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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Anny69: 6:27pm On Jun 15, 2023
Expensiveboo:
The day she came into my room and saw me smoking loud, she asked me to pass it to her...
๐Ÿ˜‚You attract your kind.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by knightphoenix: 6:34pm On Jun 15, 2023
Reminderz:
okay... let's do this.

the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..

some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..

1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...

2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her

3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..

4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch

5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..

6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers

7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!

8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!

9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...

10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...

11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..

12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself

13) if she bleaches, dump her!

14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her!
My brodaa you are a prophet....
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Aigbedion141: 6:37pm On Jun 15, 2023
[facts! ]

Lol......woman no dey love man...na the way u care for them with your money dem dey love[/quote]

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Honeydenz(f): 6:39pm On Jun 15, 2023
yetty247:
I be him Money bag and He is always broke

I was serving wen i met him while he works with a firm in Lag.. After serves ko na me still dey fund am


i knew we can't be but loff still hold the mumu till they started demanding I bring my man home and baba started acting tho i was doubting our togetherness because i can't shoulder our responsibilities alone and i told him. Alhamdulilahi i took the best decision
Lol, u had a liability for a boyfriend. How did he manage to toast you in the first instance. And the guys will be here calling ladies liabilities, while they have the highest number. One of my aunt had to separate from her liability husband after two kids, u hear me ? Two damn kids! She didn't think it twice when she's d one practically playing d role of hubby and wifey all together, merchewww

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Badadvisor: 6:47pm On Jun 15, 2023
Galaxydon1:
She wears only one bra everyday despite working in a big company.
Guy cheesy grin
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Emmyviva: 6:47pm On Jun 15, 2023
If she comes up with various format for billing

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by talented321: 6:47pm On Jun 15, 2023
Maybe the manchi they scatter her head in the other room,
Honeydenz:

Lol, u had a liability for a boyfriend. How did he manage to toast you in the first instance. And the guys will be here calling ladies liabilities, while they have the highest number. One of my aunt had to separate from her liability husband after two kids, u hear me ? Two damn kids! She didn't think it twice when she's d one practically playing d role of hubby and wifey all together, merchewww

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by omooba969(m): 6:48pm On Jun 15, 2023
thinkmoney:

I will quickly dissect your nature from this your comment (and your mind will tell u I am right); you are one of those people that hates at least one major tribe in Nigeria.
If I was a lady, I wonโ€™t date you. Your comment is a red flag

@bolded - If you were a lady and you were actually gonna date him, would you date for love? ๐Ÿ˜’
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Badadvisor: 6:48pm On Jun 15, 2023
SugarGirl44:
Excessive laughter on our first date when nothing is funny, and when I asked he said thatโ€™s his nature.
Such a joker.
Might be on pills lol

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Badadvisor: 6:54pm On Jun 15, 2023
pizzzy:
She told me that at the age of 13 she was r@ped by her dad's friend. I mumu wishly grin thought and hoped that she has recovered from the traumatic experience but fast forward a month later she said she has boil inner her v-jay that she poured hand sanitizer in her v-jay just to be hurt the boil for making her go through pains. Na there i borrow leg(japa) which kind werey be dat
๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Ogechi98: 7:01pm On Jun 15, 2023
Man broda na long story Sha..
Theboss001:


How you go dey in relationship with olosho
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by talented321: 7:02pm On Jun 15, 2023
As u turn boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time, maybe the manchi dey scatter ur head for the other room.(no vex O)
yetty247:
I be him Money bag and He is always broke

I was serving wen i met him while he works with a firm in Lag.. After serves ko na me still dey fund am


i knew we can't be but loff still hold the mumu till they started demanding I bring my man home and baba started acting tho i was doubting our togetherness because i can't shoulder our responsibilities alone and i told him. Alhamdulilahi i took the best decision

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by kingriches2005: 7:02pm On Jun 15, 2023
talented321:
Yes, the red flag. As for me after one month into relationship madam don go pierce all ears and nose with leg chain, i ask am say why u go do all this without informing me madam say she want to suprise me, i say you no suprise me na shock you shock me, after that incident i just lost interest in her but unknown to her because she get tight puna and i still want to chop am small. precious anywhere you are i enjoy our sex.

Guy you no well.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by isabi2lof: 7:03pm On Jun 15, 2023
omooba969:


It's meant to be free.

Na so , e pain una wella ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Advancedman(m): 7:11pm On Jun 15, 2023
taylor89:
Na me be the red flag

Infact i be red campaign billboard banner

When you hear your parents talk about run away from wrong partners na me them dey talk about

I have tried relationships two times now

I mean I gave all of me & money time at the end I get served

Ever since then Iโ€™ve lost feelings towards women and Iโ€™m on my revenge mission

Women are not worth it

As a guy just imagine how many people serious babe or fiancรฉ you don knack

No rejoice brother na so them dey knack your own

Like that woman you treat like egg and lose appetite when her number doesnโ€™t go on weekends is what some guy somewhere doesnโ€™t value

That your babe you dey see like prayer point another guy wey no even reach you dey avoid her cal after sex

Quite agree with you.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Anny69: 7:11pm On Jun 15, 2023
SugarGirl44:
Excessive laughter on our first date when nothing is funny, and when I asked he said thatโ€™s his nature.
Such a joker.
๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by GindoX(m): 7:15pm On Jun 15, 2023
Lucky5000:
She use my power bank to charge her own power bank

grin grin grin bad behaviour!
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Honeydenz(f): 7:24pm On Jun 15, 2023
He was married but hide it from me for seven months we dated with two separate abortions, baba was d originator of lies. From am a consultant in an oil company, (while he was actually a small business owner, shop owner) to am a bachelor still searching for the right woman to marry (while he's married with two kids)

He was the last man I feel mugu for,it was so painful that over 6 of his successors paid dearly for d deciet till I found my gentleman hubby.

SMH

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by kaywhy09(m): 7:30pm On Jun 15, 2023
Brainmytool:
Small thing she don hold my pim pim. Small hug she go hold my pim pim dey drag am. grin

I leave am, make person pikin no go comot my pim pim. Na my pim pim, no be me and she dey share am. grin

no be wey e end o. Small play she go bite my laps and goosebumps go fill my body. I think sey na play we dey play until she start to dey bite nipple. Na wen i leave kpata kpata.
Becos i know sey she fit strangle me one day and na only son i be. I no like rough play atal. grin

Pim pim, you mean your car horn?? cheesy
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Therock5555(m): 7:33pm On Jun 15, 2023
Omoh me nah confirm red flag oh. Any girl wey do anyhow go see anyhow.

Na me be the red flag wey you go see from your girl cause na people girlfriends I dey follow, if girl tell me say she single, I'll lose interest, you must have a serious boyfriend to pickle my attention.

Ask around, I don't have shame grin

Girls don show me shege and me sef don show plenty girls shege promax, so nobody loses.

Anyway read my life story, "hell hath no fury" thread, make you see queen of red flags wey nearly kill me before my timegrin

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Jefferyhi86(m): 7:44pm On Jun 15, 2023
Bros even the religions ones are dangerous, imagine having a 40days fasting at redeem n still avin sex,dem de use church cover face
Reminderz:
okay... let's do this.

the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..

some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..

1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...

2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her

3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..

4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch

5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..

6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers

7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!

8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!

9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...

10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...

11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..

12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself

13) if she bleaches, dump her!

14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her!
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Theboss001: 7:51pm On Jun 15, 2023
Ogechi98:
Man broda na long story Sha..

The only relationship you ought to have with olosho na sexual relationship.
Anything asides that is you dey on your own unless you are not aware she's olosho

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Sojiboi(m): 7:52pm On Jun 15, 2023
Everytime buy me stout with Arizona and fish
Maybe I be snoopdog and Guinness.I carry my shoe run oh .

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Bobxin: 7:56pm On Jun 15, 2023
Skiborobo:
He was stingy een. My God!!
And this was the first comment from a female on this thread smh

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by phemmyfour: 8:05pm On Jun 15, 2023
thinkmoney:

The no calls comes in is a good way to know a good girl
Not at all
When she's with another guy, my calls won't go through. It's a way of keeping multiple partners and control when she can receive their calls without issue

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by yetty247(f): 8:07pm On Jun 15, 2023
talented321:
As u turn boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time, maybe the manchi dey scatter ur head for the other room.(no vex O)


Lmao
it was even a distance situationship
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Emperormartin(m): 8:07pm On Jun 15, 2023
Bobxin:

And this was the first comment from a female on this thread smh
Lol

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by talented321: 8:10pm On Jun 15, 2023
He come dey bill u online
yetty247:



Lmao
it was even a distance relationship

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by todugo(m): 8:13pm On Jun 15, 2023
grin grin
talented321:
Yes, the red flag. As for me after one month into relationship madam don go pierce all ears and nose with leg chain, i ask am say why u go do all this without informing me madam say she want to suprise me, i say you no suprise me na shock you shock me, after that incident i just lost interest in her but unknown to her because she get tight puna and i still want to chop am small. precious anywhere you are i enjoy our sex.
grin grin grin mad o. Me no get time for relationship with girls of this generation. Na just chop them and go ur wey.

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Sammy101111(m): 8:15pm On Jun 15, 2023
Rayban25:


Is she from imo state?


IMO girls
And Gold digging na 5and 6
IMO girls love to be everywhere and love nightlife
It is in there blood not culture
Get it
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Sammy101111(m): 8:18pm On Jun 15, 2023
Lol my red flag in a woman

I met a woman staying with her parent at her age . And two of her elder brother still live with them at home .

Yet she is complaining and want something big she want to live large .

When I notice she is from poor backsground but seeking a man to change her background I move gentle for a good future for my self

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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jun 15, 2023
When God Starts Lifting You Be Careful Of This.

Apostle Joshua Selman.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AxgLusmbJU0

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