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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Olaone1: 10:49pm On Nov 09, 2014
girls can lie, ehnn undecided undecided

More than 50% get pregnant before marriage. So, all these girls angels on NL, are you from another planet ni?

Haaaaa! lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Skybaby: 10:54pm On Nov 09, 2014
oliverdon:
Biblically is wrong but un dis nature we are now i support it bc most marriage dis days now after all d waste of money no show for child,now who is at lost?


you just spoke like a child n a pagan; ok let me ask dis question: wat of after d marriage rites n all she has miscarriage n another pregnancy is nt forth coming? So u see, you cant teach God wat to do n wen to do it.
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by InvertedHammer: 11:24pm On Nov 09, 2014
ayo4dworld:
what if she lost that pregnancy after marriage and could'nt get pregnant eventually. It's a sin and we shouldn't encourage it at all. Children are God's heritage and can only be given by God. She getting pregnant before marriage doesn't guarantee her bearing child for you. Sin is a sin. Virginity is dignity, the pride of a woman is her body, the day she give her body to that guy she could't resist before marriage. From that day onward she looses respect and honour from such guys. So ladies be careful... Fornication is a sin and God detests it. Never engage in it, if you have been engaging in it, desists from it and don't fornicate anymore. It is well with you God bless you!
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I still means that she can get pregnant.

All waka waka runs and abortions wey some girls dey do these days, most people do not want to take chances.

...then end up in Pentecostal houses that will even make the matter worse.

Not surprising that a lot of good ladies prefer it too to separate themselves from the pack.

Some ladies wombs have entered voicemail a long time ago.

I think it is the right thing to do. But if you decide otherwise, good for you
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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by KLand(m): 11:52pm On Nov 09, 2014
The idea may be becoming popular as you said, but it doesn't make it right before God. S2x before marriage is not the ideal thing, not to talk of pregnancy. Ladies stop cheapening yourselves. Help the men to zip up....
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by mkoabiola: 12:19am On Nov 10, 2014
E no concern any body if I do am.
I must test run d car I want to buy b4 I pay 4 it.
If na 1960 engine I go knw,if na new model I go sabi,
If d engine has been rong b4,I will knw also.
Now tell me wat crime av I committed b4 paying 4 d car.
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by maternal: 4:35am On Nov 10, 2014
missberrypop5:
A good guy is a good guy, and a good husband should marry you properly. Its a pity we all acknowledge abominable acts. I'm an igbo woman, and i respect my culture and traditions, its an abomination to marry a woman with child in my place, even if you insist, she must put to bed before they can collect her bride price. It doesn't even show decency, its a disgrace. Its also a sin in the sight of God, how can you join a man, a woman and their child together in holy matrimony? That's why there's a high rate of insects going on in our time. Know the type of woman you're getting married to, most of you men are the reasons why many women are without wombs, you want a virgin? Learn to keep every girl you come across untouched. Like i posted earlier, i will never marry with pregnancy, if all men want it that way, i don't mind being single.

Typical igbo woman with her hypocracy.
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by maternal: 4:39am On Nov 10, 2014
whysquare4real:
A friend of mine is regretting not getting his wife pregnant before marriage. D wife is yet to get pregnant and it is becoming a source of worry to d whole family. Though I told him to keep faith in God Almighty.

A know a guy who's been married for 10 years and doctors conformed his wife can't get pregnant. This is why you test the woman first. He still hasn't left her which we've been all advising him to do. If he became broke her ass would be gone. We've been telling him for better or worse is a myth nowadays.
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Youngpo413: 6:34am On Nov 10, 2014
Godiloveu:


well, I want. to agree with u on this
the Guy am dating ( sexing) he didn't actually say it but to me is like he wants ",d pregnancy ist b4 anytin. He is rm d southwest. And am seriously considering d move but am scare of him refusing to marry me after then. also, we dont c often becos of d distance of our places.

And I think I might lose him if I dont.





know your worth !
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Youngpo413: 6:37am On Nov 10, 2014
Zikamax:
undecided see some guys comments here, so u want to be sure if she can still concieve, let me ask u, who do u think will marry those ones u spoil


spoilt men!
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Youngpo413: 6:43am On Nov 10, 2014
Misogynist2014:
It is also right for u 2 do a DNA test, to know if the child is yours, even if u are married cos women are full of deciet.



guy thats harsh...but true sha,hehehehe
You know most ladies like "keep in-touch" with their ex`es even after marriage.
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Youngpo413: 7:03am On Nov 10, 2014
mzhorlah:
WTF So Africans still have this notion of test your wife,make sure she gets pregnant for Ɣou b4 u marry her.??



Look at a situation where the wife gets pregnant b4 marriage,after marriage,she had a miscarriage and she couldn't give birth anylonger. .......what will yu say to that


Why try to work smarter than Godin my own opinion being pregnant b4 marriage is a sin


premarital sex is also a sin

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Youngpo413: 7:07am On Nov 10, 2014
KLand:
The idea may be becoming popular as you said, but it doesn't make it right before God. S2x before marriage is not the ideal thing, not to talk of pregnacy. Ladies stop cheapening yourselves. Help the men to zip up....


ladies dey enjoy fuccckk wella,so dont expect them to help...men to zip up.
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 8:00am On Nov 10, 2014
When ppl say "forget bible, lets get real" i begin to wonder when they want to apply the bible, if not in such "real" life situations... #PassingBy

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by haykayforreal(m): 9:07am On Nov 10, 2014
Cutehector4u:
She shouldnt get pregnant.... Its called fornication....
Na u talk so...shey u wan tell us dat ladies no dey fornicate or na man no dey fornicate?
Are u free of ds?
D reason why 80% dey want dia wife to be get belle b4 marriage is simple,they dnt want to continue dia life in sadness wit dia wife coz 99.9% of ladies take contraceptic drugs whc can affect dem to be impreginated....so ladies knw dat dia falobian tube is nt workin again but wil neva come up to a guy b4 marriage,at d end na d guy go dey suffer.I cant trust any lady again coz dey Bleep like dogs and hide dia sef to d innocent guy.Do u thnk it is easy to climb ur wife evryday of ur life coz u want her to get belle?
And most of them knew they are nothing but LovePeddler!
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 10, 2014
BreezyRita:


You think? Agreed. Some may not know their worth. But others that do, are forced by society to do this. You know how our society frowns upon an unmarried lady?
So they think,; "If it'll make him marry me, why not?"
I can't blame them. I think the guys should learn to accept their women. And not test drive!
What does the final test-driver test? Has the thing not been driven before? U can't bring a good measure to a bad situation. Some pple need kids or the marriage will collapse anyway.

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by nallypaul(m): 9:58am On Nov 10, 2014
missberrypop5:
yeah, its a grown trend these days. It is so wrong. Its a no no for me. I can't and i won't do it.
you can't abi, you be like one of my villaGe girl that said no to that but later find out after the marrieg that the man is impotent. What will you do if such happen to you. And who will you blame?
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by MenGoingThereWay: 11:41am On Nov 10, 2014
Just cos its the norm that doesn't make it right

God calls it fornication and since God says its wrong IT IS WRONG.

-MenGoingThereWay

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 10, 2014
haykayforreal:

Na u talk so...shey u wan tell us dat ladies no dey fornicate or na man no dey fornicate?
Are u free of ds?
D reason why 80% dey want dia wife to be get belle b4 marriage is simple,they dnt want to continue dia life in sadness wit dia wife coz 99.9% of ladies take contraceptic drugs whc can affect dem to be impreginated....so ladies knw dat dia falobian tube is nt workin again but wil neva come up to a guy b4 marriage,at d end na d guy go dey suffer.I cant trust any lady again coz dey Bleep like dogs and hide dia sef to d innocent guy.Do u thnk it is easy to climb ur wife evryday of ur life coz u want her to get belle?
And most of them knew they are nothing but LovePeddler!
lol...first of all, i am free of fornication...second, its guilty conscience dat is worryin al ov them....third, such thing cant happen to me by the grace of God.. Fourth, i dnt lack faith in God... Fifth, God will jever bring me near to such ladies...

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by TDstarr: 12:56pm On Nov 10, 2014
Smh, Nigerians, times have changed, it was in the olden days. Were ladies were married as virgins dat it was advisable not to disvirgin your bride before marriage not now when abortion and disease rate is high, as for me she must get pregnant even deliver before we bless d marriage

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by KLand(m): 1:08pm On Nov 10, 2014
Youngpo413:



ladies dey enjoy fuccckk wella,so dont expect them to help...men to zip up.


Ok. Smiles. Men and women, pls help each other to zip up till marriage. Any 'action' b4 marriage na illegal oooo.
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Youngpo413: 1:10pm On Nov 10, 2014
KLand:



Ok. Smiles. Men and women, pls help each other to zip up till marriage. Any 'action' b4 marriage na illegal oooo.



na now you come...hehehehe...

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 2:30pm On Nov 10, 2014
nallypaul:
you can't abi, you be like one of my villaGe girl that said no to that but later find out after the marrieg that the man is impotent. What will you do if such happen to you. And who will you blame?
we adopt. Btw, i believe in miracles. Anything can happen. Marriage isn't all about kids, children are blessings form God.

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by pryd(m): 2:40pm On Nov 10, 2014
Harmvirus:


I believe before one agrees to a relationship he or she has to set terms of that r/ship. In my own case, not getting pregnant before marriage happens to be one of them
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Dahjhi: 3:16pm On Nov 10, 2014
missberrypop5:
we adopt. Btw, i believe in miracles. Anything can happen. Marriage isn't all about kids, children are blessings form God.

lol..... non tested eh.... grin grin grin
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 10, 2014
It's a curse ! The man inherits bigger portion o it while the woman will suffer until the price is paid. Please afford it. Don't knock her up yet, please show her parents some respect by paying the bride price that way you are not considered a theif and a sinner
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by bongolistik(m): 5:53pm On Nov 10, 2014
For me I see guys that say dey do it first to test 4 fertility b4 mariage as d dumbest reason ever given by such set of guys nd as a way 2 cover dier inability 2 control dier libido thereby given d devil uper hand in dier live and d devil using dem 2 destroy d sacred institution called marriage.

Ask dem, d testers, even afta testing nd getting maried, y is it dat mariages stil crash evry nw and den?.

I neva knew dat some men have fish brain too
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by princesa(f): 8:46pm On Nov 10, 2014
Jeez... I've seen like three weddings where the bride was heavily pregnant on her wedding day and yet another where the bride put to bed two days after...and I'm like 'arghh!' what are they even trying to prove?

Now this stupid mentality is more rampant in my part of the east especially among these rich and semi educated business men.

But that's not happening with me... I want the whole pre-wedding, wedding and post wedding experience without having to deal with a load in my stomach.

So Its #teamFlatAndSexyTummy all the way for me. If you have another plan, don't even knock at my door cool

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by Revolva(m): 1:02am On Nov 11, 2014
Yes i support it thats what i call emergency wedding...omo i must test oo...before marrying..you trust any gyal....?? some gyals may have gone thru abortions and removed their womb....before you meet them.....and forming holy holy...na when you marry dem put for house..you go come jam wahala

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Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by BreezyRita(f): 11:52am On Nov 11, 2014
mkoabiola:
E no concern any body if I do am.
I must test run d car I want to buy b4 I pay 4 it.
If na 1960 engine I go knw,if na new model I go sabi,
If d engine has been rong b4,I will knw also.
Now tell me wat crime av I committed b4 paying 4 d car.
shocked shocked Seriously
Re: Getting Pregnant Before Marriage Proposal by hippyzuki(f): 12:51pm On Nov 11, 2014
andromida:
Not a good deal. Anyway just proves the guy needs a baby making machine not a companion.
. My sister I don't need a companion only I also need a baby making factory.

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