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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by martyns303(m): 4:29pm On Dec 13, 2016
Aniker:
True though, it makes you feel rejected and kinda not good enough

U just put words to an expression I've been struggling with....
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sandydayziz:
Why? A girlfriend of mine had to break up with her bf over reasons I can't even explain! And all she does all day's listen to music and cry, I mean she broke up with him herself so it doesn't make sense at all... But what am more interested in is 'Why music'?

I mean after a breakup, all you wanna do is lie on your bed, listen to heart shattering music...
Is that the best way to grief?
Do you think it helps cry or it's silly? undecided (Broken heart syndrome)

Quoting Bon Jovi Misery loves company, sad songs gives that company

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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Enyimbamercedes: 4:54pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sandydayziz:
Why? A girlfriend of mine had to break up with her bf over reasons I can't even explain! And all she does all day's listen to music and cry, I mean she broke up with him herself so it doesn't make sense at all... But what am more interested in is 'Why music'?

I mean after a breakup, all you wanna do is lie on your bed, listen to heart shattering music...
Is that the best way to grief?
Do you think it helps cry or it's silly? undecided (Broken heart syndrome)

Why music? Cos when you are happy you move to the beats but when you are sad you listen to the lyrics. There is a song for every emotion and when you are sad you find truth in the lyrics of the song.

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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Olaphysics(m): 4:55pm On Dec 13, 2016
TrapQueen77:



Yes ur right.. Men in nature are juz so flirty... grin
Not all, I'm kinda different
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Ahmeduana(m): 4:59pm On Dec 13, 2016
YOU MEAN LIKE PLAYING SONG LIKE same ole love by Anita baker or PLAYING VANESSA WILLIAMS sometime the sun goes round the moon?

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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by drewxx88(m): 5:07pm On Dec 13, 2016
WomanOfRace:


yes....
cool woman of race am Andrew what's your name ??

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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by kingsfield(m): 5:10pm On Dec 13, 2016
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

Bt really d heart was made to be broken.

Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by lereinter(m): 5:16pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sandydayziz:
If u keep following me around.. Ur death certainly won't be from a natural cause smiley



omo i fear u o

this kind of statements only come from witches
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 5:19pm On Dec 13, 2016
lereinter:




omo i fear u o

this kind of statements only come from witches
Lolz I was only kidding... Referring to his signature
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sandydayziz:
Why? A girlfriend of mine had to break up with her bf over reasons I can't even explain! And all she does all day's listen to music and cry, I mean she broke up with him herself so it doesn't make sense at all... But what am more interested in is 'Why music'?

I mean after a breakup, all you wanna do is lie on your bed, listen to heart shattering music...
Is that the best way to grief?
Do you think it helps cry or it's silly? undecided (Broken heart syndrome)
Soon MMM people will soon join the group listening to sad music grin grin grin
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 5:46pm On Dec 13, 2016
Babzilla:

Soon MMM people will soon join the group listening to sad music grin grin grin
grin grin lolz

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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Blessograo(f): 5:53pm On Dec 13, 2016
It really helps I think maybe cos I fund myself in that situation but it helps because only those kinds of music really gives and explains an in depth explanation of what you going through which makes you feel like you not alone. Like you someone who is singing and sorrow to you and you can relate to it perfectly. For me it's don't you remember by Adele, when will I see you again by Adele, send my love to your new lover by Adele and amongst I can't remember.
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Dekadet(m): 6:07pm On Dec 13, 2016
talking of sad songs, does anyone have any. or u could just recommend. trust me I love sad songs... wink

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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by manikspears: 6:10pm On Dec 13, 2016
Neyo's so sick comes to mind. .............phychology. it has to do with a way of reliefing the body from emotional pain.
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 6:14pm On Dec 13, 2016
Dekadet:
talking of sad songs, does anyone have any. or u could just recommend. trust me I love sad songs... wink
Lolz.... Lord av mercy on u grin
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Sandydayziz(f): 6:14pm On Dec 13, 2016
Blessograo:
It really helps I think maybe cos I fund myself in that situation but it helps because only those kinds of music really gives and explains an in depth explanation of what you going through which makes you feel like you not alone. Like you someone who is singing and sorrow to you and you can relate to it perfectly. For me it's don't you remember by Adele, when will I see you again by Adele, send my love to your new lover by Adele and amongst I can't remember.
I guess u're a big fan of Adele... Someone like u' her greatest hit
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by DeRay98(m): 6:17pm On Dec 13, 2016
TrapQueen77:



Maybe 1 out of hundred . grin

It's like finding a needle in the ocean tongue
U see una, the op didn't say it's her friend's bf that caused it but men hating wailers have started hating and wailing.
This is result you get for running after yahoo yahoo boys in their bling bling and you won't listen to advice. Now, are crying...
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 13, 2016
Dido-See you when you are 40,
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Dec 13, 2016
Dekadet:
talking of sad songs, does anyone have any. or u could just recommend. trust me I love sad songs... wink
Dido-life for rent,
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by emsheddy(m): 6:22pm On Dec 13, 2016
TrapQueen77:



Maybe 1 out of hundred . grin

It's like finding a needle in the ocean tongue
how about finding a good woman? Be honest
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Dec 13, 2016
Qummie:
I have a weird likeness for "sad"/"depressing" songs, no matter the situation.

Maybe it's just me.
how much did you invest in mmm? How much is gone with mmm? cheesy
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Blessograo(f): 6:44pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sandydayziz:
I guess u're a big fan of Adele... Someone like u' her greatest hit
I love her cos she explains what I feel even down to my soul word for word. Don't you remember make me cry any time any day. smiley
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Dec 13, 2016
PabloOmoEscobar:
how much did you invest in mmm? How much is gone with mmm? cheesy

$0 invested, $0 lost. U nkor?
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Dec 13, 2016
Qummie:


$0 invested, $0 lost. U nkor?
180k Mogbe!!! cry cry cry
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by SpicyMimi(f): 6:56pm On Dec 13, 2016
Many years ago, when I almost got my heart broken...I listened to so many sad songs. I listened to them because it helped me get the fact that, I wasn't the only one going through this pain, someone is going through this as well, making me feel like I wasn't the only one in the world. When it comes to heart breaks, you just wanna cry and wanna express your feelings....music certainly helps with that.
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by jeyselassie(m): 7:00pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sandydayziz:
If he cheated, which m sure, of cus she'll break up wif him or she's a dummy... She's/was in love that's y she'll cry
he actually cheated but it wasnt worth her breaking up because she caused him to cheat. she has her own serious issues like her being very stubborn and all that she isnt telling you. plus she lies a lot. infact u wouldnt believe what the guy has gone thru.
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Dec 13, 2016
PabloOmoEscobar:
180k Mogbe!!! cry cry cry
Eeyah ;-(
Let's hope they truly come back.
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by hoebamaa(m): 7:07pm On Dec 13, 2016
Sandydayziz:
Happy birthday to u!!!
Thanks dear

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Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Dec 13, 2016
Qummie:

Eeyah ;-(
Let's hope they truly come back.
What if they don't? What will I happen to me?
Re: After A Breakup Why Do We Find Pleasure In Sad Music? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Dec 13, 2016
PabloOmoEscobar:
What if they don't? What will I happen to me?
I got no idea brocry
Just keep praying.

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