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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by tellwisdom: 4:24pm On Apr 19, 2023
Foolish boi…Na Nigerian gurl matter u carry for head like dandruff?? RIP in advance undecided

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by abbey621(m): 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2023
Arindin.....Wetin you want make Nairalanders tell you? You've already done the investigative work and can see all the evidence with your koro koro eyes but you still need validation? Werey!

She belongs to the streets, in fact she is the street, her mom na the supplier.......Werey I repeat, take care of your shit and stop disturbing us with your simpology!

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by PussyGalore(f): 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2023
Another broke man wailing thread angry
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by PJtech: 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2023
na wa oo

..
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I need a phone to start the work on 21/4/2023........ I'm humbly soliciting for help to buy a phone(min 3g ram), i can be paying installmentally starting may ending

I'll appreciate if i can get the help. Thanks
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Oyira(m): 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2023
Now that you know what are u still doing there.
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by nelcliff(m): 4:26pm On Apr 19, 2023
Why will you allowed her got you depressed and at the same time she is doing her things.

No you have to pick up the pieces and mould it up..

Its life experience so you will tell the story more better..

Maybe a victim of a circumstance.

Because I believe not all girls are like that though my opinion.

Move On brother. You will be free from it..

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Lordofalmajiri(f): 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
I'm in almost the same situation right now.. though it was once, and she confessed to it when I questioned her. .. Omo these girls eg.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Dshocker(m): 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
Tiwa Savage talk say wahala no dey finish for Kiss Daniel:- No wahala song...
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by CSTRR: 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
Your fiancee is banging another dickk with the possible support of her family and you are asking what to do?

You are playing with paternity fraud.

Continue asking.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Rahkman: 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
Aswear ppl dey mad ooo ontop useless naija girls matter u dey get depression,something wey u go dey freestyle the bictches as dey come

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Holywizard: 4:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
Simps everywhere.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Lordofalmajiri(f): 4:28pm On Apr 19, 2023
nelcliff:
Why will you allowed her got you depressed and at the same time she is doing her things.

No you have to pick up the pieces and mould it up..

Its life experience so you will tell the story more better..

Maybe a victim of a circumstance.

Because I believe not all girls are like that though my opinion.

Move On brother. You will be free from it..
90% of Nigerian girls are like this

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by vatiqan(m): 4:28pm On Apr 19, 2023
Zonefree:

A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her undecided

I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.

A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh!

Guy, that was too harsh na. I just feel sorry for the young man cos, the babe would do worst things if they finally marry.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by alobright17(m): 4:28pm On Apr 19, 2023
concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Just a matter of time before she’ll go back him because of her mother’s pressure .

As for me once a lady cheated on me everything I feel for her is dead and buried .

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Nobody: 4:29pm On Apr 19, 2023
concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

It's better you just run for your life now. If you press further on reconciliation, you will sign up for what will later become a FULL TIME REGRET.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by CSTRR: 4:29pm On Apr 19, 2023
A girlfriend can cheat, no wahala.

Just make sure she never upgrades beyond a girlfriend, and dump her when you get tired of the sex.

But for fiancee level, nah, dump her fast and move on.

Paternity fraud is not child's play.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by scobaba: 4:29pm On Apr 19, 2023
For the family eye, na u be assistant boyfriend.

The real odogwu na that other guy.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by AsapTeddy(m): 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2023
Simplified man

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Nahunger(m): 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2023
grin cheesy
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Ifyok50(m): 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2023
Guy, you'd better move on with your life!

You go dey trust woman. Dey play!

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Abfinest007(m): 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2023
Wahala
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by RulerIAm(m): 4:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
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Zonefree:
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A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her undecided

I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.

[b]A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh![/b]
[ u wicked! grin grin

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Warmaterial(m): 4:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
As always a simp will always cry.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Hassanmaye(m): 4:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
Zonefree:

A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her undecided

I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.

A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh!
Hahahhahahaha please

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by bikefab(m): 4:31pm On Apr 19, 2023
Don't let depression kill you, dust yourself and move. Life goes On!

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Dshocker(m): 4:32pm On Apr 19, 2023
concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

I so wish i can fall in love with a girl and be complaining things like this to my friends.

Apparently my heart is as strong as a stone when it comes to love, the least i can do is to admire your beauty.

You gatz learn in the hard way

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Hassanmaye(m): 4:33pm On Apr 19, 2023
Rokiat:
just because you disvirgined her doesn’t mean she will belong to you forever.

Dust your self up and move on.
So even if I deflowered a girl she can't be mine? This is not true,

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by israelmao(m): 4:33pm On Apr 19, 2023
The breakdown of divine order and norms in our society is making many people to pay with dire consequences,most times when chastity is mentioned it looks old fashioned,and it's even regarded as a taboo while pre-marital sex and promiscuity are highly exalted.When a man stealthily tastes from soup that is not yet done he is sure of the taste he will get by not waiting patiently until it is done,you too have hurriedly tasted from the soup that's meant to serve you a lifetime and the girl too have found a man who does it better.A girl who allows a guy to get down with her in her father's house has already gone crazy in lust with whom she gets down with.

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Nobody: 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2023
concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

May that depression kill you there...since when did we start breeding stupid men like this?

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Reelmii: 4:34pm On Apr 19, 2023
Wahala
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by IamOrei(m): 4:35pm On Apr 19, 2023
Guy, LEAVE that girl and move on.
See, i dnt care how strong ur yeye feelings are, if u dare forgive her, u are a CURSED man

GET AWAY FROM HER

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Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by vatiqan(m): 4:35pm On Apr 19, 2023
1. She claims to be a church girl; but she is not!
2. Her parent knows you, but look the other way when the guy comes to Bleep her!
3. She gets jealous for crime she commits more than you!
4. You're aware of all these, you're loosing weight, you're sick, you're mentally unstable! But you still LOVE her!
My brother,I don't know the advice I'm to give to you o! She is not worth it! Show her this post and tell her I said she is not worth it! Do not be a simp!

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