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Guys have taught ladies more hard lesson than this yet mount everest didn't fall now you want the wall of Jericho to fall down flat cos of your male counterpart.Oga swerve

kevin25:
A guy in my neighborhood was dating a girl for a long time, I knew them as the best couple. The guy doesn't joke with anything that concerns the girl affair.

Today being June 11, this particular girl is getting married to one guy like that and the worst part is that not only that she breaks the guy's heart but she didn't let the guy know about her marriage plans Till today.

The guy in quote is very unhappy and was calculating how much he has spent on the girl since they started, not that he has a lot but he is trying his best to use the little money he has at his disposal to solve the girl's needs whenever they arise, no matter how big or small just to show the girl that he really lovers her.

I felt so bad for the guy but on a second thought I ask my self what is the need for dating? why do girls pretend they love you just to be with you for a while just to gain something from you and most of them know that they can't be with you for long still they persist on staying, by so doing l, they end up chasing away those that has the intention of staying with you forever..

Everyday is a lesson I have learnt my own today...I hope your learnt yours, is better to define any relationship to avoid the stories that touches the heart.. Define it so that you don't spend your hard earn money on a girl that doesn't value it..spend because you have not because your thinking that the girl will be your future wife where as she sees you as an ordinary friend..if you don't have, don't try so hard to impress because no matter what you do on this earth, you can never impress a girl...

If i tell my homeboys to study women bc, its part of life, they think am joking. Women are one of the things you must encounter in life, just like money, the earlier you learn about them the better.

A guy can also do that to a girl common. In the words of Abioye: "where there is no definition, there is always deviation."

AfricanApple:
she broke his heart and the first thing that came to his mind is how much money he has spent on her! then he is a dumb azz

Don't mind Naija men. Most of them are hypocrites. As if the girl got him pregnant and abandoned him,mtchewwww! Anyone can be a victim so OP tell your friend to wise up!

jboy73:
Ab0ki sit down.

Even guys are like that... It happens everywhere in the world... Your friend should move on with His unplanned life.

Haven't you heard of cases where guy dump their 10years sweetheart to marry one village bimbo their mother recommended for them?

I repeat... Go and sit down.

u re too harsh..n u took it personal as if u were once a victim...plus calm down o...

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Horrite!!!! Need do some check and balance

Thanks OP

Ehya for your guy, really sad

Florblu:
Guys have taught ladies more hard lesson than this yet mount everest didn't fall now you want the wall of Jericho to fall down flat cos of your male counterpart.Oga swerve

They are all hypocrites my dear! Money that can be earned again? Mtchewwww. Even God loves a cheerful giver and we all know he didn't mean sex!

Engrobiorah:
You get bad mouth. So if person GF leave am den his life is unplanned? Rude

Dont mind her, she's rude

Hmmm, if say him get some reasonable bundles like this him for no dey make noise say nwatiti chop. Tell him to get a life.

girls breakin hearts cins d days of Iyabo Ojo

Trina0936:

They are all hypocrites my dear! Money that can be earned again? Mtchewwww. Even God loves a cheerful giver and we all know he didn't mean sex!

.Tell them o

sinaj:
Chai! Money wey ur frnd for u start business finish for woman head

It hurts tho.

Loosing d one u love to someone else.

Serzly it's better u define ur reltnshp to reduce d risk.


Ur frnd shud take heart, daz xperience for him

Abeg which heart ?

Let him carry his cross.

jboy73:
Ab0ki sit down.

Even guys are like that... It happens everywhere in the world... Your friend should move on with His unplanned life.

Haven't you heard of cases where guy dump their 10years sweetheart to marry one village bimbo their mother recommended for them?

I repeat... Go and sit down.

thank u jare.
the guy might have never even discussed marriage wt the girl nd hes talkin if heartbreak.
guys hv done worse

Thats why my philosophy is; before i spend one naira on any girl then i'm guaranteed of spending double on my family member. if i can't spend double the amount i'm spending on a girl on my family then i wouldn't spend at all on the girl. And i can't invest or spend big on a girl i'm not married to. As along as i never put ring on top that finger then i will never spend an amount on her that will make me bat an eye lid when she decide to leave.

Eeya

That's life

Anybody can betray somebody

Honestly I feel dat way sometimes too.... Just yesterday my fiancé asked me wat my biggest fear was in our relationship and I told her d truth which is dat I fear dat she might just decide to leave me 1 day... And she felt bad cuz she feels like she is pushing me towards wat am not ready for..... My point is dat guy no matter hw much u love a gal and how much she really tend to love u u must always tink abt the what's and the if so dat wen it eventually happens ( take note it might not ooo) u are beta prepared for it and don't really have to subject urself to unnecessary tinking and heart ache.... My simple opinion ooo

the reason why I don't date black WOMEN and you will never see me in any relationship WITH those parasitic NAIJA WOMEN.

that woman just turn your guy to a monster and he will never see women as he use to before.

NAIJA WOMEN are good for nothing and nothing MUCH.


date those animals and learn a lesson of your LIfe.

kevin25:
A guy in my neighborhood was dating a girl for a long time, I knew them as the best couple. The guy doesn't joke with anything that concerns the girl affair.

Today being June 11, this particular girl is getting married to one guy like that and the worst part is that not only that she breaks the guy's heart but she didn't let the guy know about her marriage plans Till today.

The guy in quote is very unhappy and was calculating how much he has spent on the girl since they started, not that he has a lot but he is trying his best to use the little money he has at his disposal to solve the girl's needs whenever they arise, no matter how big or small just to show the girl that he really lovers her.

I felt so bad for the guy but on a second thought I ask my self what is the need for dating? why do girls pretend they love you just to be with you for a while just to gain something from you and most of them know that they can't be with you for long still they persist on staying, by so doing l, they end up chasing away those that has the intention of staying with you forever..

Everyday is a lesson I have learnt my own today...I hope your learnt yours, is better to define any relationship to avoid the stories that touches the heart.. Define it so that you don't spend your hard earn money on a girl that doesn't value it..spend because you have not because your thinking that the girl will be your future wife where as she sees you as an ordinary friend..if you don't have, don't try so hard to impress because no matter what you do on this earth, you can never impress a girl...

You still haven't learnt anything about women. A woman will only hook up with you permanently if you can provide comfort or have the potential of providing it. The only time a woman wouldn't care about it that much is when she is in her "growing up stage". Like when she is in college and partying. Once she graduates, all bets are off and her hunting begins. They don't like to admit it but that is the freaking truth. There is nothing bad about it though. It's just how women are built. I am married and totally in love with an amazing woman. We've been together for almost two decades but i don't kid myself by thinking that if i did not show potential when we were courting she would have married me. We all have our roles to play. I am supposed to provide; so i provide. Understand this fact and you will have any woman you want. Don't believe me? #Oshiomole. #OBJ. #Donald Trump.

AfricanApple:
she broke his heart and the first thing that came to his mind is how much money he has spent on her! then he is a dumb azz

I wonder o

If u like study girls for 4yrs,u no go graduate.

i really felt bad abt dis news cos it hurt seeing a guy been hurt, but atimes u guys no dey try atall....u dont care wen u hurt woman..do u guys knows wat it takes to hav a broken hrt Always guys hurting ladies too baaaad! Abeg i no fit mak my boy cry ooooooo! I love him jaare!!!

antontech:
Very good.
Happened to me today also. The girl i lost virginity to, and it has been only her that once, wedded today and never invited me.

her name na dollapo. she really dull u my guy

PS: I know one dollapo wet wed today

jboy73:
Ab0ki sit down.

Even guys are like that... It happens everywhere in the world... Your friend should move on with His unplanned life.

Haven't you heard of cases where guy dump their 10years sweetheart to marry one village bimbo their mother recommended for them?

I repeat... Go and sit down.

I support u

He shld go and sit down.

chubbygal:
Hmmm, if say him get some reasonable bundles like this him for no dey make noise say nwatiti chop. Tell him to get a life.

your father get this kind of money?

JehanEddy07 check ur mail box

So many men have been rendered useless cos. of this same ish.. No family, no investment, nothing..

Mayb because it's easier for ladies to attract than guys

I've noticed that most Nigerians try to justify some misdeeds by saying a lot of people have committed them or are still committing them. A guy is heart broken and what a lot of people are saying is that guys also break girls' hearts. What is bad is bad. Simple.