madone:
I think u re too pushy and u have a nag knack for picking a fight over trivial issues ,maybr na too much book.sweet heart no african man will stick to a lady that argue and fight everytime with big big grammar. Gold was not in the wedding item u got angry.i think ur guy just tire for ur tomuch drama.listen girl in nigeria here a guy that travel to u.s to see his babe deserves worship from other ladies and am sure he has seen a worshipper... Not a fighter

padiga047:
15 posts, NO SENSE.

Iheazy:




See ur life. Bad Adviser .. Is it by force to contribute ??

ayokellany:
Na wa O. Should he now marry you by force. Person say he no get money for real gold or expensive things.

omolorlarh:

Well-done sir

dangotesmummy:
that's because you're senseless and lack capacity to think

bamasite:


OP PLEASE READ THIS PERSON I QUOTED WELL. HE/SHE HAS SAID IT ALL.....PERSONALLY, I CANT PUT UP WITH TOO MUCH DRAMA MYSELF

The guy is fed up with too much drama. from the look of things, you need to work seriously on your EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE(EQ). For example, he used your laptop to watch porn. Fine, I know the negative effects of porn-trust me I do. But instead of a fight, you ought to discuss the matter with him. To know why he was watching it and if it is not ok with you, both of you reason a way out of it.

Porn is the only form of sex education most people resort to in secret of course because they are too much of a 'saint' to discuss sex openly. porn is scripted and faked and hence they learn the wrong things.

This is why we all need the female orgasm mastercourse...there is no other complete sex education package like this I know of. You can see it here:http://successsecrets01..com/2015/12/how-much-do-you-know-about.html

dangotesmummy:
big one.the guy man should just have said he has found another orente instead of using gold box as a cover up excuse.shioorr

A friend said if a man wants to stay nothing will make him leave even if Kim kardashian is giving him free pussy breakfast lunch and supper and if he wants to leave no amount of grammar will make him stay.it was already on his mind to go.he was just waiting for the right time and perfect excuse

madone:
I think u re too pushy and u have a nag for picking a fight over trivial issues ,maybr na too much book.sweet heart no african man will stick to a lady that argue and fight everytime with big big grammar. Gold was not in the wedding item u got angry.i think ur guy just tire for ur tomuch drama.listen girl in nigeria here a guy that travel to u.s to see his babe deserves worship from other ladies and am sure he has seen a worshipper... Not a fighter

dangotesmummy:
lmao have you taken your drugs this morning?

neocortex:


I guess you have nothing to say.
An indecisive man break off a 7 years relationship and you called
that a bad advice.
So, she should keep thinking or commit suicide because a man
broke up with her ?

In my opinion, she just dodged a bullet.

padiga047:
you talk trash really.

Go through your posts.

dangotesmummy:
what she wants is not wrong her only fault is wrong manner of approach.

dangotesmummy:
gbam


If she entered his house she will become a shadow of herself. Either a sex slave or a victim of domestic violence.infact before her parents know what their daughter is going through she'll have been almost dead

HumanistMike:


Since you're not for sale, why are you bothered about the costs of his gifts?

How much gifts did you give his people?

Is he free of charge?

He made a dumb move by trying to marry you. His lucky he corrected the move before it got late.
You know my dear, countries in the west and Europe have no respect for men's right. It gets worse when a man marries. Marriage to men is those countries is like giving the woman a fully loaded gun. She may not shoot you but why take that chance?

You have already proved you can't control your temper at least twice...and this is before marriage. Wonder what you'll do when you have the full control of the loaded gun.

Leave the man alone. He has regained his senses.

dangotesmummy:
smello,dirt lover
Obun
Piggy

suzan404:


He said he doesn't want you anymore....then look for your boyfriend else....or do you wanna keep begging him.....just leave him alone and cheer up..... 7yrs relationship sef na wahala

neocortex:


Is my post too complex for you to understand ?
I wonder how motor park touts like you end up
on Nairaland.

dangotesmummy:
4 an adult? A grown woman? OK na tell her to go and steal in broad day light and when caught she should say she didn't know stealing is wrong. She doesn't know when she's wrong my fat ass

5.he chose to go BECAUSE HE WANTED TO GO AND NOT BECAUSE HE LOVED HER because if he actually loved her a trivia/minutel issue like this shouldn't have threatened the relationship
6 agree.but they both did because they were in it together.

dangotesmummy:
4 an adult? A grown woman? OK na tell her to go and steal in broad day light and when caught she should say she didn't know stealing is wrong. She doesn't know when she's wrong my fat ass

5.he chose to go BECAUSE HE WANTED TO GO AND NOT BECAUSE HE LOVED HER because if he actually loved her a trivia/minutel issue like this shouldn't have threatened the relationship
6 agree.but they both did because they were in it together.

madone:
I think u re too pushy and u have a nag for picking a fight over trivial issues ,maybr na too much book.sweet heart no african man will stick to a lady that argue and fight everytime with big big grammar. Gold was not in the wedding item u got angry.i think ur guy just tire for ur tomuch drama.listen girl in nigeria here a guy that travel to u.s to see his babe deserves worship from other ladies and am sure he has seen a worshipper... Not a fighter

ceejay80s:


my dear ,he is not worth it , find some body else, i am available
07032659200

Pidgin2:
But it's not today you know your man doesn't have money, you've been dating for 7 years so you should know what he can afford

What was his excuse for buying the cheap items, was it valid? Let us know

Why do you nag so much na, you should discuss more than you quarrel. I know it's painful for him to give cheap things but he might have a valid reason

If he wants to go, discuss with him and ask him why, if he doesn't want to remain with you again will you kill him?

So many guys will be desperate to marry you for your green card, pick the best of them and marry. Good luck

Sammiejokes:

Hmmmn dangotemummy can relate to this issue. he chose to go because he wanted to go and not because he loved her. Hmmmn I now know where u coming from. experience is the best teacher.
Hmmmn dangotemummy can relate to this issue. he chose to go because he wanted to go and not because he loved her. Hmmmn I now know where u coming from. experience is the best teacher.

I met him in 2010, and I had to leave for graduate school in 2012. We continued dating and he visited me in the U.S as often as he could. After one of such visits, i discovered he had used my laptop to watch pornography. We had a fight, broke up, then made up again.

I am currently studying for my Doctorate and my greencard application (thru sister) is pending, therefore, i cannot travel out of the country now. So last year we decided to do our wedding in the U.S, and he and his family went to my family in Nigeria to pay my bride price.

My dad gave them a small price because he said we don't need their money and he is not selling me. But the problem was that the boxes of items they were to bring for me ended up being all cheap stuff, not even one single set of gold jewelry. My mum was unhappy and embarrassed, and i was terribly unhappy too. His excuse was that they didn't think the stuff would actually get to me since i am far away. My mum actually sent some of the stuff to me to see for myself. So we got into a huge fight and didn't speak for weeks. I later reached out to try and sort out our differences but he now says that he doesn't want to get married anymore.

I am distraught and embarrassed to even tell my family now because i had to fight for him and stand on my decision despite their hesitations. Is this relationship worth fighting for at all anymore? Do I deserve this after all this time?

I met him in 2010, and I had to leave for graduate school in 2012. We continued dating and he visited me in the U.S as often as he could. After one of such visits, i discovered he had used my laptop to watch pornography. We had a fight, broke up, then made up again.

I am currently studying for my Doctorate and my greencard application (thru sister) is pending, therefore, i cannot travel out of the country now. So last year we decided to do our wedding in the U.S, and he and his family went to my family in Nigeria to pay my bride price.

My dad gave them a small price because he said we don't need their money and he is not selling me. But the problem was that the boxes of items they were to bring for me ended up being all cheap stuff, not even one single set of gold jewelry. My mum was unhappy and embarrassed, and i was terribly unhappy too. His excuse was that they didn't think the stuff would actually get to me since i am far away. My mum actually sent some of the stuff to me to see for myself. So we got into a huge fight and didn't speak for weeks. I later reached out to try and sort out our differences but he now says that he doesn't want to get married anymore.

I am distraught and embarrassed to even tell my family now because i had to fight for him and stand on my decision despite their hesitations. Is this relationship worth fighting for at all anymore? Do I deserve this after all this time?

Trina0936:

You are not God. Stop saying trash! Just because he left doesnt mean someone better is not out there for her. There is always someone out there for everyone. Whites believe this that is why their life is so much better than blacks.
By the way,OP learn from Adesua. There must be other guys who are just friends with you but because of your relationship you were not interested in them. It is time to give those guys a chance. Afterall,you are now single again.
As for the silly hypocrites who would quote me,you better not. Everyone has someone they friendzone. Its not a gender thing.