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Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by yusufmurry: 11:46am On Oct 19, 2022 |
ahnie: One, out of one thousand is not a good count |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Weirdcamila: 12:36pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Get a job for your wife and sister , or set up a business for them. Find a bigger space to accommodate everyone . Happy married life |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Octopusssy(f): 1:04pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Is your SIL making any plans to earn a living? I am pretty sure she is not comfortable living in your house |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Nobody: 1:35pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
wasuka14:Pele |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Obakoolex(m): 1:45pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Helping is like sowing a seed just need to be careful if the land is fertile or not. You know the ladies better and you know the type of family you married, if the land is good for sowing in it or not. Why would twin sisters get 4 kids each without working are they just breeders Little advice incase you want to chase her out maybe to the parent place and still safe your face.... just involve your landlord codedly to handle the situation for you, not many landlord accept crowd in their properties. May God help you 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by frozen70(f): 2:13pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
wasuka14: You know what you just have to seat your wife down and ask her what's in her mind when she approves of her sister coming with the children to leave with you guys in that small apartment that is not even large enough for your immediate family Whatever her excuse, give her 3 days to ask them to leave If after that three days she has not left, then one night, seat both of them down and tell her twins that you and your wife have discussed that she will be leaving because it's too heavy for you alone Then tell her you will appreciate she gets another place to go with her children in three days time and you can still support her with whatever you can lay your hands on Aft that just stand up and leave because your statement doesn't require much replies If after the three days she didn't leave, just relocate permanently to your shop till the house is conducive for you to return If everything gets settled Let your wife start some thing doing, if she can't trade let her go on for teaching, let her start contributing from their even if it's cooking gas and electric bills Most people who add to family burden don't work so they don't feel what you that provides for the family feels As bad as the economy is, don't allow people to put their pressure on you If you don't get your wife busy, she will not know that the shoes you are wearing is painful 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Belteshazzar1: 8:27pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
ahnie:This one got me laughing |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by voidUpdate(m): 8:58pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Tell them both to get jobs in the next 30 days. Start something, buy and sell wigs, teach at a nearby school, rent a sewing machine.. Anything they like, but in the next 30 days else, they'll exhaust your money and you'll all starve to death. It's logically that simple. If the sister feels uncomfortable with that, she can seek to inconvenience another relative. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by gift2xl: 9:12pm On Oct 19, 2022 |
Righteousness2: |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by wasuka14(m): 9:48am On Oct 22, 2022 |
ahnie: Thanks |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by wasuka14(m): 9:54am On Oct 22, 2022 |
voidUpdate: Very good brother. This is our initial discussion. It can't just work for 2 of them to be sleeping at home with there kids and expect food frm a single son of man. 2 of them at different time in the last 10yrs have engaged in different petty trading of buying and selling. But always eat up the business fund and sit back home. Like that. Bro the wahala is big. May God save son of man frm wrong marriage sometimes 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Chnbanc: 10:40am On Oct 22, 2022 |
Righteousness2:man of God dey laugh for serious family matter. No advice? But if na sexual immoralities U go begin quote and mention Bible verses 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by 4ward4: 10:46am On Oct 22, 2022 |
wasuka14: No go kill your self with worries Mr man.. Life is simple but we make it complicated, once you die of a heart attack or too much stressing of ur livers and organs with worries all those people will move on and life continues. Here is your solution, call a meeting explaining to them why they have to do something and lessen the bondage on you. Trust me they won't understand, if it is to look for money and let they start a business for her throw that suggestion and who knows she might reach out to her late husband's people and something good might come out. Like I said Earlier both sisters won't understand when u call the meeting but stand by your decision and with the given time frame. Knowing they are leaving soon will put ur mind and organs at rest. You also should do a contribution to support.. If I may ask when last did you go for medicals ,spending such amount in a day. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by spiralwedge(m): 2:03pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
Op, just travel for a month and switch off your phone. when you reach there, find someone's phone to tell her your phone spoilt. after a month, try find out how they have been coping and do the needful 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Starz825(m): 8:09pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL:You no know dey see the English....*Demise...the woman husband don die na why she pack come |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Starz825(m): 8:10pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
Chnbanc:Marine spirit dey fight pastor |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by browndre: 9:04pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
Are they lookalike? If you know you know |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by mastermaestro(m): 10:41pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
DAENNINGA: Please don't compare artisans, technicians and craftsmen to those white collar suffering-and-smiling salary earners who conceal their poverty under the cover of suit and tie. You see the former that I mentioned, they make far more money than your typical office models. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Chnbanc: 12:40am On Oct 23, 2022 |
Starz825:life no balance!! |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by DAENNINGA(m): 1:08pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
mastermaestro: I would have no doubt if someone makes more money than what he claims. I am just curious that how could someone who makes so much money live in a one bedroom apartment with four kids and a wife? A month of his earning would be sufficient to rent a far better apartment. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Nobody: 3:09pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
wasuka14: Drive them away yourself and why the hell is your wife and her sister not working?. I despise people who don't work and avoid them at all cost. They are leeches! 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Nobody: 3:13pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
eastgates1: I am married and nobody can try that shit with me. My mother in law dares not move into my house without my express permission. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Nobody: 3:14pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
Weirdcamila: Why can't the lazy wife get a job for herself? Is she brain dead?. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by eastgates1: 3:16pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
Skyview01:you and i can but the op cant, thats why i gave him options. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by AyobamiIsaac12: 8:23pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
wasuka14:You didn't give enough details for an adviser to know how he/she will he able to help? Why are they no longer staying in the house they were living before her husband died? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by IfGodbeforus(m): 8:39pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
Skyview01:Nlfpmod |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 23, 2022 |
IfGodbeforus: Are you ok? |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by rexfada(m): 5:45am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Oga manage to rent a single room(face me I face you kind of house) in an affordable environment for your inlaw and her kids and have rest of mind. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Slynation(m): 8:54am On Oct 24, 2022 |
I have been staring at this topic in quagmire for long...I don't even know what to say because I can't even imagine myself in such scenario, God's knows I might have ran away from both my wife, kids and every other person, but (n'am gberede ke jia mara dike) @Wasuka14... you just have to reach out to your in-laws, everybody must contribute to the welfare of those kids and there daughter, underline the word MUST, perhaps her brothers, uncles, elders etc, a fundraising needs to be raised asap to get them an apartment to start with while they work towards looking for any means to attain a sufficient standard of living... |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Mopolchi: 8:56am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Send her packing |
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