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A lot of ladies find making their man happy very difficult. Some even feel making a guy happy is tied only to sex but it is worthy of remembrance that a lot of girls open their legs daily and this still doesn't make the men happy enough to stay with them. Maybe for the minute he wants to experience the excitement of your bosom but appreciating a guy is one thing most ladies overlook.

The number of ladies crying "he broke my heart" would reduce drastically if ladies stopped living their lives like its a fairy tale cartoon.

1. Insecurity:  no matter how insecure you are, its no reason to disrespect your man. Two captains can sail one sheep. Its hard to keep your calm especially if he has a lot of girls are around but shouting and insulting him won't make him pay more attention to you. You simply would be giving him more reasons to look out.

2: Appreciation: never underestimate the power of appreciation. If your man takes good care of you, use ever chance you have got to let him know he's doing a good job. If he looks cute in the morning tell him. If he showers you with gift, thank him. If he listens when you need a friend, be grateful. When you cry and he hugs you, embrace him. A man won't go looking for what he already has. When ladies point out more faults they are pointing at another lady to take their place.

3. The baby in every man: there is a baby in every man that comes to light when he is with the woman he loves the most. Don't see this as weakness. No matter how bad a man feels or angry or disappointed its the duty of the woman in his life to bring out the baby in him and know just how to calm the baby. You can't run away every time he's in a bad mood and expect to keep him.

4. Making him feel at home: around you, he doesn't want who to judge him but he needs someone who sees his strength not the weakness.

There are a couple of things ladies do without realising they are sending the men in their lives packing.
- challenging his authority as a man.
-always winning.
-nagging.
- being bossy.
Funniest part is, they always have an excuse and it is always this is who I am. Who you are is who you decided to be. There is always room for change especially when you make up your mind to be with the person. You must understand a man will always be the man irrespective of what you bring to the table.
Realizing that there is a difference between an humble woman and a stupid one  will hel you better appreciate that a man is your superior but you are his partner and never try to be the man especially when you know he really loves you and wants the best for you.

True talk

This is good

Woman advising co- woman is what I call gossip.
So, keep gossiping ehn

so you mean to tell me that there are actually women that still have sense like diz?

assuming of coz that the O.P came up with the whole thing herself

afolwalex20:
True talk

seconded

Glad these write up is from a female.

You've said it all.......How I wish most women knows all this;So many pastor pray for my husband will be less.

IamLEGEND1:
so you mean to telle that their are actually women that still have sense like diz?

assuming of coz that the O.P came up with the whole thing herself

100% my idea

Sabrwahaqqo:
Woman advising co- woman is what I call gossip.

So, keep gossiping ehn

what of men advising woman? Wat will u call that?

Mzflexydeeva:
what of men advising woman? Wat will u call that?

Discuss

Hmmm

Sabrwahaqqo:
Discuss

lol

True talk. Our ladies wont read this, na kardashian , cynthia morgan post dem dey ff.

Mzflexydeeva:
The number of ladies crying "he broke my heart" would reduce drastically if ladies stopped living their lives like its a fairy tale cartoon.


Funniest part is, they always have an excuse and it is always this is who I am. Who you are is who you decided to be. There is always room for change especially when you make up your mind to be with the person. You must understand a man will always be the man irrespective of what you bring to the table.
Realizing that there is a difference between an humble woman and a stupid one  will hel you better appreciate that a man is your superior but you are his partner and never try to be the man especially when you know he really loves you and wants the best for you

is this romance section? If yes then we are on the safe side

they have been pushing me but I stand strong. Lol.

Op be like

Even men no wan wahala and gbese again

Na lie

All the treads making FP on ladies...
Hope they ladies will read and act on it..

Not just read and forget about it?

hmm

Yea

Smile Smile. You are right. This was the reason i brokeup with my girl. She is always right in everything.

Good talk.so how does guy pushes their ladies away

So?