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Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Corporate2020: 5:48pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Lekan239: My brother, without family, what are we? Less than animals, because even animals recognize and assist their siblings 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by harmony75: 5:59pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Do what you can..I like to help but when you're not ready to hustle and they always have entitlement mentality I stop helping. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Maxxim: 6:17pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Corporate2020:Something told me she's into runz probably she has met a fat cow and her family now seems irritating to her, those kinda of people shior. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by ABBEYsammy01(m): 6:47pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Everything you think you have and the position of privilege you're today were divinely programmed, it could've be the other way round, but God in His wisdom decided to favoured you, you did not choose your father neither do they, you're only favoured. pls help your brothers NOW that you have the means of helping them, their destinies might depend on you. Remembered the story of Joseph and his brother and also remembered what Mordecai told Esther when the Jews were facing challenges. Who knows if God allowed them to cross your way because of days like this... 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Presidential1: 6:54pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
If no wan help them.. abeg shift ... Who do you think you are .. because of that small change you hold .. one day you go regret this rubbish and stupid decision |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Lekan239(m): 6:57pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Corporate2020:you still do not understand the op |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Solofresh2: 6:58pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Corporate2020:What do you mean by that Did they sleep with her at the same time The woman probably slept with the third man knowing fully well that she has two kids with two different men already |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Easyluv2live(m): 7:34pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
[quote author=Chisomann post=116986243]My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads. How do I tell my brothers that I don't want to help them. They should go and hustle. I am tired of them begging me for everything. I don't want to carry their burdens cos I have my own life to live. I want to focus on my life first and they should also focus on theirs. I am sick and tired of them. What if the table is turn will u ve dis mentality and not ask dem for help |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Fantazy(m): 7:55pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Chisomann: If you have enough to help them, pls continue to help them, and don't forget to also encourage them to find something doing. Unless u don't have the ability. Doing good has no disadvantage! Because this life no balance . It takes a twinkle of an eye for things to turn around. May evil no befall any of us o. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Business3600: 8:20pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Bluntguy:God bless you bro for the great advise. There's nothing sweeter than helping your family member. If you experience the ups and down life you will start helping people, not just your brothers. Stop assisting because you want to get something in return. Help the poor,help the needy while u can. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Blue86(m): 8:34pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Chai. You are family. Na the guy no dey serious. When e learn, e mind go come back sonssyo: 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Gerrard59(m): 9:39pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
kayperry: Prostitution is real work and is not a criminal offence. I say so because you would want to compare it to yahoo yahoo. A lady who does hook-up is better off to society than a jobless man who has a child and plans to birth another. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Originalsly: 11:12pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Chisomann: I blame you for making them not hustling for themselves . Cut them off ... let them hustle by force or starve.... how can you .... be supporting healthy lazy adults? |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by donhils: 11:59pm On Sep 30, 2022 |
Lekan239:You're not listening or reading. The topic of this thread says what? |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Slimgold2019: 3:14am On Oct 01, 2022 |
They are your blood &you can,t discard them like that.Why not try have a meeting with them to know what they can do to have financial liberation on their own ie empowerment,jobs, business etc & once that is sorted you would be relieved of having to answer to their needs everytime.In addition,make them sign an undertaking with you that you will only help them at your own freewill. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by sharone21(f): 5:43am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Vyzz: Exactly what I believe too. If only she can help them with something to do( job) The 19 and 21 years old especially needs her help. I wonder if their mum didn't bring them close when she was alive Lack of money brings alot of friction in the family.... May God see you all through. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by sorepco(m): 5:57am On Oct 01, 2022 |
From all you have said i did not see any reason why you would not help your brothers. How did you help them before? Is it by giving them 2k here or 10k there? That's no help...you can do that to a friend or even a neighbor! To help here brothers so that they can stand on their own do these: Let them learn a trade then you settle them. For those that want to school sponsor them if you can. If you can also sponsor them overseas. Furthermore you can get them a bus for transportation business or bolt... Helping us by changing someone's life for the better not giving them chicken change! [quote author=Chisomann post=116986243]My mum is late. I am the only girl among 3 boys. We have different dads. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by BABANGBALI: 6:12am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Op nothing lasts forever o, things can change anytime for anybody. No one knows tomorrow. Funkybabee Seduce Your man with Sexy Pants and Bra. Stop walking around the house with PDP Wrapper and Adieu Papa Polo |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Keniwit(m): 6:57am On Oct 01, 2022 |
This is how ladies thinks tho....so you thinking you go boil forever?well you could ...You better bless your circle with wat u can... If your brothers ask for Ten (10)things give them five or six (5 or 6) .The annoying think Abt people like you is that, they are always nice to people outside their family even more nice to strengers |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by samwillyco1(m): 7:34am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Jovialjune1:. She have never told us what she have done to them ? So stop insulting people. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by samwillyco1(m): 7:40am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Chisomann: At least he is good in something. Please what is his qualifications or skill he learnt. Finally if they are in Onitsha let's work something out to help them. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by phemmyfour: 8:46am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Chisomann:Are you afraid to tell them? Tell them not us. In fact , you are helping them by not solely dependent on you |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by lavylilly: 9:46am On Oct 01, 2022 |
pocohantas:Mention the freelancing site |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Kingd6th: 1:24pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
If u have the capacity to fix them in jobs or set up a small business for them,do so and hands off. Because if u don't,they will keep pestering you Chisomann: 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Martinez39s(m): 1:47pm On Oct 01, 2022 |
If you don't want to help them, there is no crime committed. It doesn't matter what your reason is, you don't have to help anyone with your resources if you don't want to. Your resources, your choices. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by MsFaith: 5:03am On Oct 03, 2022 |
sorepco: you talk as if you know how rich she is. You even say 2k and 10k is no help. in this economy o, can you pick 2k or 10k from the floor? |
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