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Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Beverlyjean(f): 9:19pm On Jan 26 |
myami: I have always known the deal...I dint fall for it...my mom trained me well |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by olowoba2: 9:23pm On Jan 26 |
Elzazzi:The guy must not be blindfolded by “love” or emotions. An olosho will also be an olosho. The gal has probably noticed that the guy is naive and easy to deceive, as I am almost 100% certain the red flags must have been apparent in the relationship. If he doesn’t detach now, he will regret it later. I’m 100% sure of that. Tell the guy to RUN. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Testate(m): 9:36pm On Jan 26 |
skj1377:Bro, you are right. I see this shiit everyday in Abeokuta that is a very tiny city o. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Testate(m): 9:48pm On Jan 26 |
Saidfx: Bro, i see stuffs like this every day in Abeokuta. The painful part is that most of the guys are not aware of the kind of skeletons their girls have in their cupboard. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Kemadealadire(f): 9:52pm On Jan 26 |
It's her past, if your friend's cousin isn't a virgin then they are both fair and square. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Xkale1996(m): 10:04pm On Jan 26 |
Elzazzi:nawa o three some na ex olosho him wan marry na With her over used kpekus He should run away from her o Let him not marry her o She might continue cheating on him o Let him look for a decent lady to marry Which mumu love 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Blakjewelry(m): 10:06pm On Jan 26 |
JessicaRabbit:You have said it all. I love girls that blow all there past while chatting, though I have away of making people air it out. I don't judge but readily trust them because they have nothing to hide. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by cybriz82(m): 10:08pm On Jan 26 |
Relationship expert everywhere 😂 but make una no forget wetin marriage women fit do this days..I dnt judge some of this girls with there past ooooo afterall na we men till dey climb them..no b them dey climb themself n some of them are just trying to survive when without any help or job from anywhere..I knw someone wey dey do hookup just to feed n take care of her sch stuff n now she’s a graduate now work in a bank.. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by JessicaRabbit(f): 10:11pm On Jan 26 |
maasoap: Well, not wanting to scare someone away with your life experiences is not stupidity, it's self-preservation in a world that judges women harshly. But claiming transparency while omitting key details? Now that's playing with fire. More dialogue, less judging, please. I think it has to do with not disclosing vital health status when it mattered most. And it was the last straw for the fiance. The lady said it was a mistake, the man said it was intentional. Labeling someone untrustworthy based on his interpretation of one "mistake" is a red flag bigger than a matador's cape. We need context, not convenient labels. He usually complained of lack of communication from her side but I don't understand why he allowed the relationship to get this stage Hold on, honey. Don't victim-blame the leaky faucet when the pipes haven't been fixed. He complained, sure, but did he actively listen, create safe spaces for her to share, or respect her boundaries (ahem, phone password)? Blaming communication solely on one person is like ignoring the whole orchestra when the tuba's off-key. I thought the same thing but just needed a second opinion from a female who could be objective because I knew what 10 out 10 responses from men would be I risk sounding pedantic here, but I need to emphasize that objectivity thrives on individual voices, not gendered assumptions. Trust your gut, not stereotypes. This ain't a men vs. women thing, it's a complex situation needing nuance, not pre-written scripts. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by cybriz82(m): 10:19pm On Jan 26 |
More over this days na olosho dey quick marry this days so what are we not saying abeg 😂 😂 😂 |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Seunpapa65: 10:24pm On Jan 26 |
Make e no lead to this
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Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 10:25pm On Jan 26 |
mabea: You just said it all. After doing all that nonsense they will now look for one innocent guy to marry. They never marry their type |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Ed12(m): 10:26pm On Jan 26 |
Women, you should understand your past is important to men as a man future is important to you. Do well within you not to have a rotten past, resist all forms of temptation or guide your chastity jealously. And if eventually, you unfortunately make your past horrible especially sensually, KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT ABOUT YOUR PAST. Nature will do it thing wether to judge or forgive you. God is nature |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 10:26pm On Jan 26 |
Jacksparrow7: Lol forget ke ? Ladies don't forget such lol |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 10:30pm On Jan 26 |
Pinicop: Will you say same thing If it was your brother that is about marrying a stripper and you found out ? |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Ed12(m): 10:37pm On Jan 26 |
Now that I have read the story.. I can say the guy didn't vet the lady properly, he is rushing to fast to settle down. The girl is playing a marriage script for the guy. The guy is preparing to dig his own burial while still alive by having plans to take the girl where she will be emboldened by damaged women like herself and empower by government to show the guy shege promax.. He should thread carefully. Normally, in a natural society, A woman will treat you as a king until you discover her secrets, Now imagine in a society where things are tilted in her favour, my brother use your tongue to count your teeth. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by TRAPLORD13: 10:37pm On Jan 26 |
I will confront her and hear what she has to say. Her response and remorse or lack of it will determine my next move. It's possible she has turned a new leaf and wants to start a family. We are all humans after all |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Danzakidakura(m): 10:40pm On Jan 26 |
gameova:change is not just parmanent but inevitable. The lady can change. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 10:47pm On Jan 26 |
gare2510: Even if she first tell you herself. You wouldn't date her again. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by jaszplus12(m): 11:14pm On Jan 26 |
Elzazzi:People vary in their ability to absorb some tough life's shots. The ball is in his court, if he goes ahead with the wedding fine, but I'll advise he does medical checks to determine her fertility and other statuses If also he can bear the name calling, the peer and parental pressure and get real repentance and dedication from the girl, few years hence no one will find time to talk about it again. Cooperation from the lady is key. I once mentioned that in every town or village there's always the girl that every guy sleeps with, even strangers take turns on her, well, I know two of these kind, and I can tell you they married from the village and their husbands were adamant even when everyone was against the marriage! This was about 27 years ago today if anyone asks , no one can even bother...life has taken all the negative comments away!! |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Proserpina: 11:16pm On Jan 26 |
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Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by jaxxy(m): 11:37pm On Jan 26 |
Elzazzi: The guys who had the 3some with her are saints bt she's sinner? i think those friends involved her are red flags also but yes the girls fvckd up and should deal with the consequences. However I'm more concerned and who she currently is and how long she has changed to this new image/ lifestyle if at all changed. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by meetcharles: 11:38pm On Jan 26 |
JessicaRabbit:You, my friend, are an excellent poet! About the topic at hand, this man better japa🏃🏃for his and his kindred's sake. She was secretive about her past. Ain't worth the wahala abeg. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by BALLOSKI: 11:40pm On Jan 26 |
Elzazzi:You sure say no be you be the "cousin" in this story? You're in love with a stripper. I don't know how I'll settle down with someone who has had 3some before and those she did that with even know me and I know them. Think of the look they give your wife when she walks past. Love? Fvck it! |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by akube34: 12:17am On Jan 27 |
yakson84:you funny. It’s simple, we enjoy watching those things, but we know is not morally right. So who will marry dem is their problem not mine |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by aestake: 2:34am On Jan 27 |
malaria: |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by orikoku: 3:23am On Jan 27 |
Run ooo. Red flag everywhere. I repeat run ooo |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by oluwaahmed: 3:31am On Jan 27 |
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Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by luminouz(m): 3:55am On Jan 27 |
dejolly:Daisy bawo abi Dicey!!! |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by MrDoGood(m): 4:09am On Jan 27 |
Elzazzi: Yes! I used to say never when I was a kid. They can choose a private life and never run for political office else his opponent will definitely use that against him and it will create a debt. I do believe some people do truly change for the best. If he can take the past and move, I think he should go ahead. The only betrayal here is the girl not discussing about her past with him. Most people can take it and nothing anymore would say will shock them anymore. That's the only downside here. He should confront her and discuss with her. If she denies and the guy has no evidence, maybe it's not her. People look alike and the story can look exactly like theirs. She would want to keep her man at all cost and say she's seen it all. There's nothing outside and new to her anymore. Unless it's in her DNA |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by Pinicop(m): 4:38am On Jan 27 |
MyVILLAGEpeople: I would say it if it's my father that will marry her. |
Re: Can The Past Life Of A Lady Truly Be Overlooked ? by gfelo(m): 4:48am On Jan 27 |
Can a leopard ever wash off its spot |
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