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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by ravensckar(m): 4:40pm On Jun 15, 2023
Kaycee9242:



Just imagine, some women no get sense oooo! What's 4k compared to 39k so their money is not meant to spent ba?
Trust me that's how they behave. After buying expensive stuff for my wife, she go collect am. Thank me and still remind me sey I dey owe her 10K. I'll be like wtf? You see that gender, no human being can understand them. Just love them for who they are and leave the rest. cheesy cheesy

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Ashawoman82: 4:41pm On Jun 15, 2023
advanceDNA:


Lol......woman no dey love man...na the way u care for them with your money dem dey love
no be lie. Wahala for who carry woman for head.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by advanceDNA: 4:44pm On Jun 15, 2023
Gattuzo05:
She potrayed a good character in the first three weeks of the relationship, later I realized tlshe can drink a whole crate , 12 bottles of any beer , no specific brand. Any gin , rum, vodka name it. But her good character kept me going and I think I can work on her drink habit. Fast forward to third month, she told me one day when we were watching a movie (sex scene) together that she prefer rough sex, like someone to hang her leg with rope , stuff her mouth with clothes, do anything to make her uncomfortable and keep nacking her, I asked her again if she was serious and she said yeah. Later that night , I tried it with her and she was happy, she drank 4 or more bottles of Goldberg that night during the romp. It was during the course of us having the sex that she made a statement that still rings in my ears till today...she said " Ki nti é ri Igbo dié puff bayii" ( make I see small Indian hemp smoke) I smiled over it like nothing happened knowing fully well that I can't continue with her because she has the skill of shocking you with weird habit of hers gradually without thinking it's a big deal.

Na because u present urself as an open minded fella...if not..she go hide all those habit, dey pretend say she be mona lisa...
...u go marry am finish...another rough nigga like her go dey off pant giving her the rough way of life she's used to

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Emperormartin(m): 4:52pm On Jun 15, 2023
lolu2019:
She wants to know my account balance.and she is not working o.
That one na devil's incarnate

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by imoh4king(m): 4:53pm On Jun 15, 2023
Reminderz:
okay... let's do this.

the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..

some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..

1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...

2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her

3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..

4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch

5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..

6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers

7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!

8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!

9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...

10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...

11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..

12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself

13) if she bleaches, dump her!

14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her!

Op, you are so, on-point.

I second all your points. Plus...

14. Drinks too much (alcoholic)

15. Doesn't take correction.

16. Hardly forgives.

17. An old two -timing b-i-t-c-h.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by lolu2019: 4:53pm On Jun 15, 2023
Emperormartin:

That one na devil's incarnate
nor be small tin.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Galaxydon1(m): 4:55pm On Jun 15, 2023
She wears only one bra everyday despite working in a big company.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jun 15, 2023
LordAdam16:


Ethnicity does not matter anymore.

They expect to be a line item in your budget. If she does not make demands directly, she expects you to "wake up to your responsibility" without her prodding.

Naija relationship na scam. For abroad wen you gat drop 50% after divorce, during relationship guys no b ATM. You can pick the tab on outings. But anything extra na from your church mind.

Here, you go dey contribute to living expenses of full-grown, able-bodied adult. She go still get mind spread for others to "keep her options open". Na una know sha, maybe e get wetin una dey see for their body wen me still dey find with floodlight.

-Lord

I know why I was specific. Generally all ladies have some form of entitlement but igbo girls dont hide their own..and their not ashamed to make demands untop your own money..their own entitlement is something else

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by SugarGirl44(f): 5:04pm On Jun 15, 2023
Excessive laughter on our first date when nothing is funny, and when I asked he said that’s his nature.
Such a joker.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Obascoetubi: 5:06pm On Jun 15, 2023
Mantilla:
Babe like fetish stuffs... Jezz me i just run ooo
Jqzz u for what?
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by yetty247(f): 5:06pm On Jun 15, 2023
I be him Money bag and He is always broke

I was serving wen i met him while he works with a firm in Lag.. After serves ko na me still dey fund am


i knew we can't be but loff still hold the mumu till they started demanding I bring my man home and baba started acting tho i was doubting our togetherness because i can't shoulder our responsibilities alone and i told him. Alhamdulilahi i took the best decision

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jun 15, 2023
Stevyne:
I'm not trying to be stereotypical, but I never really see reasonable girl wey be precious.

You're not wrong...most girls that their name is precious it's like most of them they carry mami water spirit. Them get craze no be small

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Edusouls(m): 5:08pm On Jun 15, 2023
Reminderz:
okay... let's do this.

the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..

some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..

1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...

2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her

3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..

4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch

5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..

6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers

7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!

8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!

9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...

10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...

11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..

12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself

13) if she bleaches, dump her!

14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her!
stupid boy, maybe ur sister is even worse

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jun 15, 2023
sync:
Na only guys de comment for this thread, na wah o.

Your gender dey show us shege pass now

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by pizzzy(m): 5:09pm On Jun 15, 2023
She told me that at the age of 13 she was r@ped by her dad's friend. I mumu wishly grin thought and hoped that she has recovered from the traumatic experience but fast forward a month later she said she has boil inner her v-jay that she poured hand sanitizer in her v-jay just to be hurt the boil for making her go through pains. Na there i borrow leg(japa) which kind werey be dat

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by kingthreat(m): 5:10pm On Jun 15, 2023
Someone that used to be eager to see me saw it a big deal paying me a visit.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Emperormartin(m): 5:10pm On Jun 15, 2023
Lucky5000:
She use my power bank to charge her own power bank
Lol... This one came to milk you

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Emperormartin(m): 5:12pm On Jun 15, 2023
SugarGirl44:
Excessive laughter on our first date when nothing is funny, and when I asked he said that’s his nature.
Such a joker.
Trust me guyman is shy man

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by isabi2lof: 5:14pm On Jun 15, 2023
With all these comments from the male folks , you guys will end up marrying yourself undecided

I won't be moved by a bit , if we have many gay marriages in the future.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by EBEk101(m): 5:16pm On Jun 15, 2023
On our first date night, she was I don’t want to depend on any guy after my ex asked me if he was my father because I asked for money.
Two day after babe bill me, like what the hell
I don’t like some f…king pretender

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Nobody: 5:16pm On Jun 15, 2023
isabi2lof:
With all these comments from the male folks , you guys will end up marrying yourself undecided

I won't be moved by a bit , if we have many gay marriages in the future.

Na una go pursue us to marry you if not hunger go kill your gender

Because we dont need marriage to the same degree that women do

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Tenrack: 5:17pm On Jun 15, 2023
Timoleon:
Na 39k you I’d her phone sef? Which food she use the 4K cook
lmao. Na vegetable soup
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Emperormartin(m): 5:17pm On Jun 15, 2023
She started keeping face for me because I didn't want to meet her pastor or spiritual daddy. I no dey like girls wey dey too attached to their spiritual daddy.

I kukuma leave her com advice her to go date her church member. But babe say she no like her church members

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Tenrack: 5:18pm On Jun 15, 2023
advanceDNA:


??
our two na the same. Our ways of dealing with the female folk. We no dey make noise just do wetin she want, silently discharge am

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Theboss001: 5:24pm On Jun 15, 2023
Ogechi98:
Na so olosho girls dey do, if you never dey relationship with them before you no go know, that one na like their general trait.

How you go dey in relationship with olosho

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by talented321: 5:26pm On Jun 15, 2023
This does not mean we are not married, most of the people typing are married, some are just past incidents while some are in the search of side chicks.
isabi2lof:
With all these comments from the male folks , you guys will end up marrying yourself undecided

I won't be moved by a bit , if we have many gay marriages in the future.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by omooba969(m): 5:26pm On Jun 15, 2023
isabi2lof:
With all these comments from the male folks , you guys will end up marrying yourself undecided

I won't be moved by a bit , if we have many gay marriages in the future.

We're marrying ourselves already, what else do you have to say. grin

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by WriterX(m): 5:27pm On Jun 15, 2023
wink When you find a relationship that is not cultivated by mere emotions, feelings and sex but by values, mutual respect, a strong desire for God and shared dreams and aspirations. That day you find a life partner.

There are good enough men and women out there, you just got to ask yourself first, Am I good enough for someone with the qualities I desire? If no, am I ready to change?



I would like to share my many experiences, deep depression, emotional delusions and verbal and physical assaults , close suicide calls but mehn! I give God the glory!

Matthew 7:3-5 "Why do you see the speck in your neighbor's eye, but do not notice the log in your own eye? Or how can you say to your neighbor, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye' while the log is in your own eye?

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Meti99(m): 5:28pm On Jun 15, 2023
isabi2lof:
With all these comments from the male folks , you guys will end up marrying yourself undecided

I won't be moved by a bit , if we have many gay marriages in the future.
Gayy? Nah nah
Las las na baby mamas go take over 😀

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by isabi2lof: 5:30pm On Jun 15, 2023
Rayban25:


Na una go pursue us to marry you if not hunger go kill your gender

Because we dont need marriage to the same degree that women do
You sef you no say ,na man need woman pass, either ways una go still spend money directly or indirectly.

Una no need marriage liadat but sex nko ,you fit talk say your gender no need sex grin

People no need marriage but same people no fit do without sex ,as long as una need sex from my gender ,una go still pay 😜

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by talented321: 5:31pm On Jun 15, 2023
Fact, real men are not afraid of marriage unlike women, as for me no matter how the world bad reach to marry 1 to 2 women is too sure and it is the last thing i will fear on earth
Rayban25:


Na una go pursue us to marry you if not hunger go kill your gender

Because we dont need marriage to the same degree that women do

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by isabi2lof: 5:31pm On Jun 15, 2023
Meti99:

Gayy? Nah nah
Las las na baby mamas go take over 😀
E better na , at least everybody go dey for open relationship

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