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MuhdG:
intelligent and beautiful ladies may be hard to find and even keep.
Some ladies just dull.

And one thing i hate is a lady that forms.

On the contrary, it's difficult to find ugly ladies, thanks to social media. The only problem is that some of them are not well groomed.

I know girls generally love anything that's interesting, so it's wise to keep ur conversation interesting when u meet the right one that catches ur fancy.

cruzita:
*spreads mat*waiting to catch liars

i wanna hear your story cruz

girl4rmspace:
tell her the truth, that she's ruining your relationship with other girls and she has to go

I will do just that. She has really finished me even my friend thinks she is my gf. Only few kñ what is happening. And she her self is beauti.

donholy28:
Na touch and follow juju me dey use

baad guy....igboro lorga jor.

ebohstepn:
I will do just that. She has really finished me even my friend thinks she is my gf. Only few kñ what is happening. And she her self is beauti.

Lol.....my guy na people like you dey help another man dey take care of their children when you already know that you can't benefit from your help.
Abeg what's she benefiting from you?

Bhiodun:
[qwuote author=Smellymouth post=42359240] I don't have a GF and I don't woo ladies

Don’t Fake it, Don't just act natural -be natural.If the girl has a brain, she'll be able to detect that you're trying too hard, or striving to be something you're not.Try as much as possible to be natural in all your dealings with her. Don’t fake what you are not and don’t brag because girls hate guys that brag.

Nothing is sexier like being Confident,it makes girls like you the more.Work on your self esteem even before striking a friendship with her.

You have probably heard a million times that women love a confident man. You might be a bit pissed hearing it all the time but it’s true. I’m sorry to tell you, if you want to be a natural at attracting, approaching and seducing women the most important thing is being Confident!!!
Stop talking abt money and be confident..


hmmmm, you said you have no gf and you have never woo any girl before.. So how do u expect me to take to ur advice when you have no experience about it...

Don't get me wrong, I said I DON'T HAVE A GF and I DON'T WOO LaDIES..i used to do that in d past

Took a flight out of the "friendzone".

powerfulsettingz:
I never woo I just date by chance however I am in the same situation with op now, there was this girl I was trying to woo 4 nights ago, we had never talked before, so she came out to buy something and I followed her, stopped her then she said what's my problem, I was like see this stewpid thing, but I had to swallow my pride and I said my problem is her digit, i need it, she looked at me and said I don't have a phone and if u follow me again I will slap you, that's how all the feelings fly off the I told her slap me and then tell ur people to arrange how u want ur funeral to go....... She looked at me and was shocked......
I hate abusive and insulting ladies

Bro... Me can't just hold bk d tears wey dey drop after laffin so hard..... Lmao

We met at wedding ceremony. He made some enquiries to know if I was engaged, and came to me after the program. He asked of my name, my religion, what i do for a living, and said I wish to marry u. I didnt say yes n I didn't say no. I just discovered we became close. We r now married with a set of twins (2boys).

I never asked any of my gfs out, we start as friends, and then we got close, without either of us knowing it, we realize we are dating.

powerfulsettingz:
I never woo I just date by chance however I am in the same situation with op now, there was this girl I was trying to woo 4 nights ago, we had never talked before, so she came out to buy something and I followed her, stopped her then she said what's my problem, I was like see this stewpid thing, but I had to swallow my pride and I said my problem is her digit, i need it, she looked at me and said I don't have a phone and if u follow me again I will slap you, that's how all the feelings fly off the I told her slap me and then tell ur people to arrange how u want ur funeral to go....... She looked at me and was shocked......
I hate abusive and insulting ladies

Yu qat me laughing out xo loud....badt man

Op...your approach depends on what you want to get outta d relationship...if u are jst attracted to her curves and you want to bleep her,then take the Moneyman approach...dnt waste tym being frnds wit her. But if u wanna get serious wit her,den u r on a looong tin o...u will get friendly first,den gradually work ur way until she falls for u...
Besides...u probably dnt knw if she is a runz geh or not

[quote author=Amoshie post=42359233]There are different approaches: subtle and aggressive.

The aggressive style does not work often and may not attract quality babe's for you. This is where you almost immediately profess love w/out first getting to know her. Many get put off.

In subtle, you "water" the ground first.
Identify the lady of interest and try getting her attention.
Start a conversation by reference to the things you have seen her do, etc. Be brief, unless you sense otherwise.

Introduce humour...women like humorous men.
Don't try to impress her by being fake or talking big.
Smile. Be neat in dressing/grooming.

Having established some rapport, disappear once in a while from the scene so you do not appear too beggarly or a pain in her skin.

If she likes reading, suggest nice books you have read take one to her ....." I saw this and thought you would like it..."

Be sure not to ask personal questions yet or if she has a boyfriend 'cos it won't do you any good. Be friends first, then lovers.

Amoshie:
This might sound strange in this present generation of ours but the fact is I have never wooed a girl. I am 27, all the girls I have been with either showed signs that they liked me and I capitalized on that or it just happened by chance.

funny enough I am a version of u.. my only weapon is compliments which I give freely..
ladies love it...

Lol.....do you love me ?

BrainnewsNg:
Abeg u must be in primary 2?

Fiwasayo:
Gonna be fun reading comments

Oh dear heavens
Those curves do not lie.

Use google translator....lol

IamLEGEND1:
bruh,i have no idea what that means

maryhaam:
ok hmmm he said he love me,then I said ok.

You that I know...

maryhaam:
ok hmmm he said he love me,then I said ok.

Lmao. Which kind boring wooing be that na.:/?.?

prettythicksme:
I woo guys,dey dont woo me

Like a Boss

mrnuur:
Like a Boss

YES!

Amoshie:
This might sound strange in this present generation of ours but the fact is I have never wooed a girl. I am 27, all the girls I have been with either showed signs that they liked me and I capitalized on that or it just happened by chance. Right now I have no one and I have been thinking of approaching a certain girl for a serious relationship but the thought of walking up to her sends shiver down my spine. Mind you I am funny and outgoing. Still schooling though, in my final year. I don't have much money to play any trick on her lol.

So guys how did you woo your girl? What did you tell her and to the ladies, how did your guy woo you?

I am pretty sure I am not the only guy in this predicament so sharing your experience will be of help to a lot of guys.

as a good man I go give u three options 1)make plenty money 2) buy touch and follow 3)check this guy's thread out https://www.nairaland.com/charlesnneji1/topics

veraiyke:
Was preparing for my first year second semester exams when I noticed her. We were having a discussive class in a grassy area beside unn stadium. After that we were walking our different ways when a discussion about women came up and I said "women are necessary evils". She fumed up almost quarelling me but I don't talk much so I made my point and went ahead hearing behind me all her arguments. One day I was eating abacha when this girl said she wants to eat and I said ok. She said it is just my meat she wants so I let her have it and ate my abacha without meat. Her friend was like aah but I smiled and didn't mind. I could see her one time talking and her voice will always be high but the next minute she is sleeping. We were majoring in same department. Most times she walks on the road you see her full of life and exubberance. On her short gowns she could jump up and down. There were times she could see me and say lift me up on the way. Once I did and just laughed over it and we continued our journey on our different routes. Finally exams finished and first year was over. I went to my room still in school hostel then-zik flat- for those who know unn. I was dressed on my suit about to attend rotaract meeting. Proudly a rota-lion. I had a bang on my room door. A girl entered and another followed suit. The first girl is also in my department and was close to me as I helped her in her studies, nothing more mind you. The second was this very girl I have been talking about since. I was like what! How can you people badge into my room like that, no prior information of your coming sef? They were like aah you won't even ask us to sit down? I said look I am on my way out as you can see. You people should have called first. The second girl was like oya let's go nah. He is chasing us from his room and they left. I sat down on my bed thinking. I was already falling for this girl and had wished severally for her visit. The first time she came I have not welcomed her in. Well it isn't my doing. A principled man cannot cancel his meeting for uninformed visitors. So I went to meeting. Days after I met her at the ziks gate and we exchanged numbers and I apologised to her telling her why it had to be like that. She said that's my worries o and it doesn't bother her. Fast forward I went home to ph and one day a female friend sent me one of these messages if I kiss you what will you do and all that. There was no better person to forward this message to but the very girl I chased and that exactly I did. She replied in her jovial way she would kiss me till I beg and start running. It was mtn free messages. We kept exchanging messages till I called and we spoke for a while. I later searched for her on facebook and we were the best of chat mates. We asked ourselves questions about the other and how the first year in school had been. We continued talking and I told her that I would hug her the first time we met and she was like humm let's wait and see. We were just talking as friends o. I was jokingly telling her my mind and feelings. I knew her to be jovial and easy going so certainly she wasn't taking my words to heart and I told myself I will ask her out once school resumes. This is 2012. On the 8th of october we both returned to nsk. I was shocked when someone hugged me in the market. I was embarrassed I could hug back. It was the same girl I had told I would hug the first time I saw anywhere. I was buying foam because I had rented a room off k while exams were on. The driver of the taxi I took for a drop was like guy this girl love you oh and you are just there. I was speechless until I asked what she was doing in the market so soon. She was smiling and that reminded me I had failed in what I said and has confirmed what she said that I won't be able to do that. After saying what she came to buy I told her to then hurry up and join my cab. I waited for a while she wasn't fot coming so I told the driver to move and that was it. I called her that I have moved after waiting for a while and she said no p. I told her to call me let me show her my place later in the day. Around five I got a call it was her her. Shock and unbelief ran through me. I went and met her and we walked to my place. On our way she reminded me I couldn't fulfil my sayings of hugging her at first sight. I am a shy person though and don't talk with girls much how much more hugging them. I tried to give excuses of we are in public. Anyway we got to my house and we ate and she actually past the night with me. Since then we have been together. Getting a good girl you love and who loves you doesn't take any specific thing. Just be yourself. We have future plans together. She brought me into nairaland.

Hmmmm, this ur story long oo.

Are you in love with it LADY

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Hmmmm, this ur story long oo.

He just narrated how we met.

It was like a movies cos I was very naughty and wondered how I fell for him just like that. He was a shy guy back then and I didn't want him to go through much stress

darkenedrebel:
You sure it wasn't one of those Mary League girls?

how you take know?

Jerryolumide:
Wow. Cc her abeg

Come, u want thief somebody babe here?

Make I just laugh

MISSCONGENIALITY:
He just narrated how we met.

It was like a movies cos I was very naughty and wondered how I fell for him just like that. He was a shy guy back then and I didn't want him to go through much stress

j3r3myk3n:
Lol.....my guy na people like you dey help another man dey take care of their children when you already know that you can't benefit from your help.
Abeg what's she benefiting from you?

knowledge and maybe little assistant.

veraiyke:
Make I just laugh

Better laugh out loud, it brings the soul closer to Paradise.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Come, u want thief somebody babe here?

No o

donholy28:
Na touch and follow juju me dey use

hahah dis guy na complete tallisman,abeg borow me ur juju mak i use am 4 buhari daughter(zahara buari or kiki osibanjo)