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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Ethicaliyke(m): 5:47pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Love is not automatic rather u grow it.........grooming a relationship is different from hunting or lusting after nwa-babe, Time is tied to ur state of mind; be casual and hamless @first and try to be urselves. If u guys are compactible, ur inner- man will communicate each other. U must be prepared. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by kurt09(m): 5:47pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
It depends on the type of wife you want to marry. Like in University, some course will take you 4yrs while others 5 ,6yrs etc. Lol *A virtuous woman(Scarce commodity) -6 months to 3yrs. * Blackberry Woman(Pinging wife)- 2weeks - 3months * Chinese Woman(Celebrity Type) 1week to 2months but they doesn't last(Google nollywood actress for more info.) Oji oso agbakwuru ogu amaghi na ogu bu Onwu. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by frankii(m): 5:49pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
I hear you guys, but the truth is; women tend to get tired of waiting after a long while. So guys put the women in the picture. You are working guy, and say you earn not too badly, and have worked for like 3 years dating same girl at that point. Are u gonna tell me she wont start asking you, bros when are we gonna start this marriage plans? Lets be fair, women will always push for it after some time, especially when they feel you should have saved a bit; plus when she also works (she can help). |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by AmNotDrunk(m): 5:49pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Is it me or did anyone noticed that Tie the knot has officially changed to tie the not? 3 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
A day is enough, tomorrow might be too late 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by 007gal(f): 5:50pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
matiandu: You no well o.. but really it should not be a very long affair if the both of you are well matured and ready, six months should be just right to know if you want to spend your life with this person or now. If the there are young couples, then about a year .. all depends on the circumstances .. college, unemployment, age.. e.tc |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Lywiled: 5:50pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
andromida: Nice! Well said. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by slap1(m): 5:51pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
If you love her enough without money, it should last till you get money (if she'll wait). If you have money but don't love her enough, then it should last till you love her enough. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by 2rutalk1: 5:52pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
After 9 months of dating 2 Likes
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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by cannonnier(m): 5:52pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
slap1: Well said. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by MNDY(m): 5:53pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
KiddaBlingzz: And what happens to the compatibility study of each other which should run over a period of time? * For me, we must spend years studying each other! No one is perfect but there are certain traits which one can tolerate and others which one can't tolerate! * The exact time-frame cannot be fixed! Meanwhile, I will advise a thorough study of each other! 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by frankii(m): 5:53pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Abduletudaye: No ooooo! MOD is a very appreciative person. Post something really nice which is matured, and it will get to front page i believe. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
When we can look at each other's financial statement and not run to the hills |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
DNDROID:jazz 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by 100Cents: 5:58pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Like 10 years.. Of slow and steady. U know ? |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by suptol(m): 6:01pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by zikaengee(f): 6:03pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
No particular duration, it all depends on when the two people involved decide to take it to the next level. What works for you might not work for the next man 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by nhiyo(m): 6:05pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
If you like spend 1 day, if you like spend 100 years, you can never stop knowing someone. A good person today can become a bad person tomorrow. Na change sure pass! 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
frankii: There should be no timing. Both party should live in the moment. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by agarawu23(m): 6:06pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
ChrisOkafor87:that you not me. dont bring catholic way here, u can go to religion forum to tell dem dat. dis is a general question and we av to judge it within wats happening dis days and within our environment. as for me, I cant date a gal for 6 month and gt married to her. thanks |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Sixix: 6:06pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Forever |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
If you see someone you like, tell ur pastor and his/ her consent will be sought. Thereafter 3 months of courting supervised by a church brother and sister...then the rigorous 4 months marriage course and that's it. It takes a minimum of 4-6 months to marry in the Lord's supervision and a maximum of a year but the worldly practice can take forever... Anything you are doing outside of this detail, na Satan dey supervise una 4 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Orikinla(m): 6:08pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
When it comes to marriage, you can never say. If you rush into marriage, you may rush out of it. It is better to have a long courtship and long marriage than to have a short courtship and short marriage. You hear of divorces where couples say they are ending their marriage due to irreconcilable differences, which to me is foolish, because your so called "irreconcilable differences" should have been identified before marriage and not afterwards. Dating is not courtship. Courtship will help you to define your companionship with the person you want to marry. The journey of a life time takes a lot of planning to avoid the pitfalls. 1 Like
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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 6:09pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Max 3yrs |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
There's nothing like an ideal age in sensitive issues like this, 2 years might be ideal for couple A but might be otherwise for Couple B 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Pamcrest(f): 6:17pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
I keep saying it: there's no one-size-fits-all in relationship matters. Different strokes for different folks..the best I can say is a range of 2 to 5 years would be ideal so they both get to know each other very well because once u say "I do" u do it for life ooo. My humble submission 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by ELGREF(m): 6:18pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Maximum 6 month, minimum 1 month, others things is a game 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by kazmanbanjoko(m): 6:21pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
question for the gamers 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Muzikluva(m): 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
akira1991:Pliz reduce yur weed or alcohol consumption! |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by ELGREF(m): 6:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:so you double date? You need jesus |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
ELGREF:jeez, I said I was kidding |
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