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Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Obaaderemi2: 11:13am On Jan 04, 2023 |
jedisco:Oyinbo is worse if you meet the wrong one. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Romanoff(f): 11:18am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Tenrack: Abi o. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Obaaderemi2: 11:24am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Many of such men don't spend enough time with their children. They're not really in their children's lives from the beginning. Nigerian fathers here have the same problem then turn around to complain when the children draw closer to their mothers. I understand your wife disrespecting you but your kids, no. It shows you allowed a disconnection from the beginning. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by yinkeys(m): 11:47am On Jan 04, 2023 |
IngrateWifeKids:50 cent complained of this too Entitled mentality It’s the society over there that’s breeding that |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by descartes400: 11:50am On Jan 04, 2023 |
Ahmed0336: They are in the 1% the OP is talking about! |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Thermodynamics(m): 12:35pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Romanoff:I don't care, it's either I kill the bitch and escape to Nigeria, or I kill the bitch and kill myself. After I don carry one hopeless fufu eating Nigerian girl from a poor family come UK she go come de form femininst on top my head, send me out of my house and still de collect my money join. I go murder her and accept whatever the consequences is. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by EdmundDantes(m): 12:55pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
otipoju: Just had to come from incognito mode to like this reply. I don't understand what was so complicated with your initial post that would warrant all those questions. People just like bringing up issues based on their personal bias. 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by EdmundDantes(m): 12:57pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
otipoju: Just had to come from incognito mode to like this reply. I don't understand what was so complicated with your initial post that would warrant all those questions. People just like bringing up issues based on their personal bias. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by BigYash: 1:32pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
OmoIjebuOde:Op didn't say you shouldn't go,but I think he is telling you to prepare your mind ahead,cux them fit turn you to slave over there.. Get backup plans,e get why.. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by anyilalaz: 1:50pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
VeryWickedSimp: Lucky you. She belongs to the 1% the OP mentioned. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by bdon123(m): 1:55pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
IngrateWifeKids:Its somehow tru sha, Nigerian women for uk don spoil.Beta u carry ur gud wife frm here go there....bt remember even some gud wife are badly influenced. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Oyiboman69: 2:33pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
OmoIjebuOde:it I'd good you find out yourself.... |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by dallasi: 2:34pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee: in the UK, the societal pecking order is children first then women then pets (cats and dogs) before men. Care for an animal than human beings? That is the highest level of insanity fa |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Crystalom5: 2:58pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee:what exactly is the system protecting the children and women from? The child the man gave birth equally as the woman or the woman the man love as much as he thought the woman loved him? How exactly does a child need protection from his own father? And why do you think you need protection from the man you agreed to marry but such a man needs no protection from you? Who exactly is protecting the men? The same UK that is functional is filled with more broken homes than this poor country we are in. Government should never have had a hand in marriage or family and at best, it should have remained open to all parties. Just as a woman loves her kids, so does the average man. The UK system is nothing to write home about. There's no protection there, it is instead a catalysts for broken homes. Today, the system is causing more broken homes, a few years from now, men will adapt and stop marrying altogether. It's already even happening, except for the traditional men. So your perfect system of protection is actually the monster destroying the marriage institution. Get ready, the system will grow even colder than it is now. More and more people will talk less to each other than ever before. God, if you can imagine |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Crystalom5: 3:02pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Obaaderemi2:lolz. Some of you think everyone will be able to spend enough time with their family without them starving the very next day or been thrown out of school. We've seen men in rain and sunshine trying to ensure that you have a warm roof over your head before your mother thinks of loving you. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by frozen70(f): 3:18pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
IngrateWifeKids: Some men have pride amd ego and because of that they can't cope with the British system of marriage So anyone that can't stand their system should just come back and become the traditional man that he dires to be |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by ibkayee(f): 3:43pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Crystalom5:Well the OP implied that your kids being ‘selfish’ and ‘self centred’ is enough reason to stop supporting them financially. What’s wrong with a legal system in place that makes sure a parent is paying a certain amount towards the maintenance of their own child? The age limit is 16 and under or 20 if you’re still in education. You can’t get kicked out the house unless some kind of court order is obtained which is gotten through due process, depending on circumstances and severity. They take things like the housing needs and financial state of the people in question into consideration, what the issue is between those involved and other important bits of criteria. It’s not Naija where you can pay one hungry policeman to kick someone out without fair hearing. Or get rabid family members to chase someone out of somewhere they have genuine rights to just because So what exactly about this is destroying the institution of marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Crystalom5: 3:47pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee:lolz. You can talk all you want. But reality is saying otherwise. And that reality is that fewer men are willing to go into marriage. The system already rubbed the joy off it. 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by ibkayee(f): 3:50pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Crystalom5:Any examples of this other ‘reality?’ Genuinely curious Not the men on Nairaland sha, I’ve never seen a group of people so desperate to get married 2 Likes |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by oke48(m): 5:05pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
IngrateWifeKids: Still better than having them in Nigeria |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by sisisioge: 5:08pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
The ones who manage to live peacefully with their wives are men who understand that: 1. They are nolonger in Nigeria where women and children's rights are not protected. If you do as little as hit your child anyhow, you will see anyhow let alone you turn your wife into a punching bag. Your own don be be that. 2. Abroad is not like naija where women condone abuse in marriages because they have no where to go and no way of supporting their kids. Lol, the govt will help in that area so they have no reason to condone abuse. 3. Women can make just as much money as men can make. So why wont you both treat each other with respect? 4. House chores are division of labour tasks o...if you leave them to her alone, she would soon burnout and turn against you. You want peace, you take on your share as there is no house mailed unless una get money wella. 5. You cant cheat like every other man does in naija and get away with it, she catches you once, you leave no ni. No much story. So respect is reciprocal o....if you want peace, give peace, but most importantly, ensure you marry good people who understand fairness. Na so one uncle dey complain say women no get promise, say him relocate family reach here finish o, one small fight happen and he slap madam. Na so madam lock him cloth dey chant say "you think say na as you dey beat me for naija e go dey happen for here?" Bro come dey vex say she don change |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by yinkeys(m): 5:24pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
sisisioge:Don’t worry soon single women will be begging for marriage globally The entitlement mentality is sickening Even 50 cent complained of this |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by sisisioge: 5:34pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
yinkeys: Your logic is funny. Havent you been reading that being single and being a mother pays women abroad more than being married? All they need is to find their ways abroad and sleep with donors freely, marry for 2mins or buy sperm. It's so simple o....you need to see the ratio of single women to married ones to know that marriage has lost its allure. Na here you go see women in their 60s dating freely and happily. You no no anything. If you want peace, you give peace is logical enough. Dont be a victim with your old naija husband mentality or just stay in your naija jejely. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by yinkeys(m): 5:43pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by sisisioge: 6:03pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
yinkeys: Oya move go meet them make them feed you forever....I will look out for your own thread too. No be kukuma your fault, na the same cloth them carry sew you and the rest of the unfortunate lot. You think your only contribution to planet earth is being born with a di.ck. No wonder you get rudely shocked to reality once you leave naija. Life is about giving and taking, not taking all the time. Shouldn't you know this? Meanwhile, I will stop responding to you, let the tales of your fellow comrades keep reminding you |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Kobojunkie: 6:26pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
jimmychang:Clearly, since Cameroonians, Ghanaians, Mexicans, Italians, Russians, English ... all married to Nigerian women aren't complaining, it means the problem isn't Nigerian women but likely from the men always whining about them. 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by yinkeys(m): 6:29pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
sisisioge:You are writing rubbish I know how things are over there Nobody wants a liability with entitled mentality in the end |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by jimmychang: 6:40pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol,How many of them got married to Nigerian women not even up to 0.5 so it doesn't count. Example is that woman called korra Obidi wey dem name a whole lounge after her pussy. Majority of Nigerian women are married to Nigerian men so that is what counts. |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Kobojunkie: 6:47pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
jimmychang:Again, clearly, since Cameroonians, Ghanaians, Mexicans, Italians, Russians, English ... all married to Nigerian women aren't complaining, it means the problem isn't Nigerian women but likely from the men always whining about them. Korra's is an example of divorce which happens to any and everyone out there. No one likes divorce at all even though in and of itself it ain't evil. So, when Nigerian men whine and complain about how the world is wrong and Nigerian women are to blame for it, then be sure, the problem is most definitely with the men and not the women. 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by 1Sharon(f): 7:06pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Another one. OP where are you right now? Have you ever left Nigeria? If you haven't just STFU!! |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by Kobojunkie: 7:09pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
leisuretym:So, where does benefit money come from? Or you have never lived abroad at all? 1 Like |
Re: Having A Nigerian Wife And Kids In The UK Is Worse Than Slavery by 1Sharon(f): 7:10pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
otipoju: Was your 'uncle' living with his wife while she was on benefits?? And was he aware of what she was doing?? If he was , your 'uncle' and his wife will go to jail for scamming the UK government if they are caught. |
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