Magnoliaa:


You have.

You literally have from all of your arguments so far on this thread.

Oluromantic:
Is she a sixteen year old? How old is she by the way? I think that's a good way to start on the channel of advice

advanceDNA:
Lol...u have no idea what it mean to be a devil's advocate...

fortyishcouga:


You did commit rape. If a lady says stop and you do not, it is no longer consensual and therefore rape.

advanceDNA:
Read his text naaaa.....he obviously felt bad....he's a man naaaa....all men's eyes will clear after cuming and a couole with a rape accusation in front of him...

seanwilliam:

With the kind of comments I’m reading on here , then I’ll have to agree to that bolded by force ( even though me and you know deepest down your heart that it’s not always true 80% of time).


But we will agree to that to avoid stories that touch as it’s the case for sunwa1.
Tbh I feel bad how they’re calling the guy rapist ! That’s a very sensitive word to use in such context.

Magnoliaa:


Does that not mean that how she made him feel afterwards has overridden how bad he felt from being accused wrongly?


Romantic feelings >> rape accusation, no?

Persephone1:
There are sexually liberated ladies out there who won't give mixed signals, go for them. Don't get implicated with confused ladies.

Op has not defended himself here or acted like an innocent person offline. Too many holes in his story to vindicate him off the rape allegation.

Sunwa1:
She gave me a strong impression that I raped her which I knew I didn't, her subsequent probed that I actually didn't because she came to my place some few days later to ask for a massage on her waist which I obliged and I massaged her with her pants down. If I actually did rape her, will she have trusted me with her unclothedness just few days after the purported rape

Magnoliaa:


Why aren't you even talking about how the man is feeling after such an allegation?


Oh, I forgot. A false rape allegation is no big deal.

advanceDNA:
Perhaps.!!!!

..its all speculation for me...no affirmative statement or conclusion.... remember im just a devil's advocate

seanwilliam:

Cc sunwa1. Please frame this at the back of your mind .
It’s very important

BRATISLAVA:


You know it's not a romantic game. It's why you're sweating about it. You know it was a rape. It's why you tried to pacify her with your "proposal", your cruel way of trying to make what you did right.

Maybe you can live with yourself after you've told yourself that you raped her because you wanted to marry her. She didn't force you to have sex with her, but you forced yourself to.

BDSM speaks clearly.

Autobot05:


Rapist

Sunwa1:
Thank you, I will..


God bless you.

You will frame it and hang it?

I will like to know though, how old is your relationship with your woman?

Sunwa1:
Na your father be rapist

advanceDNA:


And i say again in a different way.....if i was raped...i wont be seen 100 foot near the rapist..

..but if i am still dating the rapist then its my fault the rapist probably thinks things can just go back to normal and then go ahead to propose.....which is why the rapist is now wondering why i am calling him a potential child rapist, yet still comfortable dating him, but expressing subtle doubt.....

to u.... that "subtle doubt" not even an outright refusal is the proof of the trauma and horrifying experience she went through in the hands of her rapist...

To me.....staying the fvck away from him or even arresting him is my own acceptable proof of trauma and horrifying experience

Magnoliaa:


If you're not ready to make definitive statements and you're avoiding any questions, then why don't you want to ACKNOWLEDGE, in the least, other possible reasons and factors that we've been bringing up here??

Why?

Sunwa1:
If I actually did rape her, will she come few days later to ask for a waist massage with her pants down??
She actually did come.

Sunwa1:
She gave me a strong impression that I raped her which I knew I didn't, her subsequent probed that I actually didn't because she came to my place some few days later to ask for a massage on her waist which I obliged and I massaged her with her pants down. If I actually did rape her, will she have trusted me with her unclothedness just few days after the purported rape

Sunwa1:
She's already committed and I know she will definitely accept my proposal

Sunwa1:
I'm here to sincerely seek for help and if I'm asked vital questions I will be honest with my answers, as some of the highlights I get here will also help form my decision

etrange:




If you're saying the rapist probably thought things could go back to normal because the girl came back to him, you might be right. But then that would be you giving me reasons why a guilty person (a rapist) would continue with the relationship. What I asked if why an innocent person (who is not a rapist) would propose marriage to someone who wrongly accused him of rape? Did she apologize to him?

We can talk about one million reasons why a rapist would propose to the victim if she forgave him, and why she shouldn't have gone back to him. But shouldn't we also ask ourselves why an innocent man would want to marry his accuser who hasn't apologized to him? Someone who still believes she was raped.

Sunwa1:
■ My challenge now is that the lady often says she dosent trust me and CANNOT trust me with her female friends, sisters or even our daughter if we get married. I proposed to marry her just a couple of weeks ago, she's is yet to respond but I fear that the impression she has about me being a rapist and that she can't trust me with our daughter might affect our home if we eventually get married.I want her but I just fear that this trust issue will cause a lot of havoc which might negatively impact on our marriage in future.
■ Please, I need your advice especially from the ladies. Should I go ahead with my plans to marry this lady especially considering the fact that I'm a very emotional person. Please, shoot your shots without insults.Will be at the comment session. Thanks.

advanceDNA:
Sigh!!!.
Avoiding u..?? Lol...this is funny...
Why dont i acknowledge?? Reason is one...i am a devil's advocate...always stirring up more discussion...
..two....there is an overwhelming evidence that the lady wants to keep being with and loving her rapist...making it difficult for me to acknowledge ur emotion and female-biased driven conclusion...... infact the op confirmed few line up that the lady wants to marry him..

Autobot05:

Why mention my father .. ? .. if I start with you you nor go like am atall
You went on to bed a woman while she was telling you stop .. but because of your list, lack of self control and the active spirit of fornication in you, you still carry 0n
If she rope you now you'll say she's wicked and all those other crappy bullshit excuses. Be a man And learn to control yourself

Say no to fornication

Sunwa1:
You surprise me with your comment. Are you forcing me to admit what is not

ggoldmine:
What makes her a prophetess?! It's obvious from your story that only a committed Christian has a thing against premarital sex. Now, permit me to say that she's also a virgin! That doesn't make me a prophetess, does it?! Mtchew!

I bet you're one of those pretentious church boys!

advanceDNA:


Why would a man marry a woman because he's guilty of rape.?? Marry?? As in marry ooo??

...if his intention was to rape her... he has done it....why would he hang around for marriage??..

From the info he gave...he said he ddnt rape her...he said since forever when they smoosh each other, thats how she has always been saying subtle no, yet moaning when he sucks he boóbs and touching him back.....

Mayb he never felt guilty but felt a little afraid when accused ..

Magnoliaa:


Please, stop this, abeg.

Yeah, right.

A devil's advocate that doesn't want to accept others perspectives.


Shout about me being female and being emotionally-driven from now 'till tomorrow, it still would not change the fact that you're stiff-necked in your opinions and are running away from any prodding.


I didn't say you're avoiding me. Be like your DNA codes dey misfire.


I have been asking you if you think a false rape allegation and rape are of equal significance but you've craftily been avoiding that.

I can see you.

advanceDNA:
Why would a man marry a woman because he's guilty of rape.?? Marry?? As in marry ooo??

...if his intention was to rape her... he has done it....why would he hang around for marriage??..

From the info he gave...he said he ddnt rape her...he said since forever when they smoosh each other, thats how she has always been saying subtle no, yet moaning when he sucks he boóbs and touching him back.....

Mayb he never felt guilty but felt a little afraid when accused ..

Magnoliaa:

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Answer me this question too; when a parent beats a child, and the child has no where to go to, does that very fact means that that child has not been beaten?

advanceDNA:
Come on babes....i just told u why i ddnt swallow ur perspective..thats doesnt mean i am indulging them and considering them..

See ...u are usng general perception, general implication of rape, and its effect on a female victim to dialogue here.... but here, we have a rape victim that makes her rapist come back for more and is even dating him after the rape

All she has as a proof of her traumatizing and horrifying ordeal is a subtle doubt that he might rape his daughter....as in ....as in....

Magnoliaa:


Keep quiet.

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