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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Mayflowa(m): 11:29pm On Dec 20, 2016

Sibeal:
If you've been together for 5years and you've noticed all her bad qualities...why would you want to go on and marry her?

Forget about the 100k.
That's not the most pressing issue right now.

you know I like intelligent girls...and you are one! We are talking about lifetime, he is talking about 100k

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 11:29pm On Dec 20, 2016

sekem:
Very funny post.

Guys, I guess y'all can now see why you're always advised to man up from the word go?

This OP learnt the hard way.

He allowed the girl to gain a lot of upper hand in their said relationship.

Which is too bad.

Now he's paying the terrible price for that fatal mistake.

Don't be like the OP.

Once a woman you are with starts showing signs that she has developed some wings, cut her down.

Slap and beat some damn sense into her. Throw her out. End the relationship...

It doesn't matter even if she has the sweetest pûssïe you've tasted in your life.

Just do something to remind her that you're still the man. Let her know that her respect for you is totally unconditional.

Or else...

so being a man means misbehaving...wings ko, tail ni. Respect is reciprocal my friend, a man who respects a woman is a man to be praised and he never lacks for anything

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by brightalo17: 11:31pm On Dec 20, 2016

You don't love her she don't love you 2011 till now?2 of you need serious deliverance .

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by JoshMedia: 11:31pm On Dec 20, 2016

Treasuredlove:
Mr OP, all I hear in your post is just whining...sorry to say.
Guys like you need to grow up and be men. Handle your business. Free 100k? The woman blocked you? You guys don't flirt? Very funny...na so 100k dey fly? ...she is a nag, she does not respect, she has no future...u nko oga, Wetin you get?

DON'T MIND HIM. MAYBE THAT'S HOW HE INSULT AND BEAT HER ALL THE TIME. AND YOU EXPECT HER TO RESPECT YOU? I FEEL LIKE PUTTING YOU IN THE OTHER ROOM. #I DEY FILL YOUR WICKEDNESS. BABA Ooo

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by majorbravo: 11:31pm On Dec 20, 2016

saweide:
How would I convince the other lady
It seems she felt in love with me too
But u never disclosed my past to her
Before my nagging wife called her on fone telling her to distance herself from her husband
I really like this lady not becos of the money but naturally and by her character
She is humble, submissive, jovial, honest, Godly and which other qualities I can't find in my so called nagging wife

Pls can anyone advice me on how to convince this lady?

Her last word to me was that I should never in my life call her if I don't want to see the wrath of God

Does the bolded look like a woman that is humble, submissive, jovial, honest and Godly?
op women always behave that way till they know you in and out, she might turn out worse than your present nagging wife after 5 years.

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by rosalieene(f): 11:32pm On Dec 20, 2016

haba!! let her go abeg..
are u scared? she will obviously be a bad wife and may cause your early demise.

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by drealaz24(m): 11:35pm On Dec 20, 2016

JonSnow:
Like I said earlier, ndi ofe and common sense are light years apart.

what are u saying pls.

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by joowealth(m): 11:36pm On Dec 20, 2016

eezeribe:
Break up with your wife to be... She can aswell leave with the love child

And you quoted the whole page like you give a Bleep?

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by JoshMedia: 11:36pm On Dec 20, 2016

rosalieene:
haba!! let her go abeg..

are u scared? she will obviously be a bad wife and may cause your early demise.

Are you from Ijebu?

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by JonSnow(m): 11:37pm On Dec 20, 2016

drealaz24:
what are u saying pls.

If you can't deduce what I'm saying, you need to deactivate your account ASAP.

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by drealaz24(m): 11:41pm On Dec 20, 2016

JonSnow:
If you can't deduce what I'm saying, you need to deactivate your account ASAP.

sorry pls.

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Mayflowa(m): 11:41pm On Dec 20, 2016

saweide:
Hello All my name is Saweide segun. This is a true life story am about to share. I really need a sincere advice from matured minds and no abuse pls

So you don't know you are wicked for not letting the other girl know about your baggage. You see the world only from your eyes alone. You do not care the girl you chatted with every night would be developing feelings for you? Your collecting 100k from her without knowing your true personality is a scam and you could get arrested for that. Thank God she didn't report you to the police.

You expect the woman you have impregnated and sleep with on daily basis will allow some strange woman to steal her man and leave her as a single parent? Are you thinking? Your baby mother is very good o. You mean she didn't wake you up with some dirty slaps or better still dagger you in your sleep.

O boy, you nor dey fear o. You are dealing with women who stings deeper and more poisonous than a viper. I see you wanna ruin your life. If you don't want a woman. Tell her and run away. Never come close. Let the heat die down before you start searching for another one or victim

yes I said victim because you don't look before placing your stuff and later come to be complaining.

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Philinho(m): 11:43pm On Dec 20, 2016

@Op,you need to check yourself . you need JESUS

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Lastking147(m): 11:45pm On Dec 20, 2016

Philinho:
@Op,you need to check yourself . you need JESUS

and what do u need huh

perhaps Brains undecided

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 11:47pm On Dec 20, 2016

Mayflowa:
you know I like intelligent girls...and you are one! We are talking about lifetime, he is talking about 100k

Thanks for the compliment.
The op really needs to set his priorities straight.

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by olamitie: 11:49pm On Dec 20, 2016

Men

I can never judge such till I hear her own side of the story, always easy to paint yourself as the saint while the woman is labeled a Nag angry

I smell lies, only a retard will believe your edited story

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by dacillin: 11:49pm On Dec 20, 2016

It is 2day i know dat most pple on NL are babies with d silly advice given to OP. Taking one side is nt d best.
OP give us five reasons u r still with her for five years b4 u met ur so called new lover.
because of ur new lover now, u hav to rubbish her down. Remember she has d right to nagged because u hav nt put ring in her hand, she feel insecure bt doesn't know hw to pour her heart to U.

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by cococandy(f): 11:49pm On Dec 20, 2016

Mtchew

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Delonn(m): 11:50pm On Dec 20, 2016

Amabeast:
I wonder how you have endured from 2011 till now, All the signs are there that she won't make a good wife. You must not marry her because she has a child for you, and you won't be the first to do that.

My advice, just dump her ass already and move on, she is not worth keeping at all

The op is not being truthful. He wants to leave his to be wife, because of the new intelligent woman he is falling in love with. Op put your house together and forget about these watery excuses.

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by cococandy(f): 11:51pm On Dec 20, 2016

Ode

sekem:
Very funny post.

Guys, I guess y'all can now see why you're always advised to man up from the word go?

This OP learnt the hard way.

He allowed the girl to gain a lot of upper hand in their said relationship.

Which is too bad.

Now he's paying the terrible price for that fatal mistake.

Don't be like the OP.

Once a woman you are with starts showing signs that she has developed some wings, cut her down.

Slap and beat some damn sense into her. Throw her out. End the relationship...

It doesn't matter even if she has the sweetest pûssïe you've tasted in your life.

Just do something to remind her that you're still the man. Let her know that her respect for you is totally unconditional.

Or else...

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by afolls: 11:53pm On Dec 20, 2016

Mr man be honest and truthful to yourself, from what I can see there are somethings you are hidden about your own character and attitude which in a way make the woman behave that way. A woman is like a computer (gigo). whatever you give her she reproduced and give back to you. You made her behave that way to you because of who you are. You are not loyal, truthful and had no respect for her person. If she was to be your sister or niece, would you want a man to keep her for five years with a promise of marriage and later throw her out? women nags when a man is not man enough in the home front. The love you didn't show to her you are taking it out, how won't she nag, you are lacking in your responsibility as a man. from the look of things she probably the one taking care of your child. Please call her and have a heart to heart talk, asked her what you you were doing that she didn't like and also tell her what she was doing that you didn't like. Make her what you want her to be

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 11:53pm On Dec 20, 2016

saweide:
Hello All my name is Saweide segun. This is a true life story am about to share. I really need a sincere advice from matured minds and no abuse pls

I am not Married but with a girl child. All plans to arrange my marriage with my gal is slated for next year. But I noticed that my wife to be and I are not compatible at all

Ever since I met my wife to be in the year 2011. She has been so nagging and rude to me. She never obey me for once. We always quarell

Right from day one till this present time we have been living a cat and dog life. She is a nagging woman. She can't say sorry if she is right or wrong and she is not submissive she disrespect my mum anytime we pay her a visit.

She is not hardworking,and she doesn't have any future plans.. She has never for once encourage me in my career

I have tried to call her several times that she can change and she will promise to Change. But later she will put up her attitude again

She had a daughter for me out of wedlock and that has been holding me from chasing her away of my life

She is living with me presently

The first year I met her I was in Abuja and she was in lagos

She keeps a lot of guys before but that has changed. She no longer does that cos I fought it

Sometimes we quarrel and it attracts neibors that comes around to settle our fights and this has brought Shame to me

I told my mum about that and it gave her a lot of concerns

I told her am enduring the relationship
And that I have made up my mind to quit the relationship and let go that All plans by her family to for introduction and engagement ceremony has been cancelled that am no longer interested

Something happened last month between us

I noticed she has been monitoring me and she always go through my phones whenever I fell asleep
She will check my messages with my friends especially girls

There was this lady we do chat always. But she was not my lover and I don't flirt with her on chat but since we always chat, she suspect a foul play and unknowingly to me she has copied the girl number and saved it only her phone in the midnight while I was sleeping
Sometimes in the mid of the night I would wake up and caught her going thru my phone

She has done that several times and I later password my phone but little did I know despite passwording
My phone she still have access to my chats and data

I don't know how she hack into my phone despite passwording my phone

So I woke up one day and I found out that she has changed my profile picture on whatsapp to her own a pics taken together by me and her holding ourselves, I asked her who changed the dp but she denied it...

So last week Friday I had a meeting on business with a lady I do normally chat with which the lady promised to pay me 100k to start my business
I so much like this lady because of her nature and for her intelligence which my wife to be never had.
Tho I never discuss anything about my past to her before... But I didn't tell her I have someone in my life

My wife suspecting that I had a meeting with this lady called her and told her to desist from me that I am married...
Before I know the lady who promised to give me 100k to start my business blocked me on my whatsapp

And I called her she told me someone called her to leave her husband alone that in my life I should not call her again, I tried to explain to her but she cut off the line and hang up the phone on me

Now the business is over and that was how I loose the 100k. Up till now I have not called this lady

Pls what should I do it seems am in love with the lady but I want to call it quit with my nagging wife as I always call her.

How should I contact this lady and convince her

Pls I need a good advice.. Thanks all for your time

And u'r feeling like dis ryt nw.

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by cococandy(f): 12:00am On Dec 21, 2016

Impeller:
How will you feel in 10yrs time that the child was not even yours? Go for a parternity test without her consent. If the innocent child is truly yours, take the child to your mum...Go out there and work hard for your mum and child. Please, do not marry a bad wife!!!

Many of you post comments like A-holes. Like you can just take someone's child just like that.
See your mouth

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Lexusgs430: 12:01am On Dec 21, 2016

saweide:
Hello All my name is Saweide segun. This is a true life story am about to share. I really need a sincere advice from matured minds and no abuse pls

I am not Married but with a girl child. All plans to arrange my marriage with my gal is slated for next year. But I noticed that my wife to be and I are not compatible at all

Ever since I met my wife to be in the year 2011. She has been so nagging and rude to me. She never obey me for once. We always quarell

Right from day one till this present time we have been living a cat and dog life. She is a nagging woman. She can't say sorry if she is right or wrong and she is not submissive she disrespect my mum anytime we pay her a visit.

She is not hardworking,and she doesn't have any future plans.. She has never for once encourage me in my career

I have tried to call her several times that she can change and she will promise to Change. But later she will put up her attitude again

She had a daughter for me out of wedlock and that has been holding me from chasing her away of my life

She is living with me presently

The first year I met her I was in Abuja and she was in lagos

She keeps a lot of guys before but that has changed. She no longer does that cos I fought it

Sometimes we quarrel and it attracts neibors that comes around to settle our fights and this has brought Shame to me

I told my mum about that and it gave her a lot of concerns

I told her am enduring the relationship
And that I have made up my mind to quit the relationship and let go that All plans by her family to for introduction and engagement ceremony has been cancelled that am no longer interested

Something happened last month between us

I noticed she has been monitoring me and she always go through my phones whenever I fell asleep
She will check my messages with my friends especially girls

There was this lady we do chat always. But she was not my lover and I don't flirt with her on chat but since we always chat, she suspect a foul play and unknowingly to me she has copied the girl number and saved it only her phone in the midnight while I was sleeping
Sometimes in the mid of the night I would wake up and caught her going thru my phone

She has done that several times and I later password my phone but little did I know despite passwording
My phone she still have access to my chats and data

I don't know how she hack into my phone despite passwording my phone

So I woke up one day and I found out that she has changed my profile picture on whatsapp to her own a pics taken together by me and her holding ourselves, I asked her who changed the dp but she denied it...

So last week Friday I had a meeting on business with a lady I do normally chat with which the lady promised to pay me 100k to start my business
I so much like this lady because of her nature and for her intelligence which my wife to be never had.
Tho I never discuss anything about my past to her before... But I didn't tell her I have someone in my life

My wife suspecting that I had a meeting with this lady called her and told her to desist from me that I am married...
Before I know the lady who promised to give me 100k to start my business blocked me on my whatsapp

And I called her she told me someone called her to leave her husband alone that in my life I should not call her again, I tried to explain to her but she cut off the line and hang up the phone on me

Now the business is over and that was how I loose the 100k. Up till now I have not called this lady

Pls what should I do it seems am in love with the lady but I want to call it quit with my nagging wife as I always call her.

How should I contact this lady and convince her

Pls I need a good advice.. Thanks all for your time

Its situations like this we call 'red flags'. The red flags are waving at you and you still want to marry her ? This points into the direction of you not realising the true essence of marriage (marriage is meant to be a long time contract ). If you cannot cope in 5 years, how would you cope on the long run ?
Look after your child, but run while your tail is still wet........ Or else you would be back after marriage seeking advice, yet again !!!!!
Regarding the 100K ? I believe that 100K is clouding your judgement. Work for your own 100K (If you have to borrow, borrow)............

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by omohanet(m): 12:02am On Dec 21, 2016

my broda in all conditions praise God, thank him dat u have a lady who love u so much despite ur self mindset. nobody is perfect.

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by IYSKABA: 12:06am On Dec 21, 2016

the only expensive advice I have for you is DAT you should stay away from that witch holding your favours and blessing ...because if you don't do that ,bet it ..your life will just remain the same till all your black hairs turns grey ....

I've spoken

#IYSKABA

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Tobilonia(m): 12:11am On Dec 21, 2016

vchykp:
This is exactly what happend to me, SIR.. before you can be successful or have peace, she must leave your life, you must not marry her becos she has a child for you, am living a better life now because i took the hard decision to walk away..

A word they say, is enough for the wise..!

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by vickysomtee: 12:12am On Dec 21, 2016

SEE NUC'S 2016 list of illegal institutions in Nigeria

http://www.ngschoolgists.com/2016/12/nucs-2016-list-of-illegal-institutions.html?m=1

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by berrystunn(m): 12:13am On Dec 21, 2016

saweide:
Hello All my name is Saweide segun. This is a true life story am about to share. I really need a sincere advice from matured minds and no abuse pls

I am not Married but with a girl child. All plans to arrange my marriage with my gal is slated for next year. But I noticed that my wife to be and I are not compatible at all

Ever since I met my wife to be in the year 2011. She has been so nagging and rude to me. She never obey me for once. We always quarell

Right from day one till this present time we have been living a cat and dog life. She is a nagging woman. She can't say sorry if she is right or wrong and she is not submissive she disrespect my mum anytime we pay her a visit.

She is not hardworking,and she doesn't have any future plans.. She has never for once encourage me in my career

I have tried to call her several times that she can change and she will promise to Change. But later she will put up her attitude again

She had a daughter for me out of wedlock and that has been holding me from chasing her away of my life

She is living with me presently

The first year I met her I was in Abuja and she was in lagos

She keeps a lot of guys before but that has changed. She no longer does that cos I fought it

Sometimes we quarrel and it attracts neibors that comes around to settle our fights and this has brought Shame to me

I told my mum about that and it gave her a lot of concerns

I told her am enduring the relationship
And that I have made up my mind to quit the relationship and let go that All plans by her family to for introduction and engagement ceremony has been cancelled that am no longer interested

Something happened last month between us

I noticed she has been monitoring me and she always go through my phones whenever I fell asleep
She will check my messages with my friends especially girls

There was this lady we do chat always. But she was not my lover and I don't flirt with her on chat but since we always chat, she suspect a foul play and unknowingly to me she has copied the girl number and saved it only her phone in the midnight while I was sleeping
Sometimes in the mid of the night I would wake up and caught her going thru my phone

She has done that several times and I later password my phone but little did I know despite passwording
My phone she still have access to my chats and data

I don't know how she hack into my phone despite passwording my phone

So I woke up one day and I found out that she has changed my profile picture on whatsapp to her own a pics taken together by me and her holding ourselves, I asked her who changed the dp but she denied it...

So last week Friday I had a meeting on business with a lady I do normally chat with which the lady promised to pay me 100k to start my business
I so much like this lady because of her nature and for her intelligence which my wife to be never had.
Tho I never discuss anything about my past to her before... But I didn't tell her I have someone in my life

My wife suspecting that I had a meeting with this lady called her and told her to desist from me that I am married...
Before I know the lady who promised to give me 100k to start my business blocked me on my whatsapp

And I called her she told me someone called her to leave her husband alone that in my life I should not call her again, I tried to explain to her but she cut off the line and hang up the phone on me

Now the business is over and that was how I loose the 100k. Up till now I have not called this lady

Pls what should I do it seems am in love with the lady but I want to call it quit with my nagging wife as I always call her.

How should I contact this lady and convince her

Pls I need a good advice.. Thanks all for your time

Before you mix up advice.

How old are you?

Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 12:13am On Dec 21, 2016

schumastic:
THIS OP IS CONFUSE, AM I THE ONLY PERSON HAVING THE FEELINGS..

YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO YOUR BABY MAMA BUT YOU CALL HER YOUR WIFE,
YOU ARE NOT HAVING ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE LADY THAT WANT TO OFFER HELP TO YOU BUT YOU KEPT YOUR PAST AWAY FROM HER,
YOUR BABY MAMA OR WIFE LIKE YOU CALL HER TOLD YOUR HELPER YOU BOTH ARE MARRIED AND YOU ARE ANGRY,
NOW YOU FOUND OUT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THE NEW LADY AND WANTS TO CALL IT QUIT.

OP YOU ARE CONFUSE, GO AND VISIT A THERAPIST

Y

no be small confuse ooo! Wen we hear the lady's side of the story, I bet you many who commented here giving the op advice on how to dish his baby mama will hate him. A lady u don't like but have lived years with. Haba na!

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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by willibounce1(m): 12:15am On Dec 21, 2016

Lol... bros double your hustle...na free money wey you lose dey pain you. Swear by ogun say you no dey still Phuck your baby mama even with all these complains about her. You dey find free 100k.

Even you don't sound intelligent enough.

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