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The western world and many parts in Africa has been infected by this mentality of gold digging women waiting to prey on a man's wealth...

But in Asia & The Arabic world their women are contended with what they have, never challenges the husband nor disobey him.. they don't have high rates of divorce but Africa and the western countries are nuts....

Hakimi made his choice even before he married his wife. His wealth is for his immediate family, his parents, His two children, his siblings. (A brother & Sister)
Hakimi has already set-up trust funds for his children so the only person left out is the Gold digger.

and if anyone is not ok with it go and create your own wealth and dash it to your family.

Persephone1:
Asking for 50% of his wealth to me is too much sha.

As a lady, I fit do wetin Hakimi did self

Mummy's boy or not, it's really none of my business

I like your reasoning sha, i can never make my husband my next of kin and i don't except him to make me his.

randymirrors:
Then be fckking your mother well at night before you sleep. Let her have your kids and raise them for you. Then she will raise your kids as she raised you, not to love their wives more than they love her. Isn't that nice? That way, your love will remain with her. And ONLY HER.

Don't dabble into what you don't fully grasp

It's even more irritating that you people are always quick to play the sexual card as a means of blackmail.

Wives are mothers and mothers are Wives

Some of you also wish and pray that your future potential MIL should be dead cos you don't want to have a MIL.

Not knowing you'll also be in that same position one day

Another aspect to it is the mother could die suddenly, and if what his siblings claim they have to divide her inheritance into equal share with him?

It does NOT matter if he transferred all his assets to his mother, as long as the assets could be traced, she stands to get whatever assets that she is entitled to depending on several factors...length of marriage, prenup, etc. At the very least he MUST pay child support and she would get alimony.

BloomingDale:
Most times women forfeit their careers to take care of the home-front, hence why the western courts came up with that percentage to compensate them in the case of a divorce.

she did not forsake her career ma.

Naira20:
This one na wife?
See what she wore like a w.hore.

All these kind of girls want to control their husbands but don't want the mothers-in-law to control their sons.

Be nice to ladies means be nice to me(your wife only)

This kind of ladies/wives are the ones that loves controlling their sons and daughters-in-law.

You can say that again

I hear say dem don dey contribute for Hakimi wife o, since nothing reach her hand.....help a sister.... 😂

Whatever you say, you can see that he saw this coming and was well prepared. Note, she has never complained of not being taken well cared of, you can even see it for your self. You that is talking, that is exactly the kind of thing you would have done walahi. I’m sure that you would have ruined that man completely. But God pass una. Hakimi thank you for giving some men some more sense. Y do you think so many men out there still refer to their women as girl friends even after having 2-3 kids? Na because of this kind wahala . May God help us men to find good women and pray that they remain GOOD although. Indî arà

Queendera:
she did not forsake her career ma.

It does not matter. All the wife’s and husband’s wealth acquired during the time they were married will be added together and split 50/50. I heard she is richer than the husband, so it may lead to the husband even adding to his wealth rather than losing what he has.

saintbillion:
Nigerian life coach, Laila St. Daniel-Mathew, has reacted to the reports that Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, outsmarted his ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, in her move to claim half of his wealth through a divorce
The 24-year-old PSG star has become the focus of social media in the past 24 hours after it was revealed that he deposited 80 percent of his salary to his mother, Fatima's account.

Hiba had allegedly dragged him to court earlier this year, seeking an end to their five-year marriage, citing infidelity and other extra-marital reasons.

Taking to her Facebook account, the women's right activist said she finds it disgusting that Hakimi is ‘’being controlled by his mother.''

“I see so many nasty comments, mostly by men, towards Hakimi’s wife asking the courts to grant her half his wealth. For crying out loud SHE IS HIS WIFE AND THEY HAVE TWO SONS?” she wrote.

"She can ask for anything because she is part of him - it is left to the courts to decide. I find it MORE DISGUSTING that his MOTHER CONTROLS him! A grown man? All these men talking - is that what they do? A man tied to his mother’s wrapper? Probably she is the cause of whatever issues has led to this divorce!

“Which woman will be happy that everything that happens in her home is controlled by the mother of her husband? Even if she brought him up and was part of his success - it is wrong and very calculating of Hakimi also. I am sure if she has a GOOD lawyer - she can collect a good alimony for herself and her sons.”
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/4/i-find-it-more-disgusting-that-his-mother-controls-him-laila-st-daniel-mathew-reacts-to-achraf-hakimis-divorce-drama-2.html

Marriage is not a profession where you get gratuity when you retire
Hakim and his mom did a good thing if I be Hakim I will dash her any amount I can willingly afford not that one woman go just come split my fortune just like that

29Ade07:
Okay. Are the duties you mentioned above all that a wife is supposed to contribute to the man`s life?
What if the man does not want kids or he can control his biological impulse?
What value does the woman have in his life then? Just asking.

A lot. She supports him financially too. Advises him on investment decisions. Prevents him from entering or engaging in shady deals. Curbs his frivolous spending habit, if he has any. Curbs his drinking/smoking habits, if he has any. Cares for him when ill. Cares for his family. Be there for him when the chips are down. Helps him to become a better person, generally.

virginprincess:
One of the reasons why i can never get married to a mummy's boy.

Una think say una get sense.

You want to get his wealth and run to another man abi.

He foresaw a bad wife and you are talking about mummy's boy.

randymirrors:
Pray you marry a good wife. There's no reason for you to love your mother than your wife. When a man marries a bad woman, it is his fault and responsibility. Or how would you feel if your father loved his mother than your own mum, his wife? The responsibility of a man to marry a good woman is his. Some women will die for their husbands.

Please no even think am not to talk of saying it, no lady in this present time will die for a man, lailai ! for better she stays for worst she japa or make you regret coming to life

90% of marriages is all about convenience, True love don die tey tey naa poverty bury am.
90% ladies are just using men for financial security, remove money new school marriages will crumble

JJuanMiguel:
Don't dabble into what you don't fully grasp

It's even more irritating that you people are always quick to play the sexual card as a means of blackmail.

Wives are mothers and mothers are Wives

Some of you also wish and pray that your future potential MIL should be dead cos you don't want to have a MIL.

Not knowing you'll also be in that same position one day

You shouldn't tell me this. I have the wisdom of that already. And that's my point exactly.

You can't fault a man for protecting his fortune from euro diggers.
His next wife, will love him for real and not for the money.
Bitches trying to be smart.
Nigga's upping their games.

Don't turn marriage into an investment.

theredaddy:
Please no even think am not to talk of saying it, no lady in this present time will die for a man, lailai ! for better she stays for worst she japa or make you regret coming to life

90% of marriages is all about convenience, True love don die tey tey naa poverty bury am.
90% ladies are just using men for financial security, remove money new school marriages will crumble

Because you all keep going for slayqueens and not the one who truly loves you. You guys, most of you give up peace of mind for vanity.

Thanks God say na woman do woman here

Queendera:
Lols.

No one deserves to loose 50% of their wealth simply because they fell in love.

I thought love is free?

If you divorce, simply move on with what you have and maybe make arrangements for the kids. If this type of women and laws don't exist, he won't be taking this extreme measures to protect himself.

Golddiggers are not lovers and do not deserve pity

Yes. I said what I said

God bless you. You seem to be one of the fewest ladies in Nigeria with brain. And if it's you on the dp, you're beautiful.

randymirrors:
You shouldn't tell me this. I have the wisdom of that already. And that's my point exactly.

Some of you against the situation maybe in the position of the mother in the future
So when you become a mother, would you want your son to lose his fortune in that manner

dawnomike:
Well, on the part where she said it was calculative of him, Yes it was. This is the reason why every married woman should ensure to make their own money an example is Shakira and Pique. Aside from the kids welfare, she's not after his assets.
All the same, Hakimi's wife really got cast no be small... I can't blame the guy, so many bad ladies have used that part of wealth splitting to their advantage against their spouse in many scenarios.

Shakira and Pique were never married... She can't expect to split his fortune.

Hakimi has opened many guys eyes including me

saintbillion:
Nigerian life coach, Laila St. Daniel-Mathew, has reacted to the reports that Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, outsmarted his ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, in her move to claim half of his wealth through a divorce
The 24-year-old PSG star has become the focus of social media in the past 24 hours after it was revealed that he deposited 80 percent of his salary to his mother, Fatima's account.

Hiba had allegedly dragged him to court earlier this year, seeking an end to their five-year marriage, citing infidelity and other extra-marital reasons.

Taking to her Facebook account, the women's right activist said she finds it disgusting that Hakimi is ‘’being controlled by his mother.''

“I see so many nasty comments, mostly by men, towards Hakimi’s wife asking the courts to grant her half his wealth. For crying out loud SHE IS HIS WIFE AND THEY HAVE TWO SONS?” she wrote.

"She can ask for anything because she is part of him - it is left to the courts to decide. I find it MORE DISGUSTING that his MOTHER CONTROLS him! A grown man? All these men talking - is that what they do? A man tied to his mother’s wrapper? Probably she is the cause of whatever issues has led to this divorce!

“Which woman will be happy that everything that happens in her home is controlled by the mother of her husband? Even if she brought him up and was part of his success - it is wrong and very calculating of Hakimi also. I am sure if she has a GOOD lawyer - she can collect a good alimony for herself and her sons.”
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/4/i-find-it-more-disgusting-that-his-mother-controls-him-laila-st-daniel-mathew-reacts-to-achraf-hakimis-divorce-drama-2.html

This expert should go and ask Eboue how it feels to be broke and bankrupt by a woman at your twilight years

JJuanMiguel:
Some of you against the situation maybe in the position of the mother in the future
So when you become a mother, would you want your son to lose his fortune in that manner

I'm in support of what she did to protect her son. She's a smart woman. The guy already knew he married a thief hence he did what he did.

Queendera:
Lols.

No one deserves to loose 50% of their wealth simply because they fell in love.

I thought love is free?

If you divorce, simply move on with what you have and maybe make arrangements for the kids. If this type of women and laws don't exist, he won't be taking this extreme measures to protect himself.

Golddiggers are not lovers and do not deserve pity

Yes. I said what I said

Lol😹😹
Thank God say the Mumcy still dey alive.
Na wetin Tiger woods face and crash out.

Listen to her, a total ripper, from her utterances you can't help but feel the emotional blackmail oozing from her comments and which has always been Thier weapon against men, they have two sons and so what?, If she can't take food care of them she can still leave them with his mum which I believe will do a wonderful job in taking care of them too just the way she took care of his wealth.

I want to be tied permanently to my mother’s wrapper

saintbillion:
Nigerian life coach, Laila St. Daniel-Mathew, has reacted to the reports that Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, outsmarted his ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, in her move to claim half of his wealth through a divorce
The 24-year-old PSG star has become the focus of social media in the past 24 hours after it was revealed that he deposited 80 percent of his salary to his mother, Fatima's account.

Hiba had allegedly dragged him to court earlier this year, seeking an end to their five-year marriage, citing infidelity and other extra-marital reasons.

Taking to her Facebook account, the women's right activist said she finds it disgusting that Hakimi is ‘’being controlled by his mother.''

“I see so many nasty comments, mostly by men, towards Hakimi’s wife asking the courts to grant her half his wealth. For crying out loud SHE IS HIS WIFE AND THEY HAVE TWO SONS?” she wrote.

"She can ask for anything because she is part of him - it is left to the courts to decide. I find it MORE DISGUSTING that his MOTHER CONTROLS him! A grown man? All these men talking - is that what they do? A man tied to his mother’s wrapper? Probably she is the cause of whatever issues has led to this divorce!

“Which woman will be happy that everything that happens in her home is controlled by the mother of her husband? Even if she brought him up and was part of his success - it is wrong and very calculating of Hakimi also. I am sure if she has a GOOD lawyer - she can collect a good alimony for herself and her sons.”
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/4/i-find-it-more-disgusting-that-his-mother-controls-him-laila-st-daniel-mathew-reacts-to-achraf-hakimis-divorce-drama-2.html

Foolish woman. What is Daniels doing in your marriage life if you submit wholehearted to your husband?

randymirrors:
Then be fckking your mother well at night before you sleep. Let her have your kids and raise them for you. Then she will raise your kids as she raised you, not to love their wives more than they love her. Isn't that nice? That way, your love will remain with her. And ONLY HER.

For all the time husband fvck his wife is it for free, check most ladies picture before and after marriage the only thing mothers can't for her son is sex but olosho can easily replace a wife. plus room for balance diet

Why e dey pain some people.....
Everybody to hin own tent.....o Israel
If I get #10m, come dey pay 300,000 rent, how e take pain you......?!
Suddenly, all of us be therapist, analysts, counsellors etc.

If tomorrow, the mama give the money to mosque, shey una go dey laugh am....?!

The deed has been done.....
Shikena

saintbillion:
Nigerian life coach, Laila St. Daniel-Mathew, has reacted to the reports that Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, outsmarted his ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, in her move to claim half of his wealth through a divorce
The 24-year-old PSG star has become the focus of social media in the past 24 hours after it was revealed that he deposited 80 percent of his salary to his mother, Fatima's account.

Hiba had allegedly dragged him to court earlier this year, seeking an end to their five-year marriage, citing infidelity and other extra-marital reasons.

Taking to her Facebook account, the women's right activist said she finds it disgusting that Hakimi is ‘’being controlled by his mother.''

“I see so many nasty comments, mostly by men, towards Hakimi’s wife asking the courts to grant her half his wealth. For crying out loud SHE IS HIS WIFE AND THEY HAVE TWO SONS?” she wrote.

"She can ask for anything because she is part of him - it is left to the courts to decide. I find it MORE DISGUSTING that his MOTHER CONTROLS him! A grown man? All these men talking - is that what they do? A man tied to his mother’s wrapper? Probably she is the cause of whatever issues has led to this divorce!

“Which woman will be happy that everything that happens in her home is controlled by the mother of her husband? Even if she brought him up and was part of his success - it is wrong and very calculating of Hakimi also. I am sure if she has a GOOD lawyer - she can collect a good alimony for herself and her sons.”
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/4/i-find-it-more-disgusting-that-his-mother-controls-him-laila-st-daniel-mathew-reacts-to-achraf-hakimis-divorce-drama-2.html

So because she has two kids, she deserves half of his property? Senseless women with their sense of entitlement

virginprincess:
For the fact that i aren't close to that age doesn't mean i'm a child,or is someone in her early twenties still a child to you .

Yes. Those in this age bracket are the dumbest.