Toks2008:
Before i dwell on the matter i would like to welcome every Lady Nairalander who has perfected the act of E-cursing to come on board especially those who are still far from the reality of marriage to call me names like monster,misogynist or any other name that comes to your mind.

Yes we know that philandering is a hell bound sin and adultery is very sinful so this is not about justifying or encouraging the act but does that change the fact that a man who will cheat on you will do and some guys will never cheat on the woman in their life but unfortunately there is no way this can be written on their foreheads.

Many ladies hate to hear the word "Polygamy" but do you know that POLYGAMY IS THE ANSWER TO THE PRAYERS OF MANY LADIES such as:

1.Many never married single ladies in the late 30s and in their 40s.
2.Many lady divorcées with children.
3.Many widows in their 30s and 40s

Apparently it is the married men that will fancy these set of ladies MORE and only a lady in their shoes will relate perfectly to my stands and i believe it makes no sense for a man to divorce an innocent wife because he desires another woman.

How hypocritical it is that ladies will prefer a man to be married to them alone and keep side dishes rather than for the same hubby to marry more wives and remain faithful to them? Same ladies that talk down on polygamy will be the same having affairs with married men and i just wonder at the level of hypocrisy and foolishness.

And even more pathetic is the fact that a lady will divorce her husband because he decides to marry or date another lady just for her to end up as a mistress to another married man or starts sleeping around shamelessly after divorce.
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SO IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF SHARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN EITHER AS A MISTRESS OR ANOTHER WIFE PLEASE DON'T BOTHER GETTING MARRIED.[/size]

I know many ladies will say a man should also be ready to share his wife too but please you are free as a lady to marry more than one husband at the same time if you can


This is not the way it should be but a fact you must accept as a lady or stay single for life.

Op, u must be very high on cheap weeds. I read all your posts and I am so sorry to tell you dat they all seem so unintelligent and vain. Must u post something? I understand that u are trying so hard to be relevant. I wonder when men, guys or society will start treating the female folks with respect. Y must we always be the victims? Y must we always be the ones to suffer from the fact that most of you prefer using your dicks than your brains? Op! Op!! Op!!! How many times did I call u? Be warned

OP just because you are loose with women, that should not mean all men are. Onye ofe mmanu!

falconey:
This thread will hit frontpage but not this year.

Well, it just did! And it's just a day after you wrote ^

Funkybabee:
what God have joined let no man put asunder
u can't expect a man of God to join a man with two woman

so whenever u guys want to marry,surely know that u are going to have one woman
when God create Adam did he create two woman,no na one woman God created
and bible said a wise man buid a home
jahbless!!!

But the ratio of women to men is like 2:1. What should the other husband seeking women do?

So a man that is managing to even cater for one wife should go ahead and add another one.@op have you ever thought of the children a polygamist will produce. At times when we post rubbish write up in an open forum on the internet we never call tell the amount of curse we re bringing upon ourselves directly or indirectly,I guess you just created this thread because you re practising your writing skills or you want to hit front page or better still you want several likes but whichever reason you may have always remember that no matter how promiscuous a man is,he will always desire a united and happy home in his old age.

This post is stupid. How can someone encourage infidelity in marriage.

OP has been yarning Opata but today own no get mate.

polygamy a must adopt system of marriage

Crapest post ever. I salute the post.

Toks2008:
Before i dwell on the matter i would like to welcome every Lady Nairalander who has perfected the act of E-cursing to come on board especially those who are still far from the reality of marriage to call me names like monster,misogynist or any other name that comes to your mind.

Yes we know that philandering is a hell bound sin and adultery is very sinful so this is not about justifying or encouraging the act but does that change the fact that a man who will cheat on you will do and some guys will never cheat on the woman in their life but unfortunately there is no way this can be written on their foreheads.

Many ladies hate to hear the word "Polygamy" but do you know that POLYGAMY IS THE ANSWER TO THE PRAYERS OF MANY LADIES such as:

1.Many never married single ladies in the late 30s and in their 40s.
2.Many lady divorcées with children.
3.Many widows in their 30s and 40s

Apparently it is the married men that will fancy these set of ladies MORE and only a lady in their shoes will relate perfectly to my stands and i believe it makes no sense for a man to divorce an innocent wife because he desires another woman.

How hypocritical it is that ladies will prefer a man to be married to them alone and keep side dishes rather than for the same hubby to marry more wives and remain faithful to them? Same ladies that talk down on polygamy will be the same having affairs with married men and i just wonder at the level of hypocrisy and foolishness.

And even more pathetic is the fact that a lady will divorce her husband because he decides to marry or date another lady just for her to end up as a mistress to another married man or starts sleeping around shamelessly after divorce.
[size=15pt]
SO IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THE POSSIBILITY OF SHARING YOUR HUSBAND WITH ANOTHER WOMAN EITHER AS A MISTRESS OR ANOTHER WIFE PLEASE DON'T BOTHER GETTING MARRIED.[/size]

I know many ladies will say a man should also be ready to share his wife too but please you are free as a lady to marry more than one husband at the same time if you can


This is not the way it should be but a fact you must accept as a lady or stay single for life.

Bullpoo

toprealman:
OP just because you are loose with women, that should not mean that all men are. Onye ofe mmanu!

Abeg don't make this about tribe. I think people should just start ignoring the OP. He's looking for reactions,mom out of here

Tinalex:
But for real Op....i used to applaud your write ups but of recent you 've been f*cking up. Pls dnt let your brain devalue like our naira now cos you just murdered all my previous esteemed regards for you. :-

To be sincere not till now Op is intelligent to your liking.

If you are not aware that something is going on where you are does not means that nothing is going on else where.

I heard of a woman telling that her husband can screw as many lady as he wants so far he will not marry them.

The same woman i know is being screw by one of our boss here in the office, to her as a married woman all is well.

we can scream and wail as we like but polygamous life is key to solve matrimonial conflicts.

Why do I think the most criticized write-ups are usually the bitter truth.

In the western world, there are laws against polygamy but the men there still go about having bedmates every where after marriage.

Yes, in the bible, God created one man for one woman, but you and I know the powerful men of God in the old testament had more than one wife.

No laws, no polical correctness, no religion, no equality concept will change the polygamist nature of man.

littlemistress:
I quite agree with the op tho. It's a bitter pill & it doesn't justify cheating by men but it's the truth. At one stage or the other in a marriage, a man will cheat. Marriage vows are no longer respected. Going into a marriage with the perception that a man will be totally faithful is a mirage.. except ofcourse you both are devoted Christians.
I think the essence is hoping for the best & preparing for the worst. Just because he hasn't been caught doesn't mean he's not screwing some babes somewhere.
Even if he's not willing to cheat, there's a daring daughter of eve somewhere scheming to oust wifey!

You got it wrong here. It surprises me when people use this line. People cheat regardless of his affiliation, tribe,commitment to whatever religion. Not cheating is something from within and not been devoted to whatever.

So u haven't seen a devoted traditionalist who doesn't cheat.

Smartguy001:


Yea u very kworecty, i feel I shld get married to sum1 4rm dat setting, because she will understand n avoid such for our children...jst ma opinion tho

not a bad idea

Speechless3:

that's the fact. Men cheat. I'm even gonna cheat on my wife 2day

i concur 100%, it is scriptural(4 christians, though many would disagree) again it is not illegal.

littlemistress:
I quite agree with the op tho. It's a bitter pill & it doesn't justify cheating by men but it's the truth. At one stage or the other in a marriage, a man will cheat. Marriage vows are no longer respected. Going into a marriage with the perception that a man will be totally faithful is a mirage.. except ofcourse you both are devoted Christians.
I think the essence is hoping for the best & preparing for the worst. Just because he hasn't been caught doesn't mean he's not screwing some babes somewhere.
Even if he's not willing to cheat, there's a daring daughter of eve somewhere scheming to oust wifey!

this one will make a good wife, wish you the best...

I really don't blame this op whenever I see his useless write ups.. it's a product of his upbringing and where he lives. .. He must have grown up in a loveless environment and an environment where ladies are seen as 'objects' ... Really not his fault; I hope his life gets better someday. .

Then, I really wonder why Lalasticlala keeps pushing his silly threads to the front page. . I really wonder...

Senorita123:

Op, u must be very high on cheap weeds. I read all your posts and I am so sorry to tell you dat they all seem so unintelligent and vain. Must u post something? I understand that u are trying so hard to be relevant. I wonder when men, guys or society will start treating the female folks with respect. Y must we always be the victims? Y must we always be the ones to suffer from the fact that most of you prefer using your dicks than your brains? Op! Op!! Op!!! How many times did I call u? Be warned

Marriage is not compulsory.

littlemistress:
I quite agree with the op tho. It's a bitter pill & it doesn't justify cheating by men but it's the truth. At one stage or the other in a marriage, a man will cheat. Marriage vows are no longer respected. Going into a marriage with the perception that a man will be totally faithful is a mirage.. except ofcourse you both are devoted Christians.
I think the essence is hoping for the best & preparing for the worst. Just because he hasn't been caught doesn't mean he's not screwing some babes somewhere.
Even if he's not willing to cheat, there's a daring daughter of eve somewhere scheming to oust wifey!

Cough.....50% of first born kids belong to another man outside.

30% of all kids belong to another man outside.
Research result.
Were they all fathered by holy spirit? How did it happen without the women cheating?

Even good old Durex did a survey that gave 9ja women the worst score card in fidelity stakes.

Men still have this illusion that only them play away. Women use this poor judgement to cheat. And quite mercilessly too.

She can even get a lot of material/monetary, rapid promotion at work and other rewards from it. The incentives are huge and many are weak and fall for it.

Women know how to chop clean mouth whereas men chop a little and use the soup to rub mouth.

Think of it. To cheat a woman doesn't have to chat men up, make the phone calls, no buying expensive gifts, no paying for dinner, etc. She just has to say yes to her boss at work, a neighbour, local big boy, her husband's/bf's friend, an array of social media guys wooing, etc.

Op is right but it doesn't have to be polygamy

Our women are too jealous and selfish, they will rather kill you than share you

Best option is to have mistress(es)

Met one Uni girl the other day. She told me she only dates married men and that she likes my ring.

Another one left me when I got married. She was even forming virgin etc

After a few months of her missing my goodies, she called me up again. Found out she is no virgin. 200 level babe with a boyfriend. She is polygamous too, no?

Senorita123:

Op, u must be very high on cheap weeds. I read all your posts and I am so sorry to tell you dat they all seem so unintelligent and vain. Must u post something? I understand that u are trying so hard to be relevant. [b]I wonder when men, guys or society will start treating the female folks with respect. [/b]Y must we always be the victims? Y must we always be the ones to suffer from the fact that most of you prefer using your dicks than your brains? Op! Op!! Op!!! How many times did I call u? Be warned

that excatly what the op is saying, don't let sentiment cloud ur judgement, more than half of our married men are cheating. that is the bitter truth. that ur hubby ain't cheating (thank Goodness for him) doesn't mean a whole lot of them are not doing it

Laveda:

This thread is useless

so it seems but it's learn or bare the consequences for life.

uchwar1:
that's the fact. Men cheat. I'm even gonna cheat on my wife 2day

Keep it Up..weldone! I hope you don't learn the hard way ...

This is what we get when seun keeps promoting infidelity in marriage. They keep pushing silly threads to the front page .. People are now coming out proud on how they cheat on their wives, smh...

KimBerlyie:


You see!!! U clearly stated that she shld be ready to pay the price, so in conclusion and in accordance to ur writeup , it is normal and acceptable for a man to cheat and maybe ask his wife for forgiveness and she will accept but if a woman tries such, she will pay the price?(maybe a divorce or he eventually murder her) . You do realize this is the 21st century right? We av successful and intelligent women here and dere, y shld polygamy be accepted? What reason? For more kids or just for d pleasure? Why do u make it look like men re doing women a favor for marrying them. So wat u re trying to say is that all men re polygamous in nature and all men re d same!? I am trying to understand your writeup.

Worker: We have spotted one!

Me: (sits up right avoiding spilling the coffee ) huh?

Worker: she goes by the monica, Kimberlyie. Sir!

Me: (muttered) monica kor Brandy ni. Send her file to my console immediately!

Worker: Yes sir!
(file receive tone played on the console)

Me: (scruntinized her profile) . These feminist are just springing up faster lately. I hope this one will be easy.

What is good for Greece isn't always good for Uganda . Kim. Is that okay?

Laveda:

Team white guys?

I love my cute Naija guys please
Don't mind the ones posting trash on NL

welcome to the party(with love)

Speechless3:

lol . Erin npami

Marvinspeed:
This post is stupid. How can someone encourage infidelity in marriage.

Read and understand, stop being a hypocrite, the op is saying the excatly wht is happening

This is bull crap

Tinalex:
But for real Op....i used to applaud your write ups but of recent you 've been f*cking up. Pls dnt let your brain devalue like our naira now cos you just murdered all my previous esteemed regards for you. :-

the population of women in 9ja exceeds that of me 3:2, now tell me if it's one man one woman, what do you want the other women to do when there are no men left?.. Want them to 'go and die' ? No way!

PresVA:
Keep it Up..weldone! I hope you don't learn the hard way ...

This is what we get when seun keep promoting infidelity in marriage. They keep pushing silly threads to the front page .. People are now coming out proud on how they cheat on their wives, smh...

I'm not proud of it but it is difficult to avoid. The fact is 99 percent of husband's cheat.