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Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Nobody: 5:13pm On May 18, 2023 |
Both of them are fueling the epidemic. blacksam01: |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Chi133(f): 5:15pm On May 18, 2023 |
Fahvvy: Stupid write up 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by jayAjoku(m): 5:20pm On May 18, 2023 |
advanceDNA:ok |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by sparko1(m): 5:20pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay: All this Jennifer, I have never seen a Jennifer with this ludicrous personality, oh Jennifer! Ladies don't like truth, they enjoy lies, just add some change and she's opening her leg up and down. Btw, you can only speak for yourself, go to hotels in lekki this weekend, you will know your gender can never learn, a gender that can cheat because of ordinary Apple! What do you expect. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by pansophist(m): 5:25pm On May 18, 2023 |
Women of course. Saying this will make me seems like I'm shifting blame, but the rule is this. If you have more to loose in any negotiations/relationships/interactions/, then it's your responsibility to safeguard your self. If for example you ask me if men are to blamed for the rise of 2k girls, then I'll answer yes, because men controls which girls get 2k or not. It's why simp get beaten steady here on nl. The only excuse that it's not a fault of a single mother is if she was married to the man, and they divorced, then yes, I won't blame her at all. But an unmarried girl having sex before marriage, then didn't care about him using condoms, and and also didn't use after morning pills, and got pregnant. And blaming the man. Now tell me honestly why you don't deserve a heavy slap. Where is your accountability? 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by RepoMan007: 5:26pm On May 18, 2023 |
The unseen forces are largely responsible but women have a greater share of the blame because by rejecting some strategic proposals from men and the unseen forces, a lot can be avoided. A lot of money issues, societal pressure, errors etc. 3 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by advanceDNA: 5:27pm On May 18, 2023 |
Chi133: E pain am... 4 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by nkemjacob2(m): 5:30pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay:I won't blame ur comment u only write based on ur knowledge 3 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by nkemjacob2(m): 5:32pm On May 18, 2023 |
Does the man point a gun in the head of the women to have sex, thereby turning them to single mom? The fact is the ladies are just so easily deceived by guys and also enjoyed it. That's y d mistake is on them when they know they are the most victim 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by advanceDNA: 5:39pm On May 18, 2023 |
casualobserver: U are just quoting ideal scenario.....Which values will parent teach children of nowadays that will prevent them from fvcking around?? Greed is everywhere, pórn is everywhere, even movies and music videos makes fvcking around look cool......parents cant lock their kids at home....imagine 12 year olds of chrisland school the other having 3 or 4some...na parents teach them that one??.. The day i saw young girls call themselves "badbitch"......i realize just how strong social media influence is....... 3 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Nobody: 5:39pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Jeez!!! Seems you are a single mom or some guys repeatedly tore your heart into pieces… 3 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Bluffly: 5:40pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay:Were you not trained to have sense. It is greed and stupidity that makes one fall to swindlers. If they promise you, must you spread your leg. Grow up and become emotionally intelligent and stable. 6 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by badonkadonk: 5:42pm On May 18, 2023 |
blacksam01: I blame the deluge of yahoo boys + the greediness of women + gender and social media influence + poor economy majorly 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by okwusdidi: 5:43pm On May 18, 2023 |
I would blame the women.I was watching someone from the pro-life movement advising young women on the need to abstain from sex till they get married.To my surprise they abused the hell out of her even asking her if she could abstain.The fact is men don't get pregnant,women do. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by badonkadonk: 5:46pm On May 18, 2023 |
Bluffly: She is even blaming stingy men, as if they pushed them into the bosoms of generous men or they showed them direction to their houses.. Most women just don't want to take responsibilities for their action.. Unless you were jazzed by the man (I have heard cases of men using juju on babes that refused their advances), you should take responsibility also 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by tctrills: 5:48pm On May 18, 2023 |
blacksam01:You are asking the wrong question. You need to look beyond blaming male or female and look at society at large. Also, there are many women out there who are not single mothers. I guess you are searching in the wrong places. 1 Like |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Bluffly: 5:48pm On May 18, 2023 |
badonkadonk: That is true anyways. |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Chinexx75: 5:48pm On May 18, 2023 |
All I can say in this matter is that it takes two to tangle. Both male and female are not innocent in this matter. |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by donbenie(m): 5:51pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay:You are wiser and you are still getting pregnant,left,right and centre? Your body, your choice, remember? Any woman that gets pregnant because a man promises to marry her, knows exactly what she was doing.. It was her choice to get pregnant.. Anything that comes out of it, good or bad is the consequences of her deliberate actions.. Don't blame men,when your deliberate actions backfires.. Be woman enough to own your choices. 1 Like |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by casualobserver: 5:54pm On May 18, 2023 |
advanceDNA: let me say this to you. As a teenager I was a bit rebellious but when i look at my life today, I realize that I am guided by the things my parents told me, what I saw, the values and examples they set. No matter how rebelious I was, I never got into drugs or impregnated any woman etc. Today, now that I have matured I realise that it is those values that guid my actions. What I realised is that children are smarter than we give them credit for and even though they may rebel, they dont forget. The mistake is to think you are fighting a losing battle in the world of today and dont do your job as a parent. You are right, its hard parenting in today's world of social media, sexual promiscuity, drugs, materialism etc but your job as a parent is tokeep on emphasising your values...trust me it is not wasted. you talk about 13yr old kids watching porn. when i was young, there were some houses where we could hang out and do stuff, very often you'll find even if the parents were together, they were often homes where the father was absent for long periods, travel work etc. They were the cool kids because we could hang out at their houses and be free. But guess what, when I look at the majority of my friends who have fallen by the wayside or not lived up to their potential, or even died from drugs, the majority come from such backgrounds...a home where things were too lax. in those days single moms were rare, now Imagine a home where there is no father to begin with and the kind of nonsense and laxity that will be happening in such homes, in order to compensate for an absent father...... these are the kids that influence other children with porn etc. Its an unavoidable aspect of raising children in today's world but you have to stand your ground because you know better and not admit defeat. if a child from a baby mama is wayward, it is expected...what is the excuse of the child of 2 parent home....that you gave up and allowed fatherless children to influence how you raise your child? The world is tough, it is tougher when you surrender to the influence of baby mamas and their children. In my house they know no sleepover unless I not my wife speaks to the father, no mother to mother business, thank god my wife is on the same page with me on single mothers. Anytime i see them with a new friend I ask who is your father and what does he do. It was a subtle way of letting my children know that if you dont have a father you are not welcome around my children and now they know without me expressly saying it. the problem with many parents nowadays is they forget their role is to mould children not to be nice or agreeable. Your children are not your friends. the more they get away with nonsense or lack of boundaries/rules etc or the more they get what they want as children, the more damaged they will be later in life. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Electorate: 5:55pm On May 18, 2023 |
blacksam01: This is how entertainment empacts the society, when celebrities encourage baby mamas in their music and movies this is always the result...celebrities are influencers they influence the society with their words and action. 5 Likes
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Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by donbenie(m): 5:56pm On May 18, 2023 |
finallybusy:Should we give you an award?
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Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Chi133(f): 5:57pm On May 18, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Hmmmmm, pain me?? Any man that tries that with me will regret his life cos I will make it miserable. |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by Electorate: 6:00pm On May 18, 2023 |
finallybusy: See this one, so na achievement be that for your eyes.
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Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by khalif090: 6:01pm On May 18, 2023 |
FEAR WOMEN, NA SO ONE CALL ME TODAY SAY HER MUM IS SICK DAT I SHOULD LINK HER UP WITH ANY OF MY SENIOR MEN, EVEN IF NA SHORT TIME SHE IS READY, I PITY WHO D GIVE WOMAN BELLE FOR THIS BUHARI REGIM 8 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by fmonigent(m): 6:05pm On May 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Why are this bittered Na which man break your heart like this? 1 Like |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by donbenie(m): 6:08pm On May 18, 2023 |
saasala:They are emotional beings? Is that some sort of excuse for an adult,not to take responsibility for their actions? They are emotional beings and yet their emotions will always gravitate towards the rich and happening bad boy? Never towards the poor and mundane guy? Ogbeni,forget! Nothing on this Blue Planet is as scheming as a woman.. Whatever a woman does have been carefully calculated,to be for her best interests.. So,let them take responsibility,when that same scheming blows up in their faces.. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by sprints1: 6:10pm On May 18, 2023 |
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Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by blacksam01: 6:10pm On May 18, 2023 |
tctrills: those that arent single mothers but are with substance, they want to marry the prince of England...they are bent on meet him before they can agree to marry.. hope u get what i mean...? 2 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by EmmyDJourno: 6:16pm On May 18, 2023 |
Throwing women under the bus is the sin of Adam😃 |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by advanceDNA: 6:19pm On May 18, 2023 |
Chi133: MAdam calm down..... U women think u are wise...Why una sef dey spread legs and assume in ur head it must lead to marriage.....the person wey una spread legs for don go see ur parents?... he give u engagement ring?? .u sef Close ur legs and no one will do that to you 5 Likes |
Re: "Single Mom" Epidemic: Who Is To Blame- Men Or Ladies..? by vickydevoka(m): 6:22pm On May 18, 2023 |
Fahvvy:Do you know how the react to sexual urge. They can't help it. In UK you must seek hee consent unlike Nigeria touch touch. You are not supposed to knackk a lady while she's drunk |
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