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My Future Wife Must Be From The Village. / To My Future Husband / Sorry & ashamed for my past. But NOT for my future & my baby (2) (3) (4)
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Re: To My Future Wife by ivyy(f): 2:21pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
edozie04: And why you looking for a virgin if your not one? 1 Like |
Re: To My Future Wife by eleojo23: 2:30pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
There is a different wind blowing on NL today. |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 2:32pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
SirShymex:ah ah! Shymmex be nice na, today is sunday o On a more serious note, you have finished it, kudos bro...continues trekking to Mozambique to avoid Boko Haram attack |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 2:47pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
ivyy:cos he is a hypocrite, longest time though |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
ivyy:My dear am not looking for a virgin,am looking for a good woman(although I have seen one) |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 3:09pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Unibenstudent:Pot calling kettle black |
Re: To My Future Wife by ivyy(f): 3:13pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Unibenstudent: Loool. How's you? |
Re: To My Future Wife by ussy09(m): 3:13pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
MaleoPearls:Naago! 1 Like |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 3:15pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
ivyy:I am fine,,seems u went underground for some time . |
Re: To My Future Wife by Igbentosan(f): 3:16pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
eleojo23:so real, I pray you find that lucky lady soon. 1 Like |
Re: To My Future Wife by ivyy(f): 3:17pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Unibenstudent: Am alwys underground in here |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 3:22pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
ivyy:ehyaa ,u will come out today say amen ivvy. |
Re: To My Future Wife by Guidette(f): 3:42pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
People marry or get who they deserve. I have nothing else to add. 1 Like |
Re: To My Future Wife by LizNaira: 3:54pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
That's Lovely, you made me smile today . When it happens post a photo of the two of you |
Re: To My Future Wife by ShakurM(m): 3:54pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
SirShymex:Your future is an illusion. Enjoy. 1 Like |
Re: To My Future Wife by OnyeEgo1(m): 4:14pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
avuekwe: good men? Is dat d way u deceive them so dey turn to ur errand boys... Puhleez all dis softness is for sissy not for 'MEN' God made to dominate period |
Re: To My Future Wife by UnimkeAk(m): 4:16pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
OP ur Future wife dey here oh ! She no wan go, & this is the 200 rough round. |
Re: To My Future Wife by hydeka: 4:36pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
OnyeEgo1:Take things personal on nairaland at your own peril |
Re: To My Future Wife by 1one: 4:40pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
This is a very wonderfully written piece indeed. I'm surprised why some people would have anything other than appreciation and awe for this write up, it's particularly unfortunate that some guys(judging from some comments) think that doing something like this reeks of effeminism, when did being true to yourself and reflecting the true texture of your emotions become the exclusive preserve of a woman. It's so wrong to assume that the ideal African man shouldn't be emotional or loving or sweet or tender, it's just so wrong, if the woman was hewn out of the fabric of the man and the woman is "allowed" to be emotional and sweet and loving, how much more the man.. You don't have to lose your masculinity to be emotional and sweet and loving and tender, Infact it is one of the best ways to reflect your masculinity, knowing that being sweet and tender doesn't make you any less a man, being confident to express your sweet side as a man all the more makes you more masculine because it reflects a deep sense of confidence and if confidence is not a major reflection of masculinity, then what else is? I think we need to re-evaluate our ideals and concepts bordering on who a man is, because many of us have very decayed notions, even with the ladies too, I was having a chat some weeks back with a lady who suggested that if I didnt drink, smoke or womanize then I'm not a "man"... I was like Ahhh Jesu! I could go on and on and on.. But the truth is this... A man can be decently tough, yet lovingly tender, A man can be serious yet sweet, a man can be emotional and yet not be a sissy or a wimp... If the Lord and saviour of the world - Jesus, could express love, hurt, fear and other humanly emotions, then where did we get the idea from that a man is only truly a man if he's impervious to the expressions of those very emotions that make him human. So eleojo23.... I'm feeling you, I'm feeling you too much, don't allow any warped comment from obviously warped minds put you down.. I too have my own personal letter to my future wife, and if the reason why I wrote mine is remotely close to the reason why you wrote yours, I'm sure God would bless us with the desires of our heart, after all the Bible says - "The Lord God is a sun and a shield no good thing would he withhold from those who walk uprightly"... And since a wife is a good thing.. I'm sure He'll be faithful to his word. 3 Likes |
Re: To My Future Wife by Joshuadon: 4:42pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Nice one, but u get tym ooooooo.... |
Re: To My Future Wife by eleojo23: 5:00pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
1one: They have failed to define that word 'strength' for me. Some said it means to suppress emotions and dominate. But I see that need to dominate as a weakness in itself. It shows insecurity. You don't have to dominate to show that you're a man. It's just like respect. You don't demand it, it is earned. If you have to demand respect then there is a fundamental flaw somewhere. I deliberately wrote and posted this here and the responses are rather amusing I must say. It shows you how many people think. Everybody claims to think outside the box yet the reverse is the case. Thanks for dropping by 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: To My Future Wife by will1am: 5:01pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Re: To My Future Wife by eleojo23: 5:03pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Joshuadon:Josh thanks. Believe me it didn't take me a long time to write this |
Re: To My Future Wife by TDstarr: 5:17pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
no wonder you aint getting laid a real nigga doesnt express his feelings like a bitch........p.s i did not read a word, its too long |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
I think the OPp is too soft and that's counterproductive bbecause from my experience,women/girrls don't like being cared for or clinged to, rather they like a man that can handle his emotions and be mean. A man should rather strive to be complete on his own and provide for himself and whichever woman he would marry. Women are not really worth the stress if you Consider the present realities in Today's World.Economies are falling,downsizing and right sizing in the employment and dwindling resources of Nations, hence its better for a man to finetune his skills so that he can survive in today's World. When a man stabilizes, there are millions of women to choose from in order to create and have an enduring Legaacy.Marriage is good but of what good is it when a man can't provide adequately for himself? Young upcoming boys should discountenance the OP's Letter and World View.Cheers 2 Likes |
Re: To My Future Wife by eleojo23: 6:00pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Alcatraz001: It's good you said 'from my experience'. And did you read the last part where I said I'll invest my time in becoming the husband she (whoever she's going to be) would be proud of? And that includes being a man who can provide for himself and his family. |
Re: To My Future Wife by paulshakur: 6:03pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
lol |
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 6:48pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
wow , this is just beautiful |
Re: To My Future Wife by omalistic(f): 6:57pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
iykedare: Such a twisted mindset |
Re: To My Future Wife by rago(m): 7:42pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
eleojo23: my guy, av taken lots of time to read and read comments on ds thread. m one of d guys who wud tell u nothing but d truth. I recall that my latest thread on NL is about d need to get married real quick on d part of women. I wrote that they are so gaga about it...they dream, imagine, and get real emotional about it. so I asked NL: Y are wimin so gaga about marriage. thankfully, 99% of responses from folks, both sex, were honest, intelligent and just plain incredible. I had a chance 2 c all of the comments plus ow ds dude shymex or smthing and urself had a war of words over it. I applaud u both. but I agree with much of wat d dude said on there. bro, try to b open minded and try to develop thicker skin. u wud need it. long ago, I remember my dad telling me not to ever ever trust a woman in ma lyf! regardless of whether she has 10 kids 4 ya already, or whether u both hv been together for a century. u wud love her, care for her, protect her and what have u. but u still gotta stay ontop of ur game......being a man. now dnt get me wrong, my parents are still hapily married and they r so happy still being together for more than 2 decades. But he sure knew wat he was talking about. wimin...wimi n..women... my guy, u shud listen to some of wat dz guys were talking about. focus. work hard. upgrade ur life in all aspects. dnt tak ds lyf so seriously. Enjoy today to d fullest. pls be a man, think like a man, while also maintaining that "sweet, feminine" aspect of ur personality. stay clear. but I hope ur dreams come thru and I hope u wud find a woman who wud share d same things u do about wat an ideal marrige is. hmnn, God help.u! |
Re: To My Future Wife by eleojo23: 7:53pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
rago: Noted. You may want to go through some of my topics before you make conclusions as to who I am. Thanks. |
Re: To My Future Wife by iykedare(m): 8:16pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
omalistic: Even if an mgbeke like you were caught sucking the life of a dlck,you will still deny. |
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