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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by OffAir(m): 3:27pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
[You right bro. You never really sure if the other party is on the same wave length as you are. Better not to force things. Kindly reply to my email, best regards .quote author=9jvirgin post=124004631]You're not alone. I have lived in Indianapolis for 7 years, all the people I have as friends are people I encouraged to move to Indiana. As soon as they get their greencard they quickly detach from me. As I speak I do not have ONE friend in the whole city. Some friends just need your help, they don't need you. Stay calm. When you're gloriously blessed, they keep coming back. Thank God.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Brushstrokes20: 3:31pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
I'll rather be friendless than be with freNENEMIES a.k.a friendly enemies, a.k.a friendlyfoes, aka fair weather friends |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by SeriouslySense(m): 3:32pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Frenemies. Friends indeed . Sometimes we just have to give people the benefit of the doubt. Anything Nigerian, if its possible i rather stay far from it. Like friends. Make trouble no find person Brushstrokes20: 1 Like
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Brushstrokes20: 3:41pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
SeriouslySense:Sure! But the more I give them the benefits of the doubt, the more harm they unleashed on me! |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Isyakuadamu(m): 3:42pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723:[quote][/quote] It means you are an introvert. So you need to practice something if not even your wife will not find it easy |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by SeriouslySense(m): 3:44pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Focus on yourself, gain wisdom and skills, build on your future and only make friends with people that help you grow. For instance i had one Nigerian friend, like that, although i support him, but he was smart, he was talented and i learnt a lot of skills from him. Good friends are what matters, not the number of friends. For now, i am interested in friends who know engineering and science or produce so i can learn from them and who have good values. Thats the good thing, at least when you are learning something, even if you will not gain directly maybe about history, culture, engineering or some skillsets. You will grow in knowledge, unlike if you are on your own. Brushstrokes20: |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Ofemmanu1: 3:52pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
You lacked Social and Emotional Intelligence. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Dminister(m): 3:54pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
You are different. I am outgoing, I don’t just like having friends anymore since I knew most of the friends I had back then were only my friends for some benefits. My problem is I now see every Guy that comes to associate with me as someone who wants something from me. It is too bad that bad friends actually did lot of damage to me. I had worst experiences about friends. Many are just betrayals, some sort of always benefiting from you. I gave all for friends and always there to help but when it’s mine turn I can’t find someone standing for me. I go out alone and just enjoy myself the way I want. I have learnt a lots about Guys especially the Guys that comes to associate with you when they see you enjoying yourself outside. When they come to me for a drink or something else I just give them and I don’t keep contacts. You can’t possibly have genuine friends the way our society has changed. Now it is dog eat dog on the streets. 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Brushstrokes20: 3:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
SeriouslySense:Cool!... I'm incredibly a multi talented artist / artiste and my crafts has largely rendered me an Introvert, but then, no man is an ISLAND! .... Hence the exploration of my social life but I'm always disappointed. Most humans are toxic / terrible! Despite all the assistance I rendered to them, they still turned around to backbite me. If I could turn back the hands of time, I'll UN-MEET some treacherous folks. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by SeriouslySense(m): 3:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Unfortunately people are self centered. Sometimes i look at myself too, that i am self centered. Life goes on. Dminister: |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by chiboycue: 4:02pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723: At times it is good to be alone rather than associating with friends that are unreliable and that would give you issues. The lesser you socialize, the lesser your issues with people, the more peace of mind you have and the lesser your expenses. 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Nwachi22(f): 4:16pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723:Op, You’re an introvert just like me. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. I used to be worried about not having friends, and I ended up forcing myself into relationships that ended up hurting me terribly. Now, I focus on developing myself. Though I have one or two people that I confide in. The truth is that we really need people around us to be our support system as we go through life. I will advice you try to have to have two or three persons that have your best interest at heart and that you can confide in. Less friends, less bullshiiiit 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by DrDunamis(m): 4:18pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723:Man know thyself. Check your character and make personal assessments. What is your friendship for? When you do this simple things you'll not have issues again |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by hansomb: 4:24pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
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Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Oshin56(m): 4:25pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Op, there's nothing wrong with you. I can stay indoor for a month if I don't have anything doing outside. I only have one friend which is like 21 years older than me I used to seek advice from him whenever I'm having issue That's all. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Squirrel1(m): 4:33pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
hansomb:hope you took your med today? |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Aklee4994(m): 4:46pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
labake1:So you’re sharing same state with a keyboard warrior AKA slawomir. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Aklee4994(m): 4:54pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Oshin56:That’s exactly what make me not to have more friends growing up because I always found myself around those who are older than me and they always found pleasure keeping me as a friend also... Sometime I just chill and observe human behaviors like someone watching a wildlife documentaries nothing move or surprise me about you being human.I found peace not talking to anyone and also my best time is being alone😎✅ 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Udanta: 4:56pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
It is widely accepted knowledge that on average you will only have 5 true friends over a lifetime, excluding family. The others are acquaintances, hangers on, fair weather opportunists and rip off merchants. 2 Likes |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by CaptMarvel(m): 5:05pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
All of you that are like that, you should come together and be friends with yourself. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by seanery: 5:14pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
U are always online. U sure sey u get somtin doing U are just too useless online. A lady faa...!!! Candidlady: |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by gentleibraheem(m): 5:16pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Emperormartin: I think this is exactly what happened to me. though mom is not at fault cos i grew up in a very very not so speak-able area. coupled with the fact that i have an instinct for bad habits. with a weed dealership at our backyard, one or two bad boy getting killed on almost a weekly basis, it was chaos mehn. I can look back at the people in our area and say she saved my life. but then, the norms is i'm alone. and any effort to undo that is doesn't last weeks before i return to the norms. 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Padipadi(m): 5:17pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723:You are 100% normal. Maybe you are someone that can't stomach shits especially from friends who are meant to conduct themselves well. Me na via biz. I hate it when friends and families disrespect my biz. So I dey fight them Wella as much as I want. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by labake1(f): 5:21pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by eepeepook: 5:51pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
You’re a Nairalander. This isn’t news. |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by ikeno(m): 5:54pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
No time for frds and I don't need them cuz they only become your frd when you have money they can leech. I flex myself whenever I want, celebrate my birthday with my family and do my thing. Life is more peaceful without frds 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by emmyN(m): 6:04pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Bullman: Bro I don think thing tire 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by tundebasic(m): 6:06pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
remsonik:I've come to realise that christianity will make people become introverts. You can't drink, can't smoke, can't do all the things that make people socialites.... |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Onlinebar: 6:07pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ronaldo723:You're better off with a computer or a dog than 99% of humans Goodluck finding that 1% |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by tundebasic(m): 6:08pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
CaptMarvel:You say make introverts become friends with themselves? Na who go first talk? I think introverts should try and make friends with extroverts. It'll make them more open. 1 Like |
Re: I Find It Hard To Keep Friends Please Help!!!! by Illegal1(m): 6:29pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Emperormartin: omoh.......u said it all bro 1 Like |
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