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Your problem is not that a married woman is looking to go outside. Your problem is that a man is feeling good that a (married) woman finds him attractive.

May what you wish upon others be your own portion my sister.

purples25:
Women really need to stop giving men this ego boost.

Unrelated but triggered by the O.P....

He's got a girlfriend but he wants you to show affection...when you fall for him he just feeds his ego and goes back to gf...

He's married but wants to know you are attracted to him...just to feed his ego before he goes back to wifey....

You lower yourself as a married woman to toast a single man, which he is so happy about - all so he can brag that a married woman has toasted him before.

As a married woman you let a single guy seduce you....oga only wanted to do that so he could feel on top of the world about his seductive prowess. Not because he loves you.

As sad as oga here seems, i think he just wants to brag that a married woman is following him. There's an ego boost attached to all these things.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

Mr. Lienus Mba, present sir!! A married woman with two children eyeing you.? If she love you so much y she nor leave her husband for you after one child? Oga village people is playing with ur pictures

Not all but sadly, I think more than 60% think this way.

I find most relationships AND marriages in Nigeria (especially when the man earns more) to be prostitution with extra steps.

Dangrace01:
Guys this is how Nigerian girls reason

Sex is just Sex

They give their body to any man they like which is okay

But then they want full commitment from men

Forgetting that Women are the gatekeepers of sex while men are the gatekeepers of commitment.

Sex for girls = Commitment from men. If you waste your sex dont expect full commitment from men

Men try to see beyond your nose once a girl has had sex with 2 guys dont listen to their talk of one man one wife.

You can marry one but enjoy other girls outside.

A married woman??
Ha! I can't imagine myself sleeping with another man except my husband; no matter d situation.
Other men irritate me,no matter how neat and rich. I can't stand it.
It has to b my husband.
No marriage is perfect, though!

Aunty, you typed that sex is sex, whether married or not.

You wrote a paragraph. Why won't one think that that is how you (not all Nigerian girls) think?

doggedfighter:
I a Nigerian girl and I am not a guy.

What makes you think you are in the best to know and talk about how Nigerian girls reason?

Or are you talking about women in your life ?

Zombiedients:
My GF is Married with 3 kids

She enjoyed sex with me more than her husband.........
Is
Well husband only Bleep Once in a month but Bleep other gf including house maid on daily basis.

Wife Bleep me at least Twice a week.

No one has monopoly to cheat.

Sex is just sex whether with married or single person after all.

Thank you

The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord
Romans 6:23
Salvation from sin through our lord and saviour Jesus Christ is free and real. Confess your sins, repent from them and ask Christ to come and dwell in you and you will have peace with God and be ready for life after here.

That is the way.

Enny2013:
Ha! I can't imagine myself sleeping with another man except my husband; no matter d situation.
Other men irritate me,no matter how neat and rich. I can't stand it.
It's just my husband.

Be friends with her, keep your relationship with her, be an advisor to her, but please, don't sleep with her, rather, encourage her well to your understanding.

Generational curses cannot deal with Nigerian politicians, murderers, etc? It is now ordinary mekwe that they will deal with?

Go and sleep my friend.

MuslimIgbo:
If you want generational problem and curses upon yourself, you can start a relationship with her.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

Don't do it....when she settles with her husband, you LL tagged used n dump

Many people do this. Sometimes not all but mostly.

People like lollittaa, pocohontas, mariahangel.

Na their way. Defend nonsense at all costs if na woman do am.

VULCAN:
Notice how this person completely absolves the adulterous woman and turns around to make it about men in general.

Many of these feminists have psychological issues that undiscerning men won't notice till they have entered their trap.

I advise men to look well because a lot of these girls out there are mentally unstable

RenerdLiam:
Another thing, egoistic women married men they believe they can control (that’s what they called love).

But because a man will never submit to a woman (no matter how foolish the man is). The man will eventually change, the woman will feel frustrated and bitter towards her husband. And that is the beginning of an unhappy union.

If you can’t handle her, avoid an egoistic/controlling woman.

Story of my life!

cooooooks:
Generational curses cannot deal with Nigerian politicians, murderers, etc? It is now ordinary mekwe that they will deal with?

Go and sleep my friend.

Or deh

Start fuckîng married women and you'll understand. Since you refused to have sense, you'll definitely learn your lessons the hard way.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

When the husband catches you with a cutlass, gun, acid, or club. .....make police no make arrest ooooo

Your generation is cursed.

PS: I don't believe curses have any effect

MuslimIgbo:
Or deh

Start fuckîng married women and you'll understand. Since you refused to have sense, you'll definitely learn your lessons the hard way.

Bring your mom and married sisters first.

MuslimIgbo:
Or deh

Start fuckîng married women and you'll understand. Since you refused to have sense, you'll definitely learn your lessons the hard way.

Solofresh2:
Am real bro
I swear to God!

You know what to do already,so why are you bringing it up here?

The bitter reality is that don't temper with some one wife if you don't want some one to temper with your own wife or children

Does it matter what we think when you have already concluded?

cooooooks:
Bring your mom and married sisters first.

Lol
Ho low ree buu ruu kuu
Just because y.hu were brought up in a dysfunctional family home, having a drunkard old fool faggōt father and an ugly old hag WHORÈ mother, doesn't mean every other person too here are unfortunate too.

I'm not responsible for your life's misfortune, blame your parents.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

If it’s a no no for you - why do you want us to convince you otherwise ?
If you don’t want to do it good for you but don’t make those that do feel guilty.

Microwhy:
Its not about marrying who they don't love.
I know a couple that dated for 26years (since primary school) but couldn't hold the marriage for 6 years. Its about their attitude, behaviour and character. Also
They're not bored, they just want to practice what they know how to do best and they're what they're "A hoe" .
Most of the so called boring husbands are trying their best to make the family happy but a hoe will always be one.

God bless you

orijo1980:
The bitter reality is that don't temper with some one wife if you don't want some one to temper with your own wife or children

Tamper you mean .

cooooooks:
Your generation is cursed.

PS: I don't believe curses have any effect

Then why are you unfortunate in life ?

Awwwwww

He can't even type.

Please go back to your incest home. I hope your mom or sis did not beat any househelp.

MuslimIgbo:
Lol
Ho low ree buu ruu kuu
Just because y.hu were brought up in a dysfunctional family home, having a drunkard old fool faggōt father and an ugly old hag WHORÈ mother, doesn't mean every other person too here are unfortunate too.

I'm not responsible for your life's misfortune, blame your parents.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

Very simple principle that I hold dear:

I assume everything a woman says is a lie and still push the burden of proof to her.

I have never had any woman issues in my life so far adhering to this basic principle!

It might not work for everyone but it sure works

Okoroawusa:
You are waiting for us to tell you to fvck her abi?

Oya go ahead and fvck her. We have approved

You have approved, not we.

But it takes the grace of God to avoid knacking between two people who wants to knack.

OP just wants to know the implications.

SpyAC:
Be friends with her, keep your relationship with her, be an advisor to her, but please, don't sleep with her, rather, encourage her well to your understanding.

What kind advisor? Someone who has confessed what’s on her mind - she will find someone else to do it with. Just run �‍♀️ away if you don’t want to do the deed

Solofresh2:
Am real bro
I swear to God!

Then send her number to me. I'm good looking and good in bed too. If you can't do it, others can.

Solofresh2:
There is this lady friend of mine. We have been friends before she even got married and she is aware of my single status. I have decided to remain single until am ready for marriage.

So she told me how her husband has been maltreating her and she told me her husband is cheating on her. She told me she has always admired me but don't know how to tell me.

Though I noticed this but decided to overlook it. She said she wants a tight relationship with me and I should keep it secret, telling me she finds me attractive. I was just surprised because I never expected her to say all this.

However, I told her to resolve the issue with her husband and talk things out with him but she seems to have lost much interest in her husband who she has two beautiful girls with already.

Sex is not a problem for me as I know where to get it, but having sex with a married woman is a no no for me.

What do you guys think over this issue?

nothing u go fit do bro da mi, just keep it secret and de fuccck her small small de go

cooooooks:
Awwwwww

He can't even type.

Please go back to your incest home. I hope your mom or sis did not beat any househelp.

Lol
I'm certain that rhe. tards like you do peep at your mom and sisters when they're having their bath. If you're not already sleeping with your sisters, fingering is definitely going on.
Ho low ree buu
ruu kuu