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jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

You lost interest because she is older than you are.

Highestpromoton:
When most men in Nigeria want to marry they look for girls between the age of 18 - 25 years, ladies this is your peak year.

From 26 - 29 as a lady you should be working or have a good business for men to find you attractive for marriage

From 30 + as a woman, if you have a boyfriend you were dating in your 20s he probably would marry you if he loves you,
if you are still single it would be hard to find a husband, the chances of you Marrying is 50 : 50 but you can decide to have children for a man who doesn’t mind having you as a baby mama maybe he might marry you or make you he’s 2nd, 3rd, 4th… or 12th wife

Ladies are like milk, they have expiry date.

Ladies, please do not listen to this big fat lies of the devil. A lady in her late 30's and 40's or 50's is still as admirable as any other and worth making the lifelong commitment to be her forever partner. To the men, go for value and beauty, not age.

jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

You wrote like a child and think like a child.. For a girl to tell you her actual age shows she is mature and comfortable in her space.. Nonsense everywhere

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Blitzking:
Very wrong to say this...let her say her real age if u would stay fine...na your type go Marry lady con dey say she don old..know wat u are paying for...do u prefer lies.

I will slap you

donbenie:
His age preferences is not a crime..
Trying to project his insecurities onto others is at the very least juvenile..
He expects a working class graduate to be 18 years old?
Is that not the epitome childishness?

Lol ...... u still sound very angry
Why do u think his age preference is an insecurity...??

babajero:
My observations is that you are a child, and you are not matured enough to be in a relationship.

Relationship isn't about age bro. At least, not for men.

Bliztzer:
Yeah! You sabi flatter and you no honest. Tell us why u no like 27yr old lady. No be the age dey put you off, na some thing you re not willing to tell us.

Inferiority complex or the feeling that he was too young for her.

jeromestarks:
Relationship isn't about age bro. At least, not for men.

So it is for women?

jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

Okay
Operation lie about my age activated

jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

What's her FB/Insta handle?

advanceDNA:
Lol ...... u still sound very angry
Why do u think his age preference is an insecurity...??

Having a difference in opinion doesn't equate to being angry..

And his preferences is not the issue, I made that explicitly clear in my first comment..

Him trying to project that preference smacks of insecurities..

jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

JSS 3 students will be resuming school next week.
Have you washed and ironed your school uniform, and polished your sandals?

Who even gave you access to the internet?

Instead of helping your parents in the house, you are online writing stuff that you completely have no knowledge about.
S!lly child!

jeromestarks:
You be full werey. Which love do you have for a 70 yr old woman?
Tell us the truth, na dollars you dey love jorrrr

Oga it's love if you don't believe, I won't bother explaining.

jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

How old are you?🤔

Adext4sure:
OP. How old are you abeg?

He is most likely 15 or 16,secondary school students are still on holidays .

donbenie:
Him trying to project that preference smacks of insecurities..

I was hoping to get how arrived at his preference being an insecurity....because he could just be catching cruise which is common on social media these days

Virtually everyone does that these days..... They tell u not to do this, not to do that, tell u not to date broke men, younger men, don't date women without jobs, don't date last born....dont date virgins, dont date none virgins....etc....

Bad advice, you are just one person and a world filled with billions of humans doesn't revolve around you. It's how insignificant people think their opinion is law for me🙄

Stop saying heresy! God didn't create women not to work and in fact, there's no part of the world where women don't work. God commanded that 'anybody (men and women) who does not work should not eat'.

Go and search your Bible or Quran very well, you will see that everyone should work.
[quwote author=EreluRoz post=129502783]You are just insecure that's all.

I get pissed whenever I see a man typing hardworking to describe a lady. Men of these days are just after women to drain, if not for the harsh society a woman is naturally not created to work.

Modern men are just after women that will take up their role, it's the mentality for me, so disgusting.

If a woman chooses to work, it's to take care of herself and not for any man to come leech on. Mtcheww[/quote]

Why wasting my time to read this rubbish

But 27 is not even old na

For that particular gender, Oldness starts from 30

PerfectStranger:
This is delusional and misleading. You better wake up to reality coz life has pass just owning a big yansh and eating snacks all day.

So God told you that he didn't create Eve as Adam's help mate or wetin u think say helpmate mean? To knak & eat alone ba

Only small boys that are still squatting with Friends will do what you just typed here...

Ohh I see you want small girl wey you go just dey play with her heart up and down, she should thank God god that you ran away

Truvelisback:
You lost interest because she is older than you are.

Sharap. I'm way older than her.
You will not read something well, you will be saying rubbish. Do you know my age?

Blackdisciple:
Only small boys that are still squatting with Friends will do what you just typed here...

Ohh I see you want small girl wey you go just dey play with her heart up and down, she should thank God god that you ran away

You're right. I actually want small girls that I will just be whining and fvcking.

bluefilm:
But 27 is not even old na

For that particular gender, Oldness starts from 30

So you think I should go for her?

Etimemy:
Why wasting my time to read this rubbish

🤣🤣🤣🤣
Who glue your face to your phone screen?

SweetDipBenny:
How old are you?🤔

I'm old enough to marry. However, I am not financially ready.

Gbadugbakun:
Oga it's love if you don't believe, I won't bother explaining.

You want to use that woman to japa ahbi?

Don't worry, you can tell us the truth here. We won't cast your update. Na we we.

Anyway depends on how old you are too because 27 is not bad actually

The Op may be someone who likes being scammed. Because you don't want to date someone that is 27 yrs, you 'sagely' concluded that ladies should hide their ages during early stage of dating.

How ridiculous!

This is even good for the lady. She doesn't need anyone who will waste her time. Her honesty saved her. You would have been scoping her until boom! you find out her real age.

jeromestarks:
I met this beautiful, hardworking and godloving lady somewhere at work. She's very nice and accommodating. She's also a graduate.
Let me quickly say that this lady is a decent lady - yeah, I went FBI on her; searched her socials: Facebook, insta, X etc and sincerely, all the pictures she took were done in her home (she stays with her mother).

As I interacted with her, I discovered she's a homely person. She doesn't club, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink. She's just all about stability.

I fell in love with her personality until I asked one last question.
"Sorry, I don't mean to pry. Please, how old are you?"

Without hesitation, this lady answered "I am 27"

Immediately I heard 27, I lost every single ounce of interest I had in her.
I didn't show it to her. I just said " Wow! You look so pretty, one would think you're 18. Thank God I asked."
She laughed and I could see her blush.

We discussed about other things, exchanged numbers and she left.
I have made up my mind never to call her. The age put me off and I don't even know why.


So dear ladies, do not tell men your age until the both of you are in a serious relationship. Never tell a man your age on the first date. Never!
Wait until you see some level of commitment or at least, until he got used to you a little.

Give me her number please, thank you.