myami:
at least you are enjoying free sex

Adexgentle005:
Because they have the money. Money makes the world go round. That’s what I’m saying!

koladata:
this tomato analyses no go bro, i spent 3mins trying to relate then i dropped it

Kobojunkie:
1. The most probable reason your family can't afford this and that has mostly to do with decisions you made in marriage. So, it isn't marriage that is the issue but you and your wife. Stop blaming marriage for your choices abeg!

TheFreshVanilla:
You've got to grind a way to make your own money bro. Nothing good comes easy.

Adexgentle005:
■ You and I know it’s rare to see a woman who’s going to stand by you in times of tribulation.
■ I have been doing very well before I met her. All I’m just saying is that there is nothing special about marriage, if you are not financially stable don’t get married. When life start to happen you’d know why money is important!

seanwilliam:
God bless you . This shows that you’re a responsible man
Not all men are lucky to have women that ‘support’ financially, even if she does, you should not rely on that 100% .
Hmm. . But ehn 100k in two months as a married man is very fair o.


It’s far more easier to save as a single man.

How? When you’re single, you only spend what you want , you can ignore billings you’re not comfortable with , no one can compel u except you’re generous or a simp. infact you can decide to be extremely thrifty , and it’s more easier to adjust and adapt to any situation. You can decide to suspend morning and afternoon food, you can decide not to sub to cable, you can decide to even sleep if you have little change in your account. It’s easier to take risk and you’re open to different opportunities.

But when you’re married, it’s impossible to do all that. No matter how wicked you are , you can’t watch your own wife and kids go hungry , 90% of time , you’ll have to consider your family before taking any decisions.
Except you’re financial buoyant , you can’t just buy any cloths, shoes, for yourself. You can’t go to expensive restaurant without thinking about what to give your family the next day .


If you have money in your acct, you’ll still be scared , 70% of time you’ll be experiencing heart palpitations, you’ll not want them to lack.

Technically as a man, when you marry, you’ve given up your freedom and comfort for others.









That’s why , a man needs to be smart and ‘prayerful’ while choosing life partner , not all women worth these sacrifices.

seanwilliam:
God bless you . This shows that you’re a responsible man
Not all men are lucky to have women that ‘support’ financially, even if she does, you should not rely on that 100% .
Hmm. . But ehn 100k in two months as a married man is very fair o.


It’s far more easier to save as a single man.

How? When you’re single, you only spend what you want , you can ignore billings you’re not comfortable with , no one can compel u except you’re generous or a simp. infact you can decide to be extremely thrifty , and it’s more easier to adjust and adapt to any situation. You can decide to suspend morning and afternoon food, you can decide not to sub to cable, you can decide to even sleep if you have little change in your account. It’s easier to take risk and you’re open to different opportunities.

But when you’re married, it’s impossible to do all that. No matter how wicked you are , you can’t watch your own wife and kids go hungry , 90% of time , you’ll have to consider your family before taking any decisions.
Except you’re financial buoyant , you can’t just buy any cloths, shoes, for yourself. You can’t go to expensive restaurant without thinking about what to give your family the next day .


If you have money in your acct, you’ll still be scared , 70% of time you’ll be experiencing heart palpitations, you’ll not want them to lack.

Technically as a man, when you marry, you’ve given up your freedom and comfort for others.









That’s why , a man needs to be smart and ‘prayerful’ while choosing life partner , not all women worth these sacrifices.

Adexgentle005:
free sex is an understatement my brother. Free sex is at the expenses of something. It’s not really a free sex afterall.

Kobojunkie:
1. Now you want to put the blame your wife for your own mistakes?

2. You were financially stable as a single person responsible only for yourself does not mean you are capable of taking responsibility of more people. Why una no dey like reason these things properly for Pete's sake. If your wife does not equally bring in income that compares to yours in the marriage, you are both going to be in difficult straits. This is commonsense!

Stop blaming marriage for your ridiculous decisions as individuals in marriage.

Rokiat:
Even if you don’t believe in marriage you still hav to be a responsible individual unless uselessness is your area.

Adexgentle005:
😏■ What is actually sweet about marriage?
■ What ridiculous decisions are you talking about?
■ Ridiculous decision is that I got married or what?
■ I bet you are not even in a relationship talk more of thinking of getting married. You don’t know shit bro.

Adexgentle005:
My brother I couldn’t believe I’ve spent 100k in just two months. Money for this, money for that. It’s really crazy out there! Sometimes I think about that too, is it not better to be single and have peace of mind?

Acidosis:


Are you kidding? 100k in two months and you're complaining? Guy! 😃

Vinnie2000:


Lols..

Everyone has their Spending Pattern na.

Paramount01:




Just thinking the same, you pay Bills tired, nothing special,I am even thinking. Why I am not still single

emmaodet:




Una never chin chin chin.
For this plantation, una die well

Acidosis:


Are you kidding? 100k in two months and you're complaining? Guy! 😃

Acidosis:


Are you kidding? 100k in two months and you're complaining? Guy! 😃

Acidosis:


Yes, definitely. I'm definitely not comparing him or his spending pattern with anyone... But really, 100k in 2 months is 50k in one month.

50k will never be too much for a married anywhere in the current day Nigeria. Okada men spend more. The key word there is "current day Nigeria." By the time you buy cooking gas, pay bills (electricity, waste, security, and data), you're already going over 30k in one month so I'm wondering how he feeds his family.

Acidosis:


Yes, definitely. I'm definitely not comparing him or his spending pattern with anyone... But really, 100k in 2 months is 50k in one month.

50k will never be too much for a married anywhere in the current day Nigeria. Okada men spend more. The key word there is "current day Nigeria." By the time you buy cooking gas, pay bills (electricity, waste, security, and data), you're already going over 30k in one month so I'm wondering how he feeds his family.

Kobojunkie:
1. Outside of hypogamy, marriage is not what you describe. It is instead a partnership that both individuals--- husband and wife --- are equally able to benefit from hence the saying "two heads are better than one".

2. From your statements so far, it seems you what you have is a hypogamous relationship, right?

3. Marriage is not the ridiculous decision at all.

4. Not everyone is in the same sort of marriage that you have chosen for yourself.

Adexgentle005:
■ Not everyone is in the same sort of marriage that I have chosen because they have plenty of money and that’s what I’m saying.
■Responsibilities to them is nothing because the money is available. And that’s exactly my point,
■ financial stability is the bedrock of a healthy marriage. Take money out and see the marriage crumbles!

Adexgentle005:
Basic spending like gas money and other bills excluded. Not to talk of house rent and the rest!

Kobojunkie:
Aren't these some of the same bills you paid when you were single and financially OK, according to you. So what changed?

Kobojunkie:
1. Who are the "they" that have plenty of money?.

2. You are still lying to yourself! You don't want to accept that the reason your marriage is the way it seems to you has primarily to do with the fact that you chose to strangle yourself with the rope called hypogamy, simple.

3. That maybe the picture for your marriage and this primarily because of choices you made in yours but it isn't the case for every marriage out there.

Adexgentle005:
■ I have kids. That changed!

Adexgentle005:
■ Tell me what’s so special in marriage?
■ Is it the free sex or what? What are you even justifying??