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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by dare2think: 5:34pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
The very moment you start applying time factor to a life-long issue, you are preparing yourself for disaster. That being said, the man must consider the age of the woman in courtship and not waste each other's time. Their biological clock does matter. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by ifymusa(f): 5:34pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
If e pass 1year I no see any commitment hmmmm 2years I no do again no time to waste. Wait wen u re ready and mature than u can start a relationship |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by blemon44(m): 5:35pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Till eternity! |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
nairaland and thier update |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Sunnycliff(m): 5:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Though a subjective question, I believe 6-9 months if The guy is financially stable and has a good Accomodation! And he has found enough of what he expects on an ideal spouse having psychologically and socially prepared for The nuptial knot! personally am an advocate of friendship love before marriage!! As long as The friendship love is built u can go ahead to The altar!! 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by sparklie(f): 5:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
michaelwestern: Be it unto thee according to thy faith! |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Desmondium(m): 5:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Till thy kingdom comes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by M4gunners: 5:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
10 years if She it nigerian,then a year if She is a white European or American. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by eleko1: 5:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by tigonana: 5:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
agarawu23:long dream!!! |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
100yrs, sincerely speaking. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
DNDROID:once |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by hensben(m): 5:37pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
6 years is okay |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by eleko1: 5:38pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Patapata, 3 mnts shud be ok. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by odi252: 5:38pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
How long can the lady wait ? .....4 , 14 , yrs ? |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by luvly101: 5:38pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
ideally, 6 months to 2 years. but, due to some unforeseen situations, the years can get lengthened. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by usmanbaba(m): 5:39pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Long courtship short courtship doesn't matter, the main issue here is the understanding of the two party. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by erasergozy: 5:41pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
As long as there is the you're comfortable with your status. Mod!!! What is she doing here Front page!!! |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by agarawu23(m): 5:42pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
tigonana:propose to the wrong gal den |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by vacant06(m): 5:42pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
True love don't have time date or year when the appropriate time comes it will be possible, is just the understanding and preparation of both partners |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
It depends on the individuals involved and their level of maturity physically,financially,mentally,morally,spiritually,etc. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by chineloSA(f): 5:42pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
I don't think the time frame matters but the quality of the relationship that matters. I have seen people who dated 5-10yrs yet still divorce. Some people date longer and still don't know each and cannot tolerate each other. My mama used to say, " It takes a man less than 6 months to know if they want you as a wife or not. One can keep long relationships and yet they don't last, after getting married. And sometimes those who are extra careful in choosing partners normally end up with the worst choices. My take is, follow your heart and your head, and not time frame pre-defined by societies. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Abduletudaye(m): 5:42pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
So this tin reach FP sha.. Oya OP, you have bribed the MOD.. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by AmNotDrunk(m): 5:43pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by adunniadey(f): 5:43pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
[/quote][quote author=agarawu23 post=27029495]marriage depends on the pocket of a guy.[/color][color=#990000]nigga not serious |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
If you mean the number of 'years' then I think the time both couple meets decides that. Taking 2 example as a case study 1) if both the guy and lady met in their early university life, there is a tendency that the wedding will not occur until both of them are out of school and doing fine financially and mentally, no matter how serious both of them are this type of relationship will last over 6/7 years bfr any marriage proposal. I know a big sister that dated her now husband for more than 9years simply because they both met in their pre-degree days. 2) a case where matured man and a lady met when both of them are through with their service year and also working, here they might date for less than 2years or a bit more. bfr the proposal, that is if they are both serious about it. An example is my brother that just married his wife after less than 2 years courtship/dating. This is Nigeria, if you think your undergraduate boyfrnd will propose after 3years dating then you are decieving yourself. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by DNDROID(m): 5:44pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
KiddaBlingzz:How come you say u get ladies in plural to agree to marry you on a daily basis? |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by agarawu23(m): 5:45pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
adunniadey: |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
it depends on both parties. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by vacant06(m): 5:46pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
ifymusa:. U no if na wen u wan waka comot d bobo wan engage u.... be patience 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by ChrisOkafor87(m): 5:46pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
agarawu23:depends on d area u are judging it from, which includes Moral, religion and otherwise. In Christian teaching, Catholic for instance only six months of courtship is allowed. So d word "dating, engagement and so called fiance and fiancee at times a deceiption especially on the Woman' side, they are the one that will endure the Heart attack or so called Heart break. So for me Six months enough to study ur selves and find out the major characters that u can or cannot withstand |
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