rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....

What other do you want?

The answer is YES.

What they make out of their friendship now depends on their own individual personalities and characteristics.

So,, I cannot generalize anything here.

Very dengerious, man and woman friendship one person mind must be there to Bleep.

rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....

it's the samething as giving a cat fish to hold, one day the cat will definately eat the fish. I remember my neighbour then in lagos and single lady we were very good friends, she can enter my house go inside my kitchen, open my pot and dish food for herself thats how close we are, she tells me everything, she can be in my room till 12 midnight watching dstv and charging her phone and nothing dey happen between us, it was that way for a year plus! THEN ONE DAY I CAME BACK FROM FELA SHIRINE AND I DON SMOKE WEED AND I WAS SO HIGH AS Bleep AND I HEARD A KNOCK ON MY DOOR, AND IT WAS TIEING JUST WRAPPER ON HER CHEST, I HUGGED HER TIGHT AND I WHISPER TO HER EARS AND TOLD HER THAT SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL, BEFORE I KNEW IT SHE STARTED KISSING ME AND WE HAD MIND BLOWING SEX. and that was the only time we had sex untill i parked and left the compound. I BELIEVED I'VE ANSWERED YOUR QUESTION

jimpix11:
Yes,

I used to have a very close friend in my uni days. We never f*ucked but did all other sheri sheri.

It's been 12years now, she's happily married but I still regret not gbanshing that pussy.


Terrible terrible mate. Those nights when I fingered her deep down still hunts me.

Ere kini Aja ba ekun se

If u finga her u don FK her no 🧢🧢🧢

casualobserver:


With due respect she is not acting right and you are not acting properly. Think to yourself, would you like your wife running to a man with all your marital problems, would you not feel disrespected? So why do that to another man?

The only male a wife should take her marital problems to (if she must her problems outside) are a male relative or her husband’s closest friend. Note I use singular. A good wife has one, no more than 2 male relatives or her husbands’ confidants that she can trust with her marital problems, if they are such that need external intervention. Her marital problems are not your business and again I repeat you are disrespecting her husband. What goes around comes around.

If she had any sense as a woman she wouldn’t bring her marital problems to you, if you had any wisdom as a man, and we’re truly her friend, you would tell her she is disrespecting her marriage and her husband by bringing her marital affairs to you. That is the acid test of your so called friendship. The minute you do she will stop calling you, but it is the right thing to tell her. So you see now that you really are not friends. Because you should be able to tell the truth to a friend without the relationship ending.

As a man you have no business in another woman’s marital affairs, the only women that should ever come to you are the wives of your best friend/brother/s or your sister/relative.

They're friends and he's a man who she thinks would probably understand the mind of another man and she trusts him not to mislead her. Must she take advice from her family members even when she feels that she doesn't want family members involved?

Vinnie2000:


Make Una continue to dey Deceive unaSelves .

I have done this Female Bestie thingy and I can Tell you, Is a WASTE of Time.

Most Female Besties of Guys Just wants to Use Them to Pass time!
They will Hug, Touch and be Rubbing you but Steadily looking for a Rich Dude for proper relationship.

Once they see such Guy, they will DUMP you!

Bestie means best of friends not romantic friends na. Some of una no just sabi anything

Usmanovic95:


Lol,as long as you are not his father's daughter and he is not your mother's son, nothing concerns a man with a functioning prick, he can go downtown and still remain beneficial.That's how my gender roll✌️

speak for yourself man. Not all your gender

iamtardey:
when you dey plan fxck her wotowoto New year eve is tomorrow sha sharp

mumu talk.

I can be friends with the opposite gender I won't even have a feeling for you as Long as u are married but I will care about you cos I can never knowingly have intimate relationship with someone that is married.i no my boundary.

Yes

Yes they can be friends

brain54:
Some of the best friendships I ever had...

Have actually been with women!

hmmm this is usual with simps

malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

it’s a lie no matter the pretense and claims of decency , inner most part of the heart the thoughts and feelings are there, nature na wonders

brain54:
Some of the best friendships I ever had...

Have actually been with women!

Without defiling them or defiling yourself? I mean committing sin? It's either they lure you to sin or you lure them to sin. Goat and yam cannot stay together ooo

Shomek:

omo u dey try Oo

It's a thing of the mind.

Very possible. As a man it is not every shape and size of women we are sexually attracted to same thing applies to women. So you can be friends with the opposite sex without any sexual affair.

Eriokanmi:
Yes.There's nothing bad about it. Only in Nigeria are we seeing it as a big deal. I had 2 female friends with whom there are no strings attached. I met the first one on a journey. We travelled on same bus from Abuja to lagos. On the way, bus had an issue which took hours to fix. We had to stop in Ibadan around mid night.

I told the driver who insisted he must proceed to lagos that I'd not risk it and that instant, the lady too alighted. We picked the only available bike which took us to a nearby hotel. The lady wanted paying for the room but I insisted on paying so we checked in. We passed the night in same room, nothing happend. Till today, she holds me in high esteem. She's married with a daughter already.

I invited the other lady for a medical outreach. We agreed to share same hotel room and we were there for 4 days after which she left for her location. All it requires is discipline. We're best frienqds today

Accolades!!!

MICVOCT

Eriokanmi:
It's a thing of the mind.

ok

My bestie is a female and we have been like that over 2 decades
I always see her as my blood sister
Though have seen people sleeping with their blood sister
But I can't and will never

maasoap:

They're friends and he's a man who she thinks would probably understand the mind of another man and she trusts him not to be mislead her. Must she take advice from her family members even when she feels that she doesn't want family members involved?

I support you
Some men minds are dirty towards women
No self control Mtchew

At first yes, but it is not sustainable because one will definitely fall for the other.

maasoap:

They're friends and he's a man who she thinks would probably understand the mind of another man and she trusts him not to be mislead her. Must she take advice from her family members even when she feels that she doesn't want family members involved?

If she can't see a single man from husband family and no single man from her own family to be discussing her marital issueS with but unrelated male friend, such woman is nothing but rag. She is olosho in making who wouldn't think twice to bed her so called bestie.


Ask urself honest question, if ur wife is fun of discussing ur marital issueS with her male friend, how would you feel?

malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

Have had so many female friends, not even a single thought of sex crosses my minds.
Some I even unconsciously see them as fellow men.

Kaybaba5:

I support you
Some men minds are dirty towards women
No self control Mtchew

You call ur girlfriend by 9pm ,she says she is with her male friend , gisting inside room!

Your wife is taking food out, you ask her,she says ,she is taking it to Mr David her male friend,a single father that leaves in Estate which is about a mile from ur place.

I guess the two scenarios above, your mind would still be pure as snow.

You guys should endeavour to think like rational human beings for once, endeavour to check ur comments before you post them to public platform pls.
ANYWAY MANY OF YOU DON'T BILIV IN BASTARD SHA, ANY CHILD WIFE BRING HOME IS UR CHILD.

Olatara:
I have two male friends and I can't have sex with them. They more beneficial to me as friends.

Sometimes, I have the thoughts like if I sleep with so and so, how do we continue being friends?

Nah!!!

I reject am!

Una don see why girls like male friendship ba? If you like be foolish as a man and remain friends with a girl. Las las na you useless yourself

This strongly depends on how you define friendship. If friendship is simply about who's got your back in times of needs (materials, finance, occupational coverage, and trust), then a man and a woman will get along fine.

I have read most of the comments here, people who try to defend man and woman friendship end up shooting themselves in the leg😁. Contradicting themselves.
There's no way a man and a woman will be casual friends.
As for me I don't have any casual female friend, many have tried to get me to that zone, I quickly reject that.
It's either we are intimate, or a workplace friendship or neighbours. I don't do casual female friends.

If the person is from childhood, yes it’s easy but anything outside that, you are both deceiving yourselves

LUCASC:
I have read most of the comments here, people who try to defend man and woman friendship end up shooting themselves in the leg😁. Contradicting themselves.
There's no way a man and a woman will be casual friends.
As for me I don't have any casual female friend, many have tried to get me to that zone, I quickly reject that.
It's either we are intimate, or a workplace friendship or neighbours. I don't do casual female friends.

U see many of proponents of female besties don't know the different between CLOSE FRIEND AND (NEIGHBOURS, CO-WORKERS, SAME-CHURCH, SCH-MATES even ACQUITTANCE.)

Badmashii:



Una don see why girls like male friendship ba? If you like be foolish as a man and remain friends with a girl. Las las na you useless yourself

You want to sleep with everything that comes your way abii?

Feel free, in my world friends are friends, boundaries should be set.

malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

okay u go hear am

malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

Malaria truly dey worry you