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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by jordinsparkles(f): 7:08am On Jun 12, 2016

histemple:
Fear them

why should you fear women.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by chubbygal(f): 7:12am On Jun 12, 2016

Xbox222:

Can your miserable father boast of a single note?

well my dad is late may his soul keep resting in the Lord's bosom. I miss my lovely dad so much and you just remained me. cry

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by felix281(m): 7:16am On Jun 12, 2016

Rexhenrex:
i don't doubt the fact that the guy loves the girl, but who knows he might never have told her anything bout marriage and perhaps the lady wasn't getting any younger in age and decided to find her way.

I loved my bae very much but when ever we are discussing and she mentions marriage or abt kids i become mute because (thats by the way)i won't really blame the girl till i here her version o what happened.

U are absolutely right, the same way I should have end up oo, but thank God na one of my Reverend Father that ask me what is my plan with this ur friend? and he said if u really loves her engaged her cos u both are no longer a kid, the question just open my eyes sharply. do u know that when I get home, I invited her over and I ask her some few question abt marriage and kids, she said Felix, so now you know, u should hv waited a little longer and the story that touches the heart will follow suite.oh boy! I just keep calm..thank God I finally engage her, she is soo happy more than ever....
Plz guys, let's define our relationship cos girls are so desperate.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by AlphaDibia(m): 7:17am On Jun 12, 2016

na fight?

jboy73:
Ab0ki sit down.

Even guys are like that... It happens everywhere in the world... Your friend should move on with His unplanned life.

Haven't you heard of cases where guy dump their 10years sweetheart to marry one village bimbo their mother recommended for them?

I repeat... Go and sit down.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Peacefulgold(m): 7:18am On Jun 12, 2016

I had a similar experience..its so painful..

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by jimmy101231(m): 7:21am On Jun 12, 2016

help me tell all those lover boy ooo

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by mukhcech(m): 7:22am On Jun 12, 2016

Kondomatic:
@OP, this is how it works.

Bad boys spoil good girls and they revenge on good guys.

God forbid, How revenge go do me when no be me do them. Never had a gurlfriend cos I was afraid I will break someones heart. I was afraid for my sisters. That was in my teens. Teen sense you will call it. Now em in my mid 20s. I have been married for 3 yrs now. Funnily their was no dating(as for me it is not maturity and it is disgusting). So I met her and propose the terms of marriage on day 1. we got married a week after. We are living happily together, Alhamdulillah

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Xbox222: 7:23am On Jun 12, 2016

chubbygal:
well my dad is late may his soul keep resting in the Lord's bosom. I miss my lovely dad so much and you just remained me.

That is nothing new, becos mine is late too

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by jesuspikinjp(m): 7:27am On Jun 12, 2016

must you spend your hard earn money on a girl that is notyour wife or your daughter ?

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Nobody: 7:28am On Jun 12, 2016

Manueleee:
Define the relationship? Even the married people Divorce. D facts is dat gals are so cheap dan 2 #5 product. The are gosh in real life. I reject such tin.

True talk.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by dahvi: 7:28am On Jun 12, 2016

lol..alotta guys are blaming the girl and in their defence alotta girls are blaming the guy.Need I say there are two sides to every story?.

And alotta people sounding like they got a masters degree when it comes to relationships..its a wow world!!.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by chubbygal(f): 7:30am On Jun 12, 2016

goingape1:
your father get this kind of money?

Indeed frustration has done too many damages to your immune system to the extended that you can no longer comprehend ... Been broke is in your DNA..... Meanwhile you can cry me an ocean. Cos it pained you

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by swissobed: 7:34am On Jun 12, 2016

50-50 Thing! Advice is just date with your 6thSense

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Arabs999: 7:35am On Jun 12, 2016

sinaj:
Chai! Money wey ur frnd for u start business finish for woman head

It hurts tho.

Loosing d one u love to someone else.

Serzly it's better u define ur reltnshp to reduce d risk.

Ur frnd shud take heart, daz xperience for him

.. Good talk..
..

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by chubbygal(f): 7:49am On Jun 12, 2016

Xbox222:

That is nothing new, becos mine is late too

And you want me to believe that you know who your father is/ was? So when dem say make people wey know their real father or son of the soil to come out , you go follow them come out? Every body knows you are BASTARD. Unplanned, visionless, jobless, lowlife, gay, uncultured, waste of fresh air and quarter to die mistake of a boyyy. You can cry me an ocean cos it pained you. Keep quoting me

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by acxlers2014(m): 7:51am On Jun 12, 2016

Brotherly, I understand your friend's plight because I have been there and done that already. It is a very painful experience. Mine was somewhat different but it buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so stupid to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Nyceguy92: 7:54am On Jun 12, 2016

Trina0936:

I feel like kissing you right now obviously you aren't a misogynist or chauvinist! Thanks for saying the bitter truth!

That's the whole truth, my sister.

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Kunlexic(m): 7:54am On Jun 12, 2016

What is now the condition of ur friend at this moment? Make e take heart ooo coz life is too short.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by leobrownish(m): 7:59am On Jun 12, 2016

Rexhenrex:
i don't doubt the fact that the guy loves the girl, but who knows he might never have told her anything bout marriage and perhaps the lady wasn't getting any younger in age and decided to find her way.

I loved my bae very much but when ever we are discussing and she mentions marriage or abt kids i become mute because (thats by the way)i won't really blame the girl till i here her version o what happened.

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”Loved"! U ppl aint 2geda anymore?

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Toks2008(m): 8:01am On Jun 12, 2016

AfricanApple:
she broke his heart and the first thing that came to his mind is how much money he has spent on her! then he is a dumb azz

I totally agree with you on this.

I wrote an Interesting thread on one sure way to be happy in any romantic affair you find yourself and I still wonder why lalasticlala has not exposed the thread.

Any affair is like a business investment or a betting win or lose game that has an element of risk but deserves our best input to succeed and whether it works out or not is a different ball game.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by missyadorable(f): 8:01am On Jun 12, 2016

NevetsIbot:
honestly... Spending on a girl while dating is one of the biggest folly a man can make in his life even if you're financially stable. You aren't married yet. Tell your friend to wake up.... That gold digging biatch is gone. Let him focus on cash now. He should think about making flows of income. he should improve his life rada than lamenting

Having sex with a man while dating is one of the biggest folly a lady can make in her life. You aren't married yet.

Bottomline:No spending,No Sex
True love.Beautiful relationship
Everybody hold your side.

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by chukham(m): 8:02am On Jun 12, 2016

Its a pity! Its a really painful thing. I hv experienced such. It was as if d world was crashing on me. Just try and put yourself together. Your own will surely come 2 stay. Try and wish ur Ex well in her wedding. Forgive and let it go. Better thing no dey finish. And pls dont hurt ur nxt babe because of ur Ex. Gv her a fair chance and a level playing ground. God only has d answer. He might hv just saved ur life. So sorry ok..

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Nobody: 8:05am On Jun 12, 2016

missyadorable:

Having sex with a man while dating is one of the biggest folly a lady can make in her life. You aren't married yet.

Bottomline:No spending,No Sex
True love.Beautiful relationship
Everybody hold your side.

My dear it's not by force to have sex or spend on a girl life doesnt work like that it is because of the attitudinal change in society where some guys see lady as sex object whereas the ladies use some guys as an ATM.

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by Nobody: 8:06am On Jun 12, 2016

dahvi:
lol..alotta guys are blaming the girl and in their defence alotta girls are blaming the guy.Need I say there are two sides to every story?.

And alotta people sounding like they got a masters degree when it comes to relationships..its a wow world!!.

Three sides to every story. Yours, Mine nd The Truth.

Capiche!

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by missyadorable(f): 8:09am On Jun 12, 2016

kevin25:
A guy in my neighborhood was dating a girl for a long time, I knew them as the best couple. The guy doesn't joke with anything that concerns the girl affair.

Today being June 11, this particular girl is getting married to one guy like that and the worst part is that not only that she breaks the guy's heart but she didn't let the guy know about her marriage plans Till today.

The guy in quote is very unhappy and was calculating how much he has spent on the girl since they started, not that he has a lot but he is trying his best to use the little money he has at his disposal to solve the girl's needs whenever they arise, no matter how big or small just to show the girl that he really lovers her.

I felt so bad for the guy but on a second thought I ask my self what is the need for dating? why do girls pretend they love you just to be with you for a while just to gain something from you and most of them know that they can't be with you for long still they persist on staying, by so doing l, they end up chasing away those that has the intention of staying with you forever..

Everyday is a lesson I have learnt my own today...I hope your learnt yours, is better to define any relationship to avoid the stories that touches the heart.. Define it so that you don't spend your hard earn money on a girl that doesn't value it..spend because you have not because your thinking that the girl will be your future wife where as she sees you as an ordinary friend..if you don't have, don't try so hard to impress because no matter what you do on this earth, you can never impress a girl...

Very good girl.better pikin
She did the right thing.How can a lady date a guy for a long time(only God knows how many years),be servicing him and yet the guy isn't ready to marry her..then a reasonable serious man comes to marry her and she won't move on?

That's the mistake some ladies make..They keep hanging on to good-for-nothing,no-serious-plans boyfriends until their husbands pass them by.Later,they come to cry that their boyfriends broke their hearts as the guy is very much likely to dump her for a new babe (change of taste).

Girls,be wise! Relationship is a game.Love is a scam..Play and scam it to your own advantage.Guys know this.

Op,tell your friend to go and drink acid, if e too pain am.
Guys are the worst in issues like this

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by zubby29(m): 8:10am On Jun 12, 2016

sinaj:
Chai! Money wey ur frnd for u start business finish for woman head

It hurts tho.

Loosing d one u love to someone else.

Serzly it's better u define ur reltnshp to reduce d risk.

Ur frnd shud take heart, daz xperience for him

love ur dp

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by missyadorable(f): 8:11am On Jun 12, 2016

felix281:

U are absolutely right, the same way I should have end up oo, but thank God na one of my Reverend Father that ask me what is my plan with this ur friend? and he said if u really loves her engaged her cos u both are no longer a kid, the question just open my eyes sharply. do u know that when I get home, I invited her over and I ask her some few question abt marriage and kids, she said Felix, so now you know, u should hv waited a little longer and the story that touches the heart will follow suite.oh boy! I just keep calm..thank God I finally engage her, she is soo happy more than ever....
Plz guys, let's define our relationship cos girls are so desperate.

And when is the wedding? Hope you are not turning her to Lord of the rings and permanent bed mate.
6months to 1 year after engagement and no marriage is scam.and the lady should consider other options, except she is a fool

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by HIPROFILE(m): 8:12am On Jun 12, 2016

Women to men issues na 50:50 ...period. The lady could as well be the victim here..yea its possible . so this should nat make u peg it that ladies are bad. Nevertheless @ Op I love your final deduction which is to define any relationship you found yourself into..even this to me isn't enough...the best is use your head while you spend in a relationship dant allow this freaking scam of this later days called LOVE rule your number 6... For the sake of being fair i would say There's little or no love without money. In other words..my 2kobo to young chaps is go make your money first, stop wasting the time u ought to use make money going after ladies.

MONEY IS LOVE SECURITY:
Meaning love is nat secured without money...honestly I look forward to having phyno and olamide make a hit out of this caption...

Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by frenzydilz(m): 8:15am On Jun 12, 2016

timsonpreye:
The most important thing is make sure u bleep her before anytin

Dats d problem man. Niggurz feel sex is some kinda payment to strive 4 4rm a gurl. We spend millions just to go honey-dipping, which she fit enjoy pass u sef. who dey lose?

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Re: Lesson i Learnt Today About Girls And Their Way Of Life by missyadorable(f): 8:25am On Jun 12, 2016

chizobamgbume:
Cry cry baby. They were only dating and not engaged. No time to waste abeg. If the guy disappoints her tomorrow, would you marry her?

God bless you.
Just dating,not even engaged meaning the guy had no plans to marry only enjoying her kittycat.

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