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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 4:30pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
rman: How many men have houses before they get married? How many have cars How many ladies marry without having a means of earning? How many ladies who married without means of earning still stay after marriage without earnings (except hubby requests them to)? 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 4:37pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
I know a lot of people who had this before marriage Most ladies leave their jobs to be housewives Come to the Niger Delta and see women who have built office on top their marriages bukatyne: |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 4:37pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
donpeey22: I asked a question which has not been answered and you have concluded that I am referencing standard Nigerian society If interested, feel free to answer my question |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Amhappy(f): 4:39pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
babyosisi: Better if the thing is sure being blown out of proportion |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 4:39pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: And I know a number who did not @bolded: Did they leave voluntarily or their husbands asked them to? 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne:As far as I am concerned, the belief that children belong to the man is one of the so many erroneous believes held by the Nigerian society. Children belong to both parents. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 5:21pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Some Of their own volition Mostly a family decision These guys work in remote places so someone has to be home Some of them eventually open businesses Others do courses and get qualifications Others settle in well well |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Mutaino7(m): 5:22pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
I dhey fear to marry a 9ja chick.. So if i offend her she's gonna dig up my past to hurt me.(mutter's case).. Even to enter church pick wife dhey dangerous nowadays.. All things b equal bros J nah u dhey incharge of my life... But some bros no dhey try atall.. 4rming macho ontop dry pocket babes go wash u nah.. I pray dat God will make me meet d woman wey go make me like her pass my mother a d one to call my heart. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 5:22pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
donpeey22: Exactly just as sex is suuposed to be pleasurable to both parties not a service to be presented by the woman for money or marriage entrapment 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by cococandy(f): 5:24pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
She was even silly enough to think the America guy marry her? moca: |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 5:48pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: The truth is that the natural person wants to eat their cake and have it A lot of guys say they used and dump a girl when after sleeping with her and ending the relationship Why didn't the guy think he and the girl enjoyed it? Why do parents warn that their daughters should street clear of boys and not allowed themselves to be used by boys? Why are female virgins celebrated when they marry as virgins? We can't continue to shift grounds when it suits us. We need to have a collective view towards sex... |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 5:50pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Thank God you said it is mostly a family decision. If God forbid they divorce and they are to leave with What they brought; What are they leaving with? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 5:56pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
donpeey22: Thank God you ackowlegde that the standard Nigerian society believe that the kids belong to the husband If a wife today holds that belief, What is wrong with that The first step is complete reorientation of all parties involved.else women will keep seeing giving birth as doing something for the husband In Yoruba.... A man says.. iyawo mi bimo fun mi To English... my wife gave birth for me Go figure |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 6:26pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: And what is the thrust of your post We are saying women think men enjoy sex more yet youre talking of virginity |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 6:28pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Those are traditional marriages I support traditional means of support Not empowered working women still leeching off their husbands The man should support the spouse |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Moana(f): 6:34pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
rman:and these guys marry these women for true love or the fact that she is young and beautiful (will make every other men envious of him) 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 6:40pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I also do not support employed women leeching off their hubbys or requesting for spousal support during divorce |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by bukatyne(f): 6:40pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: God will help you find the thrust. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 6:56pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Good MAYBE Fhemmmy will learn one or two things from this since he sees you women as helpless appendages who need hubby support all their life LOL 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soulglo: 7:19pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
babyosisi: That first one you spoke about, I believe they had three children. One with special needs and if I'm not mistaken are now in Nigeria. My heart breaks for all of them especially the one with special needs. What's life in Nigeria going to be like for him. Just a senseless waste. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 7:21pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: There is NOTHING for Fhemmmy to learn from . . . NOTHING, i have given you scenario and you refused to understand, i am not supporter of laziness 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:23pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I sincerely hope you will learn something from Fhemmmy. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soulglo: 7:25pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
bukatyne: Employed being the key word. I support spousal support in cases were one of them stayed home to care for the kids. Spousal support is not permanent but the spouse who stayed home for the family should be abLe to get help in at least restoring them back to they were before they gave it all up. I used to get all worked up when I see my cousins schedules in Nigeria. Up at 5 and still not back home by 9pm. Maids raise the kids and as soon as they are old enough for boarding school, off they go. While I still believe that the children's wellbeing is the most important, I can see why many of them choose yo keep this up. They likely have stories of women in their family who were kicked out with nothing. Spousal support is a good thing. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by donodion(m): 7:33pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
AreaFada2: Guy leave him.Hes not from Edo so he wont understand. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 7:43pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Lol...story Fhemmmy: You don't support laziness uee you want a modern woman to be kept even though she is working Ow Kay 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by oshaosha2014(m): 7:46pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: She married you. Cooks for you Warm your bed Made your house Make your house be a home Yet, she has not worked? Bro, i hail you oh You cant never pay a woman her true worth, never, pay her for carrying your child in her womb for 9 months and disfiguring her own cute body to make YOU a father, pay her for those sleepless nights that she is in pain in that labor room, pay her for those days she burns herself to cook your favorite meal and tell you if you have what it takes to pay her. . . . We as MEN dont have what it takes to pay them, so let us show them love and appreciate them. You are a proper woman wrapper. In addition to all you have said, u shld have let's us know that the said woman also gave birth to the man, she even went a step further to marry his sorry ass. 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by oshaosha2014(m): 7:52pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
[quote author=SirShymexx post=30408154] I cited imperfection cos that's what makes us human. However, what makes a man is his ability to accept his mistakes, take responsibility, and be eager to always apologise and make corrections whenever he's wrong. And apart from the deadbeat guys and beta males emasculated by women - most men are naturally like that. It comes with the territory. But women on the other hand are never wrong in their fish brains. You've to keep pandering to them and eulogising their faux perfection like kids. Ever wondered why the easiest way to get a chic is dependent on how well you can sell her a dream? Also, these days, they're just utterly confused about their sexuality, and who they actually want to be. On one hand they want to be like men - but the other hand they also want to enjoy all the privileges that come with being women and the victim-hood. Like seriously, who are you lot? - Hermaphrodites or aliens? I'm not a relationship expert cos I deal with everything based on my own unique way. However, whenever there's a problem in a relationship/marriage that doesn't involve the man cheating or being a deadbeat - 8 out of 10 times it's always the woman's fault. But they're so manipulative that they'll turn it against you like the biblical Eve messed Adam's life up. Too many lives have been destroyed by women out here and I'm not even going to lie, if not puss.y, kids, and the natural sexual urge, dealing with women is basically pointless cos the overwhelming majority of them have absolutely nothing to contribute to your life - apart from illogical tripe induced by emotional impulses. P.S: I know you're a woman - but I just like saying it as it's. The truth is bitter but you can't run from it and too many lives are getting destroyed daily cos of this madness. [/quote/] Tell them abeg. They are very confused. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 7:53pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
oshaosha2014: [b]Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 7:56pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I can see you just want us to stay on that line, but no need to, i have made my point and you made yours, make we leave it at that, if you see the scenario of 100K$ per year and 35K$ per year, analyze it and see where my stand is . . . I never said give without reasons, or she milk you..... Chairman, i beg, lemme go and sell some cars and phones jare . . . . 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah11: 7:57pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
AreaFada2: as usual, its only the black man who juju dey kill pass, when oyinbo came all those centuries ago, juju nor fit reach them because they have no black skin. so, in all those years when things were being taught you, you did not include the possibility of the man's ancestral or current enemies intentionally seducing his wife or girlfriend as part of their overall plan to attack him? and even assuming they used other means besides the wife or girlfriend, how hard is it to stalk people these days? Witches and wizards no dey fly overseas? Do you have evidence the people wey dey do the man, are not those closest to him? una just no wan gree for Jesus sha. and you feel even if he were single, his enemies cant reach him abi? the point here is if you know the culture where you come from, then you can never be too careful because sometimes all you have is the one chance. Even the bible says the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom to devour. I am not exonerating the wife if indeed she was a fake christian messing around, but sometimes you know these things are not exactly how they look on the surface. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by pickabeau1: 7:59pm On Feb 04, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: No wahala... More power to your elbows |
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