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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Truckpusher(m): 12:01am On Sep 12, 2015
4stylz:
See guys dey talk plenty here; every guy cheats! If you worry about that, You will be single forever
That's not true.
Some of these girls don't even know what a relationship is to start with.
I'm having a fling with you as a girl and the fling ish got extended for some reasons and you see me with another girl and you want to classify that as cheating ?

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by otabuko(m): 12:02am On Sep 12, 2015
misssclassy:
What are you still waiting for? Break up with the _idiot before he breaks up with you.

He neither respects nor value you both as his girlfriend or as a person, that's why he can lie and cheat on you without remorse.

He doesn't deserve you.
Breaking up may not be the best option....
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by sureboy4eva(m): 12:03am On Sep 12, 2015
And how doesn one cope with a cheating Gf? A girl once tld me she is at home but I later saw her at a vip session giving a yahoo boy lap dance. I just ordered for a bottle of Don p, sent it to her table and told the waiter to point at me and tell her & d guy it's from me. So she can have a full nite out life And not dulled. D next tin she came to my table knelt down started crying begging like she didn't know what she Was doing. I dnt believe dat saying dat a girl got influenced it's a big lie, before doing smtin a girl has tot of it, she jst felt she won't be caught. Well after sipping my Alize I just picked my car key, walked to the waited paid the bills, picked my niggas up and straight home. She still calling me till today. How abt that? After my findings in town, I got t know d yahoo boy is even a broke idiot. Borrows cars from his friends to bed diff girls. Owe diff clubs money. Wear fake gold chains, no education. Just a clueless Bleep boy. Girls still do dis till date. Follow Bleep boys wit no future, leave d guys who has pictured her in his future. All for f*ck sake money and gadgets.

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by otabuko(m): 12:04am On Sep 12, 2015
YourMain:
Never worth it.
Leave him.
is that the best option?
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:05am On Sep 12, 2015
otabuko:
is that the best option?

Yes.

Always
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:07am On Sep 12, 2015
****Lounging on a sofa with a glass of StarLight reading all d lies**** grin grin grin grin

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by otabuko(m): 12:08am On Sep 12, 2015
DatBossAssChick:

Believe me I'm not insecured. When something tells you someone is doing something wrong and lieing about it you'll know.

Ok I had to do the confirmation today, before the confirmation, I asked the babe her name and surname and where she was from, she told me before I started chatting with her to get other info.

I later asked the so called bf how they were related he said from his late mom's side and that his younger brother knows her very well. Lol my dear the lie heavy.

Spoke with his bro at length today and this topic came up, and he said he doesn't know and have never heard about her.
you didn't need to go asking the brother, you'd appear insecure.... Don't press the panic button...
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Truckpusher(m): 12:10am On Sep 12, 2015
sureboy4eva:
And how doesn one cope with a cheating Gf? A girl once tld me she is at home but I later saw her at a vip session giving a yahoo boy lap dance. I just ordered for a bottle of Don p, sent it to her table and told the waited to point at me and tell her it's from me. So she can have a full nite out life And not dulled.m next tin she came to my table knelt down started begging like she didn't know what she Was doing. I just picked my car key, walked to the waited paid the bills, picked my niggas up and straight home. She still calling me till today. How abt that? After my findings in town, I got t know d yahoo boy is even a broke idiot. Borrows cars from his friends to bed diff girls. Owe diff clubs money. Wear fake gold chains, no education. Just a clueless Bleep boy. Girls still do dis till date. Follow Bleep boys wit no future, leave d guys who has pictured her in his future. All for Bleep sake money and gadgets.
You were prolly dulling while the yahoo boy was ordering her to show up in the club or miss something. wink
These girls don't like it when you're extremely nice bro and you even screwed up big time by going home like a cry baby - You would have simply ordered her back into that car , ask your friend to drive while you screw her there and then and earn your respect back leaving the yahoo boy no choice than to find a hooker or simply rant in the club all he wants.Sometimes you need to know when to tell these ladies to shut the hell, listen and do it ya own way , though sometimes you just have to walk away sha especially if she isn't worth it.

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by otabuko(m): 12:13am On Sep 12, 2015
YourMain:


Yes.

Always
No its not...you treat it... The relationship is for both of you.... Okay... Say i marry today and my wife cheats, I divorce her... Marry another and she cheats, and i divorce her... How many more will i marry and divorce....
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Valjinn(m): 12:14am On Sep 12, 2015
Baby so you later brought the issue to this place? DDo you really want us to wash our dirty lining in the public? Well since it's like this...... Kindly tell them how it all started, tell them why you close late, tell them how you always travel with your boss when you are not the secretary, tell them how you get Samsung s6 when I know your salary cannot carry it, tell them what you stored my name with, tell them why I shouldn't call you till 8pm. Tell them why I can't visit your house when you stay alone. When last did we spent good time together as lovers? Finally tell them who you are with on your birthday and why your phone was off all through that day. Just to mention but few...

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Truckpusher(m): 12:16am On Sep 12, 2015
Valjinn:
Baby so you later brought the issue to this place? DDo you really want us to wash our dirty lining in the public? Well since it's like this...... Kindly tell them how it all started, tell them why you close late, tell them how you always travel with your boss when you are not the secretary, tell them how you get Samsung s6 when I know your salary cannot carry it, tell them what you stored my name with, tell them why I shouldn't call you till 8pm. Tell them why I can't visit your house when you stay alone. When last did we spent good time together as lovers? Finally tell them who you are with on your birthday and why your phone was off all through that day. Just to mention but few...
Lmao grin grin grin see drama.

Boy! You sure? We go ask for evidence o. cheesy

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by ProdigyLoco(m): 12:16am On Sep 12, 2015
DatBossAssChick:
This is funny and serious at the same.

Caught him red handed in his place on my way from work, decided not to inform him and wala!!.. he came up with a smooth lie that she is his cousin. And the girl agreed to bear the cousin with a fake name that even his family members dont know of.

My instincts told me everything acting was a lie because even his brother doesn't know about such cousin. Lol

his brother na fuh up nigga jawe
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:20am On Sep 12, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:


One af those disorders in the DNA of girls basically I suppose cos Play the dangers af sticking up with a renowned badboi/cheat as Rihana's music (I know most of them like Rihana) into their ears they will never (truely) listen! They be like; 'but I still love him na' grin . So yes that you don't sympathize with 'em is highly understandable cheesy

Any real guy shouldn't tbh lol. They make their beds so they should lie in them muahahahahah.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:22am On Sep 12, 2015
otabuko:
No its not...you treat it... The relationship is for both of you.... Okay... Say i marry today and my wife cheats, I divorce her... Marry another and she cheats, and i divorce her... How many more will i marry and divorce....

Then get a wife that wont cheat ?
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by sureboy4eva(m): 12:23am On Sep 12, 2015
Do I really need all dat? Dulll u say? He'll no. I am too busy adding colours to my life garden than to hv time to screw a hoe. I reserve my body for better somebody .I see diss tin happen everyday. When a man cheats it a crime but when a woman cheats they call it a mistake. Dis same yahoo boy talks to me on whatapp. He got my # tru her phone dat same day. Says bro who are u? I talked to him a few days. We shared lots in chat. D girl blocked him, they even had an agreement for #15k a nite stand. Yet dis same girl I give her 50k every month, for her upkeep. Make a 19k hair for her at Chicago. How much is 15k from a yahoo boy? To a professional basketball player? Well that's her problem. After abrt 2 yrs I saw her at ikeja. I parked dis same girl came at me, looking rough unkept. Bushy hair holding my hands voicing pls let me talk to u. My aunt was like who is dis girl and wat did u tk from her. I jsst paused told her to speak all she got to say. Next tin she start to cry. Say if I no answer she go naked. I jst push her aside walk up the store I was visiting to pick some new suits
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:25am On Sep 12, 2015
aim5:


Any real guy shouldn't tbh lol. They make their beds so they should lie in them muahahahahah.

GBAM! Lobatan!!! grin

*yawns* nice having u as a mate on this lol. Morning morning!!

Abi na Florida u dey? tongue
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 12:25am On Sep 12, 2015
misssclassy:
What are you still waiting for? Break up with the _idiot before he breaks up with you.

He neither respects nor value you both as his girlfriend or as a person, that's why he can lie and cheat on you without remorse.

He doesn't deserve you.
so she should break up simply because he cheats?if you need a faithful guy,you are really really on a long thing,except you will settle for the broke and ugly ones,don't ever expect a cute guy to be faithful,as He fine for your eyes,na so other ladies dey see am too.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 12:27am On Sep 12, 2015
Jetjacky:
lol... that's sounds rather rushed to me.
I'm not sure she is a relationship.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:28am On Sep 12, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:


GBAM! Lobatan!!! grin

*yawns* nice having u as a mate on this lol. Morning morning!!

Abi na Florida u dey? tongue

Nah I dey Minnesota grin
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 12:29am On Sep 12, 2015
YourMain:
Never worth it.

Leave him.
the next one may still be a cheat,a cheat you know is better than...
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by otabuko(m): 12:29am On Sep 12, 2015
YourMain:


Then get a wife that wont cheat ?
now that's the point... You'd never know the one that wouldn't cheap... That's where tolerance comes in... Until it's obvious that the said person is unrepentant!
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 12:30am On Sep 12, 2015
panachuku:
some girls have fish brain, my friends babe has caught him 3 times, beat up 2 of the babes, d last one was bigger than her so only verbal abused was available. yet this gal refuses to quit, the guy is chasing money and nt ready to settle down yet, the gal is getting marriage offers left right nd centre she keeps turning dem down. in 10 years time she may come on Nl and say y do men cheat, foool
its not her fault,she is DICKMATIZED.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 12:32am On Sep 12, 2015
Raymondenyi:
why not call the girl aside and advice her , she will listen to you....... I hate when guys keep deceiving people, it sends cold chills down my spine. It's something I just can't stand.
most ladies deserves it.
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:33am On Sep 12, 2015
aim5:

Nah I dey Minnesota grin
Ok , I take that for Minna, Niger State cheesy

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by AreaFada2: 12:34am On Sep 12, 2015
panachuku:
some girls have fish brain, my friends babe has caught him 3 times, beat up 2 of the babes, d last one was bigger than her so only verbal abused was available. yet this gal refuses to quit, the guy is chasing money and nt ready to settle down yet, the gal is getting marriage offers left right nd centre she keeps turning dem down. in 10 years time she may come on Nl and say y do men cheat, foool

That's how some women are. Many are allergic to serious men. Even though they claim to like serious men.

If you flow with unserious guys who keep cheating on you, I have to conclude that you're unserious yourself.

For some, they remain in hopeless relationships for the money & goodies from the guy. cheesy grin

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Valjinn(m): 12:35am On Sep 12, 2015
[quote author=DatBossAssChick post=37916370]This is funny and serious at the same.

Caught him red handed in his place on my way from work, decided not to inform him and wala!!.. he came up with a smooth lie that she is his cousin. And the girl agreed to bear the cousin with a fake name that even his family members dont know of.

My instincts told me everything acting was a lie because even his brother doesn't know about such cousin. Lol
[/quote

Baby so you later brought the issue to this place? DDo you really want us to wash our dirty lining in the public? Well since it's like this...... Kindly tell them how it all started, tell them why you close late, tell them how you always travel with your boss when you are not the secretary, tell them how you get Samsung s6 when I know your salary cannot carry it, tell them what you stored my name with, tell them why I shouldn't call you till 8pm. Tell them why I can't visit your house when you stay alone. When last did we spent good time together as lovers? Finally tell them who you are with on your birthday and why your phone was off all through that day. Just to mention but few...
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Youngpo413: 12:35am On Sep 12, 2015
MsBliss:

After calling the girl aside and advising her,does that guarantee that the boyfriend will not cheat on any other girl??
the problem here is the boyfriend and not necessarily the girls he hang out with. If one walks away after the advice,there are a thousand more to replace her.Abeg how many ladies this babe wan advice?? will you keep advising ladies all your life.
You talk to your guy and if he don't listen or make changes then don't hesitate to dump his sorry ass. #notime
dump him simply because he cheated?nice joke
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by marriedvirgin: 12:37am On Sep 12, 2015
no disease is worth it.If he cheats just leave and move on



DatBossAssChick:
This is funny and serious at the same.

Caught him red handed in his place on my way from work, decided not to inform him and wala!!.. he came up with a smooth lie that she is his cousin. And the girl agreed to bear the cousin with a fake name that even his family members dont know of.

My instincts told me everything acting was a lie because even his brother doesn't know about such cousin. Lol
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:37am On Sep 12, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:


Ok , I take that for Minna, Niger State cheesy

No Minnesota USA
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by flokii: 12:38am On Sep 12, 2015
DatBossAssChick:
This is funny and serious at the same.

Caught him red handed in his place on my way from work, decided not to inform him and wala!!.. he came up with a smooth lie that she is his cousin. And the girl agreed to bear the cousin with a fake name that even his family members dont know of.

My instincts told me everything acting was a lie because even his brother doesn't know about such cousin. Lol

@OP you dey jonze I swear...

na man matter you carry for head like dandruff so?..

BTW has he turned you to lord of d rings yet or proposed?
Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by Nobody: 12:38am On Sep 12, 2015
Youngpo413:
its not her fault,she is DICKMATIZED.

Ha true. The guy don dick am well well hahahah.

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Re: Ladies How Do You Deal With A Cheating Boyfriend? by marriedvirgin: 12:39am On Sep 12, 2015
coming from a man i'm not surprised.Please ladies if a man cheats on you RUN

Jetjacky:
lol... that's sounds rather rushed to me.

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