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Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by CuddleMe(f): 5:18pm On May 10, 2017 |
elfmann:oh I didn't get you earlier, I'm sorry about that |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by GreatHorizon: 5:30pm On May 10, 2017 |
dangotesmummy: Are u serious or just dumb? Did she mentioned that dating for that long was the guy's idea? She travelled for education and from her write up, they might have agreed to let her concentrate till she is done before settling down. The guy agreed and waited only for when she is about finishing and from her post again, she can't travel down here due to her green card she is expecting. The guy still went to meet her family in her absence and you are here talking shit? Gosh! Some of u ladies sha 3 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by stephenGee12(m): 5:31pm On May 10, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo: Girls and their drama na wa ooo. Imagine perso come visit u for usa more than once. And still yet he no complain say u neva finish wetin u won do ni. And all becos of there is no gold in the boxes dey brought u are now complaining. See its just ur parents way of telling u to stay abroad and marry a white man dat has money so dat u can be a bonafide member. I pity u sha cos if dat guy goes I am willing to bet that u wud nt find anyone like him. Use ur number six. Je ki ori e pe. Just my one kobo advice. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by ghost3040: 5:37pm On May 10, 2017 |
CHAIRMAN!!!! This ur statistics where u get am from na from international Registry of pornography coverage and viewership? LePrezident: 4 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 5:39pm On May 10, 2017 |
slurryeye2:You are actually the one who lacks understanding. How does whites being more objective and less sentimental relate to melanin and inferiority complex? Oga,you must be an educated illiterate. Schooling abroad doesn't make one less stupid and you just confirmed it! 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by comedynaija: 5:46pm On May 10, 2017 |
CoCoLav: Nice piece u have written dear. But what if the guy had bought diamond, would she had complained hmmm She only knows the market quality of items the guy brought. Like you said, the guy ought to know the family he was going and do the little he could. Not going to please her with stuffs but pleasing her with an item. I personally do not treasure cheap things and so cannot, buy one for someone i treasure so much. Degree does not qualify anyone a good home, she should place less importance to her degree concerning her marriage. She should use her degree to bring honor to her marriage and not her marriage to honor her. 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by laamdee: 5:51pm On May 10, 2017 |
ayokellany:I don't understand how some people read. From the OP post what suggests that the guy could not afford expensive things.Though am not saying he should breAk a bank cos of engagement things but that was not stated or insinuated in the post. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Ekaka1(m): 5:52pm On May 10, 2017 |
ayokellany: Stop sounding bleep...is that all you picked from her travails? |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by MVLOX(m): 5:54pm On May 10, 2017 |
madone: I totally agree with u..... Babes can nag and under appreciate guy that re trying their best to make it here in Naija..... If care is not taken the story of me and my fiancé may just end up like dis...... Dey want gud guys but can appreciate the little we can afford at the moment..... Be it in finances and time..... My fiance has in recent times begin to look inpatient and cultivating a spirit of lack of self control..... Maybe she thinks she is getting to old at just 27 or maybe parents re pressuring her.... We had plans to get married dis year but dis her new attitude of transferring aggression towards me in recent times has been to start to tink oda wise..... As it stands I am currently planning on traveling out of Naija.... We have been daring for 2 years Nw but have been friends for more Dan 14 years ..... Am only going to disclose dis my new plan to her wen it works cuz we haven't been talking for more Dan 3 weeks Nw.... The truth is Dat I rather have a broken relationship Dan have a broken marriage..... Gals be wise 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Josephamstrong1(m): 5:55pm On May 10, 2017 |
Nawaoooh. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by laamdee: 5:58pm On May 10, 2017 |
I met him in 2010, and I had to leave for graduate school in 2012. We continued dating and he visited me in the U.S as often as he could. After one of such visits, i discovered he had used my laptop to watch pornography. We had a fight, broke up, then made up again. Abeg you deserve better.Why can't he buy something expensive if he can afford it and going by the excuse he gave that means he has no regard for your family n trying to play on their intelligence. Your parents wrote the list I suppose,didn't they know u are far away when they gave him the list?What they do with it is not his business. O yea,it is not.It is called bride price that's what he has to pay what u do with it is your business. Abeg it is good radiance to bad rubbish! |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by decatalyst(m): 6:07pm On May 10, 2017 |
PatriotTemidayo: Trust me, if I have any means to show you how 'in love' I am with your view and observation on this issue, I will do that! You captured every angle of the issue. The guy isn't the problem here, she is the author and finisher of her own relationship! Self centered being! 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by aribisala0(m): 6:23pm On May 10, 2017 |
Nancy2016:you are daft was my remark limited to the OP. She never said it was her work laptop did she say it was not? She obviously did not like it. The bottom line is if you must watch porn do it on your computer or with the permission of the owner so as to avoid causing them unwanted surprises or worse. My claim seems to be a tall tale and when it involves minors it is no longer porn? It has another name.Did I say whether it involved minors or not? In your eyes you are clever but you are quite stupid |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by ayokellany: 6:40pm On May 10, 2017 |
laamdee: Ekaka1: Pls you both should drop your address and phone # so that when the guy start pounding her like Mercy is experiencing i can reach out to you both. So you need me to conjure how someone that was chasing simply stopped abruptly due to your demand " whether frivolous or not" which he refused in it's totality without you bulging. Of what help is the sobering after the cookie already crumbled ? Maybe the dude needs to go on his kneel before you yield to his heed. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by PatriotTemidayo: 6:48pm On May 10, 2017 |
decatalyst: My brother, am Humbled. I think being real and frank with our peers and buddies is appreciation enough. We sometimes create problems where there's none, making enemies where we should make friends. One Love brother. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by asokid(m): 6:51pm On May 10, 2017 |
Dig gold for usa again with green card bro? haba na ChiefSweetus: |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by repogirl(f): 7:05pm On May 10, 2017 |
Lol@cheap stuff and gold jewelry... Is as if OP does not know the size of the guys pocket... You better know your guys capability well or you will be disappointed when you marry. Or... The guy just doesnt want to spend so much on you, OP. Search yourself, you are the one who knows whether the relationship is worth fighting for. You know the guy more than anybody here who will give you advice. 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nancy2016: 7:16pm On May 10, 2017 |
aribisala0: You are an ignoramus. You make stupid assumptions and then tell a big fat lie. Name anyone who has been sent back because they had porn on their laptop. Ode, please go and fool people in the village with your lies. 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by slurryeye2: 7:25pm On May 10, 2017 |
Trina0936: I can see the lane you are taking the conversation to. I won't engage you in mudslinging and vilification, rather, I will try to be reasonable with you. If what I said about blanching your skin and restructuring your face makes you feel insulted, I'm sorry. The whole conversation started when you said white people believe that if a relationship doesn't work, you move on because there are other people out there for you which is the reason why their lifes are much better than blacks. I said it's nonsense because I believe moving on with life after a failed relationship is not believed only by white race. Other races believe so too. Whether it's black, asian, latinos or native americans. Also saying white people lifes are much better than black is totally wrong. Do not be fooled by what you see on movies. Hollywood is not a true reflection of what happens in real life. White people aren't less sentimental or understand relationship better than black people. Relationship is an individual thing not a race thing. Trust me, I know what I'm saying. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 7:27pm On May 10, 2017 |
slurryeye2:Okay sir,I have heard you. But our traditions and customs are not as liberal as theirs. That was what I was referring to. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by slurryeye2: 8:26pm On May 10, 2017 |
Trina0936: Absolutely, our traditions and customs are far from being liberal as theirs which was why I said we need enlightenment. Some of our traditions and cultures are as good as for the garbage. However, we shouldn't get liberal to stupidity level where a girl of 12 years will be slapping her mother in the public or a wife decided to sleep with her brother in law with her husband's consent. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by madone: 9:20pm On May 10, 2017 |
MVLOX:if u re travelling out of naija let her know in good time so she can move on if possible.dont hold her down only to end up leaving at age 27. If she truly loves you it ll distabilise her big time. 2 Likes |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by ModusOperandi(f): 9:31pm On May 10, 2017 |
I think you should move on. Unless you want to get stuck in a break up/make up cycle , you don't want that really. He's not a serious person. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 10, 2017 |
slurryeye2:Obviously not every white is that stupid. 1 Like |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by aribisala0(m): 10:40pm On May 10, 2017 |
Nancy2016:Your father is an ignoramus he will die u stupid. Your epileptic mother will die stupid. I do nor know stupid people so I won't know people sent back for stupidity. Ask your father |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 11:24pm On May 10, 2017 |
when a woman is too educated she becomes more complicating,....your parents want a dangote for an inlaw,...its keft for you to evaluate what you want from a husband,..if after the evaluation you come to realise that money, gold and all manner of material things dont matter,..then you should try reaching out to him once more,..7yrs is nt smetin you would jus let go off. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nancy2016: 11:25pm On May 10, 2017 |
aribisala0: Raving lunatic and a liar. Own up to your lies and stop ranting like a crazy man infected with gonorrhea. |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by BrymoBeckyyo1: 11:37pm On May 10, 2017 |
That's weird [color=#000099][/color] |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 10, 2017 |
Kelvin1971:she actually deserve Adekunle Gold |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by Culin(f): 12:21am On May 11, 2017 |
dan56:Not guess work |
Re: After Dating For 7 Years, He Called Off Our Engagement. by MVLOX(m): 2:13am On May 11, 2017 |
madone: I guess u re right...... I really love dis babe as she is even my 1st babe... But I just can't stand dis her attitude.... We will even eventually talk but for D Nw I have nothing to tell her as I have allowed her to do Wat she likes and feels like.... It's like dey say... She has the yam nd knife all to herself Nw she is free to do Wat ever she likes with it.... Any decision she takes concerning our relationship will be accepted by me.... 1 Like |
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