iSense247:

My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

riverbird:
You guys want to rub shoulders with what isn't your God designed way to live , but it's fine keep on trying to match shoulders......a woman who has multiple men friends is called a harlot but can you tell me same if a man who has multiple wives?

Kobojunkiee:
exactly!

I can not can

Gbogbo wa lama wa alright

Kobojunkiee:
Indeed, this problem isn't new and it grows as society is no longer able to forward the vicious lie that polygamous is a man-only feature. Women have always desired to have multiple partners and during the time of our ancestors, some cultures attempted to work this out by allowing wives to have concubines. However, over time the diction shifted towards men alone being polygamous. However, that diction has failed in causing change intended as the truth is not easy to hide anymore.

jimmychang:
■ Nothing like culture bla bla bla,nothing like trying to oppress women or supress women wants or needs.There are no longer morals,no shame again,no respect.mtcheeeeww
■ There was a reason woman excesses were curbed,that gender is the origin of chaos.Even down to these current women.They have been know to be irrational hence they needed to be kept in check.

folake4u:


Your head dey there.

Lol we have to encourage men to be virtuous men too

Killbillz:

Asin ehhn... I done kukuma remove mind since. Bm sure pass. With time I go explain to my kids for forgiveness if anyone vex put. I no just want anymore wahala join

Kobojunkiee:
1. You actually believed your lop-sided traditional rules which doubled as moral standards for many of you represented moral ideals worthy of abiding by? Come on! They were and still are nothing but egotistical standards designed to benefit the men and suppress the women.

2. I see you are already aware of this fact about your traditional moral standards.

jimmychang:
■ Yeah they exist to keep humans in line and create order and prevent chaos.No law can favour everybody even God himself his laws won't favour everybody. Nothing egotistical about it.Leave your women to LovePeddler about and see the repercussions.Bastard children and decayed morals.Women behave alike irrespective of their age,20,40,80.They don't mature like men.Mtchwwwww. Anyhow,current female role models are whores and prostitutes.I guess it is the times we are in.Religion and morals has gone to the dogs.Only fans and prostitution on the rise.And you are saying women were oppressed.They were kept in check because they would disrupt peace with their unstable emotions. They are always on self destruct mode.

Kobojunkiee:
Learn to leave God and His mention out of your brain farts abeg!

What you subscribe to are instead ideals defined by your ancestors who probably thought that by skewing the diction in favor of men, they could rule over the women folk and their desires. Sadly, the truth is what is finally bubbling up in your faces today. Women have always been just as polygamous as men.

Kobojunkiee:
1. Good luck with keeping that delusion running then!

Muffassa:
■ Imagine the emotional truama that comes with your gf cheating on you talk more of legally married wife damn. Imagine a wife having the guts to take permission from her husband to go Bleep another dick if she succeeded with that without being caught that one nar ALUTA CONTINUA LOL.

riverbird:
■ I wish you ladies know what you are doing, but sadly you all realize your mistakes late all the time.

Kobojunkiee:
1. What mistake would that be?

Blupen969:
Rokiat you are not a good person, change your ways or loose your waist, i am suspecting you, you deh Bleep dino abi?

Persephone1:
Lol we have to encourage men to be virtuous men too

Persephone1:
Forgive her , fight for your home, fast and pray for her. That she played away match outside doesn't mean she doesn't love you. Wear sexy underwear for her, attract your wife again. Don't forget to fast and pray again.

"Women" are polygamous in nature.

folake4u:


Of course. I highly recommend.

It's the wife's audacity for me . She is crrrrraaaaazzzzzzyyyyyyyy

Persephone1:
It's the wife's audacity for me . She is crrrrraaaaazzzzzzyyyyyyyy

folake4u:


Lmaooo. I've been laughing since, you have no idea.

Lol her own type of madness needs to be studied 😂 😂 😂

Abi they are in open marriage ni... I honestly can't imagine

Vinnie2000:



OP, Truly you should believe ur Wife.

The guy did Nothing. He only Touched her and PRESSED her breast small.

Just Forgive ur Wife and Monitor the Guy.

Kobojunkiee:
Which one irritates and discourages you the most? The one about men having polygamous urges or you discovering that women also have those polygamous urges too?

Persephone1:
Lol her own type of madness needs to be studied 😂 😂 😂

Abi they are in open marriage ni... I honestly can't imagine

Kobojunkiee:
Indeed, this problem isn't new and it grows as society is no longer able to forward the vicious lie that polygamous is a man-only feature. Women have always desired to have multiple partners and during the time of our ancestors, some cultures attempted to work this out by allowing wives to have concubines. However, over time the diction shifted towards men alone being polygamous. However, that diction has failed in causing change intended as the truth is not easy to hide anymore.

iSense247:
○How many men can satisfy a woman? Should a woman be allowed to marry more than one husband? Can you be a fourth husband to your wife?

riverbird:


I wish you ladies know what you are doing, but sadly you all realize your mistakes late all the time.

czarr:
Madam you rest na, he is not the cause of your traumatic past, stop ranting abeg.