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gard9ner:
My dear take chill and assess yourself first before removing the dirt in your brother’s eye, you’re the one who needs the mental help more, I know you nau….

Dude only raised a valid concern which the society needs to even thoroughly address, this is all your fish brain can spawn?

He only raised one point. One. The same regurgitated, over-emphasised, over-analysed, beaten, overflogged, over-assessed point. Far be it from the male gender to discuss women issues and not delve into our sexuality (female liberation).


God forbid they fight for women's rights to education or politics or be even against FGM and child marriages.

doggedfighter:
This is the kind of female hatred that breeds serial killing and other forms of crime against women.





Get help !

I dated your type once, she ended up becoming a FEMINIST after I turned down her discussion of marriage and said she could never love again. She went all out war on me, telling lies to my friends and of how I hate women and treat them as trash, this lady became dangerously bitter that I had to change certain things, like the route I use at night and door locks.

It’s emotionally vulnerable women like you who should get help, you can do hurtful things out of present emotions without thinking of consequences. Yes, you because you’re attacking op without logical derivation or synthesising the information, it’s all based on your emotions, all because he aired a socially valid concern. Tuahh

It's the Joblessness.
Nairaland lowlifes with blocked rectum.
The only conversation that converges neanderthal.
Hate women on a faceless forum if it helps you feel better offline. Who cares?

Would it stop the Government from fvcking you HARD sideways into drynesS for the next 8years?. poor sissy!

Oya na,Put your phone down werey and go hate a woman OFFLINE

seanwilliam:
no right thinking man will settle for a junkie like you ,
No wonder your ex dumped you, I’m so happy for him , cos he knew how miserable he’will become if he took the risk .
See how you attacked his mom, ewure

Sorry for breaking this to you, but you sound emotional in this post. Very emotional.

KlausMichaelson:
Honestly this has been bothering me for a while now. And I think that this is what is referred to as Misogyny
.
I hate the to hear or see the opinion of a female gender cos most times if not all the time, it doesn't make sense. And this realization could make me end up angry for the rest of that day. Whenever I apply logic to actually understand why they make such opinion, I find out that it's always out of emotion and not logic. They also always act before thinking (even when they think, their opinion still doesn't make sense). This is applied to all of them. None is excluded.

A typical example is the Nekede school girl who made a video saying it's the god of my pussy

I just see them as though they have no thinking faculty that is founded on logic. From the posts on social media, Whatsapp and everything. When you look at the motive and the reasoning behind it you will understand that the female gender has this shallow mindset. This is totally different from the male gender, exception to a very few. Majority of the male gender tend to have logical opinions about something.

Maybe I am too much of an observer, I really do not know. Or maybe because I am very sensitive. Sometimes I think to myself that if not that I was born by a woman, I don't see how useful they are, cos they are irritating when it comes to being logical. Try and engage them in a very intricate discussion, you will understand what I mean. The best they can do to appear intelligent is to be good at subjects in school which is always limited to the book they carry around in their school bags. And this is not intelligence.

Now my worry is that, it's affecting the way I act towards them. The worst punishment I can do to myself is to try withstand an opinion from them during arguments. That's the worst. This is giving me a second thought on whether to get married or not, as a matter of seriousness. Cos this is mentally draining to live with people like that for the rest of one's life.

It's really worrisome. Am I the only one?

Appologies if you are not ok with this. But it's just an observation I have come to learn so far so good about that gender.

Modified
One other thing I'd like to point out is that, it's not every male gender that your butts or your body (you shamelessly post on every social media page) will trigger some sort of unnecessary obsession with you. Until then, your weapon is just like a toy gun, absolutely useless. And you are probably useless if you have no logical thinking faculty.

Kindly tell God to wipe them from the earth, since you feel so irritated about them.

pocohantas:
Lol. Your sister enter N50 okada go meet her bf, you say na true love. I enter plane, you say hookup. Dude, understand that all humans are not equal. There are men and there are MEN.

What you typed is the same... just capital letters and small letters .
Bye

gard9ner:
My brother, honestly you’re an original, as you can see I created this account now just to comment, I deactivated my account last year but I couldn’t resist your discussion.

Your topic is deeper than most people realise, I’ve so much I want to pour out but let me hold my peace. Just know you’re not alone and nothing is wrong with you. I’ve so many stories too as I practically grew up surrounded and still surrounded by woman. Bro, a lot of people will take it personal if I share my many stories but I just want to tell you that God almighty created them for a purpose, I’ve read some very beautiful comments here, including the guy that buttressed how only emotional people can succeed in health and child care, that was insightful.

Trust me when I say they are full of it, I lost some amount of money I don’t want to mention because of my own mother! In another example I lost a court case with my tenet who owes me over half a million because my mom went behind me to beg the tenant who was already losing the case and even dashed the simp some money to park out, his lawyer took advantage of my mom, recorded her and used her “good intention” against me with other lies, I was so mad that I almost told her to leave my house. I’m sure that someone will call it emotional intelligence from her but you haven’t heard the full story and it isn’t as it seems. Back in school I dated a girl who all her problem was how to pierce her body and draw tattoos which I never argued, I told her it will look great on her, she smiled and gave me whatever I asked for, but alas before she graduated she was in regrets as the inks are permanent. I can go on and on but the truth is come hell come high water we must live with them; so bro, do what you can, don’t hate them just live peaceably with them by agreeing to any arguments they pose as long as it doesn’t affect your goals in life. Smile and tell them that they are doing well when it’s too late and they run to you crying be a shoulder to lean on without saying much, this is their nature and we must learn to let grow with it (I mean find our own unique way to deal or adapt with them).

Thanks for your well thought-out advice. It is duly noted. The only problem here is that,
our temperaments exudes itself when a lot of things are tolerated. I personally am a no-nonsense-person who could barely have the same tolerance as you. This is where I know too well that I haven't stretched out (tolerance).

Practically, I really have to adapt with them since I need to keep HATE away from me. Obviously from all the responses here, I can see that they are really who they are, and there is absolutely nothing I can do about that. This is the sad part of it.

Dumb muthaf**ckers who are with big flaws , some grew up in damage homes be thinking nonsense while forming intellectuals . You're not perfect but want a perfect partner . Loneliness and feeling unloved would kill some of y'all than poverty . Dim witted hypocrites

One thing I've learned from this thread is many Nairaland males need to change their social circle. They hang out with bimbos and then use that brush to paint all of womanhood. If you can't have an intelligent conversation with any woman around you, then check yourself and ask yourself why you attract those sort.

Being emotional has its own advantage and downside too, most problem can actually be solved by emotions such as empathy and sympathy which a logical person may not have. This over hyped logical thinking is the reason why Russia and Ukraine are still at it, it's the reason most war are being fought and most criminals are men, it's the reason why men are poligamous in nature and most motor accidents are caused by men. The Almighty God that created women to be emotional in His infinite wisdom knows there is a need for balance. Logic or emotional is not the best way to assess human character traits, there are many tools already created for that, you can start with Tim Lahayes book, "Why you act the way you do" Palmistry is another hobby which I enjoy and it will give you insight into character traits and it's on the net, you will realise there are diverse human being.
I was even shocked to read your write-up because I find many men foolish or dumb and I'm sure most women do, what you call emotion is just another way of seeing the same situation and it's mostly right because the spiritual controls the physical, that argument that sound foolish may be coming from a higher intelligence because God has found women more able to listen to him than men thus divine information can be passed down through her rather than someone who only react to the physical. As for all those slay queens and little girls acting up, those ones are still growing and their action is not a yardstick for measuring all women. If women are not emotional many will abandon their children and seek other husband's imagine what society we will have, it's the father that does that so that even when they are there they may not care for their children where as the mothers always care in most cases.

Sagamite:
Where is Gerrard59 and pansophist to come and see this thread?

Everything you said should be true, but not everything truthful should be said. Voltaire

Women this, women that, yen yen yen. All they do is whine all day about women. I love putting people like the OP and his ilk in their place offline, not on a faceless forum where agama lizards pretend to be crocodiles.

@OP, I understand your frustration.
Your problem is you are trying to make sense of a woman's behaviour with logic....you will get more frustrated if remain on this route.
In logic you are looking for validity, pattern, rules, conformity and principles...all which are abstract strict man made standards.

The only way to understand women as a man is if you are equipped with higher intelligence and wisdom.
When you look at women from the point of intelligence; you will be looking for intuition, ability, environment,uniqueness,mind, cause, anatomy, experience, hormones e.t.c ....all of which are key complex building blocks that requires the mastery of an intelligent male with wisdom to coordinate these elements into a harmonious efficient relationship or otherwise.

BTW, you are guilty of generalisation in your post. You also made it worse with polarization when you tried to defend the generalisation.

Autobot05:
What you typed is the same... just capital letters and small letters .
Bye

Pray for grace my dear. Pray it for your female family members. It is a woman like them that is married to Mark Zuckerberg. It is not hookup, it is being with a man who understands his role and allows you bask in your womanness.

Trekking under hot sun and drinking fanyogo doesn’t mean it is true love. True love dey enter Benz and PJ too. True love goes to the Maldives. No, they are not the same. Pray for Grace!

cumoverna:
One of my ex, recently told me she has repented, I was like this is good o, let's meet and talk about us, she said Jesus is her husband. I should not invite her again.

Some weeks later

One day she was talking to me about a wig or weavon she will like to buy .

I just ignored her.

Is Jesus not her husband again?

Ishilove:
One thing I've learned from this thread is many Nairaland males need to change their social circle. They hang out with bimbos and then use that brush to paint all of womanhood. If you can't have an intelligent conversation with any woman around you, then check yourself and ask yourself why you attract those sort.

i guess too many guys want to eat their cake and have iut

you want a hot sex pot who will fk your brains out
unfortunately the chicks like that - all most of them know really is how to look fine and how to fk

basically a female version of the jock stereotype

Help!!!!

Sorry!!!

Keep hating God's creation!!!


Your reward awaits you!!!

KlausMichaelson:
Honestly this has been bothering me for a while now. And I think that this is what is referred to as Misogyny
.
I hate the to hear or see the opinion of a female gender cos most times if not all the time, it doesn't make sense. And this realization could make me end up angry for the rest of that day. Whenever I apply logic to actually understand why they make such opinion, I find out that it's always out of emotion and not logic. They also always act before thinking (even when they think, their opinion still doesn't make sense). This is applied to all of them. None is excluded.

A typical example is the Nekede school girl who made a video saying it's the god of my pussy

I just see them as though they have no thinking faculty that is founded on logic. From the posts on social media, Whatsapp and everything. When you look at the motive and the reasoning behind it you will understand that the female gender has this shallow mindset. This is totally different from the male gender, exception to a very few. Majority of the male gender tend to have logical opinions about something.

Maybe I am too much of an observer, I really do not know. Or maybe because I am very sensitive. Sometimes I think to myself that if not that I was born by a woman, I don't see how useful they are, cos they are irritating when it comes to being logical. Try and engage them in a very intricate discussion, you will understand what I mean. The best they can do to appear intelligent is to be good at subjects in school which is always limited to the book they carry around in their school bags. And this is not intelligence.

Now my worry is that, it's affecting the way I act towards them. The worst punishment I can do to myself is to try withstand an opinion from them during arguments. That's the worst. This is giving me a second thought on whether to get married or not, as a matter of seriousness. Cos this is mentally draining to live with people like that for the rest of one's life.

It's really worrisome. Am I the only one?

Appologies if you are not ok with this. But it's just an observation I have come to learn so far so good about that gender.

Modified
One other thing I'd like to point out is that, it's not every male gender that your butts or your body (you shamelessly post on every social media page) will trigger some sort of unnecessary obsession with you. Until then, your weapon is just like a toy gun, absolutely useless. And you are probably useless if you have no logical thinking faculty.

KlausMichaelson:
Honestly this has been bothering me for a while now. And I think that this is what is referred to as Misogyny
.
I hate the to hear or see the opinion of a female gender cos most times if not all the time, it doesn't make sense. And this realization could make me end up angry for the rest of that day. Whenever I apply logic to actually understand why they make such opinion, I find out that it's always out of emotion and not logic. They also always act before thinking (even when they think, their opinion still doesn't make sense). This is applied to all of them. None is excluded.

A typical example is the Nekede school girl who made a video saying it's the god of my pussy

I just see them as though they have no thinking faculty that is founded on logic. From the posts on social media, Whatsapp and everything. When you look at the motive and the reasoning behind it you will understand that the female gender has this shallow mindset. This is totally different from the male gender, exception to a very few. Majority of the male gender tend to have logical opinions about something.

Maybe I am too much of an observer, I really do not know. Or maybe because I am very sensitive. Sometimes I think to myself that if not that I was born by a woman, I don't see how useful they are, cos they are irritating when it comes to being logical. Try and engage them in a very intricate discussion, you will understand what I mean. The best they can do to appear intelligent is to be good at subjects in school which is always limited to the book they carry around in their school bags. And this is not intelligence.

Now my worry is that, it's affecting the way I act towards them. The worst punishment I can do to myself is to try withstand an opinion from them during arguments. That's the worst. This is giving me a second thought on whether to get married or not, as a matter of seriousness. Cos this is mentally draining to live with people like that for the rest of one's life.

It's really worrisome. Am I the only one?

Appologies if you are not ok with this. But it's just an observation I have come to learn so far so good about that gender.

Modified
One other thing I'd like to point out is that, it's not every male gender that your butts or your body (you shamelessly post on every social media page) will trigger some sort of unnecessary obsession with you. Until then, your weapon is just like a toy gun, absolutely useless. And you are probably useless if you have no logical thinking faculty.

OP, I love this post of yours. You can't imagine what I went through recently with these daughters of Eve. But at the end of the day like some already stated here, it all boils down to learning to accommodate them 'cos if you also think about it logically you wouldn't have been given birth to if your Dad decided to go the same path you are pondering so my guy, consider them as nothing more than a necessary evil, an acquired taste so to speak. Learn to live with them or do what I do most times when they go ballistic...ignore them

Autobot05:
Men are men regardless of color, stop bringing racism into this with your bitterness

No, hunnay.

The same way you see a woman as inferior, dearest, is the same way a white man sees you as inferior to him.

Ishilove:
Women this, women that, yen yen yen. All they do is whine all day about women. I love putting people like the OP and their ilk in their place offline, not on a faceless forum where agama lizards pretend to be crocodiles.

It is always them, sis. Who are the ladies that wants these guys though?

Space booked

KlausMichaelson:
Thanks for your well thought-out advice. It is duly noted. The only problem here is that,
our temperaments exudes itself when a lot of things are tolerated. I personally am a no-nonsense-person who could barely have the same tolerance as you. This is where I know too well that I haven't stretched out (tolerance).

Practically, I really have to adapt with them since I need to keep HATE away from me. Obviously from all the responses here, I can see that they are really who they are, and there is absolutely nothing I can do about that. This is the sad part of it.

Don't try to understand them. Just get what you want from them respectfully and ignore all that bs while holding your cash.

pocohantas:
Pray for grace my dear. Pray it for your female family members. It is a woman like them that is married to Mark Zuckerberg. It is not hookup, it is being with a man who understands his role and allows you bask in your womanness.

Trekking under hot sun and drinking fanyogo doesn’t mean it is true love. True love dey enter Benz and PJ too. True love goes to the Maldives. No, they are not the same. Pray for Grace!

Mark's wife ( Priscilla) is disciplined . She's not a liability like you and your sisters here and she assists mark in every way she can. And he's proud of her

Tell your sisters to stop being liabilities and learn to bring something to the table so y'all wont depend on men to do what your fathers failed to do for y'all

I never stated that love should be associated with hardship and suffering .. it's your money/ easy life obsessed mind that thought of it that way

Wont be bad if you buy the Benz or jet and cruise in it with your guy. True Wealth is built it doesnt happen overnight

Princessdainty:
It's the Joblessness.
Nairaland lowlifes with blocked rectum.
The only conversation that converges neanderthal.
Hate women on a faceless forum if it helps you feel better offline. Who cares?

Would it stop the Government from fvcking you HARD sideways into drynesS for the next 8years?. poor sissy!

Oya na,Put your phone down werey and go hate a woman OFFLINE

I hate to break it to you princess but many women have paid the price OFFLINE. I used to feel women are worthless too, until I witnessed the pain of childbirth (which is the only valid sword you can wave before me in this context).

Autobot05:
Mark's wife ( Priscilla) is disciplined . She's not a liability and she assists mark in every way she can. And he's proud of her

Tell your sisters to stop being liabilities and learn to bring something to the table so y'all wont depend on men to do what your fathers failed to do for y'all

I never stated that love should be associated with hardship and suffering .. it's your money/ easy life obsessed mind that thought of it that way

Wont be bad if you buy the Benz or jet and cruise in it with your guy. True Wealth is built it doesnt happen overnight

No, he bought it and I am cruising it. That is how it should be.

CRY!

Ishilove:
Women this, women that, yen yen yen. All they do is whine all day about women. I love putting people like the OP and their ilk in their place offline, not on a faceless forum where agama lizards pretend to be crocodiles.

Dm asap

gard9ner:
My brother, honestly you’re an original, as you can see I created this account now just to comment, I deactivated my account last year but I couldn’t resist your discussion.

Your topic is deeper than most people realise, I’ve so much I want to pour out but let me hold my peace. Just know you’re not alone and nothing is wrong with you. I’ve so many stories too as I practically grew up surrounded and still surrounded by woman. Bro, a lot of people will take it personal if I share my many stories but I just want to tell you that God almighty created them for a purpose, I’ve read some very beautiful comments here, including the guy that buttressed how only emotional people can succeed in health and child care, that was insightful.

Trust me when I say they are full of it, I lost some amount of money I don’t want to mention because of my own mother! In another example I lost a court case with my tenant who owes me over half a million because my mom went behind me to beg the tenant who was already losing the case and even dashed the simp some money to park out, his lawyer took advantage of my mom, recorded her and used her “good intention” against me with other lies, I was so mad that I almost told her to leave my house. I’m sure that someone will call it emotional intelligence from her but you haven’t heard the full story and it isn’t as it seems. Back in school I dated a girl who all her problem was how to pierce her body and draw tattoos which I never argued, I told her it will look great on her, she smiled and gave me whatever I asked for, but alas before she graduated she was in regrets as the inks are permanent. I can go on and on but the truth is come hell come high water we must live with them; so bro, do what you can, don’t hate them just live peaceably with them by agreeing to any arguments they pose as long as it doesn’t affect your goals in life. Smile and tell them that they are doing well when it’s too late and they run to you crying be a shoulder to lean on without saying much, this is their nature and we must learn to grow with it (I mean find our own unique way to deal or adapt with them).

So because your mum didn't allow that your tenant to kill you after you must have won the case you think she doesn't have any grey matter between her ears. I'm sure if I interviewed the poor woman she will have very compelling reason why she did all that, so you lost money, what if you lost your life or destiny, the white man said behind every successful man there is a woman and research has discovered that most billionaires became one after marriage unless you have a special talent, go figure. That your former girlfriend was just being a child, men are not born grown up they also make mistakes and act their age.

Sixfeetbelle:
Asides from promiscuity, what else have you advised women on?

I shy away from advising ladies.. once their mind is made up, forget plenty talk.
I don't want to be having enemies for no just reason.

Everyone, men and women alike, has both areas of strength and areas of weakness, even you, KlausMichaelson.
It pays well to focus on the areas of strength. Women and ladies are strong in many areas. They might not be great in logic according to your subjective observation, but have tried their great multitasking skills, or their detailed views on issues, or their tenacity in getting things done. Women are great creatures wonderfully made by God to complement the men. The world would have been incomplete and non-functional without them.
Please note that there are also millions of irrational men. There millions of highly intelligent women, great leaders and captains of industry, all over the world, even in Nigeria here.
Try and be fair and avoid hasty generalization.

pocohantas:
No, he bought it and I am cruising it. That is how it should be.

CRY!

Buy yours and let him have his so you both can have choice of switching cars

Cry ?? far from that ... I'd never settle for less
I rather go on my daily business , get my money and jet around alone than with liabilities like you


That's why y'all are becoming evening newspapers a d crying everywhere online and offline

GloriousGbola:
i guess too many guys want to eat their cake and have iut

you want a hot sex pot who will fk your brains out
unfortunately the chicks like that - all most of them know really is how to look fine and how to fk

basically a female version of the jock stereotype

I couldn't have said it better

MorningSir:
This is the reason why you should love them. The big mistake is taking their words and actions too seriously. Men built the world and not the other way around, there’s a reason for this…

The moment you start relating with women and their behavior like your fellow man you’ll begin to get angry and it’ll lead to hate but if you just see them for who they are you’ll just love them more. There’s a very thin line between love and hate!

*White/Asian men built the world.

Thank you very much.