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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Gokuuu(m): 4:32pm On Sep 07, 2023
Reminderz:
lol they know how to cook up emotional stories... lol she don go on adventures with the bad boys con dey cook up stories for you in order to make it feel like it was all the fault of the guys she dated... she wanted fun, she had fun, all those cock and bullshit stories nor sell for here... lol they always run away from accountability...

well, since you sef don reign in your fornication period, I think you guys really fit each other....

this is why I keep telling ladies, those good men wey una dey leave for the bad guys know wetin dem dey do... since they are in the game, they know who to look out for when searching for something serious... the signs are always there but since they feel the nice guy is stupid and foolish, they move to the bad guy intentionally because to them, "he's fun and adventurous"... and when shit finally hit the fan, they come back running... op, you guys fit each other, since you're both great fornicators... in fact, you guys will produce wonderful kids cool
lol, the game is the game
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by ExtremeDot: 4:32pm On Sep 07, 2023
Don't forgive her past. A snake will always be a snake.

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Shantyken(m): 4:33pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed

Guy not like she was an ashawo na just disappointment wey everyone dey experience for relationships so put that aside and love her beautiful soul. Abi wat if she follow think of ur own past activities
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by FireUpNow(m): 4:34pm On Sep 07, 2023
Okay oo
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Hollandia2030: 4:34pm On Sep 07, 2023
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O lor far inside life… waa lo beh ni abi bawo kilo think lipsrsealed

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by charlesdinho(m): 4:36pm On Sep 07, 2023
you said you dated some ladies. are you trying to say you did not make out with any of them? na sex she sex, she no do abortion or kill person
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by DenreleDave(m): 4:36pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed

Marry her

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Quintuple: 4:36pm On Sep 07, 2023
Brostitute, you all have identical past, why not move to the next step?
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by ddd4ky: 4:36pm On Sep 07, 2023
Not forgotten. You just mentioned how you guys slept with her. You can always remind her of your sexual days anytime she tried to feel too big. No matter her position. She remain your ex-sexual partner and can tell it to her face.


quote author=kingthreat post=125637303]Be a man and forget her past. Infact forget her body count.
There's this freaky babe that 10 years ago was very wild. This girl did threeesome with my friend and I. We started even avoiding her because she had numerous sexual partners.
But as we speak, she's in Canada working in a top company there. Always showcases her family in a graceful way that you might even envy. Her past is gone and forgotten. [/quote]
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by madprophet(m): 4:37pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed

Go and pray well before you marry this babe oo.

I wish you best of luck
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by crazygod(m): 4:40pm On Sep 07, 2023
You are just looking for an excuse to dump her. Do it already and stop wasting people's data. You no get past? Even you consider yourself to be a 'brostitute' so what's your problem? Mtchew

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by ukaface(f): 4:41pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed
So the problem is: in her past she slept with her exes, and also in your past you slept with your exes. But the issue is that her own sleeping is disturbing you but your own is not bothering you.
All these men sef

You be brostitute you meet person like you and you are judging and feeling disturbed about her past.
Sense( uche) no dey

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by 9jaBloke: 4:41pm On Sep 07, 2023
Dearest site

Finally

Gone to the 🐶🐶

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by jubrilELsudan: 4:42pm On Sep 07, 2023
ABEG YOU FIT SEND ME HER CONTACTS CAUSE I FOR LIKE FVCK HER

Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Reelmii: 4:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
Oga u get winch,, winch dey ur body...why are men so selfish.....are u a virgin .....abeg free he if u know u will still use her past against her.....some men sha.....men will sleep around but will judge a woman for doing same that is pure witchcraft

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by moneyissweet(m): 4:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
If her name is Happiness then she is a retired prostitute in ivory coast.


ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Wodu89: 4:44pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed



Too much analysis. Over analysis is causing this one paralysis.Deal with your demons
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by omooba969(m): 4:45pm On Sep 07, 2023
ugodson:
Her past matters but bro dont be like the once who has used her.
I think she is a good girl for her to come clean and tell you all that she did.
Maybe na ur ticket in travelling out. Some ladies come to this world with blessings, brother if everything is going well for you since you met this lady i STRONGLY ADVISE you KEEP HER.

@bolded,

Make una dey deceive una selves, so men don't come with their own blessings ehn.

If I knock that ya coconut head. undecided

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Styluss: 4:45pm On Sep 07, 2023
How old is she?

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by MightySparrow: 4:47pm On Sep 07, 2023
The past you were told is better than the past you found out.

If you are convinced she is sincere with her stories, go ahead.

Clean past does not always ensure a beautiful future.

Besides, what is God saying?

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by mrlarry: 4:47pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother.

She is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the only person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

So in the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she and some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported to to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed


Hello,

For a lady to bear it all and told you all that, it really means she likes you. Devil known is far better than angel you don't know. If you dump her for another lady, do you know if the other lady pasts is worse than hers? It's because she opened up to you. The other lady out their may not open up and would be a devil that you will regret for the rest of your life.

Stick to that lady, she is a wife material and her types is rare these days. That's your wife.
Delay is dangerous and tomorrow may be too late.
Thanks!

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by IamAsiri: 4:48pm On Sep 07, 2023
elipheleh:
OP my candid advice is to drop her. She is damaged. And very manipulative.

She didn't cry for those numerous sex partners. But she is guilt tripping you with her fake tears.

Just take your own help and leave her. First find another woman you can love, then leave the girl when you're ready to marry your new woman

You cannot advise OP to leave her now? Why later? Or is OP not one of those who have also "damaged" lots of girls? Are the "damagers" okay to start fresh lives while the "damagees" are stigmatised for life?

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Dancebreaker: 4:48pm On Sep 07, 2023
ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.

she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now.

We had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine.

Though I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute grin,

more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys.

What kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex .

I love her but her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.

Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.

Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything

Please your candid advice I'd needed
Ok, kick her out. Then marry the one that will tell you she has had only 2 boyfriends BUT in fact has had 35 bfs and 13 abortions.

Her womb fit nor dey intact sef. shocked shocked

You never know ladies.

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by dominique(f): 4:49pm On Sep 07, 2023
A "brostitute" is concerned about someone else's past. E be things o! So your own past doesn't matter, it's her past you're having headache about. If that lady has an atom of sense, she will run far away from this walking red flag.

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Nobody: 4:50pm On Sep 07, 2023
Cc: Twoclans
See what I was just telling you I'm my response to that comment you left for me.

Kind of a coincidence..lol

One day you'll wish you never were rebellious.
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by IamAsiri: 4:50pm On Sep 07, 2023
mrlarry:



Hello,

For a lady to bear it all and told you all that, it really means she likes you. Devil known is far better than angel you don't know. If you dump her for another lady, do you know if the other lady pasts is worse than hers? It's because she opened up to you. The other lady out their may not open up and would be a devil that you will regret for the rest of your life.

Stick to that lady, she is a wife material and her types is rare these days. That's your wife.
Delay is dangerous and tomorrow may be too late.
Thanks!

Leave him o. He wants to use his wife to do girlfriend undecided. He wants an untouched girl who will not cringe and run after hearing his own tale with different women shocked.

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Microwhy: 4:50pm On Sep 07, 2023
Unclebayo:
Her past really matters BEWARE
No be lie..

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Epistasis(m): 4:50pm On Sep 07, 2023
Leave her alone then...she deserves a better person.

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by sylve11: 4:51pm On Sep 07, 2023
Reminderz:
lol they know how to cook up emotional stories... lol she don go on adventures with the bad boys con dey cook up stories for you in order to make it feel like it was all the fault of the guys she dated... she wanted fun, she had fun, all those cock and bullshit stories nor sell for here... lol they always run away from accountability...

well, since you sef don reign in your fornication period, I think you guys really fit each other....

this is why I keep telling ladies, those good men wey una dey leave for the bad guys know wetin dem dey do... since they are in the game, they know who to look out for when searching for something serious... the signs are always there but since they feel the nice guy is stupid and foolish, they move to the bad guy intentionally because to them, "he's fun and adventurous"... and when shit finally hit the fan, they come back running... op, you guys fit each other, since you're both great fornicators... in fact, you guys will produce wonderful kids cool

Judge Orwell well done o cool

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Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by Exceed15: 4:51pm On Sep 07, 2023
Everyone has past. If you can deal with please let her go but know that you will hardly meet a girl who possess her traits/ character.
Re: She Is A Lovable Person But Her Past Keeps Popping Up In My Head by omooba969(m): 4:53pm On Sep 07, 2023
charlesdinho:
you said you dated some ladies. are you trying to say you did not make out with any of them? na sex she sex, she no do abortion or kill person

Even if she did abortions, what's the big deal?

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