legendary4luv:




Lies!!!! U never jam me

LouisVanGaal:
there's NO valid reason what so ever! It's pure greed and impatience..it's usually a calculated plan to hijack/force the decision of the parents of the girl...especially when the senses them to be reluctant! I hate to say these, but my sister who we initially thought was slated to Marry next month according to her; next thing, we started sensing some compromise/unnecessary hurry from her..only for us to find out that she was pregnant..my grouse was that, if she waited at least 3-4weeks extra, is she going to die Our Generation is fast losing some endearing virtues...Before you know it now, you start finding children in their parents house giving birth..and it would be like kini big deal As for me, it's the conventional/religious way..Getting Married B4 kids..it doesn't mean am holy o! Just my belief..

BreezyRita:
What I detest is the fact that these guys try to play God.... Or what else do you call it??
They say they're making sure the woman is fertile and will bear children.

I've seen where a guy did that. His first gf of 2 years left him cos she wasn't comfy with the arrangement. He met a new woman. Gave her his ultimatum...... She agreed. Got pregnant..... 2 months later, they were married.
A few months later, there's a miscarriage. Doctor says she can't get pregnant or give birth anymore.

My point?? You never know. A woman may getting pregnant doesn't guarantee her giving you kids.
I pray I don't find such a man.

Cos those village elders no dey gree.... They have eyes that see when you're just a week gone.

BreezyRita:

Pllllleeeeeaaaasssseee!!!! They are ostracized! For the divorced, peeps assume its their fault the marriage didn't work out.. That just the way things are

luvlyqueen:

wetin you go do?,

iceberylin:
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BreezyRita:


Kk

Cutehector4u:
She shouldnt get pregnant.... Its called fornication....

nhiyo:


You shouldn't get pregnant buh you can have sex abi?

Cutehector4u:
u mean wit ur sister?

sleekman:

Madam both guys and babes try to play God 4 ur info. Yes its indeed morally wrong and everyone knows that but so also is d culture of bestman and bridesmaid. Do u know d bestman was invented by d scots/brits who needed a companion 2 hijack a beautiful damsel and forcefully make her a bride? Besided we say its morally wrong but then the question is who is a wife? Biblically and in the past, a wife is a lady who isn't a prostitute a man decides 2 call his own and the family agrees shikena. Na we carry long process put. When a lady has had so many abortions and u become aware and u want her 2 give birth 1st b4 marriage would u blame such a man? Or a lady likes a man and she hears rumours of his impotence and she wants him 2 'plant' b4 marriage, can u then blame her? So many bad culture of yesterday became d norm culture of 2day. In the early 19th century it was almost unheard of 4 a man and a woman 2 cohabit but fast forward into d 21st its a norm in most western nations. I for one strongly believe that marriage starts the minute a man and woman agrees 2 leave their parents house and coexist as one. That's what d bible says. The only thing is we want d traditional and d court for security shikena. Otherwise marriage is between 2 and needs no witness.

BEN1986:
Getting married before sex and to virgins

Tallesty1:
A lady that knows her "worth" will not get pregnant before proposal.

Nursy:
Getting pregnant b4 wedding is common in the southwest to prove ur fertility kind of.

I have a friend co-habiting with her fiance to get pregnant b4 their wedding and another one is getting married this december cos she's pregnant.

Its their choice jare....

BreezyRita:


Tell him. In my place, its even risky. Plus, you'll pay a lot more for tasting their daughter without paying....... A lot more. A whole new list is given to you.

BreezyRita:
Ok. This is a hotly debated issue....
I'm sure the guys will bash me.

There seems to a growing trend.... Guys saying their women are to pregnant before proposal or any marriage rite. I condemned a guy's stance on this and thought I'd be supported. But I was surprised. Even women took sides with the guy! It was shocking!

And guys, what's the reason behind this assertion??

So what do you think??
Should a lady get pregnant before she gets proposed to or should she walk out of the relationship??

BreezyRita:

No. It "shows them" (village elders, family members), that you've not been tasted. There's a difference. Mean and show.......
Please don't argue. Mbok.

missberrypop5:
yeah, its a grown trend these days. It is so wrong. Its a no no for me. I can't and i won't do it.

jossi994:
wait till you click 37