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Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by yrhuhfy113: 2:40pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Queendera: the mosque head in my childhood area had this kind of issue, one day it was exposed that the wife of the alfa or imam converted to traditional worship and stopped going to mosque upon inquiry, we found out that the man has been sleeping with her daughter whom she had for another man.... she vowed to deal with him, and one year later, the man GUMMED to the young 20 years old girl's body during seexx.... and was carried out that way in the public, everyone was begging the wife because they said she did MAGUN.... See, this may seem like a small matter or manipulation to you, till this guy touches the daughter of that woman and SHE RETALIATES HEAVILY. |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by etrange: 2:43pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Dude, it's not about whether he's innocent to the world or any judge. I said if he himself believes he didn't do anything wrong, would he have continued? When it comes to internal conviction, it's not her word against his. It's only his truth to himself cause he's not trying to convince any third party that he's innocent. Or are you saying not being able to prove his innocence is enough reason to continue the relationship? Besides, she has been saying she can't trust him with her friends and kids even before he proposed to her just a couple of weeks ago, so it's not "... until she started saying...". Why would he propose to a lier? He felt? Let's not describe his feelings for him. It's a sign of bias. Let's stick to whatever he shared with us already. He's here to speak for himself if/when we get it wrong. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by youngsahito(m): 2:48pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
The only reason why I will accept if the lady was rape only if she was a virgin b4 the alleged rape. Some galz will only manipulate guyz by saying only sex after marriage. 1 Like |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Lamanii22(f): 3:12pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
What’s marriage when there’s no truss I suggest you put a stop to the marriage 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Psychopatheko: 3:12pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
She called you a rapist and you guys are still dating, even telling board of directors( her friends) that you raped her loll you still continue well watin concern me |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Oluromantic: 3:20pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Is she a sixteen year old? How old is she by the way? I think that's a good way to start on the channel of advice 1 Like |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Nobody: 3:26pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Sunwa1: You did commit rape. If a lady says stop and you do not, it is no longer consensual and therefore rape. 4 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by DatIgalaDude: 3:28pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Either you have exhibited certain tendencies to make her utter such or she generally has that fear due to certain experience or stories. Oga, you can't marry that lady! Run away now |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Streetmovement(m): 3:31pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking You dey see danger sign you still dey Waka dey go close I pity you in a long run |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by advanceDNA: 3:33pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
etrange: Yes he may have continued the relationship ..if he felt she's just over reacting... besides..proposing now may mean its something he wanted to do initially ....so her mover reacting ddnt chnage his decision to propose........proposing might also be his way of apologizng and showing he doesnt just want sex from her but marriage |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Bukky001(m): 3:38pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: Your post is always making sense |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Kooldon(f): 3:47pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Two grown up adults having intimacy, not once, not twice yet she pulled the VICTIM'S CARD on you. No Marriage wil change her perception. You should be worried about, she threatening you with the rape case now that you are about to withdraw the marriage proposal. What fix? 1 Like |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Kooldon:" Kooldon" and read the story again. 2 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Nobody: 3:53pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Bukky001:Thank you ☺️ |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by BRATISLAVA: 3:54pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: Convinced that person is one of the good girls or has a penis. She/he is on every thread justifying anything men do and claiming the girls are manipulative or evil. Perhaps they want accolades for being very reasonable and agreeable to the majority users. Bet you they'll gender bend soon. 3 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by BRATISLAVA: 3:57pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Kooldon: What do you understand to be the victim card in this story which is a clear admission of rape in any court? A lot of you don't know what consent is, and don't care to know. You think it's about how you've reasoned out what happened without the full picture or any true evaluation. Some of you like BDSM and believe it's normal. You don't know what human rights are. Reason why a lot of Nigerian men are crying racism in foreign prisons. 5 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by LofP(m): 4:03pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
For your own sake, just cool off your advances. Cut off your marriage talk. If she asks why, tell her you need to sort out some issues. The thing is you shouldn't have slept with her. You played into her trap. She told her friend so they could manipulate you. Now she is playing mind games with you so that she has an edge over you in the relationship. Guess what? Destroy the edge. You were wrong to get involved with her. Once a woman stops you, stop. Send her away and find a woman who wants you. But that being said, premarital sex is not right. Everyone is not just human. Some people are extra, and I'm speaking from experience. The best thing to do is to cut her off, avoid her, and get the matter off your mind. Manage the cutting off in such a way that will not offend her. Make it seem like you have a problem, don't let her feel it is because you now understand her game. A lot of church girls pretend and are very manipulative. Be wise. 2 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by etrange: 4:36pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA: You honestly believe he used marriage, a lifetime decision, to apologize to someone who wrongly accused him of rape even though he's convinced of his innocence? You believe he really wants to marry a lier? Apologizing for what exactly? Apologizing for not raping her? Apologizing for being the wrongly accused person? Apologizing for not doing anything wrong? Apologizing for being the victim? Tell me what he's apologizing for. You believe there is a world in which a man would continue his relationship with someone who wrongly accused him of rape and even go ahead propose marriage to her knowing fully well he was wrongly accused. According to your logic, it could be his way of apologizing to his accuser for accusing him wrongly. You certainly don't think this somehow implies he acknowledged he actually did something wrong. However, you strongly believe a girl who forgives her boyfriend for having sex with her without her consent is being dishonest. Don't you see how your logic works against you? The more you imply the girl is being dishonest, the more you make the OP look guilty. Because no one, I repeat, no one would ever want to spend the rest of his with a lier who wrongly accused him of rape. Instead of taking the story as is, you're hell bent on coming up with assumptions that align with your dispositions. He has always wanted to propose, right? She accused him of rape, it didn't change that. She said she doesn't trust him with his own kid, it didn't change that. So why did he create this thread now? In your initial post, you said it was "until she started saying...", but now that we've established she has been saying the same right after the incident, why is he fidgeting now that he's about to lose her for good? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by lebron7(m): 4:41pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle:Omo this nairaland is filled with scary people Like he says with his mouth that she resists everytime sef but her resistance is not enough!! Like Op is a rapist and the girl is weird to have been with someone like him for such a period of time 5 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Kooldon(f): 4:43pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Persephone1:I read and the general house is telling him not to marry her again after she was proposed to and she needed time to accept. Suddenly, you called of the marriage proposal courtesy of Nairaland. Na to activate the rape case totally to protect my womanhood and my friend as a witness |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by lebron7(m): 4:43pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Sunwa1:No wonder Nigerians abroad are always arrested for rape Don't you know what consent is? Fyi, you just confessed to rape here 6 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by advanceDNA: 5:18pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
etrange: Bros...speculations here are based on limited info... if u were following me ..u will realize my speculation hangs on the fact that he waant raped and was only over reacting and decided to say so to make the guy feel bad for fvcking her when she ddnt want to....sębí u know wives do rape accusation thing too these days and they still remain married......So whats ur point.... |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Nobody: 5:21pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:I am convinced a male is behind that account. 4 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by luminouz(m): 5:23pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Queendera:You fuqin nailed it!!! |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by candygist: 5:23pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Sunwa1: That how women react when you never make her cum during sex. The day you Bleep her well, we be say she go weak after sex. Come back and thank me. |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by luminouz(m): 5:26pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Queendera: I'm not sure you be girl... Your redpill radar is too hot. Nice analysis |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by virginchaser(m): 5:30pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Queendera: They don't change. True talk. |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by etrange: 5:33pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
advanceDNA: And no where in your speculations do you think the guy might have forcefully had his way with her even when his write-up alluded to that? You don't think that's a possibility too? She made the guy feel bad for sleeping with her by accusing him of rape to a third party who now see the guy as a rapist, and the guy, who knows he was accused/lied against, decided to apologize by proposing marriage, right? According to you, couples who probably have kids remaining in marriage after one party accuses the other of wrongful sexual acts is a good analogy to explain why a single guy would stick with and propose marriage to a woman who accused of being a rapist despite the weight such accusations carry? It's not possible that's just because there's an element of truth in her words and he knows it? It's just amazing how you're defending the OP more than the OP himself while turning a blind eye to other possibilities simply because you feel the need to align with one gender. 7 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by 4ward4: 5:34pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Once you see a Manipulator, best you run 4x40. She is one and won't change ,but only improve in her skills of manipulations. Unlike men who physically abuse their spouse, women do Manipulate |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Nobody: 5:34pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Kooldon:Again "Kooldon" as your name implies. It's really disheartening you are throwing an unknown lady under the bus for an injustice done against her. You are already judging on speculation. If you had taken time to read the story and understand it you will realize the lady has done no wrong here. She forgave her offender, refused to manipulate him and she's taking her time to give a response to his proposal. Do you think such lady will raise a brow if the guy retract his marriage proposal? Her reluctance speaks volume. She is confused, and she does not trust him. Do you know what it takes a lady to tell a man she doesn't trust him with his kid. Her friends? Very understandable! But his kids? Heaven knows who or what Op is. ! Is he that bad? Please, you may have your reservations for fellow women but don't let that becloud you sense of judgement. 5 Likes |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by Lvgirl: 5:38pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Queendera: Oil dey Ur head |
Re: She Said She Can't Trust Me With Our Daughter If We Marry. by luminouz(m): 5:47pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Glad that a few women saw through those manipulative tactics employed by OP's girl. Once a girl like that knows you respond to any weakness, you either go for broke or stay a mule. Almost all in that category are 'chronically' committed Christians, which is just a farce. |
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