Chisomann:
My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

witch. God will help them

Chisomann:
My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

It's a shame for Nigeria ladies , Anytime they see little money in the hands this is what you hear. But if it's the other way around the music would have been different

Chisomann:


My older brother is 27 jobless he has a child ,my younger brothers are 21 and 19

Chisom, the above age range still fall under undergraduate level. If they are in Higher Institution, Schooling may be one of the impedemment preventing them from working. Since, ASSU is on strike, summon a meeting with them and let them see reasons why they should think of what to do to earn a living. We are all humans, there is a limit to which we can stretch ourselves. If the above age range are not in Tertiary Institution, then you need to summon a meeting with them. They must see reasons why they should not be dependent always. Just try as much as possible to do what you can do that will not affect you. God will be with you sister.

Chisomann:
My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

I BELIEVE YOUR CONSCIENCE IS JUDGING YOU AND THAT'S THE REASON WHY YOU BROUGHT THIS HERE.

FIRST, I WANTED TO WAKA PASS BUT FOR THE SAKE OF OTHERS THAT WILL BENEFIT FROM THIS MY SMALL 'TORY' .

MY DEAR,
LIFE IS UP AND DOWN AND GIRLS/WOMEN USE TO HAVE THE UPPER HAND FROM THE ONSET BUT DOWN THE LANE BECAUSE OF RESPONSILITIES AND CHILDREN WOMEN WILL FOCUS MORE ON FAMILY AND MEN WILL KEEP HUSTLING AND KEEP LOOKING FOR THE BETTERMENT OF THEIR WIFE, CHILDREN AND EXTENDED FAMILY.

NOW, ASSUMMING YOU HELP ALL THESE YOUR BROTHERS NOW THAT WILL AUTOMATICALLY MEANS YOU HAVE SOW A SEED WHICH WILL GERMINATE IN THE NEAR FUTURE., THAT MEANS : ONE OF YOUR BROTHER WILL DEFINETLY BE YOUR FUTURE HELPER THOUGH YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW WHICH ONE IN PARTICULAR BUT YOU WILL NEED THEM.

HELP COMES FROM THE HEART IF YOU REALLY WANT TO HELP IF NOT JUST LEAVE THEM BECUSE GOD HAVE A WAY OF CARING FOR HIS PEOPLE.

WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.

GOODLUCK.

Chisomann:
My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

This is the most stupid and selfish post I have come across on this space.
Mtchewww

If you are so determined, why do you come here to bother us.

Guys, don't allow small girl insult you, check my signature on how to make money, 250k in one month.

I have a cousin in the village who thinks I am his helper when he is in need.I traveled to the village to take care of my sick dad.
Anytime this cousin of mine is broke that is when he will come to my house for financial aid.I do render him with the little I have.He doesn't even come to check on my dad.
However,i don't know that he is a stingy person.I learnt my family from my mother's side sold a portion of land and I wasn't told.He was given #70k as his share.He didn't tell me either,even though he would come to my house to tell me his problems.I later heard it from his immediate sister.The sister told me she was the one who kept the money for him.But she has handed all the money back to him.She told me my cousin didn't give him a dime from the share.

When he came to visit me I asked him.He became stuttering and later opened up.Since then I stopped giving him money.

Another angle is that he plays betking virtual soccer a lot.I later realise that any money I give him he will visit betting shops to play virtual.I see him whenever I go there to stake bets.I play real soccer not virtual and I bet with what I can afford to play and lose.
He doesn't have his own apartment even though he go out sometimes to do labour work at a building site.If he makes money he will visit betking shop and that little money he makes is gone.

Those your brothers you might not want to help today because you are of different fathers, migbe your backbone tomorrow... God know how to fling cards

Op try read this story, it was post by my boss on our work group on whatsapp

*SHUT THE DOOR OF RELATIONSHIP GENTLY, YOU MAY NEED TO USE* *IT LATER*

I read this from a friend's post and found it so interesting and important for it to go round.
Thus....

His words..... Many years ago I was working as a clerk at a faculty in one popular university in Nigeria, then I saw an advert for NDA (Nigeria Defence Academy), I have always loved to go to NDA so I applied, submitted my form and was called for admission examination.

I had to travel to Kaduna all the way from Osun State, I have a distant uncle that was resident there then. I wrote a letter(no telephone) to my uncle that I was coming to sit for an exam in Kaduna and would love to stay in their house.

I didn't get a reply to my letter even as my departure date was approaching. I became so worried because I needed to go anyway, as I was talking to a colleague in the office concerning my fear of where to stay, our office cleaner who was a Hausa man overheard us and in his broken English interjected that he knew someone right inside NDA.

Who could he know there? Is it not a cleaner like himself, I unintentionally said it out to his hearing. "Oga no o, the commandant op za NDA na ma classmate and ma priend". In his bad handwriting, he scribbled the commandant's name on a piece of paper. "Just mention my name por am, him go helf you."

I reluctantly collected the paper from him, not because I intended to make use of it but because I didn't want him to feel bad.

The next day, I set out on this long journey by train from Osogbo. I got to Kaduna the next day towards evening. Upon getting there, I went straight to my uncle's house only to find out that they had relocated from that place and no one knew their new address. I became stranded and it was getting late.

Around after 7pm, I made up my mind to give my cleaner's contact a shot. I got to the gate of NDA and mentioned the name I was given. To my utmost surprise, everyone in that bit, recognized the name and one person was promptly detailed to take me to his office.

I gave the paper where Kabiru wrote his name and that of his friend to the secretary who took it inside. On sighting the paper, the commandant shouted from the office and followed the secretary outside to usher me in. "Where do you know Kabiru?" "He's my colleague in the office, Sir," I answered.
"Where is he? How is he? Hope he's doing well?" This man was asking me many questions in an obvious excitement.

The look on his face confirmed to me that Kabiru was his beloved friend. He asked me what I came to do in Kaduna and I said it was for the NDA exams. "Wow, do you have where to sleep?" "No, sir." He immediately called someone to take me to his house. On getting to the house, I was lavishly entertained.

This man came late in the night and he woke me up and took me up on tutorials for the next day's exams. After the exams, he personally drove me to the park the next day.

When I got back to the campus, I began to look at Kabiru with a different eyes. How on earth does this man know such a powerful person? Needless to say, my name was number four on the list when the results came out.

Friends, I put it to you today that relationship is a currency. Every man needs another man to move up and that man may be the neighbour you look down on, maybe the taxi driver you so despise or even the house help you think is a nobody today.

Relationship is a stream of income. Everything in life actually reproduces on the basis of relationship. Those we know in life matter. *Most of us are talented but we need a cupbearer that will tell Pharaoh that there's a Joseph that can interpret dreams.*

There are some heights you may never get to in life until someone tells someone about you. Therefore, shut the door of relationships gently. You may need to use it tomorrow.

Let us take our relationships seriously. Even if you meet online, don't look down on anyone. You never can tell which of the relationships is your own key� to success.
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gaby:


Lack of empathy is why we are where we are today in this crazy world...

Think about the above..

Living and learning
More wisdom big brother

Chisomann:
My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

them tell them to their face that you dont want to help the. Why are you telling us? Wetin concern us inside?

Chisomann:


I have helped them a lot I think is enough they should go and hustle. I am thinking about changing my number soon so I will have no contact with them again

Then you have tried for them. Let them go and hustle.

If not for their Bleep up.. They never to old for help ..thank me later

This life is somehow. I remember when I was struggling. It wasn't easy at all but when God showed me mercy, it's easier to understand what others are going through but I can tell you that it's overwhelming when everyone is depending on you. At times I tell myself maybe God raised me up for a time like this.

Help them if you can, they are not pointing gun to your head.

If not for their Bleep up .. they never age for help for this part of the world.. stay out of Bleep up

simplesearch:



As in their dad's? How many husband exactly does your mum has before her death? Seems like the older has a different father, you another and the two younger ones too, same father or different? Making 4 children to three or four fathers. If that's the case then your mum has really committed a lot of sexual atrocities.

That's not what the topic is about but if you insist you can go meet her wherever she is and scold her as you want.

Biglittlelois:
A recent trend of this generation is that, we have more dependent and lazy males than females, sad and funny.

The males can't do hiccups abi na hookups like the females. Don't be too clever.

Whether you help them or not, they will survive and probably make it.

Do what you can do now if you have the means, it will speak for you tomorrow.
Thank you!

Help if u can

Well help them set up if you can. Things can change

Leonbonapart:
witch. God will help them

help them if you can,you know , things can change.

Chisomann:
My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads.

How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them.

help them if you can, things can change.

Sister, help them now that you have the opportunity.And while helping suggest that they can get jobs out there in a very friendly manner and also find jobs for them.You know what? A lazy brother today can turnout to be your helper tomorrow,life is a mystery.God will give you wisdom.

Chisomann:


My older brother is 27 jobless he has a child ,my younger brothers are 21 and 19

YOU are the 2nd Born!
How did you discover their dad is Not your Dad?

Chisomann:



You are � correct just like my 27 years old brother he doesn't have a job he is not doing any effort to get a job but all he knows is how to give belle.

Hahahahahahaha. But he's putting his manhood to work na.

poshestmina:
Help them when and how you can that won't choke you.
Some family members are parasites ,they'll never stop asking,it's the giver that will know what to do.

I'm so prudent with money now ehn , if it's not important or a matter of life and death,I no dey give shishi.

U gerrit mehn... I've always known this and known peace.

Most important give people money at your own risk. When once a person is upto a working age, you are doing the wrong thing by giving that person money. Life is a long way, without no hardship is very difficult for anyone to make it. Have never seen a rich man without a story. Only gives when it's very important. Remember the heart of a man is deciefully wicked. More money won't solve anyone's problem.