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Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Saladin25(m): 12:05pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
I would rather be a polygamist than having a concubine. I do tell all the ladies that have met that, I am a fan of polygamy. If she wants no problem, if she doesn't want, find your way out. I know many married that do come to my school back then. They will carry those girls to guest houses and hotels till day break and the same adulterous husband would be saying one man, one wife. Who is fooling who. The single mothers, expired single ladies and widows that I know are uncountable. I now asked myself which single guy would want to marry them. That us why I Like Islam, when you are financial capable and physically capable marry 1,2,3 or 4 wives. Polygamy is the solution to end the mystery for single ladies, single mothers, divorcees and widows not only in Nigeria also in the world. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by seaga: 12:05pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
SweetOlive: Dont! |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by IykeWest: 12:05pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Saladin25:That's very true brother! I'm a huge fan of the truth, I mean the real truth, I've been telling the truth for a long time, and lemme tell you another truth, are u ready for the truth? The truth is nobody wants to hear the truth, that's the truth, they want something fabricated or easy to handle, so please you are telling the truth and I advise you should stop, u wanna know the reason? Cos everybody will see you as a pessimistic human being while in the true sense of it, you're being real, you're being realistic. The truth is like a very thick bitter ointment, nobody will drink it cos it's very bitter, if you want them to drink it, mix a lot of water (Fabrications) with it, so they'll drink it easily. That's my advice bro. Thanks again for showing the truth, but as you can see, nobody wan drink am. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Saladin25(m): 12:08pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
IykeWest: haha... exactly. let me keep the truth to myself. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by NiRfreak(m): 12:16pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
@OP....I'm also of the pragmatic breed. If getting ready to marry means a lady must be aware and brace up for future infidelity of the man, then , part of bracing up and getting ready should also means that she could play infidelity emulating her husband and none of the partners should feel discontent about it. else, that would amount to applying double standard and prejudice in favour of the mans infidelity. And your marriage law will read: The man is liable to have side chicks or mistresses but the woman can not in marriage. how fair! 4 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 12:16pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Some exceptional couples grounded in christ still respect their marital vows. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Fkhalifa(m): 12:16pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
In situations like this, its quite funny ladies are heaping praise on men, really Yes ladies you are all right we have many monogamous non cheating men out there, Mr Toks is the only philander Smh# I fear HBP and stroke waiting to happen to some people. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by banmee(m): 12:18pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008: Are you phucking ret.ard.ed? Wait. Don't answer that. It's obvious. My bad. 6 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by yvelchstores(f): 12:19pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
U are very insane. I see u had a dis functional family wen growing up. Damaged mindset! Toks2008: 4 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Countrygirl(f): 12:20pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:Ok, i understand now. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by xcllaxix(m): 12:20pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:Nah...its not allowed. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 12:20pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
I don't know why Nairalanders dey vex for Toks, he is divorced!His approach to relationships is crazy! 3 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by HIbekay5: 12:24pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Dis is what happens when you have polygamist and adulterers as relatives, friends & associates. An opinion is the sum of what you hear, see, believe and experienced over time. As a result of your exposure, you strongly believe every married man has a side-chick. Then you come up with threads like this and spew unverified sayings. No doubt some men are skilled adulterers but there are still many faithful men out there who detest cheating lyk sh*t. 7 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Saladin25(m): 12:24pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: My Dad and Mum do say it that when a man get to a stage in his life. Women/ladies will be after him. It takes a courageous wife to overlook it. Even me wey I never get anything I know many ladies that are after me. I had to stop calling and chatting with them. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 12:27pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
iAmCharis: I don't know that to do about this man again, im matter just tire me. Make I shut up biko, once you disagree now_ he would say only intelligent minds can discern the post. 6 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Fkhalifa(m): 12:31pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Saladin25:baba you are not far from the truth o, see what a lady once talk about this issue "Cheating doesn't get to me. That's the way I have made my myself to be. I have never nag or shout at any man because of cheating. there are other bigger things I nag for, and, believe me is not cheating. I can't just imagine myself fighting for a man, even if he is my husband, I will never do it. Let him paint the town red, let him club, let him womanize, let him do whatever he likes. All I know, is between him and his God. All I am after in this world, earn my own money, have kids, raise my kids to be responsible. Take care of my aged sweet mum. Offer my shoulder and help to my siblings. (because is only my siblings that can bleed for me and never forsake me in trying times)." |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Saladin25(m): 12:37pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: This kind of Lady want peace in her life. A woman that want peace in her marital life must not be a jealous woman. She must be able to overlook things. A Lady like her is rare. I pray she has a good husband. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Johnnoo(m): 12:38pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Another radical goat on the loose 1 Like
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Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by sweetgala(m): 12:41pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
falconey: I command you to break your crystal ball now. It is a counterfeit product. It can't even tell the future within 2 hr span 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 12:46pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
omotonyx:Amen sis |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Vikky014(f): 12:47pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008:toks ur advice is for single ladies with kids or single ladies that hv done abortion before not for an ideal single lady besides say Amen to my prayers. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by elantraceey(f): 12:47pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
I rather remain single than enter a polygamous marriage, you shouldn't use your inability to judge others. 4 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by HaneefahRN(f): 12:49pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Ok, he is free to marry 10 with 100 mistresses, can I marry now? Those tht av seen the rigors of polygamy wld''t wish it for their worst enemy, u think polygamy is just to be able to sleep wt different women? Think again. I know a man nw in old age, who said if he cld turn back the hands of time, he wld never av ventured into polygamy. He knew what he saw. Now, he is a strong advocate against any of his sons marrying more than a wife. I av pple who av all the resources to marry more wives bt decided nt to cos they av seen things, tht pleasure u're seeking from being able to sleep wt different women wld be minute when reality sets in. Some men are lucky enof to be able to manage the home well, but most don't av the ability to. The annoying part is u'll find men who can barely manage just a wife also venturing into polygamy. And no, polygamy doesn't curb a cheating soul, there wld always be another lady out there more sexy to him than the wives at home, a man wt no self control can't regain it thru polygamy. U'll just see he has 4 wives already and has impregnated another one outside, but it's nt the randy guy's fault o, it's some fish-brained ladies who wld rather chase after married men than chose from the myriads of single guys asking them out, but it's nt their fault too. When men learn to put themselves in their women's shoes, tht is when sanity can come in. I can imagine how men wld be so happy sharing their wives wt other men if polyandry is to come in. They will boldly talk abt how women are polygamous in nature and shld be allowed to Bleep around, while the guy looks the other way and even av to be nice or pretend to be nice to his rival. This wld be so wonderful. Men ain't emotional afterall, they can only go mad if a man looks longer than necessary at their wives talk more sleep wt them, but the female super-humans av no right to be emotional abt having their loved one sleep around. Enof of my ramblings, I pray I wnt av a man such as 'these' as a husband. Ladies there are gud, worthy men out there, but when u're unlucky to av one wt no self control abeg carry face and face ur career and children and find ways to protect urself so he doesn't come and infect u wt something, no man is worth one's unhappiness, or landing in Aro for . If u can't handle it, let no one tell u not to divorce, divorce is always an option. 6 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by villareal15(m): 12:50pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks, crazy at it sounds.,you are actually right. |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Vikky014(f): 12:50pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
NiRfreak:Toks2008 read this one. it seems you dnt know that men cheat with ladies. and most of them are married. SMH |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Nobody: 12:50pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
U've succeeded in spilling out rubbishj..am not against polygamy..buh if dis is ur reason for polygamy den u are wrong Saladin25: |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Fkhalifa(m): 12:51pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Saladin25: Amin, and the funny thing is most of these ladies bashing the op have once dated/slept with a married man,they once had more than one boyfriends in their prime, sexing every party they go, yet they are quick to lash any guy try who even opts for polygamy instead of chasing skirts about. Do they deserve all this angels they are craving for? Had it been a lady that lived a decent and a worthy wife material, I would perfectly understand and wish her well |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by ephi123(f): 12:52pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Toks2008: Who made you an authority?! Rather than say that is your own personal opinion/preference, you are talking like your word is law. Anyway, other posters above have addressed you properly, no point wasting my time adding more. Ladies & gentlemen, this kind of post is what happens when people set no standards for themselves but rather make the society their yardstick. 7 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by ephi123(f): 12:55pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
KimBerlyie: It seems he's been married before and it didn't work out if I remember correctly he mentioned it in another thread. Not enough excuse for his whole mindset to become warped like this though. 2 Likes |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Captain001(m): 12:58pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
littlemistress: You made a valid point when you said " except both of them are devoted Christians " that is the only solution to infidelity in marriage, total commitment and devotion to christ by both parties. Every lady wants a God fearing man for a husband; but they don't even know what it means to be God fearing. When an actual God fearing man comes around they see him as boring. A God fearing man won't drink alcohol, won't smoke, won't club, won't play songs that ain't gospel etc. So ladies if you don't want cheating in your marriage fear God with all your heart and marry a man who does same. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by ephi123(f): 12:59pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: Lack of accountability, that is one of the biggest problems we have in this country. Meanwhile it is the same woman who would suffer most when she catches a life-changing sexually transmitted disease from the husband. 1 Like |
Re: No Lady Should Get Married If She Is Not Ready For This One Thing... by Saladin25(m): 1:00pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
bardella1:to you.it is rubbish but to the sensible ones it is the reality. Am from a nuclear family but we don't go against polygamy. You said I spilled rubbish but what I stated is the fact. You better brace yourself up and face the reality. |
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