and stupid. Coz u just repeated wat she's tryna point out.

U no get sense ooo. In trying to probably make her give u her number or audience. U just typed nonsense and mocked ursef.

Dumbass.
He is being sarcastic nah, chill bro
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Sep 09, 2022
Until women start seeing sex as something they enjoy/want and not what they give, they will continue to get hurt when a guy ghost them after the act.

You don't lose what you don't give. grin
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by spiceadole(f): 6:38pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
Unfortunately,ladies have refused to learn.
The main reason a man approaches a woman is to have sex with her .
After which,it's only natural that he loses interest in her because she has been conquered ,her value reduces.
If they are married,he is "forced" to remain married for obvious reasons but Continues to sleep with other ladies outside.

Advise single ladies to keep their legs closed..NO..
Hunger,greed for material things and peanuts, laziness and inherent promiscuity wont allow many ladies say NO to premarital sex
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by lomprico(m): 6:39pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
So o, you just knack?
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by magzey: 6:39pm On Sep 09, 2022
You may be the one doing this or you are victims several time
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Yankee101: 6:40pm On Sep 09, 2022
That's why the Bible advocates marriage before sex


Once you give it up outside marriage you're technically worth less in his eyes
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by SpecialAdviser(m):
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
To add to this, a number of factors can be checked.

1) Does the girl demand much money from the guy? Many girls are fund of opening financial office once a guy have sex with them.

2) Was the girl clean inside? Many woman have bad smelling private part. Only gets discovered during sex. Also their teeth and body can smell.

3) Is the guy a teen? Most teens chase sex, adults chase love.

4) Does the girl have attitude? Most men dump bad attitude women after sex not to waste their time any longer.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Angelfrost(m): 6:40pm On Sep 09, 2022
Natbrowny:
U just called ursef silly and stupid. Coz u just repeated wat she's tryna point out.

U no get sense ooo. In trying to probably make her give u her number or audience. U just typed nonsense and mocked ursef.

Dumbass.
He was being sarcastic!

Breathe... Just breathe! Life can't be that hard!
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by TOPCRUISE(m): 6:40pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
You don't have to open leg after the toasting. They leave because they don't like the package you gave them
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by esanmantruth: 6:40pm On Sep 09, 2022
Lol selfish man. Nor be watin I talk go I dey come oooo
robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Papichulostunne(m): 6:41pm On Sep 09, 2022
VVVOLTS:
Yes love is dead

It's lust for money on the side of ladies and
Lust for your pxssy or to.to on the side of guys that remains

Even bro.thel prostitu.tes or olo.shos nowadays will be telling you "alaye do quick, no waste my time, I get plenty customers for outside" if she sees you are spending long time or plenty time on top of her or if you want to kissing her or touching her breasts

That's the level of moral degradation and moral corruption of our society.
Even be happy if he/ she no kill you for ritual
It is well
Spoken like a true custo wey olosho dey condition for your own money.. Jonzing
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by spiceadole(f): 6:41pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
So What can be done about this ugly trend. Going into relationship this days is tiring to be honest.
Keep your legs closed.
Don't collect monetary or material gift.
Define your relationship.
Know what you want.
I dated my husband for few months and we got married.No Sex .we are 5 years and counting with 3 children.
A man can marry you without seeing your pant first .
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Sep 09, 2022
Try having sex at night when the sperm is sleeping,
that's endless love
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Cheapgadget(m): 6:41pm On Sep 09, 2022
Guess you played hard to get, that is why simpld
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by sondetoks: 6:42pm On Sep 09, 2022
grin grin grin
robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Ikamandoncome: 6:42pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
Guys,na one yahoo guy dey behind the monicker,this post na to get Hot he-goats wey go message this gee guy(op) and before you know tf billing for hookup done start.......
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Victormezie: 6:42pm On Sep 09, 2022
robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?
.


Flesh and blood did not reveal this to u but your ex girlfriends in......
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Passionate888: 6:42pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
Toasting someone for weeks isn't love.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by 8inchesdick(m): 6:42pm On Sep 09, 2022
Imagine the number of people viewing this thread.
Alot of Nigeria's are really falling out of love
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Kajaard: 6:43pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
What a question undecided
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by slyzy(m): 6:43pm On Sep 09, 2022
LutherSanchez:
No need calling him names. Na sarcasm him use
God bless u!
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by bonnyhope: 6:44pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
Na wa o. It's only God that can give someone a good life partner after all.
I for say make we hook up if you be virgin

But......I can't take that risk with non virgin
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Wuless82(m): 6:44pm On Sep 09, 2022
robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?
Not at all ooo grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Btruth: 6:44pm On Sep 09, 2022
robinso01:
Does politicians still campaigns after winning election?
I wonder oooo angry
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
So What can be done about this ugly trend. Going into relationship this days is tiring to be honest.
there wasn't true feelings in the ist place. But u guys bleeped each other.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by dex4sure: 6:45pm On Sep 09, 2022
My sister Nigeria don waa....fake live, fake love, fake pastors, to get a genuine love now is by God's grace.
Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Guys Do This? by ojuu4u(m): 6:45pm On Sep 09, 2022
Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?
Even in the heart of Nigeria ladies, love is dead
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