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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Hamatrony(m): 6:28pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
wat a question....courtship or no courtship, I think it involves understanding btw d two parties; if they tink the tym is ryt 4 marriage, nothing should stop them, that is to say they both understand themselves within the period spent together and the tym is ryt to start living together as a full tym lovers |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by ISpiksDaTroof: 6:29pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
frankii:4-5 yrs |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Freekid500(m): 6:29pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
It depend on how you understand your lover,some may say ok i will get married after 10 years |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Orikinla(m): 6:31pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
kurt09: So true. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Suarezilla(m): 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
For as long as both are comfortable with waiting |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by MadCow1: 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
frankii: There is no such thing as an ideal courting period.. And for this reason, your question has no right answer.. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by commited(m): 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
It all depends on a lot of factors. Psychologically, emotionally, decisions, finance, indepencence, forebearing, forgiveness, forgetting your goal for a while for others, compromise, seeing the future etc. But it all depends on the two of you. You may be ready but is she ready. But in all of these, you need God not only to succeed but also to enjoy your marriage and home. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Superstar007(m): 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
It is dependent on the reactants and the rate of the reaction so the time range may vary. You know there is nothing like an ideal relationship so I can't really say because we're dealing with reality. But if a catalyst(like say the lady gets pregnant) is added to the reaction or the pressure increases(from family members and the likes) the reaction time will be shorten and product(marriage) is formed. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
A minimum of 2 years. I don't subscribe to the idea of marrying someone after dating for 2 months 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by shaynelifa(m): 6:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
KiddaBlingzz:Rili?? u re heading for destruction.... Anyways its ur choice. na onli u go face wetin u jam for d adventure. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Chidor6(m): 6:33pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
@least 2 years 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by timilehing(m): 6:33pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
As long as it takes both of u to figure things out |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by HARDDON: 6:38pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
frankii: as i would always say, in matters of the heart and head, to each his own! there is no ideal time frame to get hooked. circumstances surrounding both parties, their state of mind and compatibility and the MAN(in him), all play major roles in dictating whether or not they hook...... hope ive been able to confuse you all? Warm Regards then |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by 1one: 6:42pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
As a guy you HAVE NO BUSINESS with marriage if you don't have any/either/all of the following 1.At least a 2 bedroom apartment 2.A steady income of not less than 100k(either cumulatively from other businesses or from one particular job/business 3. A car. Now ofcourse the above listed just covers the "Tangible must have" for a guy before even dating, because any decent guy who wants to date a girl and not just spread his seed must have marriage at the back of his mind from the very time he asks "Would you be my girl" If a guy can't tick atleast 2 of the check boxes above, especially 1 and 2,even if he's so old to the extent that his pubic hairs have become so grey and long, coming out through his trousers to clean his shoes.... He has no business with marriage. I particularly chose to give my personal opinion on when I think a guy is ready for marriage, I didn't talk about the lady folk, because let's face it... A LADY IS ALWAYS READY FOR MARRIAGE 5 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Ladybluecash(f): 6:48pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
It all depend on individuals and their age.. U dnt xpect a 30yrs old lady to b in a relatnship for 3-4yrs. Na swear she go giv u |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by JEITO: 6:52pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
There's no hard and fast rule to it. But I'll advise you not to get married, until: 1. You have a reason why you should marry 2. You have known your partner considerably and you are sure you can accomodate their "minuses" 3. You have found a void in that your partner that only you can feel or a need that only you can mee and vice versa. If there's none, it means you are not useful in that person's life. I'll leave the rest for now... NB: marriage is worth waiting for. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by amnestylaw1(m): 6:57pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
KiddaBlingzz: Hmmm
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Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by frenddy6(m): 7:01pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
I could meet a lady today and with her consent marry her the next[/quote] Abeg help me c talk like mess. U get brain sef? Give beta pple wey wan comment chance jor! Mtchew!!! |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Freshpage(m): 7:01pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
It depends on the mind-set and readiness of both parties. Hw can a man decides to marry a lady within just two weeks of knowing her? Wht does he knw abt? Wht is her past life? Wht is her background like? 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by tmanis(m): 7:03pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
till the guy can save up for the bride price and the other items on the engagement list.....lol |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Freshpage(m): 7:06pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
shockwave91: |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by STENON(f): 7:11pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
As long as you are both Physically, morally, spiritually, Faithfully, financially, and Truthfully ready to Live with that special and Unique Person for the rest of your Life. There is always Individual Differences interms of the time limit...but mine cannot be less than 4 months, but maximum of 2years. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by mrgreen4real(m): 7:18pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Until you grow gray hair |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by nerodenero: 7:20pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
After all, you aint naughty naughtylagosguy: |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by STENON(f): 7:21pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
1oneBro!!, That your last statemnt is absolutely wrong. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by CodeHouse: 7:24pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
There is no such thing as ideal relationship, just like love, it is relative. A relationship that is 6 years old does not guarantee a blissful marriage. One could start a relationship and get married after 6months and then have a golden marriage. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Wen u r not shy to mes s in front f each oda den u guys r redy |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by man19king(m): 7:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
mistayeancah:Marriage is beyond human comprehension. except one understand what God has ordain for him. |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by Triplegrace: 7:29pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
What is marriage is a thing of the mind life long relationship instituted by God, in my option I will comment that an ideal relations viod of pretence shuld be at list two months then the third month marital right formalised and ties the not forever that's my stand when it comes to dating |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by samseen02(m): 7:31pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
I think it depends on the Man |
Re: How Long Should An Ideal Steady Relationship Last Before Marriage?? by qreese: 7:34pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Reside with ur would be wife or husband for 21 days at a stretch and u will discovery details about one another. It will help u know each others' differences like 1. She cooks well 2. Her sleeping habit 3. Her kitchen habit 4. Can she manage the home within limited means Her relationship with ur friends Her relationship with neighbour. In short, u can access each other within this period. If u guys can endure each other within this 21 days, u can go ahead 1 Like |
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