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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by ppogba: 10:35am On Jan 11
maasoap:

I said the same thing. That job made her depressed.

Plus the likelihood of not having a serious relationship at that age.

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:38am On Jan 11
ThierryJay:


She must have used the bank premises so as to clearly implicate the bank as the primary cause of her decision.

If she committed suicide at home, people might attribute it to relationship issues or other remote causes.

It's her way of telling the bank, "this is on you", and by extension she's brought the plight of other hapless bank marketers to limelight for others to fight their cause.




True. I think some of those banks will adjust their policy henceforth
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by maasoap(m): 10:41am On Jan 11
Bmaster:
people sef,
Which kind pain I never pass through for this life,.
Born as a sicklers,grew up with pains and tears,all hope lost and no friends.
The worst of all is that when my crisis normally starts na for midnight when nobody is there to help me,no medicine around,no body to take me to hospital till morning time.
But I still dey survive dey manage anyhow,then someone very healthy like this got the mind to take her life,?
Why not enter tinder app and start Ashawo job?
Once again, she's a coward,or may be somehow has an evil spirit hovering inside her mindset
Is this necessary? Why don't you keep your smelly mouth shut or dirty fingers off your phone and let sane people contribute? Because you were able to weather the storm so far, you now think everybody should have the same mental capacity as you?
You were born into your suffering, you grew up in it, that might have been one of the reasons why you have excellent coping mental attitude

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:41am On Jan 11
Focusmind:
......And she must have celebrated the day she got the offer letter from the bank. Depression is just too wicked. Mental health and strength is very necessary. Rest in peace, young lady. Your support system seemed to have failed you. Please, speak up if you are passing through any form of stress or mental imbalance. A friend whose wife was in Canada, called that she had broken down from hectic school work, assignments and no support system to cope with and needed to come back home. Omo, my guy refused but I had to talk to him, which he later agreed.

She had to defer her studies to return back to Nigeria this last Christmas pending when she is mentally strong to continue with her studies...... this was someone that had not been in school for the past 11 years, selling baby clothing online and knew no jack again about studies. Going to school with her two kids was so overwhelming, which I understood, but the husband was looking at the money he had committed in the program. Thank God, good wisdom prevailed. Sometimes, it is good to speak up about your challenges and difficulties so that help could come. Don't mind those that may not like your decision or action. Mental health is real!

Thanks for allowing God use you for that woman, mental health issues is underrated here

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by georgeakins: 10:41am On Jan 11
Kingray10:
Your government failed you.
The rate of suicide has increased *2 in this APC regimes.
RIP.

No government failed her. She failed herself.

The same people that wish death on Jagaban are the ones killing themselves.
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by AngelicBeing: 10:42am On Jan 11
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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by maasoap(m): 10:42am On Jan 11
ppogba:


Plus the likelihood of not having a serious relationship at that age.
That job might still be why she wouldn't have time for relationship. That job took away her life when she was alive

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by Reload101: 10:43am On Jan 11
Kudos to our leaders!
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by Ubdavis(m): 10:44am On Jan 11
Me, ki my self?. Never!!
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:44am On Jan 11
MisterGrace:
It could be that her superior was pushing her too much or even threatening her to meet up with her target.

Some people are just not emotionally intelligent to know when to support or praise a staff.

They should hold her superior and the bank responsible.

Emotional intelligence in Nigeria ? Lol , very scarce

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by handsomeyinka(m): 10:44am On Jan 11
I think the government need to remove this substance off market..

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:45am On Jan 11
Codes151:
banks been cheating Nigerians, taking unnecessary charges, yet they cant pay workers well

They pay only their full staffs well, every other worker that's called contract staffs are paid peanuts
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by livebullet(m): 10:46am On Jan 11
One reason people commit suicide is , they were told life is easy, struggling to get your goals is not suppose to be.
They weren't taught reality. The Pastors are also not helping matters in this regard.

My father taught me pain is reality, how you handle it determines your survival.

Even Jesus suffered pain. But the pastors now tell us Jesus suffered pain and hard life to give us soft life. Bro that's a lie from the pit of hell!.

Life has 2 faces, joy and sorrow. Always ask for God's will. God allows both.

Oya come and beat me for telling u hard truth

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:46am On Jan 11
kingthreat:


I didn't want her sexual organs. I was just exclaiming. Guy how I go help you na talk o, because e rough for here and I dey cater for 4 people as I dey follow you talk.

U funny man grin
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by jattopeter(m): 10:46am On Jan 11
God bless You. In Banks , staff toilet is separate. She might be a Contract Staff those guys are passing through alot in all banks self. They just better pass each other small ni
ppogba:


All your assumptions are wrong if I may say.
Anyone that wants to commit suicide MAY choose anywhere they deem right.
What makes you think it is all staged?
Someone killed her inside a staff toilet in a bank? Wonderful thought!
Does is makes sense that someone kills another in such an office environment?
Did the killer forced her to write the note before killing her?

Finally, how old are you?
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:47am On Jan 11
babtoundey:
I hardly shed tears, but this time around, my emotions got the best of me. I couldn't help bearing the psychological burden she succumbed to.

I felt the news grieved me more because i could easily identify with her story. My God have mercy on her soul and give everyone battling with life the mind and courage to overcome it.

Anyone that has worked in Sales and Marketing at any of this Banks or other industries can relate

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:50am On Jan 11
winterfell007:


Not just the bank but across the private sector, just yesterday, my chairman just dismissed his deputy director just like that. I was completely shocked and frightened. I was wondering maybe he was involved in fraud but that wasn't the case. Nigeria has a very loose labour laws and this is where you expect the NLC to step up their game and parley with the NASS to pass the bills that protect the labourers both Private and Public sector. I see no reason why they shouldn't make it mandatory for company to be paying job-loss insurance for each and every of their employees and that fund can be accessed whenever those employee have been relieved of duty except in cases whereby the employee was involved in crime.

Dismissed just like that unexpectedly?

I feel his pains, wondering how he would be feeling right now

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by cucumbar: 10:50am On Jan 11
YesGodcan:
May God in his infinate mercy grant her soul eternal rest and give her relations the fortitude to bear the lose.. Amen🙏

Please my dear friends and NLanders, we are living in perilous times and the works of the wicked ones is in its highest. Ytwo days ago, I was talking to two friends, one of them has been in Germany for over 7years while the other just left Germany to Italy and their stories are the same. They are both nearly in depression with no money, no work, and no proper documentations.

I offered to pray for them since then and I have been sending them prayers and advice till this morning.

I want you to know that this problem is not limited to Nigeria or africa alone, it is worldwide and in every category.

I am pastor domenico and you can find my contact in my signature. I am always available to pray for you and also give you the best advice you may ever need especially in this very critical moment.

Happy 2024 🍾
Pastor wey dey give 5 free odds? Fake pastor.
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:51am On Jan 11
qtguru:
This is why I encourage people to be in relationship, she would have had someone to confide in, or share her problems with, or lighten her burden. This is just sad.

True. But not everyone in a relationship also enjoy such , some partners are not emotionally intelligent, their own no pass ' wahala be like bicycle' and sex.

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by spencekat(m): 10:53am On Jan 11
qtguru:
This is why I encourage people to be in relationship, she would have had someone to confide in, or share her problems with, or lighten her burden. This is just sad.
Good point, but again she had siblings to talk too.
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by giantstar: 10:53am On Jan 11
Just pray never to see depression in your life I once experienced it only God saved me.

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:53am On Jan 11
Idaraobong5:
I'm a marketer, this crosses my mind most times but I cant just do it.
Superiors will always make you feel useless and worthless.

Too bad, may God provide Something better soon dear
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by RevolverOcelot(m): 10:53am On Jan 11
She should have confided in her family and friends instead of suicide. Too bad. May the souls of the faithful departed RIP
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:53am On Jan 11
royalfly:
Be kind to people no matter what, people are suffering in silence. There is a reason I want to stupidly rich. Not for me but for the sake of helping people. With this money I will dig deep to find people who truly needs this help. God these are my sincere prayer. Only 30 percent of the wealth u give me will I use fir myself. The world is truly wicked

Beautiful mindset

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by ifko: 10:55am On Jan 11
georgeakins:


No government failed her. She failed herself.

The same people that wish death on Jagaban are the ones killing themselves.
With all the brain God gave you, this is what you can comes up with o maa see ooo
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by obasidon1(m): 10:57am On Jan 11
Many of us have gone through this stage in life. I was once in this situation and it was a miracle how I navigated through the torturing situations.
Who no go no go understand. I don’t judge the lady and I feel for her poor soul. Attached with was the suicide note I wrote some time in 2022.

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by dahunsi12(m): 10:57am On Jan 11
handsomeyinka:
I think the government need to remove this substance off market..


The substance is not the main issue just that both past and present governments has FAILED.
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by TheBillyonaire: 10:59am On Jan 11
Strategic Exit.

Cool.
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 10:59am On Jan 11
Idaraobong5:
I joined sterling bank as an ET in 2022,they gave me a target of 400m in 6 months, I was always bashed during branch and zonal meetings, the branch manager was even harrassing me sexually,I coulnt cope anymore,I left for another organisation. The struggle continues.

When people hear your Gross salary as an ET, they be like u dey earn big, not knowing when the pressure starts, either you use your own money to run targets or your figures get so low that you are being paid just basic salary without allowances.

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Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by Idaraobong5(f): 11:01am On Jan 11
CAPTIVATOR:


Too bad, may God provide Something better soon dear
Amen, but it's a bit difficult to see an offer better than what the bank is paying me.
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by Enemyofpeace: 11:01am On Jan 11
Chei! Omo, see breasts. The babe just killed herself and wasted her breasts for nothing.
Re: Banker, Amarachi Ugochukwu Commits Suicide In Lagos (Pics, Suicide Note) by CAPTIVATOR: 11:01am On Jan 11
searchng4love:

Another terrible job is the insurance sales person.... Give you 40k to start roaming Lagos.

Ahhhhhhh that one, I don't know how insurance Marketers cope. Damn

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