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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by wildchild1: 8:02am On Mar 19, 2016
corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.

Nice one bro..you're smart
...but on the other side,what if she's not faithful? Love doesn't equal faithfulness oooo.
And note, until you tell your babe what happened with the side chick, you are a cheat cheesy

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by cattyvince: 8:02am On Mar 19, 2016
@OP, unsmart guy. You saying that you trust an ordinary girl friend 100%? grin grin. Again that is unwise.
u better call the said girl again and....

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Smellymouth: 8:02am On Mar 19, 2016
suzan404:
lol,are you trying to say having one girlfriend is bad?

Sometimes it's grin

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Hammefeez: 8:03am On Mar 19, 2016
Good for you @op

[size=20pt]If any modRotor ban me again ehn......i will tell gods what to do on his life[/size]
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by FreemanDave(m): 8:03am On Mar 19, 2016
What am I to learn from this?


Thinking !!!!
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nobody: 8:03am On Mar 19, 2016
Smellymouth:
undecided
You are a cheat
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by cattyvince: 8:03am On Mar 19, 2016
wildchild1:


Nice one bro..you're smart
...but on the other side,what if she's not faithful? Love doesn't equal faithfulness oooo.
And note, until you tell your babe what happened with the side chick, you are a cheat cheesy

good point
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nienie(f): 8:04am On Mar 19, 2016
if it's true...you deserve a kiss jorh
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by lovinam: 8:04am On Mar 19, 2016
Kudos to you op. You did well, nott every man can withstand such temptation. God bless your relationship.

NB: no ttry am again
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by richgang(m): 8:04am On Mar 19, 2016
You too lie
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Smellymouth: 8:06am On Mar 19, 2016
Angelberry:

You are a cheat

shocked shocked...

That's not my real face oooo

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by T4kbaba(m): 8:06am On Mar 19, 2016
Super story by WAP.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nicepoker(m): 8:06am On Mar 19, 2016
Op is the lady on nairaland? BTW let me categorically tell u that ur piston has been disassembled from the connecting rod by ur GF. No wonder u could not fire. Judging by ur monika. U tried to perform oil service on that village girl were u are serving.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by MizMyColi(f): 8:07am On Mar 19, 2016
MRBrownJ:
@corperscorner
let me be the bearer of bad news, if you brought a gal home , "touched" her everywhere (possiby kiss her too) and undressed her fully, then you have already cheated bro!

if you believe that cheating is only when you penetrate someone then you are clearly mistaking....
here is a clue: would you allow your gf to be "touched" and undressed fully by some other dude, since it is not cheating?!

grin grin grin grin
Cut him some slack Bro.

He realised and made up for it.

It's worth commending.
If I were his girl and he shared this with me, I would be offended for a bit then come to forgive and cherish him more.

Nothing beautifies a relationship than when both partners can be themselves to eachother, irrespective of what a mess they think they are.

A relationship that's based on Openness, sincerity, trust and selflessness has always been a life long dream.
And I can certify that men like that really exist.‎

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nobody: 8:07am On Mar 19, 2016
Smellymouth:

Sometimes it's grin
hmm,so as you dey nao,u get more than one girlfriend?
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nobody: 8:08am On Mar 19, 2016
Smellymouth:

shocked shocked...
That's not my real face oooo
What's your real face Don't cheat on her
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by OkoAnike(m): 8:08am On Mar 19, 2016
But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed
through my mind how my girlfriend would call
frequently and how she would often profess her
love for me.......


Op, y the statement?, this paragraph is not suppose to be part of the story... If u really want to talk about that all u need is TOTAL ABSTINENCE from sex, be it ur girl friend or ur olosho.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Bgorgeous: 8:08am On Mar 19, 2016
Self-control is the key is word
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by mrlaw93(m): 8:10am On Mar 19, 2016
Mumuness dey worry u bro. No offeinse! Ur so called babe will soon drop ur sorry ass. Meanwhile, u re soon gonna regret not banging dat babe wen it dawn on u dat anoda guy is banging ur babe on her trip.

Is it nt dis ladies wit shallow mind. That can open their heaven with d sweetest of words from a sharp guy. And also, the girl u stripped naked to her panties is also someone's bae and to that som1, "she is loyal"

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by AustinStevens: 8:10am On Mar 19, 2016
Is that the truth and nothing but the truth?
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Smellymouth: 8:10am On Mar 19, 2016
suzan404:
hmm,so as you dey nao,u get more than one girlfriend?

I don't have any right now. But I was dealt badly when I trusted a lady
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Africanpride: 8:10am On Mar 19, 2016
@op did you tell your gf what happened? Cos if you did not you have actually cheated on her. When you find yourself deleting text messages from your phone so you other half don't see it, that is a form of cheating.

And before you start getting a big head that you did not cheat, have you considered what you have put the poor girl through, you have just succeeded in killing herself worth. Thanks for making her look worthless

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by bughead: 8:11am On Mar 19, 2016
corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.
MUMU!

your so called girlfriend must have been somewhere FVCKING and texting you love message.


the day I trust a NAIJA WOMAN, call me a mad man.

forget this your talk!

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Exponental(m): 8:11am On Mar 19, 2016
sorry
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Smellymouth: 8:11am On Mar 19, 2016
Angelberry:

What's your real face Don't cheat on her
I will show you mine the very day I get to see yours grin. Trust me, I won't cheat on you kiss
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Oilandgas1(m): 8:11am On Mar 19, 2016
MRBrownJ:
@corperscorner
let me be the bearer of bad news, if you brought a gal home , "touched" her everywhere (possiby kiss her too) and undressed her fully, then you have already cheated bro!

if you believe that cheating is only when you penetrate someone then you are clearly mistaking....
here is a clue: would you allow your gf to be "touched" and undressed fully by some other dude, since it is not cheating?!


God bless u bro.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by sarutobie(m): 8:11am On Mar 19, 2016
Very commendable act I must say..but next time don't try to put yourself in a situation where you will be tempted to even UnCloth a woman not your wife..flee! From such situations..you might fail someday if you think you can always withstand the temptation on your own..don't even try to court it,just flee..
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Smellymouth: 8:12am On Mar 19, 2016
bughead:
MUMU!

your so called girlfriend must have been somewhere FVCKING and texting you love message.


the day I trust a NAIJA WOMAN, call me a mad man.

forget this your talk!
... grin

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by nonstan(m): 8:13am On Mar 19, 2016
MRBrownJ:
@corperscorner
let me be the bearer of bad news, if you brought a gal home , "touched" her everywhere (possiby kiss her too) and undressed her fully, then you have already cheated bro!

if you believe that cheating is only when you penetrate someone then you are clearly mistaking....
here is a clue: would you allow your gf to be "touched" and undressed fully by some other dude, since it is not cheating?!

lmao...u nailed it

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by bughead: 8:13am On Mar 19, 2016
Smellymouth:


I don't have any right now. But I was dealt badly when I trusted a lady
thank you!

to trust a lady is like putting your hand on fire and hoping it won't burn you.


never trust a black woman! there are most unfaithful set of species

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by MizTyna(f): 8:13am On Mar 19, 2016
Sorry Op,you still cheated. And there's nothing like small cheating cos you didn't have penetrative sex. The fact that you knew you could invite her over sef is already cheating. Cheating isn't all about sex bro

And I see how people are commending you for not penetrating. Women inclusive,smh! See,you don't want to cheat,remove yourself from any situation that can bring on cheating,you don't just decide not to cheat when you're almost inside the girl,you decide way ahead. Like cutting ties with people you know you might be tempted to sleep with,gush about your partner,etc. Not when you arouse some poor girl,leave her high and wet then come on nairaland expecting some backslapping about being a 'good' man

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by fortunechy(m): 8:13am On Mar 19, 2016
waiting for part 2.so intereting.

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