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I've been thinking about this for a while, and I can no longer keep it. Please I. Want us to discuss about this, why do men takes a good girl for granted? You see guys spending almost 75% of their earnings on pay girls, and can not afford to send N100 recharge card to that good girl that bearly demand for a dime? Am also a victim of this act, and I know many out there are victims of this act too.

That's because some men find these pay girls intriguing, wild and wouldnt mind going all length to tame 'em. But good girls are kinda docile and some men don't really want that. It's their natural inclination.
My take: Be yourself sweety.

It just cos a lot of times dai av bin told or learned from friends dat gud boiz are not appreciated....

cus 90% of gud galz are mostly attracted 2 dier opposite....i luv gud gal tho jz dat they alwayz forming hard 2 get

Good girls are for keeps.
My dear,u will nt want to knw the other things we do to these other girls aftr spending the money.

For what its worth..it's nt that we don't spend on these so called good girls...in fact we do but it's not just as much as we spend on the others cos we feel they need it more. For example, a gud girl won't want to buy a dozen makeup kit n paint her face blue n purple so d money fr this goes to d oda chic

Not all men.

Bad girls are not for keeps whereas good girls are. U spend heavily on a hooker cos u know she may never come back again, U have paid for her services. But a good girl will always be there so eventually u tend to spend more over a longer period of time

Pacify: Bad girls are not for keeps whereas good girls are. U spend heavily on a hooker cos u know she may never come back again, U have paid for her services. But a good girl will always be there so eventually u tend to spend more over a log period of time

Cudnt agree with u more...Good girls are for keeps....Men appreciate them in their minds A WHOLE LOT...don't let anyone say anytin diff to u..

Why do girls take good men for granted?

Thanks a lot for your contribution, critics and views, this is. Getting interesting, am not the only one guilty of this act.. I feel some sort of relief..

Good girls are difficult, hard to get and boring (in and out of bed). You don't really want a good girl until when you are planning on settling down.

Iaz93: Not all men.

Exactly!

eightsin: Good girls are for keeps.
My dear,u will nt want to knw the other things we do to these other girls aftr spending the money.

For what its worth..it's nt that we don't spend on these so called good girls...in fact we do but it's not just as much as we spend on the others cos we feel they need it more. For example, a gud girl won't want to buy a dozen makeup kit n paint her face blue n purple so d money fr this goes to d oda chic

Is she suppossed to be happy about this answer?

iamteaser: Why do girls take good men for granted?

because gud guyz are 2 nice.... nd dy find it boring.

Pacify: Bad girls are not for keeps whereas good girls are. U spend heavily on a hooker cos u know she may never come back again, U have paid for her services. But a good girl will always be there so eventually u tend to spend more over a log period of time

Nigeria = no. 1 in prostitution

@poster:
In the same way many girls fall for bad boys, many boys are not able to appreciate good girls but fall for the bad ones.

numerical_guy: Good girls are difficult, hard to get and boring (in and out of bed). You don't really want a good girl until when you are planning on settling down.

I Beg To Differ. And Would You Marry A 'Good Girl' And Confine Yourself To A Boring 'In And Out Of Bed' Life?

The ish is Vice versa, Ladies also take good guys for granted. It's just like the saying 'good girls like bad boys' thats were you fall.
And them good ladies most of'em act like they should be worshiped for being good, Hella NO! guys really really appreciate good ladies at least it gives us hope for good future mothers.

still be good you'll mosdef find someone who will appreciate it but mean while, you can chill with me.

This isn't completely true.I avnt seen a sane man dt will tak a 'good gal' 4 granted.Mayb anoda word shld b used inplace of '4 granted'.
Every man wnts to keep a good gal cos dey ar scarce .No man wnts to marry a bad gal.We save u for d last,and u knw d last is d best.
We love u. I need a good gal in my life.Can I av ur contact?

On the other hand,good gals need experience to knw whch guy is good. U can nt claim to b good wen ur 'good' has nt been tested.Ar u gona remain 'good'?

Same way the ladies take good/nice guys for granted! It's a two-way thing. Deal with it!

1,Marriageable,marriage minded men don't take good grls for granted they don't even date d bad ones#fact. 2,good grls re for keeps,marriage while bad grls for play and sex#fact 3,its all this small boys ,young time wasters dat do all that

I guess the gods are to be blamed for this one, most men that maltreat women are hard core sexists , it is a general African mentality which might be characterized as a masculine defaut.

Just passing....


Very simple! Because men loves bad girls escpecially FRESH Blunt smoking bad girls ....


Rolling another joint... grin

Its Blunt Saturday!.....

This is not totally true, no good guy will take a good girl for granted. it's no longer news that girls purposely fall in love with bad boys and they go all sober when the expected happens. As if that's not enough, they use that experience to concludes that all men are dogs as if it wasen't their fault from the onset. Sounds crazy though but that's the fact.

These days girls care less if you're the most handsome dude in naija, so long you're loaded financially and you've got a 14inches anaconda below your waist that's all that matters.

Not true,

.....because they think only for the moment....not over time. When they get older then they start regretting. ......

Remember gold is only sold to those who know the value. Only a good man will appreciate a good woman.

No one takes good things serious. Its a normal thing.

Secondly, it depends heavily on what u call "good"

Hoes are also good. I can't take them serious tho

Where are the good girls ?
Good men are around now.

Clicks google to get the answer