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Lifestone:
Waiting be thrash. Move up, waiting you dey yarn.
The girl did the best thing. Wether it will workout for her is another thing. But I pray that it work out.
The guy will hopefully meet his level also. My advise is for him to up his game

If it was the other way round and that guy was the one that move up with his current level, leaving his low life girlfriend behind, would you still vomit this thrash, telling the girl to look for a guy of her level? You are a clear idiot

[quote author=john1101 post=124374300]He just said she didnt allow him enter the house, which is init self funny.[/quot


He didn't pay for the house so why the fuse.All along the guy was dating himself.

GEEBITE:
She moved up and he should move on right? When reverse is the case men will be labeled.

Don't mind those fools vomiting trash. If it was the guy that his level change, would they say the same thing, that the girl should move on with her level of guy?

Women want to be advanced.
Triple up!! Move up not on and watch her come back.

Pinkybush:
If it was the other way round and that guy was the one that move up with his current level, leaving his low life girlfriend behind, would you still vomit this thrash, telling the girl to look for a guy of her level? You are a clear idiot

Why is it so difficult for you guys to discuss without being rude and cursing. You guys lacked manners.
And why is it difficult to respect my personal views, you have yours. You don't have to agree with me, that's why we are all different personalty.

This is not about women ... don't generalize ... it's about the woman you choose to be with and not paying attention to really see what she is about. Were you her first man? What about her ex? Didn't she leave him for you because you were a better provider? If yes... then you should be expecting her to move up the ladder and will continue to do same. Tomorrow you may add Toyota Camry to her possession and by Christmas her gateman at her mansion will be using the Camry and she the Benz ... while you are still trying to figure out how she can afford all this luxury on the same salary. Count this as a blessing ... happen before you made her your wife.

Lifestone:
I don't get you guys argument. You mean she should remain at the same level and wait until the guy moves up before she moves too.
Nigeria men can't handle their women doing better than them, yet their games are poor.
A man should support her woman and become her champion. If you can't handle that, move on to the one you can handle

There is something called loyalty. Where are your morals? Who raised you?
If everyone operated with that format , then society will go further into chaos. Do you say a man should always leave you for a better lady anytime one comes across his way?

myyansh68:
En dy pain you . So you want make she be like you for ever or make she no achieve because her boyfriend still dy dance under the rain abi? .


J E A L O U S Y

In CAPITAL LETTERS


Abeg make she run far ooo, na those kind Men, dy poison well doing Women with peppersoup in the name of " I come for settlement "

Lack of morals. Lost generation. To you promiscuity is business. Oloshoism is stepping up. Who born you? Who raised you? C**read parents!
There is something called loyalty. If everybody operated in that format the society will go into more chaos.
Do you agree too that a guy should always leave a girl when a better one comes his way?
I advice you not to give any more advice or comment on any issue for at least six months. You need that time to meditate, re evaluate your life’s principles and re assess your life’s purpose. Your fundamentals are out of place

Lifestone:
I'm a Nigeria Man too and Married. Anytime my partner is into anything progressive, I get involved without even been invited, I offer advise, share significantly in the advancement and most of the time, they end up thanking and appreciating me for making it happen. But the fact is that I know I have to be part of that success otherwise another person will play my role and I will be left behind. Even if she's going to the wrong direction, I will usually championed her into seeing that the direction she's heading is headless.
The other part is that Men should consistently grow themselves. I am also praying for my daughter to succeed and marry a responsible and successful husband. You can't wish less

yes. Like part of asking ur wife to go sleep with that baba alaji so you guys will see moni to pay house rent

Mjshexy:
So what led to the break up, jealousy?

No, not jealousy, but discovering the woman he trusted and committed to has been a prostitute all along. The h03 just went for the highest bidder. That's not a woman anyone should be jealous of. Dude just dodged a bullet.

Some women here comments, reasoning and reactions are the reason many youth are into many crime and ritual today...
Thank God say na woman head devil still need to step up the game.
The senator will soon use her to do do ritual..

Women hate good guys, stop being good to them.

Man up brother that's a woman for you

Lekan239:
yes. Like part of asking ur wife to go sleep with that baba alaji so you guys will see moni to pay house rent

Luckily I have a good wife and we are blessed by God. I once dated a girl of this attitude. I can't cope, I freed her, and we both move towards different direction, no qualms, no sulking.
As expected I have been served breakfast before, it's all part of life. I moved.

thinkmoney:
There is something called loyalty. Where are your morals? Who raised you?
If everyone operated with that format , then society will go further into chaos. Do you say a man should always leave you for a better lady anytime one comes across his way?

Why can't you guys have debate without getting rude and personal?
Unfortunately that's the way the world is structured, including you, the manifestation is just different. I m sure my wife stayed with me because I'm her sure ticket. I stayed with my Wife because she's probably the best person to manage me. So I do not take it for granted that she won't get better vibes if I do not constantly up my games. So even though I have married her, I remained the Man in the house, her boyfriend, mentor, cheerleader and we have remained best of friends since a long while now. I have always been responsible for opening the next chapter in her life and she adores me.
So my point to today's men is to run a good game and if she wants to leave inspite, allow her, it means she's not for you. But you can't force her to stay or judge her. I don't judge because we all have our flaws

bluefilm:
Women are monkey branchers.

They will continue to monkey branch in search of the so called greener pastures or the so called prince charming.

The best you can do for yourself as a man is to never try in stopping her in her monkey branching escapades.

Focus in trying to build yourself and your career rather than being emotionally affected by her actions.

In the future, if for any reason at all, she decides to come back to you, you will now have the pleasure of either accepting her back on your own terms, or kicking her to curb.

💯

Mjshexy:
So what led to the break up, jealousy?

is this the way u reason?

Depriest2020:

Guy you've lost her to the senator. The person that rented and furnished the room for her warned her not to bring another manchi there.

If am to advise, you don't have to be upset with her, she just upgraded her status. Just see her as a f**k mate and not a girlfriend, as long as you sabi knack her well, she will always come to you for good f**k and to the senator for the money. She can introduce you to the senator as her brother, through the senator you will get better job, meet more senators and more contacts + connections.

If you assure her you won't cause trouble for her and her man-friend, then she would be free to answer her calls in your presence. Am telling you from experience, I got most of my contacts & connection through that way.

I love pragmatic people.

Well done.

Lifestone:
Waiting be thrash. Move up, waiting you dey yarn.
The girl did the best thing. Wether it will workout for her is another thing. But I pray that it work out.
The guy will hopefully meet his level also. My advise is for him to up his game

which level he dey meet? Did n't dey start together..

Lifestone:
Waiting be thrash. Move up, waiting you dey yarn.
The girl did the best thing. Wether it will workout for her is another thing. But I pray that it work out.
The guy will hopefully meet his level also. My advise is for him to up his game

As usual......he should up his game but a struggling man that got a job in an oil company should brush up and lift up his woman, afterall, she has been with him thick and thin.

Na sooo

Biglittlelois:
She moved up....she made her choice....you should move on.

So fast? Just like that? Despite all they have been through together all these while? So much for Love and relationship.
Na mumu dey Love

Manigie:
Just count your blessings and move on, man,.
Obviously this one wouldn't have made a good wife.....

Absolute truth.

jaelz:
What I Just Discovered About Women

A woman loses respect for a man or her current boyfriend once she starts getting intimate with someone that is richer and more well to do than him

Hear my story out before you judge me:

So I lost my ex about 2 months back when she became a Personal Assistant to a serving senator, I just noticed that she stopped appreciating the little money and things that I usually gave her and did for her since she started working with the senator.

She was staying at her parents house in Abuja but recently rented a place for herself and furnished it to taste, I was shocked and I asked how a girl that just started a personal assistant job with a senator and a salary of just 120k per month is able to rent a self contained apartments of about 750k per year and even furnished it to taste, she got very angry and said I should be happy for her that if I can't do it atleast she did it herself.

She has also never allowed me to stay in the house 🏠🏡 for once not to talk of coming to visit her

Well! Men are not different, either. Have you ever asked yourself why most men start disrespecting the wives of their youth that stuck and went through hell with them, simply because they are now making some few "change" as money and can now afford those sweet sixteen with firm asses and perky boobs?

Or why do boys abandon their understanding girlfriends because they are getting better attention and knacks?

It flows both ways, bro. Don't castigate that lady.

In fact, most ladies learnt how to become cheats and wicked from men. Since the day they learnt it, they simply went hay wire and cos they had learnt the act of seduction and manipulation from birth.

hensparkings1:
bro no be small use, the least I can do in my life again is to help any woman especially this lazy ones to get whatever is it they are looking for’ my ex after helping her to graduate she immediately broke up with me in 2021,in 2022 service brought her to a city closer to me we started again bro I was still spending on her, towards the end of her service after all assistance I rendered her she still broke up with me.. this ladies are opportunist instead of upgrading a lady upgrade your family member or a stranger.. little things they see for a moment makes them forget their memories

LMAO!
🤣🤣🤣

Twice beaten, multiple times shy.

uzoexcel:
is this the way u reason?

Mr man that was a simple question & not a statement of fact

Lifestone:
I don't get you guys argument. You mean she should remain at the same level and wait until the guy moves up before she moves too.
Nigeria men can't handle their women doing better than them, yet their games are poor.
A man should support her woman and become her champion. If you can't handle that, move on to the one you can handle

On the contrary, she started sleeping with the senator who rented the house and furnished it. This is why she never allowed her boy friend to visit her not to talk of sleeping in the house.

Can you now understand that? Is this what you called jealousy?

Once a woman started getting good money. Know your onions, and realize the game has changed. Mind how you talk to her or dress around her. Your little gifts may not matter cos she can afford them. I think you should give her the distance and allow her to invite you over. Sometimes, she may realise you are giving her too much space and call you back or she'll just forget you ever exist until the senator lost his seat lol

Lifestone:
Why can't you guys have debate without getting rude and personal?
Unfortunately that's the way the world is structured, including you, the manifestation is just different. I m sure my wife stayed with me because I'm her sure ticket. I stayed with my Wife because she's probably the best person to manage me. So I do not take it for granted that she won't get better vibes if I do not constantly up my games. So even though I have married her, I remained the Man in the house, her boyfriend, mentor, cheerleader and we have remained best of friends since a long while now. I have always been responsible for opening the next chapter in her life and she adores me.
So my point to today's men is to run a good game and if she wants to leave inspite, allow her, it means she's not for you. But you can't force her to stay or judge her. I don't judge because we all have our flaws

You judged that guy friend. You made him look inadequate.
Your wife choose to remain loyal to you not that she hasn’t seen somebody well of approach her even after your marriage. It’s a myth to think you are the only one that can upgrade her.
That girl in the original post wasn’t loyal and faithful. This two qualities preserve order in the society. It’s the eroding of this qualities that is one main reason why we have divorce, domestic violence, murder and chaos everywhere now.
You are not the best for anybody. Who stuck with you made an intentional decision except if it’s an slowpoke or orc that you married

jaelz:
What I Just Discovered About Women

Allow her.

How about men that opened business for their wife and she later started feeling BOSSY to him when she started earning more than him till the point where she took the kids and left him.

My brother. That girl is gone, better stop calling her phone if you don't want to humiliate yourself.

Lifestone:
Why can't you guys have debate without getting rude and personal?
Unfortunately that's the way the world is structured, including you, the manifestation is just different. I m sure my wife stayed with me because I'm her sure ticket. I stayed with my Wife because she's probably the best person to manage me. So I do not take it for granted that she won't get better vibes if I do not constantly up my games. So even though I have married her, I remained the Man in the house, her boyfriend, mentor, cheerleader and we have remained best of friends since a long while now. I have always been responsible for opening the next chapter in her life and she adores me.
So my point to today's men is to run a good game and if she wants to leave inspite, allow her, it means she's not for you. But you can't force her to stay or judge her. I don't judge because we all have our flaws

To further show the serious fault line in your argument; you may be certain now that you will always upgrade your game giving your wife the only reason she stick with you. However, something do often happen in the world today, an it’s incapacitation due to unforeseen events like accidents and sickness. At that point, ones life quality gets drastically reduced . If society works the way you argue, then your wife would be smart or even be in the right to leave your sorry **s.loyalty and faithful are two golden qualities that make living a bit easy.
I hope you can see points now and re evaluate your your life principle. I will urge you not to infect your children with this your present principle, else the world plunge further into chaos, betrayal and darkness

thinkmoney:
You judged that guy friend. You made him look inadequate.
Your wife choose to remain loyal to you not that she hasn’t seen somebody well of approach her even after your marriage. It’s a myth to think you are the only one that can upgrade her.
That girl in the original post wasn’t loyal and faithful. This two qualities preserve order in the society. It’s the eroding of this qualities that is one main reason why we have divorce, domestic violence, murder and chaos everywhere now.
You are not the best for anybody. Who stuck with you made an intentional decision except if it’s an slowpoke or orc that you married

Bro, he can't force this girl who has moved on to stay. So my point is that if at the end she moves, you've got to move on too and stop sulking. In my earlier post, I told you a girl I paid for her education refused to marry me, so what can I do, I have to move on. I believe the OP will move on.
To avoid what you painted above, I married at my level, a girl who loves me. That girl has moved, he should let her be

Lifestone:
He gave the summary, without stating what are chain of events that led to that.
One sided narrations

you have a betraying spirit in you. you cannot be trusted as a friend. so , when she didn't have anything, she was in the same level with the guy. but the moment she got something, she finally discover she is above her boyfriend level? may God save your friends from you. you are evil and bad