Runnerzz:
Even before she upgraded she was never urs but u were too blind in love to notice.

Styluss:
That's not jelousy! A man is expected to assist a woman if they have a breakthrough. When a woman breaks through, they see the man as below standard, I dont blame them, I think that's how most of them are wired. Only the ones with fear of God and a good hometraining will stick with the man and elevate him.
I think you are like the later, you see supporting a man as jelousy

Mjshexy:
Whatever suits your mouth you can say, i dont know you from Adam

Biglittlelois:
She moved up....she made her choice....you should move on.

Lifestone:

I'm a Nigeria Man too and Married. Anytime my partner is into anything progressive, I get involved without even been invited, I offer advise, share significantly in the advancement and most of the time, they end up thanking and appreciating me for making it happen. But the fact is that I know I have to be part of that success otherwise another person will play my role and I will be left behind. Even if she's going to the wrong direction, I will usually championed her into seeing that the direction she's heading is headless.
The other part is that Men should consistently grow themselves. I am also praying for my daughter to succeed and marry a responsible and successful husband. You can't wish less

Depriest2020:

Guy you've lost her to the senator. The person that rented and furnished the room for her warned her not to bring another manchi there.

If am to advise, you don't have to be upset with her, she just upgraded her status. Just see her as a Bleep make and not a girlfriend, as long as you sabi knack her well, she will always come to you for good f**k and to the senator for the money. She can introduce you to the senator as her brother, through the senator you will get better job, meet more senators and more contacts + connections.

If you assure her you won't cause trouble for her and her man-friend, then she would be free to answer her calls in your presence. Am telling you from experience, I got most of my contacts & connection through that way.

Wodu89:




You don't have sense. Not just as a man but as a human being. If everyone keeps dropping people like that would society not be in chaos. Oponu.

Isn't it a nice British Naija lady working in Met police, came for reality show, saw a man, got married to him and today there's bliss and peace all over her.


You think like a wretched poor person. This is your thought pattern. That of wretched poor people. Disloyalty, wretchedness and betrayal.


E go meet you for front

talented321:
And would have make the same sentence if it is the opposite?.

Biglittlelois

otipoju:


I will never date a poor girl in my life ever again.

Treacherous lots....many of them

talented321:
Is ur name sha,

Biglittlelois:

Don't be daft, sense is free.

Wodu89:



Any smell of treacherousness must be far. Very far

Depriest2020:

Guy you've lost her to the senator. The person that rented and furnished the room for her warned her not to bring another manchi there.

If am to advise, you don't have to be upset with her, she just upgraded her status. Just see her as a Bleep make and not a girlfriend, as long as you sabi knack her well, she will always come to you for good f**k and to the senator for the money. She can introduce you to the senator as her brother, through the senator you will get better job, meet more senators and more contacts + connections.

If you assure her you won't cause trouble for her and her man-friend, then she would be free to answer her calls in your presence. Am telling you from experience, I got most of my contacts & connection through that way.

Lifestone:

I don't get you guys argument. You mean she should remain at the same level and wait until the guy moves up before she moves too.
Nigeria men can't handle their women doing better than them, yet their games are poor.
A man should support her woman and become her champion. If you can't handle that, move on to the one you can handle

otipoju:



One girl that I helped to ruse many years back betrayed me in the most atrocious way. She sabbed me face to face and twisted the knife.

I just told her that only ingratitude behave like she did and I will be fine because I don dey game before she begin menstruating.

Last week she beg me for money. I no say yes and I no say no... But fear sef no gree am send account number.

Boys keep hustling and developing yourself. Na kings we be.

WatchYourSix:


Support?? Its not rocket science, His girl is already cheating on him..and u blaming him of no support.....

Being rich will always be relative....if u are sayin its okay for a woman to drop a man in the name of moving up becos the next rich man has showed up...then it wont matter what the sons u are training have.....because there will always be richer man....

Everyone expects a little bit of loyalty in their relationship men or women...

.na because e never happen to you.. make ur wife leave u because a rich man likes her and gave a house and a g-wagon....lets see if u will support her
.

Lifestone:

You got me all wrong, of course a woman should be loyal, my points are of two ways, get involve with the life of your woman, if you don't another person will
Keep working at yourself so that you as desired as always. I have met several young men with very poor games. You don't have to be a billionaire to be an A list man,. That's my point.
When a girl ditch you, move on stop sulking, you've just learnt another lesson.

WatchYourSix:


Baba..its easy to say when u are not the OP

Make ur wife start spreadig legs for another man...then up and leave u because he's richer giving her all luxury u cant afford .......baba...u go sulk...b4 u move on....because he go pain u....

And sometimes women do behave like this no matter how strong ur game is......

talented321:
They forget the past easily, as she dey with the senator now sef, if the governor call her now she will abandon the senator and move on with the govo.
But to tell u the truth many of this girls wey una complain of na run girls yet una went into relationship with them.

jaelz:
What I Just Discovered About Women

A woman loses respect for a man or her current boyfriend once she starts getting intimate with someone that is richer and more well to do than him

Hear my story out before you judge me:

So I lost my ex about 2 months back when she became a Personal Assistant to a serving senator, I just noticed that she stopped appreciating the little money and things that I usually gave her and did for her since she started working with the senator.

She was staying at her parents house in Abuja but recently rented a place for herself and furnished it to taste, I was shocked and I asked how a girl that just started a personal assistant job with a senator and a salary of just 120k per month is able to rent a self contained apartments of about 750k per year and even furnished it to taste, she got very angry and said I should be happy for her that if I can't do it atleast she did it herself.

She has also never allowed me to stay in the house 🏠🏡 for once not to talk of coming to visit her

Cc: lalasticlala Seun onila farano mynd44

candygist:


I laugh on guys that spend money on girlfriends. You should know that every woman have a price and when the highest bidder comes, the highest bidder wins. Now them never leave you after all the money way you done spend on her ?

Wodu89:



Dirty thinking. Mentality of an ordinary gutter girl. Olosho oshi. What a nasty, dirty, narssistic mentality. That's why they avoid Nigerian ladies like plague overseas. What a flithy mindset. Better find yourself a good therapist and church and clear out the baggage of filth in your mind. Oponu

Manigie:
Just count your blessings and move on, man,.
Obviously this one wouldn't have made a good wife.....

nnamdizen:
There is no argument anywhere sir, you may have misunderstood my post, maybe out of spite for "Nigerian men" as you have categorized us, but my two cent about the matter at hand is that we men most times dont get our priorities right especially when we are involved with the opposite sex, but they on the other hand knows exactly what they came for and how to get it, when they sense decline or reduction in the benefit they came for, or get a better offer elsewhere, they switch without looking back. That my friend is called business transaction and nothing more!

Lifestone:

You are completely mannerless. I'm discussing with you in a very civil manner and listen to your responses.
I can't join issues with your type. You lack home training.

jagorinho:

You can't really blame that guy you responded to, your initial post was not well thought out.

By your analogy you are obliterating the need for honesty and loyalty just for material gains in the name of moving up the social strata, that is a bad trait, what if the president comes for the said lady, she will definitely leave the senator and the cycle continues, is that moving up or a girl that has turn to slave to her innate emotions and lacks the ability to be loyal and honest.

jaelz:
What I Just Discovered About Women

A woman loses respect for a man or her current boyfriend once she starts getting intimate with someone that is richer and more well to do than him

Hear my story out before you judge me:

So I lost my ex about 2 months back when she became a Personal Assistant to a serving senator, I just noticed that she stopped appreciating the little money and things that I usually gave her and did for her since she started working with the senator.

She was staying at her parents house in Abuja but recently rented a place for herself and furnished it to taste, I was shocked and I asked how a girl that just started a personal assistant job with a senator and a salary of just 120k per month is able to rent a self contained apartments of about 750k per year and even furnished it to taste, she got very angry and said I should be happy for her that if I can't do it atleast she did it herself.

She has also never allowed me to stay in the house 🏠🏡 for once not to talk of coming to visit her

Cc: lalasticlala Seun onila farano mynd44