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Why on earth will a married woman visit another man that is not her husband, if you must meet with a man for business, it should be with company of another woman and must be public.

iSense247:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

You're a fool for marrying a cheating women its men like you I dont pity at all

Rokiat:
So what do you want us to do?

If na woman tell this story you go talk this one?

iSense247:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

As you make your bed, please sleep well on it.
Abeg you, don't come to Nairaland crying over your uploading pains that's coming in flood torrents.

deyplay:
The curse at Eden really changed their nature. Indeed, they are on a self destruct mode from the beginning. What I have learnt is this, what u won't tolerate in marriage, never permit in dating. Be both ruthless and righteous in dealing with women. Never be quick to forgive and always punish when they go wrong. And pre-warn of walking out if they tow the line. Never be too nice to them.

It was when a female friend I held in high regard gave in to her stupid female side that I realised that they are all the same.Always wanting attention and making stupid decisions and blame the whole men for it.No accountability on their part.

Yeah be ruthless.

[quote author=Newton2024 post=122598526][/quote]One child made of black for you bro. You are a man. I just like the way you relax, grab all the grabeable info without loosing your temper and above all, you have a sealed decision made still without a fight or struggle.
Ladies, you ve get to learn to understand that the quiet man should not be mistaken for a fool, he is just observing and once you cross the line , you will live to carry your cross

[quote author=Newton2024 post=122598526][/quote]
good loving, helping out in chores, all round support.

This was your mistake. Never ever make a woman feel too comfortable. The moment you do, they will see you finish. When they are too comfortable or when you do not give them something to worry about, nothing is preoccupying their mind again. Infacy why will a married woman even want to spend a weekend with her friend. What kimd of simp man allows such in his house? As much as you think you did not simp, you already gave us all the info we need to call you a full blown simp

I hate all these SIMP STORIES!!
WTF is wrong with all these weak men! Gosh!

Thank God way deliver u from the hand of daughter of Jezebel such a woman go move when the road becomes rough

She has already told you she had sex. Na you no understand.

So she is still in ur house??

Send that bitch out of ur home

Marriage wahala no d finish

Can you elaborate further in SIMPle terms, the meaning of " give her another chance"

Elmojiid:
Overlook it and give her another chance.. Nobody holy pass, men lie women lie

iSense247:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

WTF??

You’re okay, bro?

Seems everybody is a cheat lately. Crazy things are happening. I still believe in this saying "what you do not know wouldnt hurt you"

God help us all. Amen

[quote author=advanceDNA post=122599102][/quote]Hahahhahahaha bad guy

married woman dey knack crase commot from BF head. since she spent the night, be rest assured that did every porn style she could imagine. abd since the BF know say she dey cum knack him go don pump him dick with enough drugs. fear naija women o.

MonkeyMods:
If you believed your wife went to a man's house and nothing happened...

You would believe Tinubu would fix Nigeria

How does it relate? Stop being simp okay!

[quote author=Newton2024 post=122598526][/quote]damn dude, how old was your marriage?

First of all what gives your wife the morale To go outside of her matrimonial home to go visit a guy maybe you guys where not properly married and you still owning her family credit you never pay

digithub:
Seems everybody is a cheat lately. Crazy things are happening. I still believe in this saying "what you do not know wouldnt hurt you"

God help us all. Amen

So if you don't know your partner has HIV/AIDS or syphilis it won't hurt you?

I am filled with anger right now. But why will a wife leave her home to spend the night at a man's place. God forbid bad thing[quote author=Newton2024 post=122598526][/quote]

The fact that she slept at a guy's place who is not her blood brother is enough for me to end whatever we had. I honestly do not care whether she made out with him or not
In any case, every reasonable person will assume that sex happened. As a reasonable person myself, I cannot think otherwise. The evidence for fornication/adultery is usually circumstantial, making it difficult to obtain direct evidence. Regardless of whether or not anything happened between them, I cannot continue the relationship. Her decision to leave my house to spend time with another man is reason enough for me to end things.

Baby mama best option nowadays...

]So what do you want us to do?

YOU ARE ONE OF THEM,BIRDS OF SAME FEATHER.

God forbid, any day I catch my wife cheating on me the marriage ends that minute...... There's nothing anybody on earth would tell me that would make me take her back.



I don't support domestic violence, if you're tired of the marriage tell me. I won't beg any woman to stay with me.

Kobojunkiee:
1. Why do you immediately think in terms of setting a limit on the desires of women when there are no such limits placed on men?

Even a virgin turns to prostitutes' when her husband has nothing to give. i don't understand married women this days, especially those ones that are working, they are the bad ass ladies.

jimmychang:
Nothing like culture bla bla bla,nothing like trying to oppress women or supress women wants or needs.There are no longer morals,no shame again,no respect.mtcheeeeww

There was a reason woman excesses were curbed,that gender is the origin of chaos.Even down to these current women.They have been know to be irrational hence they needed to be kept in check.

I agree with you, this is the reason why men don't marry women raised by single mums because she lacks a Man who will direct her life.

MonkeyMods:
If you believed your wife went to a man's house and nothing happened...

You would believe Tinubu would fix Nigeria

Lmaoo

jimmychang:
Yeah they exist to keep humans in line and create order and prevent chaos.No law can favour everybody even God himself his laws won't favour everybody.

Nothing egotistical about it.Leave your women to hoe about and see the repercussions.Bastard children and decayed morals.Women behave alike irrespective of their age,20,40,80.They don't mature like men.Mtchwwwww.

Anyhow,current female role models are whores and prostitutes.I guess it is the times we are in.Religion and morals has gone to the dogs.Only fans and prostitution on the rise.And you are saying women were oppressed.They were kept in check because they would disrupt peace with their unstable emotions.

They are always on self destruct mode.

Problematic gender they need to be checked. This is why everyone is laughing at Western world because they will destroy themselves internally, just look at Saudi Arabia were women are checked, morality at its peak, no transgender bullshit

iSense247:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

If you are indeed a man and what you have written is true, then you are a big disgrace. A finished man!